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That first Big Step.............

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Following on from a post by guestspeaker on another thread, where he was of the opinion that if a male partner had not 'strayed ' after 17 years in a relationship, he was then unlikely to do so thereafter, I wondered if that could be right. What would make such a man take that first big step ?

In my own case , I have been happily married for in excess of 20 years and had dated my partner for many years before we got married. I am ' the last person ' anyone would think would book a prostitute. Interestingly, thats one of the things I like about this hobby--- it breaks the stereotype.

I dont think I would ever have contemplated taking the Big Step on my own initiative.Truthfully, the idea of researching ,identifying and then contacting a lady to make a booking never entered my head. The Big Step occurred when I was away with -- ' The Lads ' ! Yes female contributors and lurkers, beware of those trips by your partner with The Lads . They do spell trouble. Men in general- cannot be trusted all the time imo.

The first Big Step was absolutely terrifying and not the most satisfying experience-- all my fault. Yes, I could have been ' man enough ' to just say NO but then I would have become an outsider to the stories, to the comradery, to one of the main talking and laughing points of the trip, that slightly dangerous immoral adventure.

The next few times a little easier and then you are hooked . You get the confidence and drive and then you start punting on your own and in secrecy.-- there's no looking back then.:)

How did others come to take that first Big Step ?

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It'll also be interesting to hear from the girls what made them decide to become prostitutes. What was their first big step ? What keeps them hooked ?

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My boss took me to a whore house in Mexico, that was my first time. It was not very good either but I soon got into the swing of things.

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It'll also be interesting to hear from the girls what made them decide to become prostitutes. What was their first big step ? What keeps them hooked ?

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It'll also be interesting to hear from the girls what made them decide to become prostitutes. What was their first big step ? What keeps them hooked ?[

what keeps them hooked?

the money of course! They are not screwing complete strangers because they want to.

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what keeps them hooked?

the money of course! They are not screwing complete strangers because they want to.

I don't know if that is totally the case, a lot of prostitutes are drug users. What keeps them hooked is drugs and the need for money to buy drugs.

That is why you need to do a lot of research to make sure the girl you go to is drug free.

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How did others come to take that first Big Step ?

Away in Germany on a business trip (so effectively "out with the lads"), overdosing on hotel room porn (pretty hard-core in Germany), a few drinks inside me and a vibrant red-light district a short taxi-ride away.

I didn't repeat the experience for another 8 years, however I do remember thinking that once I had crossed the line there was no going back.

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Following on from a post by guestspeaker on another thread, where he was of the opinion that if a male partner had not 'strayed ' after 17 years in a relationship, he was then unlikely to do so thereafter, I wondered if that could be right. What would make such a man take that first big step ?

In my own case , I have been happily married for in excess of 20 years and had dated my partner for many years before we got married. I am ' the last person ' anyone would think would book a prostitute. Interestingly, thats one of the things I like about this hobby--- it breaks the stereotype.

I dont think I would ever have contemplated taking the Big Step on my own initiative.Truthfully, the idea of researching ,identifying and then contacting a lady to make a booking never entered my head. The Big Step occurred when I was away with -- ' The Lads ' ! Yes female contributors and lurkers, beware of those trips by your partner with The Lads . They do spell trouble. Men in general- cannot be trusted all the time imo.

The first Big Step was absolutely terrifying and not the most satisfying experience-- all my fault. Yes, I could have been ' man enough ' to just say NO but then I would have become an outsider to the stories, to the comradery, to one of the main talking and laughing points of the trip, that slightly dangerous immoral adventure.

The next few times a little easier and then you are hooked . You get the confidence and drive and then you start punting on your own and in secrecy.-- there's no looking back then.:)

How did others come to take that first Big Step ?

Similar background story to you c&g but a different Big Step. Together with the same partner (first as gf, then as fiancee, then as wife) for (gulp) 23 years. Never strayed once, despite numerous trips abroad with the "lads" to places like Amsterdam (lovely museum) and Prague (lovely castle). However, for reasons I prefer not to go into on an internet board, things were very stale in the bedroom dept and I felt that life was passing me by.

One evening about 18 months ago, I was browsing the web and came across a story about someone blowing all their money on prostitutes and I started to wonder how much an escort would actually cost. A little more clandestine browsing on the internet led me to a (now sadly defunct) Agency website and from there I found Punternet. A few weeks of lurking got me thinking "well, why not" and my first phone call to that first Agencies website secured me my first punt whilst my wife was away for a weekend. Unlike yourself, my first punt was a pretty wonderful one. God knows if I would have carried on if it had been awful. That, as they say was that, and now here I am a regular on pnet and a semi-experienced punter. I'd never have imagined it a couple of years ago, but I have to say it was the right choice for me. I am much happier in my own skin than I have been for years.

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That is why you need to do a lot of research to make sure the girl you go to is drug free.

Another well thought through statement from you Matium :).

Whilst drug use might be a prevalent problem in the streetwalking end of the downtown Los Angeles (or any other major city I suppose), it doesn't crop up as a problem in the punting circles I move in (well established indies and occasionally parlours with good reps). I suppose some of the girls I see could be on drugs, but they never come across as such. I would stake a lot on the fact that the vast majority of girls I see either never or rarely touch drugs.

It certainly isn't a worry of mine whilst researching, although if I did hear of a girl with a drug problem, I would avoid.

Incidentally, how does your research "make sure" that the girl you see is drug free ?

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Following on from a post by guestspeaker on another thread, where he was of the opinion that if a male partner had not 'strayed ' after 17 years in a relationship, he was then unlikely to do so thereafter, I wondered if that could be right. What would make such a man take that first big step ?

In my own case , I have been happily married for in excess of 20 years and had dated my partner for many years before we got married. I am ' the last person ' anyone would think would book a prostitute. Interestingly, thats one of the things I like about this hobby--- it breaks the stereotype.

I dont think I would ever have contemplated taking the Big Step on my own initiative.Truthfully, the idea of researching ,identifying and then contacting a lady to make a booking never entered my head. The Big Step occurred when I was away with -- ' The Lads ' ! Yes female contributors and lurkers, beware of those trips by your partner with The Lads . They do spell trouble. Men in general- cannot be trusted all the time imo.

The first Big Step was absolutely terrifying and not the most satisfying experience-- all my fault. Yes, I could have been ' man enough ' to just say NO but then I would have become an outsider to the stories, to the comradery, to one of the main talking and laughing points of the trip, that slightly dangerous immoral adventure.

The next few times a little easier and then you are hooked . You get the confidence and drive and then you start punting on your own and in secrecy.-- there's no looking back then.:)

How did others come to take that first Big Step ?

After meeting hundreds of punters they come from many different backgrounds and cultures. Anyone could be a punter. The mac brigade image is very far from the reality in my experience.

I got into punting at 19 through curiosity and was petrified at first but soon relaxed into it and have partaken ever since one way or another.

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My first punt happened when I was under huge pressure by my employer to relocate to a place that I really did not want to go to (Kidderminster :)), and was completely stressed out about it. I think I was just looking for a brief escape from the situation and the sex was almost incidental. Like many other activities, once the bridge was crossed, there was the inclination to indulge further :).... and I never did go to Kidderminster :), so maybe it helped me keep my resolve.

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My first punt happened when I was under huge pressure by my employer to relocate to a place that I really did not want to go to (Kidderminster :)), and was completely stressed out about it. I think I was just looking for a brief escape from the situation and the sex was almost incidental. Like many other activities, once the bridge was crossed, there was the inclination to indulge further :).... and I never did go to Kidderminster :), so maybe it helped me keep my resolve.

That's really funny LOL

I've heard many reasons that people start punting, but dealing with a phobia about Kidderminster has to be the most bizarre!

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That's really funny LOL

I've heard many reasons that people start punting, but dealing with a phobia about Kidderminster has to be the most bizarre!

In hindsight, I owe Kidderminster a great deal - but still wouldn't want to go there!

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My first step was through boredom and no sex at home .

Was really nervous and probably made an ass of myself and i think i nearly scared myself off as i didnt punt again for two years ...

Then i went mad having 1 or 2 punts a week

Now i punt about once a month (when i can find a girl ) and go for quality :)

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30 years married and with no inclination to pay for sex. So what led me into punting?

The BBC news web site!

One lunch time last year I was looking at the BBC news web site during my lunch time and I saw the headline 'WPC worked as a £100 a night escort'

So I clicked on this, read the story and noticed where she worked so I Googled 'Notorious Escorts' got to the site and was transferred to the La Maison Bury site, clicked on the girls page and up came a page of girls which included one who matched my ultimate fantasy girl (we all have an ultimate fantasy girl don't we), f*** me was my comment, as I clicked on the picture and 8 more pictures popped up. At this point I had no thoughts or intention of going any further, so back to the BBC news site I went.

That night I'm back on the site and exploring every page and thinking there she is the fantasy girl of my dreams and available, all I have to do is make a booking, but Manchester is 130 miles away, so no I can't do that it's to far. A couple more nights of looking and I check her out on Google and find her web site and her email address. I fire of an email and get a response saying she is at HOD Milton Keynes 2-3 days a week. Milton Keynes is one hour away, I Google HOD and up pops the HOD site. I'm blown away by this and think to myself 'is every good looking girl in the UK working as an escort'.

I conquer my nerves make a 90 minute booking for my first punt. Off I go a week later in a daze of disbelief that I'm doing this, full of nerves I get through my first punt, which wasn't that great but that was down to me.

Two week later I make another appointment with her, thinking this time it will be much easier. I get to Annabella's to find out she has not arrived that day, so I sit in a room waiting for the girls to come in one at a time thinking why am doing this, then in comes Vanessa (aka Vienna Moore) OMG!! and yes please.

That was October and after my eigth punt last Friday and £1600 spent I'm well into it now. It's not just for the sex, it's for the whole fantasy experience of being with a beautiful sexy woman for 90 or 120 minutes. I have a regular and now I'm well and truly hooked.

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