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I'm a student who works at a wonderful parlour in central London. Before that I was working in north London.. I've only been in the job a few months but I give a great time, despite not having the experience of other girls. My clients are always happy :). But I'm thinking of ways to make my service even better. I want to be the best!

I have a few tricks up my sleeve.. First one being to add dirty talk. But I'm stuck on something-do you prefer to take the lead during a punt, or do you like the lady to be the leader?

I had never thought of this factor until recently, when it came up... So thought I'd ask for some views and see if I can learn anything :) maybe I should add that I'm only 20 and look young, and I'm small too.. Not sure if this would influence anything regarding taking the lead but it may..

Nice to meet all of you. I've browsed the forum alot and found it to be very

helpful.. Unfortunately I often find myself taking a peak when I'm writing epic essays and get distracted ha!

Lovexxxx

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Hello 'lovely', welcome to the board. :) I'm not sure if people have not replied because your post(IMO) sounds a bit like 'touting' or 'advertising yourself' or because everyone else had to learn themselves by trial and error, so why should you not have to?

Anyway I'll give you a quick answer re taking the lead or not. As I'm sure you are aware everyone is different, so this will very from person to person. You just have to find out, either by body language, read in between the lines when you have your initial chat upon their arrival, or out right ask in a polite manner.

The only other advice I would give to you right now is to read, read and read some more! Such as sex guides position guides and the Karma Sutra. You say you are quite small and petite so some of the more difficult positions in the Karma Sutra you should be able to manage quite easily whilst your gent is still comfortable (due to your size). You would not believe what a speciality this can turn out to be if you get VERY good at it!

The last thing I'll say that may help with your research and bettering yourself, is read the PN field reports, it is clear what different men may like and not like from those, read the board regularly and get involved in the threads, ask questions here too, there is a wealth of info here already to get you started. Then also LISTEN to your clients, ask questions politely, ones you think may help them have a better time and enhance their experience with you. And DON'T forget to take notice of body language! This is also another good subject to read up on.

I think I have given enough away for you at the moment. :) PM me if you need any more help as I do run and own an escort support business.

I'm a student who works at a wonderful parlour in central London. Before that I was working in north London.. I've only been in the job a few months but I give a great time, despite not having the experience of other girls. My clients are always happy :). But I'm thinking of ways to make my service even better. I want to be the best!

I have a few tricks up my sleeve.. First one being to add dirty talk. But I'm stuck on something-do you prefer to take the lead during a punt, or do you like the lady to be the leader?

I had never thought of this factor until recently, when it came up... So thought I'd ask for some views and see if I can learn anything :) maybe I should add that I'm only 20 and look young, and I'm small too.. Not sure if this would influence anything regarding taking the lead but it may..

Nice to meet all of you. I've browsed the forum alot and found it to be very

helpful.. Unfortunately I often find myself taking a peak when I'm writing epic essays and get distracted ha!

Lovexxxx

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As long as you can see the person

Body language will always be more truthful than the spoken word.

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Hello 'lovely', welcome to the board. :) I'm not sure if people have not replied because your post(IMO) sounds a bit like 'touting' or 'advertising yourself' or because everyone else had to learn themselves by trial and error, so why should you not have to?

Anyway I'll give you a quick answer re taking the lead or not. As I'm sure you are aware everyone is different, so this will very from person to person. You just have to find out, either by body language, read in between the lines when you have your initial chat upon their arrival, or out right ask in a polite manner.

The only other advice I would give to you right now is to read, read and read some more! Such as sex guides position guides and the Karma Sutra. You say you are quite small and petite so some of the more difficult positions in the Karma Sutra you should be able to manage quite easily whilst your gent is still comfortable (due to your size). You would not believe what a speciality this can turn out to be if you get VERY good at it!

The last thing I'll say that may help with your research and bettering yourself, is read the PN field reports, it is clear what different men may like and not like from those, read the board regularly and get involved in the threads, ask questions here too, there is a wealth of info here already to get you started. Then also LISTEN to your clients, ask questions politely, ones you think may help them have a better time and enhance their experience with you. And DON'T forget to take notice of body language! This is also another good subject to read up on.

I think I have given enough away for you at the moment. :) PM me if you need any more help as I do run and own an escort support business.

Some good points, to which I could add. Always dress well and change your outfit at least once a week. It can vary the punt...pvc dress and boots gives off a different vibe to say pink and white frillys. At the end of a first punt ask a punter if they like tie and tease and which role they prefer. Buy toys regularly and explore with your regulars. Practice everyting in all sorts of positions esp owo...one only position on the bed is all that is normaly offered by the girl. So good if she takes the lead and suggests on her back, in front of a mirror etc. Really practice DT not many do it properly. Explore a levels, if you havent done them before choose one or two lucky punters to slowly explore with.

Mainly have fun, be happy and yourself and the punters should have a good time. Good luck!:)

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I like the lady to lead, because I'm a softie and I don't want to offend. Not every woman likes dirty talk. But I will say, dirty talk is tricky ... you need to find a way to keep it real. "I want to feel your big cock in my wet pussy" when my cock is ahem average and you've just applied the lube, nah that ain't doing it. :)

For what it's worth, I like dirty talk but my all-time fave didn't like it all, not doing it or hearing it. But she was my all-time fave in part because she didn't try to be what she wasn't.

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Unfortunately I must be off, but being willing to learn and asking for advice is the very best thing you can do to become the best. So many girls, escorts and others assume all they need to do is get their clothes off and lay down. With your attitude we could all be learning from you in a few years time. I'll be back with ideas later B) xxx x xxx

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The answer is Attitude ! Attitude ! Attitude !

The man is paying for your time so that hour is his. Just talk to him as if he's the most important man in your life (for that hour, at least).

Always offer a glass of wine, at the beginning - remember he'll be more nervous than you.

Learn lots of sex positions, the Kama Sutra is an excellent guide.

Other than that, just be yourself !

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The most important thing for me is the girls attitude. If she is enjoying the meeting then it is so much better aftter that I just go with the flow.

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The most important thing for me is the girls attitude. If she is enjoying the meeting then it is so much better aftter that I just go with the flow.

Dead right; if what you're saying about your clients satisfaction is true, lovely, then it sounds like you are doing just fine, and don't need any "tricks".

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Always dress well and change your outfit at least once a week.

???

Please, change your outfit after every client!!

The sheer horror of imagining underwear that's been worn for a week has put me off my Wispa.

B):P

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Please, change your outfit after every client!!

The sheer horror of imagining underwear that's been worn for a week has put me off my Wispa.

B):P

Some guys adore that Grubby Chic. I had a friend who preferred to punt in the swealtering heat of a summer's day because the girls smelt more, err, ripe. :eek:

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Too right - attitude is king. Although sucking a dude's nuts is aften overlooked B)

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The sheer horror of imagining underwear that's been worn for a week has put me off my Wispa.

That was careless.

Gedditt??????

B)

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Practice makes perfect lovely - I've just PM'd you :-)

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that was careless.

Gedditt??????

B)

Groan!

:eek:

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Will you two keep on topic?

*looks for large club*

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I have a few tricks up my sleeve.. First one being to add dirty talk. But I'm stuck on something-do you prefer to take the lead during a punt, or do you like the lady to be the leader?

Dirty Talk can be a massive turn-on (for me) but it needs to fit, and not be a repeated .wav file of "Oh! Oh! Oh! Fuck me harder! Oh! Oh! Oh!" interspersed with fake moans as soon as I enter! Although the F-word and the C-word have their place, a lot of effective DT doesn't use them! "I want to feel you inside me, NOW!" sounds good in my ears, but the words are vanilla!

PS - Up your sleeve? You have remembered to take your coat off, haven't you?

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The answer is Attitude ! Attitude ! Attitude !

The man is paying for your time so that hour is his. Just talk to him as if he's the most important man in your life (for that hour, at least).

Always offer a glass of wine, at the beginning - remember he'll be more nervous than you.

Learn lots of sex positions, the Kama Sutra is an excellent guide.

Other than that, just be yourself !

I agree having a good attitude and appearing to be enthusiastic is the key to a good punt. I would add offer what you have agreed, for me if the lady backtracks on services offered that puts a massive dampener on things as does lying blatantly about looks and dress size and i may well walk and go and see my plan b instead.

Be friendly and welcoming, some ladies look miserable and are as cold as ice, an immediate passion killer for me. Also, ensure if you take phone bookings you actually answer the phone and/or respond to messages and texts. When i arrange a punt i always confirm when i am ready to leave mine, if i dont get confirmation i go elsewhere.

Overall, be honest.

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The best punt I have ever had to date was a lady who took a few minutes at the begining to go through exactly what I wanted. This was done with a great attitude and a big smile on her face. It all boils down to service. Think about who has given you great /poor service - shops/your bank/utility companies. Who gave gave you great service? How did they do it? What did they do/not do that pleased/upset you? How did the service make you feel? Would you return? Recommend to others?

As others have said attitude is essential.

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But I'm stuck on something-do you prefer to take the lead during a punt, or do you like the lady to be the leader?

It depends, in the early days of punting, I was a somewhat reticent to push the pace/to much but after 5 years I don't have any worries about it and do usually take a lead, but sometimes depending on my mood and the girls personality I like the girl to do so.

I think you need to play it by ear, if the punter is confident and forward let him take the lead (unless he specifically asks for some DOM, tie & tease etc). If the punter seems shy or restrained then take the lead.

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thank you all so much for your replies! And kind words.. I am taking it all on board, thank you x

I agree that attitude is so important.. I want my clients to leave me feeling fantastic.. And I want them to see me again! So I really try my best.

I will write a more detailed reply when I get home, just wanted to thank you all so far. And thank you to those who have private messages me, I will reply to you as soon as I get in xxxxx

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See 'lovely, the guys can give you some great tips. Except the changing of your outfit/uniform once a week! :) Claire has it correct of course. :D

Is a shame you have not dropped back in to read it, and/or thank everyone for their time though. Lets hope it is because you are busy with your 'research' :D and will be back to reply very soon.

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See 'lovely, the guys can give you some great tips. Except the changing of your outfit/uniform once a week! :) Claire has it correct of course. :D

Is a shame you have not dropped back in to read it, and/or thank everyone for their time though. Lets hope it is because you are busy with your 'research' :D and will be back to reply very soon.

As you will see, lovely's post/reply has now appeared. At the time you posted, her reply was still in the pre-mod queue due to the fact that she is currently a probationary member.

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Some good points, to which I could add. Always dress well and change your outfit at least once a week. It can vary the punt...pvc dress and boots gives off a different vibe to say pink and white frillys. At the end of a first punt ask a punter if they like tie and tease and which role they prefer. Buy toys regularly and explore with your regulars. Practice everyting in all sorts of positions esp owo...one only position on the bed is all that is normaly offered by the girl. So good if she takes the lead and suggests on her back, in front of a mirror etc. Really practice DT not many do it properly. Explore a levels, if you havent done them before choose one or two lucky punters to slowly explore with.

Mainly have fun, be happy and yourself and the punters should have a good time. Good luck!:)

Offering DT and Anal only makes for a service better, for those guys who want those services and, imo, there are plenty of men for which these acts are not necessary. Again, imo, if you offer these type of services you tend to attract the guys who treat you more like a piece of meat, than a human being, and who are looking for the 'porn star experience'. So to the young wg who started this thread, think very carefully about what sort of clientelle you want to attract.

I certainly would not recommend any wg offering these more specialised services, just to drum up more business, unless they genuinely enjoy doing it.

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