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Hello,

I am taking my first tentative steps into the world of punting. I have sent out a couple of enquiry emails, but have not received any response. I can assure you they have been polite in nature and not included any "dirty talk". Is it common not to get responses, or have I just been a bit unlucky?

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I've experienced something like a 50% reply rate, and most of those haven't even been read. I suppose it depends which sites you're using. I only really use The Other Site, and obviously there are quite a few fake profiles where they're just trying to get you to pay for their pics by claiming to escort. I think there are also others who perhaps think if you were serious you would be phoning instead of emailing - particularly amusing when they've not actually put their number up.

So it's probably not even a case of being unlucky, just the nature of the beast. Keep plugging away.

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Hello,

I am taking my first tentative steps into the world of punting. I have sent out a couple of enquiry emails, but have not received any response. I can assure you they have been polite in nature and not included any "dirty talk". Is it common not to get responses, or have I just been a bit unlucky?

The lady may be away or similar, or you may never get a response. I dont email when contacting newbies to me, i always phone, IMO you can tell a lot about a lady from a quick chat. So i only make appointments initially with those with advertised numbers, no number no punt. I often am looking for same day punts as well and some ladies might not be able or want to get back to me by email in that timescale.

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For a variety of reasons, often W.G's resonses are a bit hit and miss. The admin side of their business is often a bit slaphappy. (Not in every case before strident Ladies on this Board leap to their keyboards to say they are highly efficient)

This is frustrating when you have finally decided to make your first enquiry and are anxiously waiting for a reply.

If you havent heard anything after a week then send a second mail if you are particularly keen on a specific Lady. If not, move on to someone else.

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The lady may be away or similar, or you may never get a response. I dont email when contacting newbies to me, i always phone, IMO you can tell a lot about a lady from a quick chat. So i only make appointments initially with those with advertised numbers, no number no punt. I often am looking for same day punts as well and some ladies might not be able or want to get back to me by email in that timescale.

I absolutely agree especialy a guy who hasnt punted before. Find a girl with a recent good PFR or two in your area where you like what you read and who has photos available which you like. Make contact by phone and book a specific time for your appointment. That way you are almost gauranteed to get your first punt away without problems. The email approach via @W is longwinded and less reliable so only try those approaches later on.

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I can assure you they have been polite in nature and not included any "dirty talk". Is it common not to get responses, or have I just been a bit unlucky?

Lol. Perfectly normal I would think;).

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Hello,

I am taking my first tentative steps into the world of punting. I have sent out a couple of enquiry emails, but have not received any response. I can assure you they have been polite in nature and not included any "dirty talk". Is it common not to get responses

Let's put it this way, it is not unknown. B)

Welcome to the wonderful world of punting, it is like navigating a minefield, I wish you the best of luck. :eek:

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Hello,

I am taking my first tentative steps into the world of punting. I have sent out a couple of enquiry emails, but have not received any response. I can assure you they have been polite in nature and not included any "dirty talk". Is it common not to get responses, or have I just been a bit unlucky?

I have come to the conclusion that emailing is a waste of time, too often emails just get ignored or are not checked and you end up holding on and not making other arrangements while you are waiting for a reply that will never come. I'd recommend phoning for initial contact and then maybe switching to email comms after you have established that the girl is happy to see you and will respond to emails.

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I have come to the conclusion that emailing is a waste of time, too often emails just get ignored or are not checked and you end up holding on and not making other arrangements while you are waiting for a reply that will never come. I'd recommend phoning for initial contact and then maybe switching to email comms after you have established that the girl is happy to see you and will respond to emails.

You are right ------------ however many girls on ADULTW0RK do not display a phone number so E-Mail is the only option. B):(

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You are right ------------ however many girls on ADULTW0RK do not display a phone number so E-Mail is the only option. :eek::(

Never mind **, I got the cold shoulder from 2 regular posters on here. Comms OK up until I let them know that I posted as 'wamphyri' and then silence. Dunno why but each to their own and of course I respect their decision though I am kind of curious as to the reasoning. B)

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You are right ------------ however many girls on ADULTW0RK do not display a phone number so E-Mail is the only option. B):(

Indeed and its not as though its expensive to display a number on Adultw0rk, unless its gone up recently a few ladies have told me its £1 a day.

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You are right ------------ however many girls on ADULTW0RK do not display a phone number so E-Mail is the only option. B):(

Email and ask for the phone number, then make direct contact. Office workers and punternet obsesives sit with their email on all hours, working girls generaly have other things to be doing.

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Indeed and its not as though its expensive to display a number on Adultw0rk, unless its gone up recently a few ladies have told me its £1 a day.

It may not be the cost that puts them off, sometimes it is the huge amount of timewasters. B)

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Never mind **, I got the cold shoulder from 2 regular posters on here. Comms OK up until I let them know that I posted as 'wamphyri' and then silence. Dunno why but each to their own and of course I respect their decision though I am kind of curious as to the reasoning. B)

I had similar on here myself but in my case it was because i attend Parties, this was the reason, so thats up to them. I have punted with many other lovely ladies off here though.

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It may not be the cost that puts them off, sometimes it is the huge amount of timewasters. B)

Agreed, but IMO they also lose out on real punters like myself and others i know who only phone.

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Never mind **, I got the cold shoulder from 2 regular posters on here. Comms OK up until I let them know that I posted as 'wamphyri' and then silence. Dunno why but each to their own and of course I respect their decision though I am kind of curious as to the reasoning. B)

I find that very interesting. :eek::eek:

There are only two ladies on here that appear on my radar ------ but if I decided to see them I would prefer to remain anonymous until the end of the booking ------- maybe you should do the same in future. :)

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Never mind **, I got the cold shoulder from 2 regular posters on here. Comms OK up until I let them know that I posted as 'wamphyri' and then silence. Dunno why but each to their own and of course I respect their decision though I am kind of curious as to the reasoning. B)

That's curious - you seem like a nice chap. Maybe they thought you only wanted them for one thing: their blood! :eek:

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Agreed, but IMO they also lose out on real punters like myself and others i know who only phone.

Yes, I agree --------- but many of these girls are not business minded, in the real world they would not last 5 minutes. B)

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Email and ask for the phone number, then make direct contact. Office workers and punternet obsesives sit with their email on all hours, working girls generaly have other things to be doing.

I have tried that, so many never responded and on Adultw0rk some wanted me to use the booking system. This is of no interest to me. What i require is a number, make a same day booking and go, i cant be bothered with all this hanging about waiting for a lady to respond, which might never happen. I could be punting instead.

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I find that very interesting. B):eek:

There are only two ladies on here that appear on my radar ------ but if I decided to see them I would prefer to remain anonymous until the end of the booking ------- maybe you should do the same in future. :eek:

Excellent advice which i didnt take myself but would in future.

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I find that very interesting. B)

There are only two ladies on here that appear on my radar ------ but if I decided to see them I would prefer to remain anonymous until the end of the booking ------- maybe you should do the same in future.

I take it those 'eeks' were ironic. :eek:

I just thought it may seem a bit un-necessary to hide who I was on here as PN would probably crop up during a chat as it would be something we'd both have in common. I was a bit miffed at the times & even contacted a girl I see regularly to see if she knew of anything on the WG grapevine about me but there was nothing so who knows. Then I went into 'Jimmy' mode and simply moved on.

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I have tried that, so many never responded and on Adultw0rk some wanted me to use the booking system. This is of no interest to me. What i require is a number, make a same day booking and go, i cant be bothered with all this hanging about waiting for a lady to respond, which might never happen. I could be punting instead.

Maybe build in a bit of lead time, email some time in advance toallow turnaround time, not on the day you want to punt. I've usually got a response out of a*wank girls, but it always seems to go down hill after that. the last one as i recall was when walking out my door 40 minutes before the due time, getting a text message to say her best ever friend had been ina car crash and was critically ill in hospital, so she hoped i would understand. I'm just glad her friend was able to make a rapid recovery that enabled the girl to be back answering her phone a few hours later.

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Maybe build in a bit of lead time, email some time in advance toallow turnaround time, not on the day you want to punt. I've usually got a response out of a*wank girls, but it always seems to go down hill after that. the last one as i recall was when walking out my door 40 minutes before the due time, getting a text message to say her best ever friend had been ina car crash and was critically ill in hospital, so she hoped i would understand. I'm just glad her friend was able to make a rapid recovery that enabled the girl to be back answering her phone a few hours later.

Sounds a familiar story. I went to a Party and by amazing back luck 3 months in a row the same 4 ladies were all travelling to the venue in the same car which broke down. The host had forgotten he had spun me the same line before. In reality he had told them not to bother attending as there were not enough punters but still had them advertised as attending. Luckily there were enough other ladies to make it worth my while still attending till they told one lie too many and i walked and havent returned.

I have emailed ahead but same as you it mostly seems to go downhill. I shall stick to my tried and tested, if i lose out on a gem, my bad luck.

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I just thought it may seem a bit un-necessary to hide who I was on here as PN would probably crop up during a chat as it would be something we'd both have in common. I was a bit miffed at the times & even contacted a girl I see regularly to see if she knew of anything on the WG grapevine about me but there was nothing so who knows. Then I went into 'Jimmy' mode and simply moved on.

I have never made a booking as "SaSfan" and have not mentioned "SaSfan" either during or after a booking, I'm not entirely sure why I do that, but there again I'm not really sure why I shouldn't, so I'll just carry on as usual I think and keep my distance.

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I have never made a booking as "SaSfan" and have not mentioned "SaSfan" either during or after a booking, I'm not entirely sure why I do that, but there again I'm not really sure why I shouldn't, so I'll just carry on as usual I think and keep my distance.

'wamphyri' is part of my personal email address domain so it's a bit obvious anyway. B)

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