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You dirty filthy slag!

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Thats what the man was shouting to me continously as he was a few minutes away from coming. "You dirty filthy slag"

He swore a lot too but l am too much of a lady to repeat it all.

Is it normal for men to shout insulting words like that when they are about to shoot their load?

Have any ladies here ever said to the men "Who the f do you think you are talking to" or do you let them say it as its how they have chosen to get off?

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It's a turn on for some blokes and it doesn't bother me in the slightest..Sometimes they seem to be a bit embarrassed afterwards, or apologise, but I really don't mind.

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Doesn't sound usual to me, but then again what do I know?

I certainly wouldn't take pleasure form insulting a girl! :)

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It's a turn on for some blokes and it doesn't bother me in the slightest..Sometimes they seem to be a bit embarrassed afterwards, or apologise, but I really don't mind.

I wasn't expecting it lol. He was such a sweet gentleman till that point.:)

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Hmm .. rather disturbing in my books. Sounds quite crude. :)

Certainly NOT something I would ever say or do. Love and respect all too much I suppose. Makes me wonder why that or those words are a trigger / turn on for some.

WEIRD

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I think it comes from watching too many american porn movies where the actors are given scripts that consist of the same seven or nine words repeated constantly, but in slightly different tones and volumes. It's not nice & its not clever, either.

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Certainly NOT something I would ever say or do. Love and respect all too much I suppose. Makes me wonder why that or those words are a trigger / turn on for some.

I agree. It makes me wince if girls describe themselves that way in profiles, I don't think I could describe them that way, even in the heat of the moment.

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Thats what the man was shouting to me continously as he was a few minutes away from coming. "You dirty filthy slag"

He swore a lot too but l am too much of a lady to repeat it all.

Is it normal for men to shout insulting words like that when they are about to shoot their load?

Have any ladies here ever said to the men "Who the f do you think you are talking to" or do you let them say it as its how they have chosen to get off?

Jules: [pointing his gun] Say that again. SAY THAT AGAIN. I dare you, I double dare you, mother****er. Say what you said one more goddamn time.

Pulp Fiction 1994

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Thats what the man was shouting to me continously as he was a few minutes away from coming. "You dirty filthy slag"

He swore a lot too but l am too much of a lady to repeat it all.

Is it normal for men to shout insulting words like that when they are about to shoot their load?

Have any ladies here ever said to the men "Who the f do you think you are talking to" or do you let them say it as its how they have chosen to get off?

How did you feel when he acted like that?... were you offended or upset or perhaps just amused?. Never acted that badly myself, but have sworn a bit and called the woman I am shagging a few names during some particularly hot sessions, but this point is always reached mutually, usually by her telling me to call her bad things etc, which is a turn on for sure. However the way this guy behaved wouldnt turn me on at all, he sounds like he needs to get out a bit more I think! lol!...

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Thats what the man was shouting to me continously as he was a few minutes away from coming. "You dirty filthy slag"

He swore a lot too but l am too much of a lady to repeat it all.

Is it normal for men to shout insulting words like that when they are about to shoot their load?

Have any ladies here ever said to the men "Who the f do you think you are talking to" or do you let them say it as its how they have chosen to get off?

No, I just tell them how much I love them.:)

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As im about to cum at times ive always wanted to say to the wg " open your fucking mouth bitch here it cums " but im to polite to say that and worry about hurting the girls feelings

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As im about to cum at times ive always wanted to say to the wg " open your fucking mouth bitch here it cums " but im to polite to say that and worry about hurting the girls feelings

Interesting, can you outline why you would want to say such a thing ?

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Its not something I've ever really though to say to any girl, although do admit to fantasizing about saying something like it. But, no I wouldn't say it or anything close. I do have to pardon myself to a girl when I say I want to fuck you now.

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l am too much of a lady to repeat it all

Indeed, the phrase 'pillow talk' springs to mind. Other appropriate words here might be 'territory', 'with' and 'goes' though maybe not in that precise order. :)

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Talking yes, using the odd dirty word, yes also. Verbally abusing someone, no. Doesn't sound very nice.

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At the risk of coming across like an Austrian head-shrinker, it sounds to me like he felt the need to demean you to compensate for his own self-contempt for paying for a sexual act. Like a number of other respoindents, I would never dream of behaving like that towards a lady, I have too much respect and affection.

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How did you feel when he acted like that?... were you offended or upset or perhaps just amused?. Never acted that badly myself, but have sworn a bit and called the woman I am shagging a few names during some particularly hot sessions, but this point is always reached mutually, usually by her telling me to call her bad things etc, which is a turn on for sure. However the way this guy behaved wouldnt turn me on at all, he sounds like he needs to get out a bit more I think! lol!...

I remember thinking "What a dickhead" :)

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Interesting, can you outline why you would want to say such a thing ?

cause ive watched porn vids where the guy is dominating the girl , slapping her face while he's fucking her , telling her to deepthroat his dick with her hands tied up behind her back on her knees , calling her all names under the sun while she's being fucked . I just find it bloody hillarious and always had the thought in my head of sayin that to a wg as im about to cum .

But like i said im not that type of person , imagination and reality are two different things , im always respectful to any wg i see and always consider her feelings at the end of the day she's still a human being like me and you.:)

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Oh for heaven's sake, it's just a bit of dirty talk! If a client arrived and starting calling me a dirty slag from the outset he'd be out of the door. Different if they're a decent, pleasant chap and just find it horny to talk dirty mid fuck.

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Oh for heaven's sake, it's just a bit of dirty talk! If a client arrived and starting calling me a dirty slag from the outset he'd be out of the door. Different if they're a decent, pleasant chap and just find it horny to talk dirty mid fuck.

I don't mind dirty talk "mid fuck" as you say. But this phrase is unimaginative and simply awfully stirile and offencive. Can't see any decent, pleasant (sic) chap will use it. If he can't do DT properly, then he should control himself to avoid it. (Not that he will realise it)

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Well I see nothing wrong with it, but am obviously in a minority.

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I have met a small number of ladies who like being called these type of things. I love dirty talk but the lady doing the talking myself.

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All sounds a bit "I don't mind, you don't matter" to me... Not the way to go punting in my book.

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Thats what the man was shouting to me continously as he was a few minutes away from coming. "You dirty filthy slag"

He swore a lot too but l am too much of a lady to repeat it all.

Is it normal for men to shout insulting words like that when they are about to shoot their load?

Have any ladies here ever said to the men "Who the f do you think you are talking to" or do you let them say it as its how they have chosen to get off?

Next time tell him it's £20 as an extra if he chooses to swear. See if he keeps his mouth shut :):)

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To each their own really, but its has to be taken in the context of what he was thinking, I dont think its on to say "You dirty filthy slag" as he came, but its maybe something that he does each time without thinking about the words, merely a phrase he has used or been asked to use, or has seen in some crap porn film.

Other way, I hope you had the time to ask why he felt the need to say this, as its derogatory to many folk.

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