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Have you become friendly with other punters?

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There's a lot of talk about punters becoming friendly with wg's but I was wondering how many of you punters had become friendly with other punters?

Over the years I have met five other punters, four of them through Pnet. I have also had phone calls and emails with another two. Furthermore I have had email and private message contact with dozens more.

Interestingly just as wg's leave the business or simply disappear and you lose touch with them I seem to have lost touch with five of these seven punters. I am only still in contact with Jimmy and one other of these punters.

For the first part of my punting career I couldn't conceive of meeting other punters and must have been punting for at least 15 years before I ever met a fellow punter.

Now I find it interesting to meet with other hobbyists.

I could still never see myself attending a 'party' with other punters though. The thought repulses me. :)

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I belong to a local punting forum and quite often we hold socials at a local pub so have got to know a few. It's nice to put faces to names.

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typed faeces instead of faces... freudian slip !

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Very interesting thread! Personaly I dont think I would like ot meet other punters face to face, I dont think I would be comfortable with it, no offence is meant btw! However that thinking might change with age!

Do you actually talk about WG's and compare notes? :)

By the way Hi, Im old but new to the forum been wondering around for years just never registered, not sure why!

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There's a lot of talk about punters becoming friendly with wg's but I was wondering how many of you punters had become friendly with other punters?

Over the years I have met five other punters, four of them through Pnet. I have also had phone calls and emails with another two. Furthermore I have had email and private message contact with dozens more.

Interestingly just as wg's leave the business or simply disappear and you lose touch with them I seem to have lost touch with five of these seven punters. I am only still in contact with Jimmy and one other of these punters.

For the first part of my punting career I couldn't conceive of meeting other punters and must have been punting for at least 15 years before I ever met a fellow punter.

Now I find it interesting to meet with other hobbyists.

I could still never see myself attending a 'party' with other punters though. The thought repulses me. :confused:

I also didnt meet any other punters for many years but have become friendly with many either off here or through meeting them at Parties. I find this networking interesting as well as being useful.

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I've met four other members of this board - nice old gents one and all (well, not so very old).

I'm also in periodic contact with two others, Tiggy7 and Nik himself. For swapping of valuable information.

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There used to be PN get togethers that were nice, and Tiny hosted some at Watford. Great to meet the guys and girls and go off for a shag if you felt like it.

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Some parlours were very convivial places in my punting youth, with comfortable communal waiting areas and hot & cold (non-alcoholic drinks) - PuntingMan'sClubs!

And yes, I met two people I knew in civilian life...........

:confused:

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There's a lot of talk about punters becoming friendly with wg's but I was wondering how many of you punters had become friendly with other punters?

Over the years I have met five other punters, four of them through Pnet. I have also had phone calls and emails with another two. Furthermore I have had email and private message contact with dozens more.

Interestingly just as wg's leave the business or simply disappear and you lose touch with them I seem to have lost touch with five of these seven punters. I am only still in contact with Jimmy and one other of these punters.

For the first part of my punting career I couldn't conceive of meeting other punters and must have been punting for at least 15 years before I ever met a fellow punter.

Now I find it interesting to meet with other hobbyists.

I could still never see myself attending a 'party' with other punters though. The thought repulses me. :confused:

On The Lbb we have twice yearly socials and they are good.

I think its nice putting names to faces and meeting some of the guys in a social setting and I think its nice to be part of a community like that :D

Before I joined Lbb I would never have thought of meeting up with anyone like that but now since I joined a good few of them have become good friends of mine :rolleyes:

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Sheffield scene members used to have meetings.

Believe it or not in the very early days I was actually invited :confused:

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Sheffield scene members used to have meetings.

Believe it or not in the very early days I was actually invited :confused:

Ah never mind NIK seems you are too bad to be invited now :rolleyes:

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One of the reasons I am hostile to belle de jour type revelations, is that wgs to sell copy exaggerate the no of punters who are oddballs. At the beginning, I assumed my fellow punters were all there to be tied up and pissed on. I now know better, and sometimes enjoy a convivial chat with fellow punters while waiting in the lounge.

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I belong to a local punting forum and quite often we hold socials at a local pub so have got to know a few. It's nice to put faces to names.

Yeah, I can imagine the conversation !

"I didnt know you also cheated on your wife ! " or "small world huh"

Not for me thanks !

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Sheffield scene members used to have meetings.

Believe it or not in the very early days I was actually invited :rolleyes:

Thats before you got bitter and twisted and a reputation !!

:confused:

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Have attended a few socials for escorts and Punters, as well as spent many an hour at open days, and chatted in recpetion areas with many folk, and have got myself known to a few folk.

Tend to speak out a bit, and have got myself banned from a few parlours and boards in the past, because of trying to support what I view as the truth.

Maybe if I had not became so friendly with some I would be welcome at more places, but I know whom my friends are, and am happy to punt with folk who appreciate my humour and honesty.

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Thats before you got bitter and twisted and a reputation !!

:confused:

Yeah, you can imagine how heartbroken I was when I wasn't allowed to attend :rolleyes:

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Met Jerboa at The Private Club a few years back and we've been mates since. Also become good mates with some of the lads of the Thai boards.

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I have a couple of mates who I have met via get togethers even installed a new boiler for one of them, his neighbour was impressed and I did his as well.

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There's a lot of talk about punters becoming friendly with wg's but I was wondering how many of you punters had become friendly with other punters?

Over the years I have met five other punters, four of them through Pnet. I have also had phone calls and emails with another two. Furthermore I have had email and private message contact with dozens more.

Interestingly just as wg's leave the business or simply disappear and you lose touch with them I seem to have lost touch with five of these seven punters. I am only still in contact with Jimmy and one other of these punters.

For the first part of my punting career I couldn't conceive of meeting other punters and must have been punting for at least 15 years before I ever met a fellow punter.

Now I find it interesting to meet with other hobbyists.

I could still never see myself attending a 'party' with other punters though. The thought repulses me. ;)

I know how you feel Nik. Parties are eek!!

Have met lots of people from here over the years, at the PUNTERNET SOCIALS which I organised, sHEFFIELD SCENE SOCIALS, tINYS SOCIALS IN wATFORD

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Met a lot of good people and a few wankers

Its a shame that the socials just don't happen any more . The biggest were in Manchester and Birmingham which attracted 100- 200 people

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I've had the occasional friendly chat and that's all, and on occasions I've had other punters chat with me about what the general policies of the place are (cost, what's on offer etc.). I don't go to any one place often enough to form any friendships of the kind you get from, say a regular pub.

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Yes, I've had the occasional chat with other punters as well, can be quite informative, but on balance i dont like to think of other blokes having sex, i'm the only one who should be allowed; and i only watch lesbian porn for much the same reason, no blokes in it.

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Met three guys from here, one of whom I have become great friends with. He emigrated to Germany and has invited me over to check the clubs it's awesome according to him. Loads of messages/emails and phone calls.

Its good to share experiences.

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Never gone out of my way to meet other punters, but have ended up spending quite a bit of time chatting in a saunas lounge. Think the girls were getting annoyed at us once talking about cars before choosing which girl we wanted to be with ;)

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Sheffield scene members used to have meetings.

Believe it or not in the very early days I was actually invited ;)

We still do.

Sometimes mixed, sometimes ladies only. We meet up in a bar, go for a meal, then usually on to a pub for a few more drinks.

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Yeah, I can imagine the conversation !

"I didnt know you also cheated on your wife ! " or "small world huh"

Not for me thanks !

It's nothing like that at all.

Nor do we mix business with pleasure.

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Reading this thread it's pretty obvious that some of the posters should go visit some of the better German FKK's and Sauna Clubs ( e.g. Golden Time, Bernds, F 39 ) where it is the norm to arrange to meet others from whatever forums the monger (punter) subscribes to (e.g. ISG, Hookers NL, etc ) Often this the end result of exchanging PM's regarding a particular provider ;) but there are threads where planned visits are posted.

It's just like relaxing in a bar or beer garden (except everyone is civilized, no drunks ! ), making social conversation, drinking, eating (food!) and deciding which lovely lady will be your next playmate.;)

Socializing with others who share the same interests is a big plus, you get referrals, recommendations and the chances of a bad session are greatly diminished and the overall experience is greatly enhanced. Especially if you are the recipient of a public BJ or FS in the kino !:mad:

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