Crystal

Lying about sizes

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Right I am confused as to what to do..

I had an outcall booking this evening & the gentlemen requested a lady size 10-12 I had a couple of ladies available one was a size 10-12 the other a size 14 so I sent the one who matched his size explained her stats and off she went on the 40min car journey to see him...

Only once there he turned her away as 'she was not big enough' and every other size 10-12 he had ever seen from other agencies was ALOT bigger then her and he wasnt happy with being lied to *(BY ME!!!!)

Now I wish I had sent the size 14 but then I would have been lying to him....I sent a size 10-12 just like requested but because he had outcalls before with girls who had been sold as that size and obviously were an actual 14-16 I lost a client.

So guys... is it worth me making the sizes a little lower then real because you generally believe your going to get someone bigger then the description anyway?

xx

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OMG, it's unreal, isn't it, you simply just can't win. ;)

Sorry this happened to you, Crystal. It's your own fault for being honest! ;)

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Nah, that's his fault, not yours. Maybe it's just because I've got a sister who's spent her whole life being obsessed with her dress sizes, but I think it's fairly obvious what a size 10-12 is. Sounds like a BBW could tell this guy she was a size 14 and he'd believe her!

The more truth the better - it makes for a pleasant surprise when a 25 year old really is 25 or a size 10 really is a size 10.

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Right I am confused as to what to do..

I had an outcall booking this evening & the gentlemen requested a lady size 10-12 I had a couple of ladies available one was a size 10-12 the other a size 14 so I sent the one who matched his size explained her stats and off she went on the 40min car journey to see him...

Only once there he turned her away as 'she was not big enough' and every other size 10-12 he had ever seen from other agencies was ALOT bigger then her and he wasnt happy with being lied to *(BY ME!!!!)

Now I wish I had sent the size 14 but then I would have been lying to him....I sent a size 10-12 just like requested but because he had outcalls before with girls who had been sold as that size and obviously were an actual 14-16 I lost a client.

So guys... is it worth me making the sizes a little lower then real because you generally believe your going to get someone bigger then the description anyway?

xx

Vanity sizing has a lot to answer for. Basically, IMHO, asking for a dress size is asking for trouble, just stick to height and vital statistics.

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Right I am confused as to what to do..

I had an outcall booking this evening & the gentlemen requested a lady size 10-12 I had a couple of ladies available one was a size 10-12 the other a size 14 so I sent the one who matched his size explained her stats and off she went on the 40min car journey to see him...

Only once there he turned her away as 'she was not big enough' and every other size 10-12 he had ever seen from other agencies was ALOT bigger then her and he wasnt happy with being lied to *(BY ME!!!!)

Now I wish I had sent the size 14 but then I would have been lying to him....I sent a size 10-12 just like requested but because he had outcalls before with girls who had been sold as that size and obviously were an actual 14-16 I lost a client.

So guys... is it worth me making the sizes a little lower then real because you generally believe your going to get someone bigger then the description anyway?

xx

I much prefer the agreed size and if i book a 6 and i get a 10 or bigger it would be a walk out. To me a size 6 for example is sometimes an 8 and vice versa, this i can accept as its obviously close, so i do have some leeway personally, but only of a dress size or so. Best be honest in my view. I dont believe i am going to get someone bigger than agreed because i would have enquired as to the exact size, and until i meet her i would give her the benefit of the doubt that she has been truthful.

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Honesty is the best policy, so the saying goes... If you keep things simple, accurate, and good value, your business will do well. Try to second guess the 'odd' punter and you'll never get it right.

Good luck, and keep going.....

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Vanity sizing has a lot to answer for. Basically, IMHO, asking for a dress size is asking for trouble, just stick to height and vital statistics.

I punt with ladies pre size 6 to 14, possibly 16 and expect them to be within a dress size of what they said they were. After all its me paying and i would have asked for confirmation of size in detail, its an important aspect of a punt to me.

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Oh it's happened to me too - guess I should have been flattered but I was insulted. I state my actual size - but when this guy turned up he was clearly miffed: saying I was in fact several sizes smaller than he expected ;)

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Well it could work the other way around. I prefer women to be thinner, probably 12 downwards size wise. If an escort said she was size 10 or 12 but was far larger then I wouldn't be interested.

Telling the truth should avoid far more trouble than lieing will cause.

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I dont want to have to do that though. I punt with ladies pre size 6 to 14, possibly 16 and expect them to be within a dress size of what they said they were. After all its me paying and i would have asked for confirmation of size in detail, its important to me.

Unfortunately your definition of dress size X is not guaranteed to be the same as that of the lady in question, nor is it guaranteed to be the definition of manufacturer/retailer, it all comes down to what size (label) the shop thinks will sell.

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Unfortunately your definition of dress size X is not guaranteed to be the same as that of the lady in question, nor is it guaranteed to be the definition of manufacturer/retailer, it all comes down to what size (label) the shop thinks will sell.

I must of been lucky then because most ladies are close to what they said they were. This has not been a major problem in my experience.

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I have had a guy complain about me too saying I was not the size he expected. He asked if I was an 18 on the phone I said yes but he got upset when we met as I have a fairly flat tummy and he wanted rolls so accused me of lying about my size.

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Oh it's happened to me too - guess I should have been flattered but I was insulted. I state my actual size - but when this guy turned up he was clearly miffed: saying I was in fact several sizes smaller than he expected ;)

The girl was delighted at first that he thought she was smaller then a 10-12 but in the end she even showed him her label as he was arguing with her. He swears blind a size 10-12 is actually a 'big girl' and she was not 'big' god knows what he has been sent in the past! I explained over the phone she is the genuine size afterwards when he called me to complain about being lied too.

If I was to mislead a client into believing she was a blonde young bombshell and she turned out to be a brownhaired mature lady I could understand but the girl lost out because I told the truth ;)

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The girl was delighted at first that he thought she was smaller then a 10-12 but in the end she even showed him her label as he was arguing with her. He swears blind a size 10-12 is actually a 'big girl' and she was not 'big' god knows what he has been sent in the past! I explained over the phone she is the genuine size afterwards when he called me to complain about being lied too.

If I was to mislead a client into believing she was a blonde young bombshell and she turned out to be a brownhaired mature lady I could understand but the girl lost out because I told the truth ;)

What a lame excuse for turning a girl away. Put him on the blacklist.;)

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He does sound as if he is an objectionable client and possible TW.

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Its so annoying when the receptionist at a MP lies about my size.... I was never a size 12!!!!!!!!!!!

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The difference between what he wanted and what he got is not enough for him to have a hissy fit over, if what you write is true.

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Right I am confused as to what to do..

I had an outcall booking this evening & the gentlemen requested a lady size 10-12 I had a couple of ladies available one was a size 10-12 the other a size 14 so I sent the one who matched his size explained her stats and off she went on the 40min car journey to see him...

Only once there he turned her away as 'she was not big enough' and every other size 10-12 he had ever seen from other agencies was ALOT bigger then her and he wasnt happy with being lied to *(BY ME!!!!)

Now I wish I had sent the size 14 but then I would have been lying to him....I sent a size 10-12 just like requested but because he had outcalls before with girls who had been sold as that size and obviously were an actual 14-16 I lost a client.

So guys... is it worth me making the sizes a little lower then real because you generally believe your going to get someone bigger then the description anyway?

xx

All women come in different sizes and carry weight in different areas so it does not matter what the labels on clothing say, its how you look. The guy had an idea of what he wanted and it was not matched. Guys are being told/think size 8-10 is very slim (oriental, petite); 10-12 is a "normal" healthy weight, no fat, slim; 12-14 curvy, carrying a bit of extra weight but nice rounded ass and tits.... so I doubt he was sent a size 14-16 and told she was a size 10.

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Right I am confused as to what to do..

Only once there he turned her away as 'she was not big enough' and every other size 10-12 he had ever seen from other agencies was ALOT bigger then her and he wasnt happy with being lied to *(BY ME!!!!)

xx

There is the clue. He was lied to by the other agencies not you. He does not have a clue what a size 10 woman looks like, his only reference was other agencies who always drop a couple of sizes.

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Thank God itt's only ladies who lie about their size---men never lie about the size of their equipment, do they ?

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There is the clue. He was lied to by the other agencies not you. He does not have a clue what a size 10 woman looks like, his only reference was other agencies who always drop a couple of sizes.

Conversely, of course, he DOES know what a size 10-12 is, but had got so used to WGs' size inflation that he tried to take that into account. And failed miserably because he'd picked the one agency that doesn't appear to lie.

Not that you'd see it from the punter's point of view, of course.

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Crystal, sounds to me like the guy does not know what he really wants, if he wanted a "big girl" then whay ask for size 10-12 ?????

Size 10 is "normal" and even size 12 is not big if the girl is fairly tall.

I don't feel that you lied but many agencies do lie rather than lose a booking which is why I stopped using my local agencies ------- they once sent me a "Dutch" girl with a cockney accent, another time they sent a girl who they claimed was size 8 and she was nearer to a size 12, when I questioned her on this she said that she "used to be" a size 10. ;):eek:

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It's annoying, I've had it both ways although only had the booking canceled when they thought I wasn't big enough!

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All women come in different sizes and carry weight in different areas so it does not matter what the labels on clothing say, its how you look. The guy had an idea of what he wanted and it was not matched. Guys are being told/think size 8-10 is very slim (oriental, petite); 10-12 is a "normal" healthy weight, no fat, slim; 12-14 curvy, carrying a bit of extra weight but nice rounded ass and tits.... so I doubt he was sent a size 14-16 and told she was a size 10.

Not all guys including myself are being told or think size 8-10 is very slim, in my view 6-8 is very slim, 8-10 slim and 10-12 normal with as you say 12-14 being curvy.

To be honest its not hard to gauge sizes roughly by either asking friends or relatives or checking out websites to give a punter a general idea. Of course it relies on the lady you book being honest ultimately when making the booking.

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or is it possible to take a group pic with all your size 10-12 in a line with say the same undies on, the varying heights might show the difference in body shape some are

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