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What constitutes a regular?

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Question for the ladies, how do you define a regular?.

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To me, it's someone who sees me on a regular basis - whatever that "regular" means for him. Once a week - once a month or once every two months. But almost without fail at those regular intervals. Well, more or less.

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One date does not a regular make.;)

Its not just about seeing me evey second Tuesday of the month at 11am. Its about putting his cup on the draining board and knowing your dogs "real name." Its the little things that make me think of someone as a reg.;)

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..... and knowing your dogs "real name." /QUOTE]

So, even your dog has a working name ????

what is it, Fido4You ?

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Question for the ladies, how do you define a regular?.

Not another thread about periods ;)

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One date does not a regular make.;)

Its not just about seeing me evey second Tuesday of the month at 11am. Its about putting his cup on the draining board and knowing your dogs "real name." Its the little things that make me think of someone as a reg.;)

Good post Cindy. I agree its about knowing a bit more about the lady, although i have no way of knowing whether what she is telling me is true for sure. I personally have no reason to doubt what my regulars say, and overall i find punts get better with them over time as they come to know me better, and certainly know what i like sexually.

With me i like variety so this is where bad punts sometimes occur, if i sticked with regulars i would probably receive good to excellent punts all the time, although one regulars hygiene suddenly and inexplicably went downhill recently leading me to walk. This is very rare in my experience, most regulars just move areas or retire.

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..... and knowing your dogs "real name." /QUOTE]

So, even your dog has a working name ????

what is it, Fido4You ?

Yes, bad analogy. I mean you know bits and bats about each other without feeling you have to impart your life story. It works for me anyway.

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With me i like variety so this is where bad punts sometimes occur, if i sticked with regulars i would probably receive good to excellent punts all the time,

This is how I like to punt, I see escorts and working ladies every so often that I have not seen before, this is fine and gets me about the place, plus it keeps me searching for something new, but I have a few ladies that I see on a more regular basis.

There is a big differance of getting to meet someone new for the first time, and someone whom you have seen for the last 8 years etc, its more like socialising at times, so the thrill is about something differant each time.

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This is how I like to punt, I see escorts and working ladies every so often that I have not seen before, this is fine and gets me about the place, plus it keeps me searching for something new, but I have a few ladies that I see on a more regular basis.

There is a big differance of getting to meet someone new for the first time, and someone whom you have seen for the last 8 years etc, its more like socialising at times, so the thrill is about something differant each time.

Indeed. Those on here that hark on saying punters must have bad punts and lie when they say they dont, are not taking into account some who stick with regulars only, these ladies are all they require i assume, and if that is sufficient for them, then good on them is my view.

I however require that variety, for me its in search of a gem, which having punted with them do exist, its just that WGs move on and that gem disappears. Personally i simply like to shag as many ladies as possible, and am happy to pay to do so.

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To me, it's someone who sees me on a regular basis - whatever that "regular" means for him. Once a week - once a month or once every two months. But almost without fail at those regular intervals. Well, more or less.

As you said: more or less.

There are guys who you see once maybe two times a year for a last decade but meeting is for a long weekend or a whole week sometimes. I would consider them "regular" even if we don't meet more then once in two months. (by your definition).

Then there are "irregular regulars" -Could be once every week/fortnight, then next meetings could be months in between.

Also there are "regular emailers". They mail you every other day, but you end up to see them once or twice a year.

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Unfortunately there are some chaps albeit a tiny minority who think a 1 or 2 hour booking repeated 2 years later qualifies them for special 'regular' treatment or offers. Whilst I value every client equally I think that is stretching the term somewhat and possibly being a little cheeky.

;)

I have however seen a post on another forum in the last week were a guy really didn't believe/understand that most WGs do have numerous clients who visit them time and time again - i.e. it's fairly common for someone successful to have regulars.

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I've always found prunes makes me regular! ;)

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One date does not a regular make.:D

Its not just about seeing me evey second Tuesday of the month at 11am. Its about putting his cup on the draining board and knowing your dogs "real name." Its the little things that make me think of someone as a reg.:D

In my early punting life I had a regular lady, and the more I saw of her the more I got to know of her personal life.

We got on well and had lots in common but the problem for me was that the image I had of her as a strong, intelligent, independent woman started to crumble as she gradually opened up to me about her private life, about how she had suffered at the hands of an abusive father and later abusive boyfriends. And this made me uncomfortable, the thought that her abuse had led her on a path to doing this job and that I was somehow perpetrating that chain of abuse.

With the maturity of age I now understand that she probably needed counselling and was using me as a good listener to work out these issues. But I wanted nothing so heavy, just a shag and a chat. To my eternal shame and regret I stopped seeing her without an explanation and I still feel guilty about that.

She would be in her mid 40's now, and I do wonder whatever happened to her.

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Question for the ladies, how do you define a regular?.

A regular to me is someone who returns time and time again regardless of the duration between visits

I tend not to look at how often more how well I get to know them, their likes and dislikes and build on it from there.

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