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Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced

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Right, for someone who is quite shy sexually, and doesn't know what the feck to do, would you say...

a) go in there for full sex, it might feel a bit awakward and uncomfortable the first few times, but just brace yourself, take it on the chin.. it will get better and easier over time.

or

:eek: play it safe, and ease into it slowly, first doing a couple of HR + massage services, and then maybe some mature escorts (who'll be a lot more gentle, non judgemental [due to experience] and more appreciative for a younger guys interest) and then maybe go for the more attractive escorts (once you've got your confidence up).

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I think you have answered your own question, good luck.

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... just go see Chelsea amazingbusheyescort - she is soooo good and really a genuine caring girl who will sort you out. No pressure just enjoy her company and let things take the enevitable course :-)

Get yourself to Bushey (train from Euston 20 mins!) .....

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Right, for someone who is quite shy sexually, and doesn't know what the feck to do, would you say...

a) go in there for full sex, it might feel a bit awakward and uncomfortable the first few times, but just brace yourself, take it on the chin.. it will get better and easier over time.

or

:eek: play it safe, and ease into it slowly, first doing a couple of HR + massage services, and then maybe some mature escorts (who'll be a lot more gentle, non judgemental [due to experience] and more appreciative for a younger guys interest) and then maybe go for the more attractive escorts (once you've got your confidence up).

My advice is go for B but why change WGs. Why not pick one, explain the position and have a number of sessions with a gradual build up if all goes well. Try not to fall in love tho' (those threads get a bit boring). Good luck.

Jack

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a) go in there for full sex, it might feel a bit awkward and uncomfortable the first few times, but just brace yourself, take it on the chin.. it will get better and easier over time.

Have most of your sexual experiences been behind bars? :eek:

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Do as much 'homework' as you can (e.g. using this forum) to identify a suitable girl; then jump in at the deep end.

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The title of your thread is "Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced"

So if the main problem is you feeling frigid and very unused to being touched, I would suggest start with massage and HR to ease you in to feeling confident being touched and the feelings you get when being aroused by someone. If the main problem is inexperience and shyness rather than being frigid, then jump straight in with and escort and let her show you how wonderful you can fully feel.

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... just go see Chelsea amazingbusheyescort - she is soooo good and really a genuine caring girl who will sort you out. No pressure just enjoy her company and let things take the enevitable course :-)

Get yourself to Bushey (train from Euston 20 mins!) .....

Now that really is good advice.

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Well this advice may get boohood,but i think you should pick a lady,let her know that you want to get the business out of the way fairly quickly and then get to know her a little,otherwise whilst your chatting away your sexual frustration is going to be hanging in the air between you like a rain cloud about to burst.You can always take it slowly the next time you see her.Or better still,go somewhere that you can come more than once,quick burst ,lovely chat,round two taken a bit slower.xxx

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Go for option A.

That's what I did. I found a nice mature lady and told her the situation. She understood my nervousness, and so there would be no rush, I booked for two hours.

When I arrived, I let her take the lead, and had a great time. I've been back to her a few times over the years, and we laugh at how shy I was the first time.

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Maybe try a naughty massage first...usually you can get a "happy ending" which should get rid of the fears, then go for it!:D

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The title of your thread is "Advice to someone quite frigid and inexperienced"

So if the main problem is you feeling frigid and very unused to being touched, I would suggest start with massage and HR to ease you in to feeling confident being touched and the feelings you get when being aroused by someone. If the main problem is inexperience and shyness rather than being frigid, then jump straight in with and escort and let her show you how wonderful you can fully feel.

Good advice IMO. I would add do you research carefully to find a lady who suits what you require.

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just jump into the deep end

its the only way you will learn

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just jump into the deep end

its the only way you will learn

Be sure to ask for Wolfbagging.

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Yup, been researching for ages and ages,

there's so many to choose from thayt it sometimes leaves me in a daze, went for a massage + HR before, and before that went for a soho walkup..

I didn't really enjoy, I think immediately after a punt because yuou've invested money into something you like to think you had a great time, otherwise you feel like a fool. But looking back in hindsight the experience was clinical, slight awkward and emotionless affair.. no matter how good a girl is at wanking off a guy, i don't think a girl can compete with your own hands.

anywways, im still hopeful, maybe ive had bad punts, im a bit reluctant to go outside of london for a punt though, you guys got recommendations in london that's easy to communte to from angel (where i live)

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Be sure to ask for Wolfbagging.

It just isn't GFE without it

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