TartanTam

Would this make you say no!.

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Having seen a female a few times, she gave me her phone number and told me that I could get her cheaper as an escort, and went into detail where she worked from privately.

It turned out that I knew the address as being a property of a guy who had used violence on a friend of mine, after he had been given wrong information, and had a history of using violence to those he does not like.

The lady has since text'd me to find out why I dont see her anymore, but knowing that some of the money is going to him prevents me from seeing her, and I dont know her well enough to not say anything to the owner, so I have stayed away.

Should I merely say well some folk spend their money the way they like, and see the woman again, or do I stay away and hope the money I spend on others is put to better use.

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Why not see her at a hotel if it is the location that is stopping you. That is if you really want to see her again anyway.

Having seen a female a few times, she gave me her phone number and told me that I could get her cheaper as an escort, and went into detail where she worked from privately.

It turned out that I knew the address as being a property of a guy who had used violence on a friend of mine, after he had been given wrong information, and had a history of using violence to those he does not like.

The lady has since text'd me to find out why I dont see her anymore, but knowing that some of the money is going to him prevents me from seeing her, and I dont know her well enough to not say anything to the owner, so I have stayed away.

Should I merely say well some folk spend their money the way they like, and see the woman again, or do I stay away and hope the money I spend on others is put to better use.

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Another point to consider is that he may have been a previous occupier or that they may no longer be together.

My concern is that I would not want to be in the house with her if he came home in a temper and wanted trouble. I wouldn't want to be in the house if the Police came round looking for him.

It depends on how comfortable you feel with the situation. If you can put those things to the back of your mind then go ahead.

You haven't said anything in your post which leads me to believe that she's the best escort in your area - so you may actually be better off finding others to see.

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Ask her straight out.

Why is she giving you her number?

Does she live with that bloke ?

It'll bring things to a conclusion, you have your answers and can make a decision with all the facts infront of you.

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My concern is that I would not want to be in the house with her if he came home in a temper and wanted trouble. I wouldn't want to be in the house if the Police came round looking for him.

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Is it possible that thugs can become 'sympathetic' landlords having rental property portfolios ? :)

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She is a good escort, maybe one of the best I had seen for a while, but she uses a place that is one of a few places owned by the thug, Its a place that he lets out on a regular basis, I could book a hotel room, but the price would jump up quickly, and so would both our travelling.

The number was given to me in good faith, as she does not know about my friendship with Xxxxxxx whom was assualted, and id like to keep it that way.

Id hate of any money from me to her changinging hands with him, as i'd assume that it would be used for something im not comfertable with.

Am I asking for too much in hoping that the money I spend on escorts get spent legally!, or should I not be wondering about how she spends, it, even though some of its going to a thug who assualted a friend.

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Am I asking for too much in hoping that the money I spend on escorts get spent legally!, or should I not be wondering about how she spends, it, even though some of its going to a thug who assualted a friend.

I think that what a WG does with her money is her affair - the only time that it is appropriate for you to consider the matter, IMHO, is when you think or fear that she may be "controlled", at which point you need to either sever your connection with her, or take the risk that you might be hit under the new absolute offence.

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If she pays the money to him as a 'legitimate' (cough) rental fee for the use of the place, then I don't see that counts as 'how she spends her money'.

I do think some people aren't happy unless they're fretting over something!

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Ask her straight out.

Why is she giving you her number?

Does she live with that bloke ?

It'll bring things to a conclusion, you have your answers and can make a decision with all the facts infront of you.

This would be what i would do.

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She might not be aware this guy is a thug so why should she suffer loss of business?Perhaps you could find out the real situation?

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Having seen a female a few times, she gave me her phone number and told me that I could get her cheaper as an escort, and went into detail where she worked from privately.

It turned out that I knew the address as being a property of a guy who had used violence on a friend of mine, after he had been given wrong information, and had a history of using violence to those he does not like.

The lady has since text'd me to find out why I dont see her anymore, but knowing that some of the money is going to him prevents me from seeing her, and I dont know her well enough to not say anything to the owner, so I have stayed away.

Should I merely say well some folk spend their money the way they like, and see the woman again, or do I stay away and hope the money I spend on others is put to better use.

Life is too short.

Find another place.

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Ask her straight out.

Why is she giving you her number?

Does she live with that bloke ?

It'll bring things to a conclusion, you have your answers and can make a decision with all the facts infront of you.

Firstly, Hello All, from a new 'member' :)

I've been involved in a slightly similar situation in the past when, after getting on with a WG very well, she invited me more into her life and then she chose to disclose more about herself. I discovered that we had contacts in common and decided that there were too many risks. We'd had a couple of 'away from the agency' bookings so I made another private arrangment with her and told her plainly that, much as I liked her that knowledge I had about her position prevented me from seeing her again. She tried to get me to explain in detail, but I refused. She accepted the position, I tried to give her a small cancellation fee, but she wouldn't accept. It was a little painful to us both at the time, but I felt the honesty (allbeit with details hidden) was important.

Maybe something similar would work for escortuser?

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Having seen a female a few times, she gave me her phone number and told me that I could get her cheaper as an escort...

There's something that we've never been able to understand here.

Apart from the fact that punters in the main are notoriously NOT going to stay with the one girl except in exceptional circumstances, if a girl suggests that she can be booked cheaper by phoning her direct rather than going through an agency, (presumably this IS the scenario here), then apart from a few one-off hits that the girl may get, which will presumably be charged at normal fee minus agency fee, the girl herself will gain nothing.

Which is not very good business sense.

Or forward thinking.

Ah well, c'est la vie.

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It would make me say no. Just say you'd met someone, if you feel the need to offer an explanation.

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There's something that we've never been able to understand here.

Apart from the fact that punters in the main are notoriously NOT going to stay with the one girl except in exceptional circumstances, if a girl suggests that she can be booked cheaper by phoning her direct rather than going through an agency, (presumably this IS the scenario here), then apart from a few one-off hits that the girl may get, which will presumably be charged at normal fee minus agency fee, the girl herself will gain nothing.

Which is not very good business sense.

Or forward thinking.

Ah well, c'est la vie.

Perhaps they're splitting the difference?

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Having seen a female a few times, she gave me her phone number and told me that I could get her cheaper as an escort, and went into detail where she worked from privately.

It turned out that I knew the address as being a property of a guy who had used violence on a friend of mine, after he had been given wrong information, and had a history of using violence to those he does not like.

The lady has since text'd me to find out why I dont see her anymore, but knowing that some of the money is going to him prevents me from seeing her, and I dont know her well enough to not say anything to the owner, so I have stayed away.

Should I merely say well some folk spend their money the way they like, and see the woman again, or do I stay away and hope the money I spend on others is put to better use.

I would call up the agency/parlour/whatever and ask them about it. Sounds like she's a bit dodgy really. Everything went well previously, I presume. Why change your system for a few quid.

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I would call up the agency/parlour/whatever and ask them about it. Sounds like she's a bit dodgy really. Everything went well previously, I presume. Why change your system for a few quid.

I've never used an agency but when there was discussion recently about agency slices the figure of £300 for a hour was mention with the escort receiving £200. I don't know how accurate this is but if it is over 30% / £100, it surely is more than a few quid?

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There's something that we've never been able to understand here.

Apart from the fact that punters in the main are notoriously NOT going to stay with the one girl except in exceptional circumstances, if a girl suggests that she can be booked cheaper by phoning her direct rather than going through an agency, (presumably this IS the scenario here), then apart from a few one-off hits that the girl may get, which will presumably be charged at normal fee minus agency fee, the girl herself will gain nothing.

Which is not very good business sense.

Or forward thinking.

Ah well, c'est la vie.

This would depend on if the punter shares his information about the lady with other punters on here, other forums or by word of mouth, or by every means possible. If he does like i have done and been in receipt of, the lady/ies have seen numerous punters with their Indie hats on and i assume its been worth their while as they continue to do so. The bush telegraph then takes over and they can become very popular and busy, at least for a while.

In my case the establishment a particular lady works at is too far so i have seen her at a mutually convenient place as an Indie. The cost was roughly the same as it would have been if i had booked her at the establishment. As this is outside her working hours for the establishment it makes good business sense for her to me, but thats a matter for her. She still works at the establishment so i see no downside for her or me.

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The lady in question, gave me her number as she was hard to book at times, and as she was only on the rota two days a week, she had the freedom to be more selective whom she seen and at a time which was more suitable to her, more so than the price, but it was cheaper.

But alas I have decided not to continue seeing her, not because of what I feel about her use of the money, but because I have a friendship with someone on a more important level, and to make a booking where she is at the moment, goes against the friendship I have.

If she moves then the situation changes, but in the meantime I will stay out of the situation and sleep easier, and with others.

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There's something that we've never been able to understand here.

Apart from the fact that punters in the main are notoriously NOT going to stay with the one girl except in exceptional circumstances, if a girl suggests that she can be booked cheaper by phoning her direct rather than going through an agency, (presumably this IS the scenario here), then apart from a few one-off hits that the girl may get, which will presumably be charged at normal fee minus agency fee, the girl herself will gain nothing.

Which is not very good business sense.

Or forward thinking.

Ah well, c'est la vie.

As you asked, I can see a couple of reasons:

  1. She will probably charge him more than you give her but less than he gives you, thus both "win".
  2. If she gets a regular who is "grateful" then he is more likely to book for longer periods, maybe do an overnight and maybe bring gifts.

Therefore I can see what is in it for the girl and it could indeed be forward thinking as if she builds up over time a number of regs then she lives well without the agency.

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