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Ladies does it make a difference iif.....

your client is good looking/you fancy him/something about him ???

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If the guy is clean and polite, and knows that when a lady says no she means it, then the escort wll be profesional as always, and give a service that is equal to all.

I think you should have a few regular ladies you see, if you wish to appear really comfertable in the relationship.

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I'll admit it, it is really fun to get an attractive client! But sometimes you just don't click, even if he is perfectly good in every single respect. Some girls will say that attractive clients can think rather well of themselves, thus spoiling the booking, but this is far from the case. Sometimes perfectly good escorts (i.e. accurate pics and description of services) don't connect with perfectly good clients (i.e. clean, respectful.)

Chemistry (or the lack thereof) is a mysterious thing and can manifest itself (or not) at very odd times with very unexpected clients. I think this is far more important than looks and can make for a wonderful booking.

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Ladies does it make a difference iif.....

your client is good looking/you fancy him/something about him ???

I imagine that it could make a difference in the number of orgasms the lady experiences.

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I'll admit it, it is really fun to get an attractive client! But sometimes you just don't click, even if he is perfectly good in every single respect. Some girls will say that attractive clients can think rather well of themselves, thus spoiling the booking, but this is far from the case. Sometimes perfectly good escorts (i.e. accurate pics and description of services) don't connect with perfectly good clients (i.e. clean, respectful.)

Chemistry (or the lack thereof) is a mysterious thing and can manifest itself (or not) at very odd times with very unexpected clients. I think this is far more important than looks and can make for a wonderful booking.

good point i think the same applies to the males too funnily enough

although vhemistry is alot harder to find.....

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I only see a few clients now but when I used to work in parlours it did make a difference. It was always nice to see a guy I found physically attractive walk through the door. I don't think it made a difference to the service I gave though, just that it gave me a kind of fuzzy feeling lol. There were guys who were absolutely gorgeous but we didn't click, and there were guys who I didn't find attractive at first but the sex was amazing

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Ladies does it make a difference iif.....

your client is good looking/you fancy him/something about him ???

Would you care to elaborate what you mean by 'difference'?

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I'll admit it, it is really fun to get an attractive client! But sometimes you just don't click, even if he is perfectly good in every single respect. Some girls will say that attractive clients can think rather well of themselves, thus spoiling the booking, but this is far from the case. Sometimes perfectly good escorts (i.e. accurate pics and description of services) don't connect with perfectly good clients (i.e. clean, respectful.)

Chemistry (or the lack thereof) is a mysterious thing and can manifest itself (or not) at very odd times with very unexpected clients. I think this is far more important than looks and can make for a wonderful booking

The trouble is that this is often cited by WGs as an all-encompassing explanation for a client not getting a satisfactory (to him) service. I'm not suggesting you would, but.. that is the main factor behind me hardly punting nowadays.

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Ladies does it make a difference iif.....

your client is good looking/you fancy him/something about him ???

I'm not being funny, but we're human too you know! If you're floored by someone who's just drop dead gorgeous, of course it's going to affect you. How could it not?

That said, I have to be honest and say (it's happened a few times) but it unnerves me quite a bit - professionalism can go right out the door (if only in my head), make my blush, my head go blank and behave like a blithering idiot. Or at least that's what it feels like while I try to keep composure.

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I'm a "gorgeous" and "wellhung" guy according to nearly all the girls I've booked, but they probably say that to ALL their clients.

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In my experience physical attractiveness does not have a direct correlation with likelyhood of me having an orgasm. Am afraid guys that simply being 'fit' is not going to have me in orgasmic heaven. Attitude, approach and technique are more likely to succeed.

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The trouble is that this is often cited by WGs as an all-encompassing explanation for a client not getting a satisfactory (to him) service. I'm not suggesting you would, but.. that is the main factor behind me hardly punting nowadays.

I get what you're saying. I think it's really important for escorts to want there to be a connexion with the client. Even if there is no real chemistry effort is always appreciated, and of course it's really important to provide the services you say you provide. There is a lot to be said for determining what sort of clients really put you off, and then just not seeing them. Nothing can damage the issue of chemistry more than if an escort does not like her job. If WG's get to a point where they don't like the job, then they should either quit or make changes.

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I think the same goes the other way as well; I have seen some WG's whom I have found absolutely gorgeous. At first it does make a difference, you feel stunned and it makes the time we spend together much more pleasurable. However it is not all about looks, I find that a multitude of factors, such as looks, chatting, intelligence, personality, attitude contribute to making that experience a memorable one. Thus you could have a guy/woman that may not be amongst the most attractive you've been with, but all the above factors would make it somewhat special. Ladies do you agree?

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I get what you're saying. I think it's really important for escorts to want there to be a connexion with the client. Even if there is no real chemistry effort is always appreciated, and of course it's really important to provide the services you say you provide. There is a lot to be said for determining what sort of clients really put you off, and then just not seeing them. Nothing can damage the issue of chemistry more than if an escort does not like her job. If WG's get to a point where they don't like the job, then they should either quit or make changes

Much appreciated :)

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I think the same goes the other way as well; I have seen some WG's whom I have found absolutely gorgeous. At first it does make a difference, you feel stunned and it makes the time we spend together much more pleasurable. However it is not all about looks, I find that a multitude of factors, such as looks, chatting, intelligence, personality, attitude contribute to making that experience a memorable one. Thus you could have a guy/woman that may not be amongst the most attractive you've been with, but all the above factors would make it somewhat special. Ladies do you agree?

For me it's almost the other way around - (and though what I ultimately fall for in a man has absolutely *nothing* to do with looks or anything physical) if someone is drop dead gorgeous (or has general attributes the general public would swoon over), it really puts me off my stride and I would say even hinders my (erm) "performance".

So yes, all of my most memorable & enjoyable encounters have been about raw chemistry and (as a result) wanton lust - which had nothing to do with anything physical.

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From what I've seen, it does make a big difference to younger working girls. It's no surprise that an 18 year old, new to the job might be put off by a fat fugly guy 30 years older than they are.

Nowhere is this more obvious than in a parlour/sauna. I once walked into a sauna at the same time as another punter that resembled Ron Jeremy and straight away the girls (all young) were talking and flirting with me. Whereas the fat guy didn't even get a hello. Now I'd like to think that was because they all fancied me, but more likely none of them wanted to be booked by the greasy, moustachiod 70's pornstar lookalike :) .

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From what I've seen, it does make a big difference to younger working girls. It's no surprise that an 18 year old, new to the job might be put off by a fat fugly guy 30 years older than they are.

Nowhere is this more obvious than in a parlour/sauna. I once walked into a sauna at the same time as another punter that resembled Ron Jeremy and straight away the girls (all young) were talking and flirting with me. Whereas the fat guy didn't even get a hello. Now I'd like to think that was because they all fancied me, but more likely none of them wanted to be booked by the greasy, moustachiod 70's pornstar lookalike :) .

Well, (not surprising) is it not natural human instinct given a choice? Surely it would be exactly the same had the tables been turned.

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If the guy is clean and polite, and knows that when a lady says no she means it, then the escort wll be profesional as always, and give a service that is equal to all.

I really can't understand how you come to that conclusion. Are you trying to intimate it's all a robotic service and every man has the same needs/desires, or is it that every man will leave equally happy ?

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I really can't understand how you come to that conclusion. Are you trying to intimate it's all a robotic service and every man has the same needs/desires, or is it that every man will leave equally happy ?
If the guy is clean and polite, and knows that when a lady says no she means it, then the escort wll be profesional as always, and give a service that is equal to all.

I think you should have a few regular ladies you see, if you wish to appear really comfertable in the relationship.

I think he's simply referring to the basics which isn't unreasonable to expect. Deliver what you say you'll deliver in terms of service and general (positive, fun & welcoming) attitude. Irrespective of whether or not you find him physically attractive or not.

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Well, (not surprising) is it not natural human instinct given a choice? Surely it would be exactly the same had the tables been turned.

Too right, I would be worse than anyone!

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Chemistry is what does it to me....... doesn't matter what the man looks like.... that instant attraction... in the eye contact is what does it for me :)

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The best client I ever had doesn't have a tooth in his head. Not a looker by any standards but great fun, a nice person but his oral skills are second to none and certainly an enjoyable experience.

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The best client I ever had doesn't have a tooth in his head. Not a looker by any standards but great fun, a nice person but his oral skills are second to none and certainly an enjoyable experience.

I have had the same experience with a man, who didn't have a tooth in his head either... he wasn't a client... The sexual chemistry was out of this world and I tell you what.... there is something to be said about oral with gums :)

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I'm a "gorgeous" and "wellhung" guy according to nearly all the girls I've booked, but they probably say that to ALL their clients.

That would depend - are you gorgeous and well-hung?

I mean, surely a man knows that sort of thing himself? :)

Actually, when I think about it, it's not necessarily the case. I certainly know one chap with no worries in the well-hung department, who still insists it isn't so. Why would that be? :)

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Why would that be? :)

Because he doesn't spend a significant proportion of any day in close proximity to cocks with which he can compare his own.

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