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Do Men REALLY take their Wives or Girlfriends to punt with W/G as well?

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Hi guys

I've heard stories that some Men have taken either their Bi-sexual Wife and Girlfriends to see W/G.

How can this be true? I mean when did a guy mention he was seeing W/G (he must haved pathed the way) and how did he proposition his other half?

Ideally if I were dating a semi-hot looking girl who was bi-sexual how would I go about saying "Ever thought about a threesome with an even hotter looking girl? Well lets hire an Escort together!"

Also for Married guys what happens if your wife rejected the idea and used it as a bargaining chip for a Divorce.

AND finally the BIGGIE.

Would your Wife/Girlfriend ever say "Hang on you pay a W/G £150 per hour for sex? I don't remember you paying me that much every time we did it"

DISCUSS:D

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My girlfriend suggested it as she wanted to see me with another woman.

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Yes they do,a couple visited me a while back at annabellas,although they got a bit sheepish when i asked if they lived together,i think he was a boss having a fling with a young colleague more than a full time relationship.I also saw a married couple at house of divine last year who booked me to celebrate their company doing so well and i am seeing a couple (boyfriend/girlfriend) next week as its a mutual fantasy of theirs.xx

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I don't know how couples go about discussing the idea of a threesome and I really don't want to know. The only thing I care about is that both parties are absolutely OK with booking me and that all rules and boundaries are clearly spelled out and agreed upon beforehand. Threesomes aren't for everybody, and in fact aren't for most people. I've turned down offers plenty of times.

Most of my couples have very clear bonds between them and there's no way in the world I could ever break them even if I wanted to. Apart from anything else I'm a paid service provider and not a friend. I do think a threesome with a friend could cause serious problems within a relationship but that's another story.

You're assuming it is always the man's idea, and sometimes it is. I've had a few threesome bookings where I get the impression it was the woman's idea. Female cuckoldry is actually a relatively common fantasy in my experience. I have a few male clients whose wives know what they are up to and are OK with it.

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Female cuckoldry is actually a relatively common fantasy in my experience

You know how much I love to pin down every sodding detail :) so can I just check whether you mean:

a) 'the wife' getting it on with someone else of whichever sex

:) 'the wife' getting it on with a woman

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Lots of women are curious about this and would enjoy a controlled experiment. Not everyone moves in swinging circles, so the wg option is a fairly reasonable alternative.

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Lots of women are curious about this and would enjoy a controlled experiment. Not everyone moves in swinging circles, so the wg option is a fairly reasonable alternative.

I agree. Paying for a WG is a *clean* (no ties, no comeback) way of s-exploring.

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You know how much I love to pin down every sodding detail :) so can I just check whether you mean:

a) 'the wife' getting it on with someone else of whichever sex

:) 'the wife' getting it on with a woman

I meant that the wife likes to watch me with him.

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Hi guys

I've heard stories that some Men have taken either their Bi-sexual Wife and Girlfriends to see W/G.

How can this be true? I mean when did a guy mention he was seeing W/G (he must haved pathed the way) and how did he proposition his other half?

It absolutely happens. Someone I saw fairly regularly (who's wife did not know), wanted to give her the opportunity to explore her bi-sexual side.

He first discussed the idea with me (to see if I'd be up for it) and then went along to her to "pave the way". Pretending that he knew nothing about escorting / WG's and planted the idea that perhaps they should pay someone (as opposed to try and involve someone they already knew socially as it could turn into a potential mess).

Low and behold, she fell for it all. He "steered" her towards the internet where they first did some general browsing - then by "pure chance" came across me and together "decided" to pick me. Needless to say, a few weeks later we met up at a hotel......

Met her (well them - and had to pretend I didn't know her husband!!!) then went for dinner and drinks (she was clearly a bit nervous and most definitely his wife who had no clue). I was actually quite nervous too as I couldn't be in any way familiar with him. And am not a very good actress so constantly had to be "on guard".

Afterwards, back up to their hotel room (which they booked to get away from the kids for the weekend) and had several hours of great fun.

It was certainly a weird and unusual situation but memorable and fun.

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Hi guys

I've heard stories that some Men have taken either their Bi-sexual Wife and Girlfriends to see W/G.

How can this be true? I mean when did a guy mention he was seeing W/G (he must haved pathed the way) and how did he proposition his other half?

Ideally if I were dating a semi-hot looking girl who was bi-sexual how would I go about saying "Ever thought about a threesome with an even hotter looking girl? Well lets hire an Escort together!"

Also for Married guys what happens if your wife rejected the idea and used it as a bargaining chip for a Divorce.

AND finally the BIGGIE.

Would your Wife/Girlfriend ever say "Hang on you pay a W/G £150 per hour for sex? I don't remember you paying me that much every time we did it"

DISCUSS:D

I can confirm it happens a lot on the Swinging scene which is off-topic on here, i know this from personal experience.

I have often met couples at Parties who just want to shag as many other people as possible, with a few ladies i have met being what i would class as sex mad, always a fun experience when i meet such ladies.

A number of WGs have told me over the years that often the guy in the couple wants a 3some and the partner goes along with it to keep him happy. I think many WGs like to speak to both partners to establish if it is what both want.

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There is also the scenario of an escort having been booked to pretend to be the wife/girlfriend as it is a fantasy of the man.. Most of the couple bookings I have done have been with escorts pretending to be the man's partner. I have also gone with clients to a parlour pretending to be their partner. Once at Madam Becky's seeing Lara. It was funny because she asked where we were going on holiday this year. I said New York and the client said Spain!!

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You sound surprised RedAlert, yes some couples do see WG's, If they have a liberal relationship why not?

Do the ladies charge a couple double her rates? :)

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You sound surprised RedAlert, yes some couples do see WG's, If they have a liberal relationship why not?

I don't think that's what he really asked about. He asked how to approach it when in a "not so openly liberal relationship".

I quote: "I mean when did a guy mention he was seeing W/G (he must haved pathed the way) and how did he proposition his other half?

Ideally if I were dating a semi-hot looking girl who was bi-sexual how would I go about saying "Ever thought about a threesome with an even hotter looking girl? Well lets hire an Escort together!" "

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I don't think that's what he really asked about. He asked how to approach it when in a "not so openly liberal relationship".

I quote: "I mean when did a guy mention he was seeing W/G (he must haved pathed the way) and how did he proposition his other half?

Ideally if I were dating a semi-hot looking girl who was bi-sexual how would I go about saying "Ever thought about a threesome with an even hotter looking girl? Well lets hire an Escort together!" "

Ok well he could tell her "a bloke down the pub nudge nudge told me about this site called Punternet, and on there Is loads of punters and hookers, do you want to munch on some rug?" :):P:D

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Ok well he could tell her "a bloke down the pub nudge nudge told me about this site called Punternet, and on there Is loads of punters and hookers, do you want to munch on some rug?" B):P:D

Sigh... tut (rolls eyes) :) great bunch of help you are!

:)

Erm seriously I don't actually know either if it's a seemingly straight laced relationship. I think for something like that to work best, it should be broached early on into the relationship when both are usually a bit more willing to take a risk pleasing the other. I always think: start off as you wish to continue!

or something like that....

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I meant that the wife likes to watch me with him

Right, I'm with you. I would have called that "cuckolding of the female". "Cuckoldry" is usually used as an active word, to describe a participant. Hence the confusion, but nae bother :D

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The most satisfactory session was with my GF and a WG. I have swung with my wife but that has not worked as well. My GF knew I made websites for escorts and adult models and being an artist she enjoyed looking at the girls from an artistic point of view, lets face it women have beautiful bodies to look at, draw and photograph and even though my GF had never even kissed a girl on the lips I knew she would love to try it. Because I knew just the WG for the job (she was more lesbian than bi) I said lets book a girl for you to try. And she loved it! And said afterwards that she looks at girls a completely different way now. Its so nice to be able to discuss girls with her and appreciate how they look together. I did make damn sure my GF had a good time though. I should mention that she got a shock seeing me with the WG not something she was used to at all and at first felt very jealous then got really turned on! We spent most of the time pleasuring my GF though.

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We spent most of the time pleasuring my GF though.

I'd be curious to know something about the variety of different ways in which these sessions play themselves out. How many of the women like the attentions of partner and wg, how many want to try it with a wg and be watched by partner, how many want to watch partner with another woman...

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Yep.

And its getting more common.

We had one chap who was dragged in by his stunning missus. He looked quite awkward. I felt sorry for him... Until Lara went into the room, then I knew he'd be ok!!

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One girl I knew told me about a customer who had dragged his wife along to a session so he could get my friend to show her how to have sex. They were an indian couple and my friend thought that the wife had lead a very sheltered life regarding sex. She also said she found the seesion very difficult because the wife kept asking questions just as my friend was getting warmed up, thus killing the moment for her. My friend is a greedy girl and is normally quite vociferous in her demands to be satisfied.:D

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I used to punt fairly regularly with my now-ex gf, both during and after the relationship. She was already quite aware of how the escorting business worked as one of her friends was a stripper/escort. But she wasn't aware that I had been punting for a number of years before I met her. What started off as what was meant to be a one-off threesome ended up being a fairly regular occurence for close on 2 years.

I haven't spoken to her in awhile but the last time I did, she told me her current bf has refused to do anything like that....crazy, I know...

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I used to punt fairly regularly with my now-ex gf, both during and after the relationship. She was already quite aware of how the escorting business worked as one of her friends was a stripper/escort. But she wasn't aware that I had been punting for a number of years before I met her. What started off as what was meant to be a one-off threesome ended up being a fairly regular occurence for close on 2 years.

I haven't spoken to her in awhile but the last time I did, she told me her current bf has refused to do anything like that....crazy, I know...

There's no way on God earth I'd get my boyfriend to do it either. Never.

I think 6 years of working in brothels have cured him of almost all sauciness.

I'm still suffering though!

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i have been joined by my wife with a wg before. we used to pay them to watch as we had sex then progressed onto them doing things to my wife before moving onto full girl on girl action.

wife was happier this way than meeting a lady from swingers club etc who we could have bumped into at tesco.

No longer into this scene and she would not be best pleased if she ever found out i going solo these days.

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To me there are different class in the catergory:

1) Wife is Bi or Lesbien. If husband learns about her sexual inclination he can offer her to go to WG in joint session, since both will enjoy. This is best situation. But it can result in wife punting alone with girl in future just as husband will punt alone with girls. This situation is only seen in porn movies. Never actually known such a couple. Where wife and husband enjoy sex among themselves and also punt togather or alone but with full knowledge of each other. Great. But how many will like to have a lesbien wife or Bi-sex wife?

2) Husband and wife are swingers. Husband does not mind wife sleeping with other men and so wife also does not mind sleeping with other women. Sometimes they exchange partners or have group sex. In this case wife will not like only husband taking other women while she just watches. It is giving second grade treatment to your wife. She is entitled to have sex with men if you have sex with other women. So wife will generally not accompany husband to a WG. She has no reason to let him enjoy while she looks on.

3) Husband is dominating and forces his wife to accompany him.

4) Wife loves his husband too much and does not mind to accompany him to WG if it is giving him more pleasure. Thats what is all men want from their wives. How many will get it? Big question.

5) Wife knows in any case his husband punts and there is no way to stop him from punting. She does feel it is too big a issue to go for divorce and accepts his punting lifestyle as long as she is getting proper treatment from him. So just as courtesy she accompanies him for one or two time so he can enjoy sex with two women at a time. Atleast she is controlling him even then. This can be most likely scene all the time where we see wife going along to WG with husband.

My case:

In my case I have not had courage to ask her to come along with me to WG. I told her of 2-3 times I went to WG but told that I just had a nude massage and no sex. She knows I am lying and surely would have done more. Once in pattaya she called a massage girl for me to room and the girl was stunner. She left room for me and her and came back after 20-30 mins. I told her she only did massage to me while she was out. The girl also told my wife that sex was not allowed and she could at most provide was HR. My wife believed the girl more than me. And me, actually we did nothing except massage since my wife that room keys and though she promised she will give me 20-30 minutes I could not risk her entering room in 5 minutes and finding my cock in the WG's pussy. To much risk. But hope to have a 3 some or 4 some with 1 WG and my wife or 2 WG and my wife. It may take few more years to convince her maybe. But world survives on hope!!

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Several ladies looking to try 'girly' fun, have visited me, with their partner. As mentioned, it's a 'no threat' situation.

& also, again, the introduction to the swinging scene sometimes goes through this route - especially if you're an escort providing the 3some experience with your own partner, 'playing'.

Bet we move into the 'do many females visit female escorts' topic, soon!!

ANSWER - some do, but not enough, as far as I'm concerned!!:D

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