Mancunian Casanova

Highly unprofessional escort behaviour

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I arranged an appointment with a lady for 11am this morning but when I arrived on the designated street at the designated time and gave her a call to get her number she declined to answer the phone. I hope I am not alone in finding this behaviour highly unprofessional as well as the height of bad manners.

I set up the appointment via PM's on this site and find it bizarre that she would act in this way considering the bad publicity that will inevitably come her way. It is quite conceivable that she looked out of her window, took one look at me and thought "I'm not going anywhere near that!" but it would have been nice for her to pick up the phone and let me know. I readily concede that I am no oil painting but I am clean, polite, punctual and financially solvent.

Embarking on a wild goose chase certainly gave me an insight into what I'm sure is an occupational hazard for the ladies but I would have liked to think that I possessed sufficient imagination to accurately gauge their reaction.........extremely pissed off.

The lady in question is a fairly regular poster on this site so I am curious to see if she will have the good grace to hold her hand up.

Without getting too Phil and Kirstie about it the general area and the appearance of the houses she directed me to were on the shabby side but, in hindsight, were perfectly in keeping with her behaviour.

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Did you have any contact with her earlier today? Perhaps she's ill, or was delayed getting to your rendezvous (if she doesn't live there), or some other last-minute crisis.

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All legitimate reasons for not being there Caitlin but why not give me a call or send me a text?

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Without getting too Phil and Kirstie about it the general area and the appearance of the houses she directed me to were on the shabby side but, in hindsight, were perfectly in keeping with her behaviour.

Terraced? Link-detached? Semi-detached, Detached? Just trying to build a picture in my mind you understand.

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All legitimate reasons for not being there Caitlin but why not give me a call or send me a text?

Maybe she left her phone at home when she rushed her infant child to A&E, maybe she's a flake. Obviously, no-one knows at present - and I can see you're justifiably annoyed. I do sympathise, actually.

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I arranged an appointment with a lady for 11am this morning but when I arrived on the designated street at the designated time and gave her a call to get her number she declined to answer the phone. I hope I am not alone in finding this behaviour highly unprofessional as well as the height of bad manners.

I set up the appointment via PM's on this site and find it bizarre that she would act in this way considering the bad publicity that will inevitably come her way. It is quite conceivable that she looked out of her window, took one look at me and thought "I'm not going anywhere near that!" but it would have been nice for her to pick up the phone and let me know. I readily concede that I am no oil painting but I am clean, polite, punctual and financially solvent.

Embarking on a wild goose chase certainly gave me an insight into what I'm sure is an occupational hazard for the ladies but I would have liked to think that I possessed sufficient imagination to accurately gauge their reaction.........extremely pissed off.

The lady in question is a fairly regular poster on this site so I am curious to see if she will have the good grace to hold her hand up.

Without getting too Phil and Kirstie about it the general area and the appearance of the houses she directed me to were on the shabby side but, in hindsight, were perfectly in keeping with her behaviour.

When did you arrange the appointment, was it this morning? If it was arranged yesterday or before that did you ring this morning before setting off to hers to confirm it?

Not ringing you or texting to inform you that she cant see you is very unprofessional indeed and only if something serious has happened to her or hers can i see a reason she might not of been able to contact you.

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When did you arrange the appointment, was it this morning? If it was arranged yesterday or before that did you ring this morning before setting off to hers to confirm it?

Not ringing you or texting to inform you that she cant see you is very unprofessional indeed and only if something serious has happened to her can i see a reason she might not of been able to contact you.

Appointment was set up on Friday. I sent a text to confirm if Monday 11am was fine and got a reply in the affirmative....job done or so I thought. Did not contact her this morning before I set off but I felt no need to.

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It isn't clear that you have successfully contacted the escort concerned since this appointment should have taken place, but from your posts it seems most likely that you haven't.

Given that it is little over 3 hours since the appointment time, I think that it would be a good idea to pause before weighing in with accusations.

For that reason I am going to lock this thread until tomorrow morning. During that interlude I suggest that you try and contact the lady concerned for an explanation, whether that be by phone, text, or PM.

When the thread reopens, the discussion can then continue on a hopefully better-informed basis.

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Appointment was set up on Friday. I sent a text to confirm if Monday 11am was fine and got a reply in the affirmative....job done or so I thought. Did not contact her this morning before I set off but I felt no need to.

My advice is always confirm as you are setting out to hers. I go elsewhere if i dont get confirmation like this. In 2-3 days a lot could happen and ringing/ texting/emailing you might not be foremost in the ladies mind.

In this case i would see what she has to say and take it from there, but thats up to you of course.

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I did receive a PM from the OP, which is why the thread has been unlocked.

He has now successfully been in communication with the lady concerned, and I believe that matters are on their way to being resolved.

I shall leave it to him as to how much info he feels it sensible to disclose, and on what timescale.

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This is why guys should confirm and at the correct time too. Some chaps have said to me I'll confirm now - at the moment of booking and occasionally I've accepted that. I have found however that whenever I bend my rules like this or agree a different confirmation time a high proportion of guys simply do not turn up, or confirm at a time when I am not free to answer the phone. Similarly when they have said they don't wish to have the hassle of confirming I've had something come up myself and not been able to inform them.

So I stick to my routine. Just realised I've agreed an appointment with someone from a payphone this week - didn't realise at the time so now have no way of contacting them if something changes and I forgot to ask them to confirm. Highly unprofessional but I was distracted by something else at the time. That will teach me!

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I like to book well in advance but always expect to confirm on the morning of the day.

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I always like to book in advance, but always ring to confirm on the day.

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Nothing worse than being stood up at the last moent. All keen and eagre, and no one to pay with.

Happened to me once. She said she wanted to take up a reference on me. Why didn't she say that at the time of the booking?

She turned out to be a butch ex-squaddie. Wish I hadn't bothered to follow it up.

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I travelled around 130 miles to meet a lady I'd been wanting to meet ever since I began punting. The distance always put me off, but I had a day off work and nothing planned so we arranged to meet at 11am for 2 hours incall the following day.

I rang her before leaving home and confirmed that I was about to head off.

She directed me to a phone box and I rang her as agreed.

No answer at all. I waited 10 mins and rang again. No answer. Kept this up for an hour, but she didn't answer her phone.

Luckily I had a back up plan and headed off to meet another lady. Unfortunately, she could only meet up for an hour, and as it turned out was a totally crap punt, but at least it was something.

Headed for home and had clocked up 340 miles just for a one hour punt!

The first lady did eventually answer her email I sent upon my return home. She apologised and said the TV repair man had turned up to fix her tele...well, I heard worse excuses, but hey, it might be right. She then offered me a £10 discount on any further bookings. Sorry, but no way.

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Well, what can I say? Manc, I let you know as soon as I could,my nephew broke his arm climbing out of a tree(dont ask!). I offered you a free service too.If you would rather have the fun on here than a free shag then I know im genuine!

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So... Mancunian Casanova, tell us what happened

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I travelled around 130 miles to meet a lady I'd been wanting to meet ever since I began punting. The distance always put me off, but I had a day off work and nothing planned so we arranged to meet at 11am for 2 hours incall the following day.

I rang her before leaving home and confirmed that I was about to head off.

She directed me to a phone box and I rang her as agreed.

No answer at all. I waited 10 mins and rang again. No answer. Kept this up for an hour, but she didn't answer her phone.

Luckily I had a back up plan and headed off to meet another lady. Unfortunately, she could only meet up for an hour, and as it turned out was a totally crap punt, but at least it was something.

Headed for home and had clocked up 340 miles just for a one hour punt!

The first lady did eventually answer her email I sent upon my return home. She apologised and said the TV repair man had turned up to fix her tele...well, I heard worse excuses, but hey, it might be right. She then offered me a £10 discount on any further bookings. Sorry, but no way.

Assuming you had given her permission to ring or text you in the event of a problem she could easily have done so in this case, she could of texted virtually as soon as he arrived.

Of course if you didnt give the lady permission to ring or text thats a different matter and down to yourself IMO.

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Assuming you had given her permission to ring or text you in the event of a problem she could easily have done so in this case, she could of texted virtually as soon as he arrived.

Of course if you didnt give the lady permission to ring or text thats a different matter and down to yourself IMO

Yes, because WGs often have general policies on this, e.g. "I will never call/text you", it is essential to know who is going to contact whom should it all go tits-up :D

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Nowadays there are so many things that can go wrong, life is so much more complicated. If something goes wrong I assume something has gone wrong so I don't get upset until I have found out what happened.

I do have a two strikes and you are out policy though. Because in the past I found if someone lets you down three times in a row they are disorganised and likely to keep doing it and by reducing it to 2 strikes you avoid a lot of hassle.

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Unless you have sole custody of your nephew it is difficult to see how you could not have spared a minute for a quick call or text. You also only waited until I sent you a PM asking for an explanation before you got back to me. I appreciate the offer of a free service but a little professional courtesy would have been even nicer. Oh, and incidentally, there are a couple of ladies who regularly post on here who know that I am genuine.

Well, what can I say? Manc, I let you know as soon as I could,my nephew broke his arm climbing out of a tree(dont ask!). I offered you a free service too.If you would rather have the fun on here than a free shag then I know im genuine!

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I arranged an appointment with a lady for 11am this morning but when I arrived on the designated street at the designated time and gave her a call to get her number she declined to answer the phone. I hope I am not alone in finding this behaviour highly unprofessional as well as the height of bad manners.

I set up the appointment via PM's on this site and find it bizarre that she would act in this way considering the bad publicity that will inevitably come her way. It is quite conceivable that she looked out of her window, took one look at me and thought "I'm not going anywhere near that!" but it would have been nice for her to pick up the phone and let me know. I readily concede that I am no oil painting but I am clean, polite, punctual and financially solvent.

Embarking on a wild goose chase certainly gave me an insight into what I'm sure is an occupational hazard for the ladies but I would have liked to think that I possessed sufficient imagination to accurately gauge their reaction.........extremely pissed off.

The lady in question is a fairly regular poster on this site so I am curious to see if she will have the good grace to hold her hand up.

Without getting too Phil and Kirstie about it the general area and the appearance of the houses she directed me to were on the shabby side but, in hindsight, were perfectly in keeping with her behaviour.

I am confused, you say the lady in question is a "fairly regular poster on here", yet the one who has responded only has 2 posts :D

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I am confused, you say the lady in question is a "fairly regular poster on here", yet the one who has responded only has 2 posts :D

I noticed that too, multiple nics maybe.:)

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I noticed that too, multiple nics maybe.:D

Tarquers, you cynic :)

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I noticed that too, multiple nics maybe.:D

Join date 9 December 2008, could be that Manc meant regular lurker/reader rather than poster.

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