Caitlin

What's the appeal...

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Well, either and both, I suppose. I can kinda see the appeal of feeling really "full" for the recipient, but I don't see what the giver gets out of it. :confused:

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A girl looks behind her and says "Is that your ring i can feel?"

The guy looks up and says "No it's my watch strap".

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Good question, never seen the the point myself either, maybe for the giver it's just to be able to say he had.:confused:

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Well, either and both, I suppose. I can kinda see the appeal of feeling really "full" for the recipient, but I don't see what the giver gets out of it. :confused:

From very limited personal experience of being a 'giver' (once,many years ago, and it was an occasion when I hadn't even heard of such a thing, so I was more worried about causing pain than about what I felt)....a crunchy-boned aching mitt.

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Was just going to mention the potential of a broken wrist. Some of us do like to work out you know... :confused:

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Well, either and both, I suppose. I can kinda see the appeal of feeling really "full" for the recipient, but I don't see what the giver gets out of it. :confused:

The feel of a woman having a really good orgasm and gushing is something I, and a number of men, enjoy when we are fisting.

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OK, I can see that, it can be a powerful turn-on to excite someone that much.

(I can't see myself orgaming or gushing with a fist up me, though. Last time anyone did that, I was giving birth... :confused: )

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Only tried it the once at the prompting of an escort who specialised in it. She really seemed to enjoy it and allowed me to go quite deep. I confess I didn't get much out of it apart from the satisfaction that she was enjoying it (or faking it anway.)

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I've never really seen the attraction myself. If I was female (like I know how that feels!) I think I'd be worried about internal damage. I don't think I've ever met a lady who had the 'capacity' for it without me making her scream - and not with ecstacy!

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OK, I can see that, it can be a powerful turn-on to excite someone that much.

(I can't see myself orgaming or gushing with a fist up me, though. Last time anyone did that, I was giving birth... :eek: )

You orgasmed while giving birth? :eek:

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I've never really seen the attraction myself. If I was female (like I know how that feels!) I think I'd be worried about internal damage. I don't think I've ever met a lady who had the 'capacity' for it without me making her scream - and not with ecstacy!

Some women don't seem to like even a finger inserted yet others you can get four fingers in (mine are not the biggest lol) and rattle them around. Not sure its childbirth related either.

It sure is possible to induce an orgasm - I use 2 or 3 fingers for that - and I have a feeling that I could make most women come this way provided they relaxed and 'wanted' it.

Those that avoid fingering are for sure worried about even a minor sore or abrasion as it could stop them working for a few days. Long nails would be a complete nono and as I don't cut mine back to nothing, or bite them :eek: they are too long after being cut, for some.

However, I can report that during my last encounter with a lady I have seen a few times, having had my fingers removed in the past if I tried to insert them, during a long cuddling and stroking session i finally got 2 fingers on the spot and produced a 'magic' response. The lady concerned was very surprised!!

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Some women don't seem to like even a finger inserted yet others you can get four fingers in (mine are not the biggest lol) and rattle them around. Not sure its childbirth related either.

It sure is possible to induce an orgasm - I use 2 or 3 fingers for that - and I have a feeling that I could make most women come this way provided they relaxed and 'wanted' it.

Those that avoid fingering are for sure worried about even a minor sore or abrasion as it could stop them working for a few days. Long nails would be a complete nono and as I don't cut mine back to nothing, or bite them :eek: they are too long after being cut, for some.

However, I can report that during my last encounter with a lady I have seen a few times, having had my fingers removed in the past if I tried to insert them, during a long cuddling and stroking session i finally got 2 fingers on the spot and produced a 'magic' response. The lady concerned was very surprised!!

Just to be clear, I meant the capacity for fisting. I've got quite large hands but I've done the two-finger shuffle more than enough times!

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...of fisting?

Absolutely no appeal for me. In the past i have been asked to fist a number of ladies which out of politeness i did and as i have small hands or they had large pussies i easily got my whole fist in the pussy. The ladies have seemed to enjoy it but its not my bag.

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I think at least part of the appeal for the giver is that not all women can "take" being fisted. I know I can't! Novelty can go a long way.

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You orgasmed while giving birth? :eek:

It's a very powerful experience, Vin. :eek:

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there is one lady in ayrshire who i visit and she loves being fisted. she is a larger lady and can take my fist easily once lubed up.

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Never tried it, I would be too tempted to break into a ventriolquist act or put on a zippy voice ...... and duely getting a fist of my own from the good lady!!!:eek:

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You orgasmed while giving birth? :eek:
It's a very powerful experience, Vin. :eek:

But not one that Tarquin would like to witness. :)

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You can make a girl (some girls) squirt using just 2 fingers inserted. You just got to find the right girl and the correct technique. I see no appeal whatsoever in fisting, and I would imagine there are not too many girls who are up for trying it.

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