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Giving Regulars Their Marching Orders

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Question for the ladies, have you ever had to give a trusted regular his marching orders?.

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Oh yes. I had one get very obsessive. At the very last booking he announced all the plans he'd been cooking up for "us." That was some creepy shit. And I don't do scared.

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Oh yes. I had one get very obsessive.........

Obsessive possesive .......Off you go my little friend with your "money can buy me anything" philosophy.

Its so liberating when you can walk away from someone possesive who thinks money is everything and they can buy you all.

All part of the job.

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Once but he decided that as he saw me once a week we should now be doing it without a condom as we 'can trust eachother' I would explain to him that no matter what I wouldnt be willing... So he tried the whole slipping the condom off whilst changing positions trick, I refused to see him again he was a nice guy but obsessed with the condom thing.

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Question for the ladies, have you ever had to give a trusted regular his marching orders?.

Absolutely - twice. They fell in love, became jealous and possessive - and that's absolutely not on. Not an easy situation to handle but the cut has to be clean and absolute.

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Once but he decided that as he saw me once a week we should now be doing it without a condom as we 'can trust eachother' I would explain to him that no matter what I wouldnt be willing... So he tried the whole slipping the condom off whilst changing positions trick, I refused to see him again he was a nice guy but obsessed with the condom thing.

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He doesnt sound like a nice guy to me Crystal, trying to persuade you to let him do BB with you, then when you say no way jose, he tries to do it anyway.

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I know this is a question for the ladies, but I had to say no more to one of my regular ladies a few years ago......

I had seen her many times in a parlour, and also had booked her for overnights, and things were going well between us, but then she changed parlours, went from one of my favourite ones to a parlour which I would never set foot in, the lady was aware what I thought about the place, and had shared tales about the place to make her wary of the place also.

Booking time with this lady again is certainly out of the question....wherever she was working, or as an indie.

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He doesnt sound like a nice guy to me Crystal, trying to persuade you to let him do BB with you, then when you say no way jose, he tries to do it anyway.

You're right Smiths :D

He would have got a punch on the nose and booted right out :)

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i dont think its right because most of you entice then man to come back like saying

"Oh i really enjoyed our time i really want to see you again"

"i miss you already come back soon"

" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

before you leave the front door "kiss me baby before you go dont be long i wont be here long"

as you can see this just a tip of the ice berg yet you entice a man to come back then when he has fallen in love piss off you barstard you scare me lol

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i dont think its right because most of you entice then man to come back like saying

"Oh i really enjoyed our time i really want to see you again"

"i miss you already come back soon"

" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

before you leave the front door "kiss me baby before you go dont be long i wont be here long"

as you can see this just a tip of the ice berg yet you entice a man to come back then when he has fallen in love piss off you barstard you scare me lol

Eh :)

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i dont think its right because most of you entice then man to come back like saying

"Oh i really enjoyed our time i really want to see you again"

"i miss you already come back soon"

" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

before you leave the front door "kiss me baby before you go dont be long i wont be here long"

as you can see this just a tip of the ice berg yet you entice a man to come back then when he has fallen in love piss off you barstard you scare me lol

I don't do any of the above thank you very much. If someone wants to come back, they are welcome to, but I don't use bullshit to get people to return.

In fact only this week I had to have a word with one chap who started to visit me recently. Some weeks he's been coming to see me twice and he was starting to get that 'loved up look' in his eyes.

An obsessed client is the worst nightmare for a prossy. I am sure there are plenty of girls out there who would use that to their advantage, but please don't assume we are all like that.

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i dont think its right because most of you entice then man to come back like saying

"Oh i really enjoyed our time i really want to see you again"

"i miss you already come back soon"

" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

before you leave the front door "kiss me baby before you go dont be long i wont be here long"

It's a performance; if they said as you were leaving that they don't care if they never saw you again, how would that be?

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Question for the ladies, have you ever had to give a trusted regular his marching orders?.

Yes I have done so to a few for the following reasons:

1. One was getting loved up and wanted to get into my personal life.

2. Another developed a drug habit and started bringing substances with him to bookings. He was horrified that in his own words he was being "blown out by brass"!. I gave him the option of course saying I would be happy to see him minus his supplies but sadly his dependancy was stronger then his lust for me!

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i dont think its right because most of you entice then man to come back like saying

"Oh i really enjoyed our time i really want to see you again"

"i miss you already come back soon"

" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

before you leave the front door "kiss me baby before you go dont be long i wont be here long"

as you can see this just a tip of the ice berg yet you entice a man to come back then when he has fallen in love piss off you barstard you scare me lol

Look excuse me but unless I am under some kind of illusion or false reality - an escort is NOT (and never - ever) a dating service with a price tag. It's sex for money. Full stop. End of story.

If you want to fall in love and life happily ever after, go and get yourself a mail order bride.

Just because I tell someone I enjoy their company does NOT mean I'd like to marry them.

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" Did you miss me or my money no i missed you really baby i love you for you not your money "

Not even for a few quid more would a wg say that she loves you.

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Not even for a few quid more would a wg say that she loves you.

Some do Kenny. I have been told by one WG that she loves me. :D

Another said she fancied me because I reminded her of a guy that worked in Tesco. :)

Justagirl: Look, excuse me, but unless I am under some kind of illusion or false reality - an escort is NOT (and never - ever) a dating service with a price tag. It's sex for money. Full stop. End of story.

My personal view is similar to yours. However, in reality, some girls do blurr the line. Some guys blurr the line. You'll find many threads in the archives which are testament to the wonderful relationships that can blossom from the paid-sex arena.

For some guys and gals, it is the last thing we want to happen. But good luck to those who find their soul mate. It's a short life, so I wish them all the happiness they desire.

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Some do Kenny. I have been told by one WG that she loves me.

*can-of-worms-time*

One swallow does not make a summer, TB

I would hazard a guess that the wg you mention has had her fill of the "industry" and you ended up in the wrong place at the wrong time :)

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Some do Kenny. I have been told by one WG that she loves me. :D

Another said she fancied me because I reminded her of a guy that worked in Tesco. :)

My personal view is similar to yours. However, in reality, some girls do blurr the line. Some guys blurr the line. You'll find many threads in the archives which are testament to the wonderful relationships that can blossom from the paid-sex arena.

For some guys and gals, it is the last thing we want to happen. But good luck to those who find their soul mate. It's a short life, so I wish them all the happiness they desire.

The odds are stacked against it happening but your quite right, threads on here show relationships do occur with two posters getting together from here that i know about. Good luck to them.:)

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While I've never been confused at blurring the line between a relationship and a commercial arrangement some WGs I swear I've become friends with. When something happens in my life I sometimes think "can't wait to tell Ms. WG" and we lend each other movies and stuff. But I think I've always gone to responsible WGs, I'm sure some can string you along.

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works both ways

one two occasions Ive been asked by WG if Id like to go see a film with her (ie pictures) and another asked if we could go on a weekend break share costs etc

I dropped both like a stone

Oh i also had a rather illiterate single mum get obsessive as in ask me to sort out her other life problems all the miscellaneous stuff

I admit I kept seeing her even though I helped her sort out her minor life issues simply cos she was an amazing you know what

In the end it got like I was an item with her and I made an excuse and stopped seeing her.

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I have fairly often over a long time become friendly with wgs to the extent of seeing them outside work and knowing their private lives.

But I simply treated them as friends with no romantic element which is certainly what they also expected so it was fine.

I like to think the girls I have become really fond of who have disappeared simply moved on in their lives and I was ready for that; but none with outside friendship have just cut me off without a word so far, thankfully.

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