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On a thread since deleted, I was surprised at some reactions to what I considered was an 'acceptable' thing to do.

Just to get this out of the way, in no way am I a 'fluffy' but I do realize there is a human on the other side of the transaction doing some personal stuff. I'd like to think I treat other people reasonably and hope if it is reciprocated. I also realize there are some posters that think we can do pretty much what we like, I do not think like that :D

As long as it isn't otherwise advertised or stated pre-punt, it is frowned upon if the guys cum frequently in a short appt, for example thrice in an hour? Is it one of those rules of thumb that it should only really be twice max. If a guy did want more than twice, would you think 'well, he's a bit of a git really I hope he doesn't come back to see me again'?

I had a 45 min punt where I could have done three, but I thought the bl was sorta 'we're done' even though I had time left, perhaps as that is enough for most chaps, not sure.

I would like to know, definitively please, as I'm not really a git :)

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On a thread since deleted, I was surprised at some reactions to what I considered was an 'acceptable' thing to do.

Just to get this out of the way, in no way am I a 'fluffy' but I do realize there is a human on the other side of the transaction doing some personal stuff. I'd like to think I treat other people reasonably and hope if it is reciprocated. I also realize there are some posters that think we can do pretty much what we like, I do not think like that :D

As long as it isn't otherwise advertised or stated pre-punt, it is frowned upon if the guys cum frequently in a short appt, for example thrice in an hour? Is it one of those rules of thumb that it should only really be twice max. If a guy did want more than twice, would you think 'well, he's a bit of a git really I hope he doesn't come back to see me again'?

I had a 45 min punt where I could have done three, but I thought the bl was sorta 'we're done' even though I had time left, perhaps as that is enough for most chaps, not sure.

I would like to know, definitively please, as I'm not really a git :)

It certainly isnt the norm in my experience, but always confirm this with the lady is my advice when booking. I have found some EE ladies do have a come twice in an hour policy but its not mentioned anywhere on their profiles.

Most ladies i punt with do not impose any restrictions on this, and if it were the norm to have a maximum two pops in an hour i would be leaving my punts a frustrated guy.

What ladies have told me is most of their punters dont pop more than 2-3 times in the hour.:)

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On a thread since deleted, I was surprised at some reactions to what I considered was an 'acceptable' thing to do.

Just to get this out of the way, in no way am I a 'fluffy' but I do realize there is a human on the other side of the transaction doing some personal stuff. I'd like to think I treat other people reasonably and hope if it is reciprocated. I also realize there are some posters that think we can do pretty much what we like, I do not think like that :D

As long as it isn't otherwise advertised or stated pre-punt, it is frowned upon if the guys cum frequently in a short appt, for example thrice in an hour? Is it one of those rules of thumb that it should only really be twice max. If a guy did want more than twice, would you think 'well, he's a bit of a git really I hope he doesn't come back to see me again'?

I had a 45 min punt where I could have done three, but I thought the bl was sorta 'we're done' even though I had time left, perhaps as that is enough for most chaps, not sure.

I would like to know, definitively please, as I'm not really a git :)

I can only speak for myself. Every girl is different so I'm not sure there is such a thing such a "rule of thumb". What goes for one, is likely to offend another. In essence I don't believe that it's the client's right to do whatever he'd like to. In most cases it's clear what a lady offers. But I can understand that frustration & disappointment sets in when she doesn't deliver accordingly. Just ask if it's unclear.

Anyone choosing to see me, knows exactly what I enjoy (and enjoying doing with my partner in crime) and I've never had anyone insist on anything outside of that. That said, I'm always open to suggestions - trying something new and exploring fantasies. And as such I wouldn't want to curb anyone's enjoyment or put restrictions on anything. It's about mutual respect and enjoyment in my opinion.

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I can only speak for myself. Every girl is different so I'm not sure there is such a thing such a "rule of thumb". What goes for one, is likely to offend another. In essence I don't believe that it's the client's right to do whatever he'd like to. In most cases it's clear what a lady offers. But I can understand that frustration & disappointment sets in when she doesn't deliver accordingly. Just ask if it's unclear.

Anyone choosing to see me, knows exactly what I enjoy (and enjoying doing with my partner in crime) and I've never had anyone insist on anything outside of that. That said, I'm always open to suggestions - trying something new and exploring fantasies. And as such I wouldn't want to curb anyone's enjoyment or put restrictions on anything. It's about mutual respect and enjoyment in my opinion.

Some girls state their policy on their profile but usually they are simply saying that there is no "artificial" you can only come once policy...to extract an additional payment.

If you want to come three times, I would book an hour to avoid appearing to take advantage of the girl. 45 minutes may appear mean, especially if there is a risk that you may overrun.

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Perhaps it was because the thread was getting a little heated but iirc at least a couple of the ladies disagreed with my opinion that a punter ought to be able to carry on until his time is up ( assuming he hasn't done anything wrong ).

There's no rule book with this so pretty much learning on the job. A couple of times I've been asked if I want a shower (before time) and I've took this as ';):D that's your lot buddy' :)

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Some girls state their policy on their profile but usually they are simply saying that there is no "artificial" you can only come once policy...to extract an additional payment.

If you want to come three times, I would book an hour to avoid appearing to take advantage of the girl. 45 minutes may appear mean, especially if there is a risk that you may overrun.

Jack

The whole "£10 for this or £20 for that" is a thing I personally find distasteful and crude. I can only imagine a guy puckering up for a little kiss on the lips to swiftly be warned "that'll be an extra tenner".

Feels a bit like a McDonald's drive through scenario where you pick the bits you like. But hey, each to their own and whatever works for them.

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Some girls state their policy on their profile but usually they are simply saying that there is no "artificial" you can only come once policy...to extract an additional payment.

If you want to come three times, I would book an hour to avoid appearing to take advantage of the girl. 45 minutes may appear mean, especially if there is a risk that you may overrun.

Jack

With the 45 min one I was only intending twice, but she was pretty good :)

That's why I ask really, on occasions such as this, is three times taking the biscuit? (assuming no overtime)

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The whole "£10 for this or £20 for that" is a thing I personally find distasteful and crude. I can only imagine a guy puckering up for a little kiss on the lips to swiftly be warned "that'll be an extra tenner".

Feels a bit like a McDonald's drive through scenario where you pick the bits you like. But hey, each to their own and whatever works for them.

I certainly agree with you, especially when you were quoted an all-in price when booking. At a punt last year i had confirmed price and services on the phone, when i got to hers everything was extra apart from penetrative sex, i decided to walk but before i told her this i asked to use her toilet, she said no problem, thats £10. I declined and left.:)

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The whole "£10 for this or £20 for that" is a thing I personally find distasteful and crude. I can only imagine a guy puckering up for a little kiss on the lips to swiftly be warned "that'll be an extra tenner".

Feels a bit like a McDonald's drive through scenario where you pick the bits you like. But hey, each to their own and whatever works for them.

There's two ways to look at the that. If she does specialist services that I'm not interested in, I don't want to be paying for them any way. Whether kissing is a specialist service or not, well that's probably a separate thread :)

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I certainly agree with you, especially when you were quoted an all-in price when booking. At a punt last year i had confirmed price and services on the phone, when i got to hers everything was extra apart from penetrative sex, i decided to walk but before i told her this i asked to use her toilet, she said no problem, thats £10. I declined and left.:D

No thrills punting :)

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With the 45 min one I was only intending twice, but she was pretty good :)

That's why I ask really, on occasions such as this, is three times taking the biscuit? (assuming no overtime)

Depends on what was originally agreed, if nothing was agreed i would ask her if its ok.:D

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No thrills punting :)

It certainly was, luckily a lady i had punted with before was available.:D;)

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It certainly was, luckily a lady i had punted with before was available.:);)

You show commendable willpower to be able to walk on such occasions, or excellent planning at least. Fortunately I've not had any situations where I've needed to consider it as yet.

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You show commendable willpower to be able to walk on such occasions, or excellent planning at least. Fortunately I've not had any situations where I've needed to consider it as yet.

I never think with my little brain in those situations anymore, having options makes the walking out easy. Its those rare ocassions where its after you hand the money over and the lady backtracks on what was agreed immediately before i handed the money over that are more annoying. Thats a chalk it down to experience scenario.:)

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Perhaps it was because the thread was getting a little heated but iirc at least a couple of the ladies disagreed with my opinion that a punter ought to be able to carry on until his time is up ( assuming he hasn't done anything wrong ).

After two cums a lady has given her all to give a client, he ought to be able to get her to carry and give him another if she hasn't already offered, even if she is reluctant or needs to be talked into it ? Technically he has indeed done nothing wrong, but when does he start to ?

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After two cums a lady has given her all to give you, you ought to be able to get her to carry and give you another if she hasn't already offered, even if she is reluctant or needs to be talked into it. Technically you have indeed done nothing wrong.

If she is reluctant or needs to be talked into it i wouldnt be interested in doing it. Its crucial for me that the lady is enthusiastic or at least seemingly so.:)

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Indeed that's the decent thing Smiths, flattering and commendable to all those who are as understanding of the woman they're with.

Sorry Thoroughbred if this 'ought' comment is not entirely how you are, I'm not familiar enough with your posts to know how you are with the ladies you visit, but I've picked up on your use of the word ....The bit that seems to stick in the throat, unable to be revealed as it would be so frowned upon... is simply saying instead... I've paid to, so I should be able to.

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After two cums a lady has given her all to give a client, he ought to be able to get her to carry and give him another if she hasn't already offered, even if she is reluctant or needs to be talked into it ? Technically he has indeed done nothing wrong, but when does he start to ?

Well, yes that's kinda what I'm trying to find out. Is asking me if I want a shower the hint to say that's enough? The first time, I thought it may have been because I was sweaty!

I'm not interested in forcing anyone, that would bother me greatly if she felt that. WG's often act don't they so it might not be immediately clear that they are not happy, they could just be trying to be subtle. If I'm especially randy (lol) I may only last a few minutes the first round, I'm not talking about hard pumping for an hour solid (not that I could even do that if I wanted!). I just seem to require very little recovery time.

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OK, I'm confused. Your attitude seems perfectly respectable, so how did you phrase your 'ought to be able to carry on until his time is up' comment that got objections ?

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OK, I'm confused. Your attitude seems perfectly respectable, so how did you phrase your 'ought to be able to carry on until his time is up' comment that got objections ?

I'm not sure how cool it is to repeat stuff from a lifted thread, but I got involved in a discussion on a thread about a guy who had arranged a punt for what seemed a very low price. I was saying that once it had been agreed by the lady it was not his fault that he expected to get what was arranged. I think there may be a slight question of semantics here, words like expect and ought are the best way I can think of phrasing the scenario. If I book an hour, I'm 'anticipating' an hour's 'action'. During which there may be gaps of course. My last punt was an hour massage, I even offered her a break to rest her hands, which she actually declined :)

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My take has always been that escorts are paid for time rather than content of said time. Some clients are more demanding than others, but it all comes out even. I don't like the idea of a mixed system, and yet a lot of clients tell me that this is rapidly becoming the way of things. I suppose the only thing one can do is ask beforehand.

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If you can get it up more than once then I am happy to do seconds thirds fourths and fiths...

But it's a rare man who can accomplish more than once... even in an hour.

I have no problem with a client having his wicked way more than once as long as it's done in a polite respectful manner and he pre-heats the oven before diving in.

I think what gets on most WG's nerves is the fact that a lot of clients think that round two or three doesn't need foreplay, that we are ready just to jump on top of...

Sorry boys but you have to put in some leg work in order to reap the rewards.

Round one does not act as foreplay for round two...

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now old enough to compete in the G class Masters in my other sport, one good one is all I ask, but the lady has to be knowledgable enough to fully occupy the time up to the vinegar strokes with delicious sensation

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I'm not sure how cool it is to repeat stuff from a lifted thread, but I got involved in a discussion on a thread about a guy who had arranged a punt for what seemed a very low price. I was saying that once it had been agreed by the lady it was not his fault that he expected to get what was arranged. I think there may be a slight question of semantics here, words like expect and ought are the best way I can think of phrasing the scenario. If I book an hour, I'm 'anticipating' an hour's 'action'. During which there may be gaps of course. My last punt was an hour massage, I even offered her a break to rest her hands, which she actually declined :D

I dont recall the guy on this thread mentioning anywhere that he had discussed how many times he could come with the lady ,he discussed cim,owo and was annoyed at the use of a condom,but he may have stunk to high hell and have a pussy cock,in which case she would have been entitled to refuse pre-arranged services.I think how many times a guy can come depends on how i have been treated,if i have been ragged solid for 25 mins,then again for another 25mins then i probably wouldnt let him come again,it would be massage,shower,out.If he had come very quickly two times or not been overly frantic and energetic then i would allow him to come again....if he could.

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