Autumn Temptation

Being ill

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Just wondered and wanted to ask the gents,

If you get to an appointment and the girl clearly has a cold and her services state DFK which you were looking forward to, would it bother you if she said..

I'm not offering DFK due to my cold however if you are happy to take the risk I am happy to kiss.

All this of course is on the hypothetical that the rest of the punt will be a good service.

Would it bother you, to kiss?

Would you opt out of the service?

Would you walk and come back another day?

Would you abandon yourself to her lips and still be fine with it?

Thanks

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It is well known most cold virus' are transmitted in the air we breathe as well as contact with surfaces such as door handles etc - so just being in the same room or close proximity is enough. From that I've decided that DFK poses the same risk as lying with someone.

So I always inform the client at time of confirmation I have a cold and then give them the option of whether or not to go ahead.

Most of the time they do wish to still see me. For me then I have no problem as long as the guy feels well enough. I'm a firm believer you are as likely to catch a cold from meeting a friend in a cafe, as kissing someone. Colds are something we all get and building up immunity isn't a bad thing, you can't avoid it.

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It is well known most cold virus' are transmitted in the air we breathe as well as contact with surfaces such as door handles etc - so just being in the same room or close proximity is enough. From that I've decided that DFK poses the same risk as lying with someone.

So I always inform the client at time of confirmation I have a cold and then give them the option of whether or not to go ahead.

Most of the time they do wish to still see me. For me then I have no problem as long as the guy feels well enough. I'm a firm believer you are as likely to catch a cold from meeting a friend in a cafe, as kissing someone. Colds are something we all get and building up immunity isn't a bad thing, you can't avoid it.

Thanks hun x :confused:

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Just a cold?

Lol, of course I would still visit the W/G- because I travel.

As Strawberry said you can get them by touching surfaces such as door handles, elevator buttons, shaking hands with someone, breathing in air from a passer by, indoors or outdoors etc.

And just because you're kissing someone doesn't mean you'll necessarily catch a cold.

Maybe a sore throat that dissappears the next day- depends on your immune system.

I remember being at work when everyone was bringing swine flu into the office. Everyone got sick and went home- I stayed- and despite staggered symptoms I was back to normal within 5 days.

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Just a cold?

Of course just a cold, I asked the question because I have a head cold at the moment, fuzzy head, runny nose, sneezing, but no sore throat and nothing else,

mind you runny noses are the worst.

Anyway I didn't have it yesterday and I am working tommorrow which caused me to make a choice,

Do I call in sick, or do I go to work and give my clients the option?

Since I don't feel bad other than annoyed at the darned runny nose, I figure I will go in and just say hey, I have a cold the choice is yours.

Sorry if I didn't make it plain. i blame the fuzzy head for lack of clear thinking lol

I wouldn't work if I thought something else was going on, or if I had something worse than a head cold.

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Just wondered and wanted to ask the gents,

If you get to an appointment and the girl clearly has a cold and her services state DFK which you were looking forward to, would it bother you if she said..

I'm not offering DFK due to my cold however if you are happy to take the risk I am happy to kiss.

All this of course is on the hypothetical that the rest of the punt will be a good service.

Would it bother you, to kiss?

Would you opt out of the service?

Would you walk and come back another day?

Would you abandon yourself to her lips and still be fine with it?

Thanks

As i always confirm before setting off i would expect the lady to tell me she had a cold because as its essential to me i would have already established with her that i required DFK.

If i got to hers to find her with a cold i would leave.

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I had a client ask me if he minded me coming as he had a cold. I didn't mind as like others have said, you could catch anywhere. But l thought it was nice and considerate that he asked.

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what about clients/ladies with cold sores! ? sorry i alwasy think of strange things !

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As i always confirm before setting off i would expect the lady to tell me she had a cold because as its essential to me i would have already established with her that i required DFK.

If i got to hers to find her with a cold i would leave.

Thanks for the honest and frank reply Smiths :confused:

I had a client ask me if he minded me coming as he had a cold. I didn't mind as like others have said, you could catch anywhere. But l thought it was nice and considerate that he asked.

It's nice when that happens as well, i suppose it's a two way street, so should include ladies thoughts on clients with colds.

what about clients/ladies with cold sores! ? sorry i alwasy think of strange things !

My question was about colds only Jazzy, coldsores have been done on the STD threads... and since it's more common to catch a cold from anywhere I was really looking for the thoughts on that, as a punter would have more explaining to do with a coldsore or STD with the wife/GF if she didn't have one, where as a cold can be picked up on a bus.

I wouldn't work if I had a coldsore, and I have never had one either, I have kissed and drunk out of the same glass as someone who has had one, and never gotten it.

I believe that there is proof that some people are immune to the coldsore virus, along with other viruses and diseses, I believe they are called carriers.

I wouldn't work with anything more serious than a head cold, which this is... as having had flu i was to sore and achy to work anyway, but this is just a runny nose and sneezes...

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I agree with the comments made, that if the lady is comfertable with the equation then, so would I.

I am fortunate that I am of age that gets an anti flu jab each year, so tend not to get colds at all, and would not hesitate to spend time with a escort I had booked if she had a cold.

I would not of course try to tell Paradisegirl22 if she should go in to work on friday, as that choice is hers and hers alone, but I would be more than happy to abandon myself to her lips..:confused:

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Just to add if I have a cold I that doesn't rule out deep kissing at all, there are still ways to do it! I'm more concerned the guy won't want to be involved with me - so I place the ball in his court.

When I have tonsilitis. Well you can definitely clear off, it's not just a sort throat nor bad cold as some would make out!

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I agree with the comments made, that if the lady is comfertable with the equation then, so would I.

I am fortunate that I am of age that gets an anti flu jab each year, so tend not to get colds at all, and would not hesitate to spend time with a escort I had booked if she had a cold.

I would not of course try to tell Paradisegirl22 if she should go in to work on friday, as that choice is hers and hers alone, but I would be more than happy to abandon myself to her lips..:confused:

Oh I will go to work as I said I would be there and I don't like to let people down, I will deffo be giving my clients the choice, as it's only right...

So unless something drastic pops up, and by that I mean (childcare issues) I always honor my commitments.

Kids always throw spanners in the works for everyone :mad:

sorry i didnt mean to go off topic.

Feel free, as long as you don't mind me policing the thread (joke) we could do strip searches, hahaha sorry totally off topic :(

Just to add if I have a cold I that doesn't rule out deep kissing at all, there are still ways to do it! I'm more concerned the guy won't want to be involved with me - so I place the ball in his court.

When I have tonsilitis. Well you can definitely clear off, it's not just a sort throat nor bad cold as some would make out!

I agree, I tried that once with a BF, had tonsilitis and tried a BJ well lets just say it wasn't pretty, and it wasn't nice, but these things have to be tried once to get any experience.

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.... so I place the ball in his court.

...

is that extra?

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I would not see a WG if I had a cold. well it would be a distraction.

but if the wg had a 'bit of a cold', OK, but if clearly ill (Flushed, runny eyes and nose, sneezing), then no.

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If she has a cold then i would take Vick to rub her chest and night and day nurse. Cold Sores sorry different game Cold sores whether we like it or not are Herpes so in that case I would leave the medicines and make my polite apologises and leave:o

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I'd pass, and see the girl another time. Mainly as I have an incredibly rubbish immune system (I've had loads of tests and the Doctor's don't know why) and so kissing a girl with a cold would guarantee that I'd get it.

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years ago i saw a lady who was just getting over a cold, had a fantastic time, dfk, bj and my first experience of A-levels

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Well.......

Ear Nose Throat J. 1994 Sep;73(9):639-43, 46-7

Literature review: the common cold.

Hilding DA.

Most colds are caused by rhinovirus infection, perhaps facilitated by chilling or stress. Virus infection begins in the nasopharynx and causes spotty destruction of the nasal ciliated epithelium. Transmission occurs chiefly via droplets of various sizes transported through the air, but some types of virus persist in moist secretions on handled objects and may retain their infectiousness. Living in crowded, poorly-ventilated quarters facilitates transmission. Not many virus particles survive in saliva and it is difficult to infect via the lips or mouth. Kissing does not efficiently spread cold infection. Prophylactic treatment with interferon does not protect against cold infection. Aspirin and acetaminophen reduced serum antibody response and increased nasal symptoms in a controlled Australian study. The combination of intranasal interferon and ipratropium with oral naproxen gave promising results in experimental rhinovirus inoculation. Basically, there has been little or no progress towards effective cold treatment in the past century

In other words, kissing is safe, but you might pass the on the cold by sneezing over each other...

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I'd pass, and see the girl another time. Mainly as I have an incredibly rubbish immune system (I've had loads of tests and the Doctor's don't know why) and so kissing a girl with a cold would guarantee that I'd get it.

not necessarily through kissing if she had been coughing or sneezing the spores of the virus would be in the air (unless every window in the house had been opened n the place disinfectant) also most viruses u would catch through ur eyes as they are water based n the weakest part n its not something people cover up

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From what I understand, a person can be infected with the cold virus a few days before the sneezing, sore throats, headaches etc, begin.

The symptoms of a cold, as in the above, are caused by our own bodies fighting the infection.

Any doctors on here to clarify that?

Anyway, no I would never visit a lady who had a cold, and would never visit if I had a cold.

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I would probably leave. Not because I might have a chance of catching a cold but rather I wouldn't feel that the girl was likely to be at her best and may possibly be tired which in my experience makes it more likely to have a disappointing punt.

I've cancelled appointments because I've had a cold and didn't think it worthwhile as I wasn't at my best - I'd rather save the money when I was fighting fit and firiing on all cyclinders as it were.

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Honestly is always best policy. I always disclose at time of booking if something changes, if anything changes on the day I notify straight away to let them know then it is their choice.

That way no-one can complain.

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my view is that if you are not well then why the hell do you want me poking and prodding you around?

I would suggest that you stay at home and get yourself better. I would be happy to re-schedule and see you at another time when you are feeling better.

I know, Paradise is a true professional and will not want to let clients down, but it cant be nice for you and as hard as you will try you wont be your normal self - and quite understandably too.

I have had this happen to me before, the girl cancelled - it part of life. I got to see her a few days later when she was better and to this day it is still one of my more memorable meetings I have had. All's not lost and I am sure your clients will understand - if they dont they are too narrow minded.

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my view is that if you are not well then why the hell do you want me poking and prodding you around?

I would suggest that you stay at home and get yourself better. I would be happy to re-schedule and see you at another time when you are feeling better.

I know, Paradise is a true professional and will not want to let clients down, but it cant be nice for you and as hard as you will try you wont be your normal self - and quite understandably too.

I have had this happen to me before, the girl cancelled - it part of life. I got to see her a few days later when she was better and to this day it is still one of my more memorable meetings I have had. All's not lost and I am sure your clients will understand - if they dont they are too narrow minded.

What makes you think that having a head cold automatically makes me feel crap and not want to have sex?

I have been ill and still been horny as hell, and being ill means you don't get that release.

I never said my clients, or my boss wouldn't understand hun, I was asking if the clients minded?

If I feel well enough to be poked and prodded with the odd sniffle or sneeze in between why shouldn't I?

It's a bit of a moot point as I wasn't in work today due to unforseen circumstances, but why can't you work when ill if you want to...

As I said in the first post, if everything else was still a good service would it put you off?

But thanks for the concern it's nice that you care robbie x :)

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