Joe Diddley

Indexed records of clients likes and dislikes

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I was wondering how many WGs out there keep records of the preferences and dislikes of their clients (perhaps in card index rather than computerised form to circumvent the Data Protection Act!). This would enable her to ensure that she is properly prepared for that booking who has been before but not frequently or recently enough to make his particular peccadillos stick in the mind thus obviating the need for such potentially embarrassing questions as 'isn't it you who's into felching?'.

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paper records are covered by the data protection act...

all records are covered by the dpa :)

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I was wondering how many WGs out there keep records of the preferences and dislikes of their clients (perhaps in card index rather than computerised form to circumvent the Data Protection Act!). This would enable her to ensure that she is properly prepared for that booking who has been before but not frequently or recently enough to make his particular peccadillos stick in the mind thus obviating the need for such potentially embarrassing questions as 'isn't it you who's into felching?'.

A card index would not circumvent the data protection act as it applies to any records in an organised filing system.

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I'm sure you're right guys. I was really interested in what kinds of ways WGs remember the requirements of their punters and what they need to avoid.

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Many years ago I visited Barbie of West London regularly (she called herself something different in those days).

She kept records, and could tell you the last date you visited and how much you paid. Not sure what else she kept a record of.

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Many years ago I visited Barbie of West London regularly (she called herself something different in those days).

She kept records, and could tell you the last date you visited and how much you paid. Not sure what else she kept a record of.

Wow - bit anal...

Bada-bing. I'm here all week.

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No,i wouldnt ever keep details,sometimes i think that perhaps i should,perhaps its more professional to know who is turning up and what they like,but then i do something silly like loose my work phone charger and i think,omg,no,i would just loose all the guys details somewhere.x

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I keep a pretty detailed database of the ladies I visit - dates, times, places, costs, extras, what went well, not so well, etc.

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I keep a pretty detailed database of the ladies I visit - dates, times, places, costs, extras, what went well, not so well, etc.

Something must be seriously wrong with your memory, if you can not remember above.

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No,i wouldnt ever keep details,sometimes i think that perhaps i should,perhaps its more professional to know who is turning up and what they like,but then i do something silly like loose my work phone charger and i think,omg,no,i would just loose all the guys details somewhere.x

Chloe, can you explain it please: why loosing the "work phone charger" make you to lose guys details? :) Especially when you said in your first sentence: No,i wouldnt ever keep details.

Sorry to ask, but I am honestly can not understand it.

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Something must be seriously wrong with your memory, if you can not remember above.

Oh I don't know, over the last fifteen years I'm sure I've forgotten about the odd punt or two. Though it's more likely that it's just been a very average one, as the fantastic or awful ones are those which stick in your mind.

I don't keep a record, other than the 33 fr's I've written, but have easily punted 4 or 5 times that amount. I've always been impressed by the girls who remember you though, even if it's been over a year since I last saw them, and refer back to conversations you had with them then. That said I've had the complete opposite of course, where a lass hasn't remembered that I saw them at all six months back...Which is fair enough walk-up and parlour wise, especially if they see a lot of men every day.

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Oh I don't know, over the last fifteen years I'm sure I've forgotten about the odd punt or two. Though it's more likely that it's just been a very average one, as the fantastic or awful ones are those which stick in your mind.

I don't keep a record, other than the 33 fr's I've written, but have easily punted 4 or 5 times that amount. I've always been impressed by the girls who remember you though, even if it's been over a year since I last saw them, and refer back to conversations you had with them then. That said I've had the complete opposite of course, where a lass hasn't remembered that I saw them at all six months back...Which is fair enough walk-up and parlour wise, especially if they see a lot of men every day.

Indeed. I can remember memorable punts from many years ago but not some from quite recent times. My memory isnt the best though. I find certain things come and go.

I once punted with a lady 121 and saw her at another location 10 years later, i didnt remember her, but she remembered me and i had only punted with her once.:o

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Oh I don't know, over the last fifteen years I'm sure I've forgotten about the odd punt or two. Though it's more likely that it's just been a very average one, as the fantastic or awful ones are those which stick in your mind.

I am sure that applies to everybody.

The point of my reply to Billseye was: why he keeps the detailed records of all punts? What the purpose of it?

If her had a memorable punts for whatever reasons, surely he will remember it anyway.

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I once started a database of clients, times, amounts, likes etc. It lasted for about 6 weeks but to be honest, I couldn't be arsed. And it felt very strange to have all those details there.

I often don't remember who people are until I see them, then I know what they like - a good memory for faces but not much else.

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Something must be seriously wrong with your memory, if you can not remember above.

Xenia, you are just far more intelligent than the average punter.

Why anyone would keep notes "beats" me. As Gertrude Stein said on an entirely different subject, a f**k is a f**k is a f**k and as far as I'm concerned if it's memorable, I just keep going back.

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Only one I know for certain kept good records was a Dom.

She interviewed brfore starting the first sesh you make absolutely sure she had it right and each client had reference no that had to be quoted on booking.

I often wondered what would happen if the figures were transposed and a guy up for T & T & mild dom gave the number for a guy looking for a severe thrashing.

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Something must be seriously wrong with your memory, if you can not remember above.

this isnt a memory thing, its something to mull over, something to savour, its for the quiet moments, the middle of the night moments, you know what i mean ?

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This one is very interesting as I've had guys disappointed I've not remembered what they like after just 1 x 1 hour or a 2 hour appointment at least 1 month ago. It was mentioned somewhere else that no matter how hard we pretend otherwise most of us Escorts/WGs will see around 10 times the amount of ladies you guys see, we also get a lot of Johns/Daves/Steves making enquiries etc - so whilst is very easy for you to remember every detail it's a little more difficult for us. Unless something very odd happened, or it was a long booking (Dinner Date/Overnight) it generally takes a couple of appointments for us to be able to recall at will your likes/dislikes etc.

Some chaps have said they thought a good Escort would keep details in a database format, in keeping with our professionalism. There are however two major issues with this;

1. Quite a few clients will only see you once - for many reasons including only being in the area that one time, discovering 'Punting' isn't for them, finding a girlfriend, financial restraints or simply not clicking with you so you could end up with file that would get rather fat in a short space of time.

2. Quite a few clients think it is not secure for a lady to be keeping such detailed info on themselves and infact would rather you didn't keep any sort of 'tabs' on them at all.

From the amount of guys who do ring and say "It's Steve do you remember me I saw you once at your old place", then are a bit out of sorts when you don't recall them, then those who really would be horrified if you did keep systematic notes then there is no acceptable procedure that suits everyone. So to be safe it's best not to keep any records. I would also think those in category 2 would be running a mile if you asked "Is it ok for me to keep a few notes so I know what you like next time?". They would simply be suspicious you kept any anyway. So vetting is out of the question.

Best way is for guys to drop little pointers upon your second booking and generally by the 3rd I've usually got it down pat!

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Chloe, can you explain it please: why loosing the "work phone charger" make you to lose guys details? :o Especially when you said in your first sentence: No,i wouldnt ever keep details.

Sorry to ask, but I am honestly can not understand it.

What i meant was that sometimes i consider keeping phone numbers,first names and preferences of the men in a diary or on my laptop,but i never do because im constantly reminded by myself that i loose important things all the time,lets face it if i can loose the charger for my work phone,i can loose a diary,or even my laptop,which did get left behind in the back of a taxi once.x

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I was wondering how many WGs out there keep records of the preferences and dislikes of their clients (perhaps in card index rather than computerised form to circumvent the Data Protection Act!). This would enable her to ensure that she is properly prepared for that booking who has been before but not frequently or recently enough to make his particular peccadillos stick in the mind thus obviating the need for such potentially embarrassing questions as 'isn't it you who's into felching?'.

We have so many men visit us..... it would be impossible to sit there in the given time we have and write out record cards for each client.... it is more easy for them to remind us on a visit.... untill they become regular and we start to know them a bit better.

What I do... is have a loyalty scheme in place where after so many visits a client gets his service for half price.... I keep an index card for each client which I stamp and keep.... at the top of the care I write their name and then something about them which helps me remember a certain thing about them.... For some reason my built in memory has not often let me down and I something always clicks for those who return.

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I was wondering how many WGs out there keep records of the preferences and dislikes of their clients (perhaps in card index rather than computerised form to circumvent the Data Protection Act!). This would enable her to ensure that she is properly prepared for that booking who has been before but not frequently or recently enough to make his particular peccadillos stick in the mind thus obviating the need for such potentially embarrassing questions as 'isn't it you who's into felching?'.

What happened to discretion and personal privacy ! How could you claim to have someones privacy in mind when you kept them indexed in the back of your knicker drawer?

Whats wrong with good old fashioned memory ?

I had a call recently from somebody I saw 2 years ago and remembered his voice and quite a lot about them.

If I used a company or business that had me indexed or on some other form of data base I would'nt feel too thrilled lol.

Hello *insert robotic yank accented voice* ...........HELEN JONES how are you today............ *HELEN JONES*

Having yourself recognised and remembered by a company is flattering. I'm lucky as I have a phenomenal all round memory. I cant help wondering what if you got the cards mixed up ...

Ah Mr Smith How are you. Yes of course I remember you, *rusltle rustle* you are the transvestite dwarf are you not. Mr Smith Hello Mr Smith.........

I do like that Peccadillos word though.

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I should add that I personally have never kept any records of this kind, relying instead on an increasingly unreliable memory. I do appreciate that such a thing might be useful as a professional tool but also appreciate Helen's point. Possibly some providers use other more discreet mnemonic devices(?)

What happened to discretion and personal privacy ! How could you claim to have someones privacy in mind when you kept them indexed in the back of your knicker drawer?

Whats wrong with good old fashioned memory ?

I had a call recently from somebody I saw 2 years ago and remembered his voice and quite a lot about them.

If I used a company or business that had me indexed or on some other form of data base I would'nt feel too thrilled lol.

Hello *insert robotic yank accented voice* ...........HELEN JONES how are you today............ *HELEN JONES*

Having yourself recognised and remembered by a company is flattering. I'm lucky as I have a phenomenal all round memory. I cant help wondering what if you got the cards mixed up ...

Ah Mr Smith How are you. Yes of course I remember you, *rusltle rustle* you are the transvestite dwarf are you not. Mr Smith Hello Mr Smith.........

I do like that Peccadillos word though.

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A dommes job is to take you to your threshhold and push you past it, so it would make sense for them to keep records so they know just how far a client has come and what she/he could possibly do to push the client beyond that on a next visit.

I don't keep records, I keep a memory bank of faces and likes and dislikes in my head.

I know the face of pretty much every client I have ever seen, on the odd occassion that this memory bank lets me down in the face department, I only have to look at my clients penis for confirmation.

To date, and I have been an escort for about 6 years, give or take I have never EVER forgotten a penis.

Yes I am strange, but since it's the part I come in contact with the most and also each is unique it works for me.

The mark of a good escort is not if she keeps a written record it's if she can remember her clients.

It would seem a bit strange to look at a roladex to confirm your clients likes and dislikes, and as someone has already stated not every client returns.

I have often shocked clients with how much I remember about them, and if they have told me something about themselves I usually remember.

I know Joe blogg's kids who were ill on his last visit I ask if they got over thier illness.

Or how the problem between John punter and his boss got resolved.

Its the little things like that that can make a client feel special.

I saw a gent the other day who had seen me before I had my break from escorting, and it was nice to catch up with him even though I only saw him the once.

I think I shocked him by saying, Oh hi again, long time no see... LOL

I don't think there is an foolproof system that works I think that you just work with whatever works best for you.

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There are advantages in being a "beardy" with a not that common first name!

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For the last 7yrs I've been taking home the used condoms from any interesting male specimens. From this I have managed to acquire quite an interesting collection of sperm which I keep in a home made sperm bank. Each sample is numbered and I have an index of all donators stats, including inside leg measurement, approximated IQ and muff-diving techniques. :o

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