Ghenghis

The truth, the whole truth, or nothing like the truth?

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Yes it's back to the content of FRs again (Groan!!)

Before I start, I would like to state that I am not in any way a good example of how to write FRs, I am not a born writer and my imagination with a pen or keyboard is limited plus I am pretty ill educated so my FRs, both here and in other Fora around the net, are not up to be picked over by scholars and lierary critics, they are just there to add information to help other punters improve their "luck".

A lot of people on here want "warts and all" FRs that give a blow by blow, freckle by freckle, cellulite filled account of an hour (Or in their case normally 20 minutes) in the company of a working girl. However there are reasons why some people write vague FRs.

Here are some:

  1. You may have had an off day and the lady might have been trying her hardest to give you a good time and failed. Is that her fault? Therefore if you would not go back again because you are embarrassed you may easily hide that fact and say the opposite.
  2. You both may have really clicked and she went further than she normally does with her services, including for example anal when she quite clearly states "No anal!" or gives you a BBBJ when she states "Covered Oral only!". If that happens and you tell the world then she gets plagued by everyone for it and you never get it again from her or others who say the same because they then know you kiss and tell.
  3. If, for example, you or she farts and you laugh about it then that is fine and between you, you don't need to tell the world about it.
  4. You notice something she accidentally left out that tells you details that will identify her : Clearly you would not give that info to the world and the polite thing would be to gently point it out to her at the time.

There are other reasons.

Now I do believe that all FRs should state the physical description of the girl and if it matches what they say on their website/advert, the place needs describing, was it clean dirty etc, did you feel safe, and extraneous noises that indicate a dog, child or bloke present in another room need to be in there as that is relevant.

Thoughts?

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Yes it's back to the content of FRs again (Groan!!)

Before I start, I would like to state that I am not in any way a good example of how to write FRs, I am not a born writer and my imagination with a pen or keyboard is limited plus I am pretty ill educated so my FRs, both here and in other Fora around the net, are not up to be picked over by scholars and lierary critics, they are just there to add information to help other punters improve their "luck".

A lot of people on here want "warts and all" FRs that give a blow by blow, freckle by freckle, cellulite filled account of an hour (Or in their case normally 20 minutes) in the company of a working girl. However there are reasons why some people write vague FRs.

Here are some:

  1. You may have had an off day and the lady might have been trying her hardest to give you a good time and failed. Is that her fault? Therefore if you would not go back again because you are embarrassed you may easily hide that fact and say the opposite.
  2. You both may have really clicked and she went further than she normally does with her services, including for example anal when she quite clearly states "No anal!" or gives you a BBBJ when she states "Covered Oral only!". If that happens and you tell the world then she gets plagued by everyone for it and you never get it again from her or others who say the same because they then know you kiss and tell.
  3. If, for example, you or she farts and you laugh about it then that is fine and between you, you don't need to tell the world about it.
  4. You notice something she accidentally left out that tells you details that will identify her : Clearly you would not give that info to the world and the polite thing would be to gently point it out to her at the time.

There are other reasons.

Now I do believe that all FRs should state the physical description of the girl and if it matches what they say on their website/advert, the place needs describing, was it clean dirty etc, did you feel safe, and extraneous noises that indicate a dog, child or bloke present in another room need to be in there as that is relevant.

Thoughts?

I look for confirmation that services advertised were actually offered, i am not interested in the intimate details just that DFK for example was offered as per the site or profile. I like to read the lady had a friendly attitude and confirmation of her physical appearance and as you say details about the environment.:)

I would say having very detailed information is more useful to me than having i wont go into details or similar which are of no use to me.

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I look for confirmation that services advertised were actually offered, i am not interested in the intimate details just that DFK for example was offered as per the site or profile. I like to read the lady had a friendly attitude and confirmation of her physical appearance and as you say details about the environment.:)

I would say having very detailed information is more useful to me than having i wont go into details or similar which are of no use to me.

How about "I will not go into intimate details BUT she was as described on the site, did all the services with great enthusiasm, is prettier than her pictures portray and I had a marvelous time"?? I agree the plain statement just effectively says they were there, but qualified it gives the info you want without details surely (You don't mind if I call you Shirley do you? :) )

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How about "I will not go into intimate details BUT she was as described on the site, did all the services with great enthusiasm, is prettier than her pictures portray and I had a marvelous time"?? I agree the plain statement just effectively says they were there, but qualified it gives the info you want without details surely (You don't mind if I call you Shirley do you? :) )

Sounds fine to me and you can call me anything you like (within reason).:);)

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This is a difficult one. Some details will satisfy some researchers, others others. If you want as good bj it would be very helpful to know if it was done with or without a condom, but many reports fail to mention this. I have been guilty of that one myself, although I try and refer to it somehow without being xplicit.

In the past I tried to convey the sensation of being with the girl, what one could do with her, but I guess that doesn't maybe work for many readers who maybe are not even planning intercourse and there i am describing the many positions I serviced her in :)

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I have a few frs which are too descriptive.

Some people seem to think it's erotica.

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What I look for in FRs

The lady is more or less as described. (Age +/- a few years is unimportant but whether the bod fits the market she's in IS)

For incalls what sort of area and has an effort been made to make a venue for relaxed sensuallity.

For outcalls a sense that she will fit in with your place.

Does she do what it says on the box.

AND Most Important -is she into it or does she atleast have a good act

from my point of view an absolute rule of FRS is "if she doesn't advertise it, I won't report it"

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My field reports definitely fall into the descriptive category rather than the "won't go into detail" category.

However I often put the proviso "subject to being clean, respectful and polite" on my field reports and only describe services that the lady has on her description or offers outright.

I have been fortunate enough on occasion to receive services beyond what was advertised such as owo but have not reported that if the lady as a rule did not offer it.

I regally saw a Lady who had been outed and was working a very low profile (even after changing her working name) so I did not write a report at all, despite how positive it would of been.

Also even if I have read a field report where say Ghenghis tells us that 'Debbie' first gave him owo then on with the condom for anal then her five girlfriends joined in and he came six times in a one hour session at no extra cost;) I would not assume that the same would be on offer for me if I booked a week latter:( It was merely what happened on the day.

Always use the reports as a guide and try to get several on the establishment and/or Lady concerned to give a rounded picture.

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Also even if I have read a field report where say Ghenghis tells us that 'Debbie' first gave him owo then on with the condom for anal then her five girlfriends joined in and he came six times in a one hour session at no extra cost;) I would not assume that the same would be on offer for me if I booked a week latter:( It was merely what happened on the day.

Yeah that's just Ghengis for you, the ladies love him.

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I don't want any FR's I don't need them or like them :)

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FR's need to be informative, otherwise they are a waste of time...

the description of the escort, the place, and the cost tell us much...

Its up to the reporter what he wants to say about the details, I myself dont see them as a porn report, so basically so long as there are saying an accurate detail of info, and was it worth the money, then we have no right to question what the reporter has to say in a fr, if its wooly it wont attract many!!...

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I always welcome COLL's generally HR-focused reports. Many of the places he visits don't appear in other FRs (and thus represent the findings of a real pioneering spirit). At the same time his reports are informative and give you a real sense of his erotic enjoyment of the experience without falling into the Erotica trap that London Laura correctly identifies for some PN FRs.

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Now I do believe that all FRs should state the physical description of the girl and if it matches what they say on their website/advert, the place needs describing, was it clean dirty etc, did you feel safe, and extraneous noises that indicate a dog, child or bloke present in another room need to be in there as that is relevant.

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It was the explicit FR's I had read many years ago that put me right off them. I make it clear on my website I do not want my gents to write them. There is no way I want the world to read such graphic details of a private encounter. Yes certain details should be compulsory to give

Thing is, keeping it to facts would have many on here kicking up a fuss. They want explicit details. How many times have people had a moan when they read 'I wont go into detail'?

Maybe the FR form layout can be adjusted so there isnt too much scope to get sexplicit? The points escortuser made, ie description, accommodation cleanliness... you know, basic yet informative.

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It IS difficult and my view has changed even while reading the previous comments.

I have always said it is the poster's report and he should be left to write it as he sees fit.

I think it may be posible to produce a brief guideline that, for instance mentions what is better omiteed, such as extra services not advertised or positively denied.

I am affected by the comments made by ladies here who find anatomical detail about themselves unpleasant to have made public. Understandable and can be a big shock when a girl is told she has reports and suddenly finds her most private details there for all to read.

So:

Perhaps guidelines on appropriate and inappropriate content (or just push harder the info already suggested as virtually required items). Add suggestion of inappropriate content being a possible cause for FR rejection.

Easier (if needing to be?) opportunity for WG to comment on punters' comments or correcting inaccuracies - say a button on the FR for contacting G for this and/or for a WG to go on no report list?

But all this suggests much more work at the FR receiving end and I am sure this is neither welcomed nor practical. I was talking about FRs with a parlour madam and it opened my eyes to how much communications about them G must receive.

So I have only waded in because a moderator prompted the discussion but it seems to me changes would need a whole bank of FR moderators.

That possibly would not be the wall for G to climb over I might have thought it would be - a development into a more community-based self-regulating process where contributors are invited to serve for a limited time as FR moderators.

But that must be up to G and the quite recent HH mention of Pnet may have put back such an initiative for a while.

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I don't want any FR's I don't need them or like them :)

Could I be rude and ask why, I can understand you not needing them if you're busy, but a lot of Ladies like them as a sort of well done and thank you;)

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I have a few frs which are too descriptive.

Some people seem to think it's erotica.

On another thread about this i read some punters relive the punt as they are writing it, so perhaps to them it is erotica.

In my view its up to the punter what he writes within the rules. To submit an FR there is no rule that says the punter has to discuss that they will be doing so with the lady. When i was doing FRs i did mention or try to out of courtesy.

When i punted with a number of EE ladies they had never heard of Pnet or FRs and in some cases had bad English so any verbal communication was difficult.:)

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My wife asked me why don't I change career from coaching and open a shop on the high street selling graphic acounts, intimate aspects and good quality nitty gritty.

So I told her: 'I don't want to go into detail'. Boom boom.:)

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Many of them read to me like what the punter wished what happened, rather than the reality. Something that's impossible to prevent. When I read a report I'm trying to discover something useful and that's what I try to provide. I've only done two on pn and hope that I've been fair and representative of the reality.

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Could I be rude and ask why, I can understand you not needing them if you’re busy, but a lot of Ladies like them as a sort of well done and thank you;)

Yes you may. :)

Well for the same reasons that Jasmin's (Indian Delight) stated. There is no way I want the world to read such graphic details of a private encounter.

A good friend of mine once had a FR posted, it was very graphic and I asked her was it really like that, she said no he made most of it up.

When I escort I'm very part time so I don't need any Fr's to get work.

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Yes you may. :)

Well for the same reasons that Jasmin's (Indian Delight) stated. There is no way I want the world to read such graphic details of a private encounter.

A good friend of mine once had a FR posted, it was very graphic and I asked her was it really like that, she said no he made most of it up.

When I escort I'm very part time so I don't need any Fr's to get work.

Thank you that's answered my question and made me realise not all Ladies welcome field reports (even the positive ones;)).

However I assure you I don't make any of mine up I always arrive by helicopter climb in through the window (like the man in the milk tray adverts) ask the lady if she can manage 12", perform a minimum of six times then as the lady is so overcome with me being there I clean up and put a fresh towel on the bed (ok so I lied about the towel:D:D)

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I can state that my FRs are my true account of what took place .

i try to make them read interesting to the non punter who may lurk on this site but not participate.

i don't find the short FRs put up to be very convincing that they are genuine.

i am interested to read the nationality, description of the wg but most reports don't mention this.

sometimes i read to the end of a FR and think, sounds good but not enough detail to encourage me to visit.

isn't the point of a FR to boost the wg business, correct me if i'm wrong ?:)

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Thank you that's answered my question and made me realise not all Ladies welcome field reports (even the positive ones;)).

However I assure you I don't make any of mine up I always arrive by helicopter climb in through the window (like the man in the milk tray adverts) ask the lady if she can manage 12", perform a minimum of six times then as the lady is so overcome with me being there I clean up and put a fresh towel on the bed (ok so I lied about the towel:D:D)

Well if you ever climb through my window please remember I only like plain choc chocs and 12" is the minimum requirements for me :) and there's no need for you to clean up, I have a male slave to do that for me :)

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In the end, all services are at the discretion of the lady, too many people these days stare themselves blind on services instead of having a good time.

Visited a very well reviewed girl here and other places, whilst I found the whole encounter simply a process of trying to get through as many positions as possible.

Some will say the encounter didnt live up to expectations because we didn't click, I feel the encounter didn't live up to expectations because it was like working down a checklist.

There are plenty of girls that I have seen that only advertise basic services, but end up giving a much wider range of services without being pushed for them. Some services depend on trust (Tie & Tease), others may depend on the day, and then others again on your appearance and general behaviour (DFK, CIM, A).

So even if punter A is his report states that all services imaginable were on offer, this may not be the case for punter B. At the same time, if Punter A reports that none of the services were on offer, this may again not be the case for punter B. Hence, to me, a detailed blow by blow account of the encounter is useless.

The second argument is why would a punter give a positive FR if nothing he expected to be on offer was on offer? Surely if he went to see her under the illusion that DFK, OWO were on offer, but all he got was a peck on the cheek and hand-job he would not be giving a positive fr?

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Well if you ever climb through my window please remember I only like plain choc chocs and 12" is the minimum requirements for me :) and there's no need for you to clean up, I have a male slave to do that for me :D

If I do ever climb through your window I will need you to open it first as I don't want to damage my chopper!:):D

Sorry about that I know my jokes are bad one Lady threatened to charge me extra, she called it her bce (that's bad comic experience):)

But seriously and to keep on topic this thread has made me realise how different ladies view field reports.

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