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First time troubles

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Hey, 19 year old here. Just recently moved out and had escorts become a viable option. Was a virgin until last night but I kind of still feel like I am because for whatever reason I couldn't cum. I had a great time and she was a lovely girl but when I got in there for the first time I was going for what seemed like a few minutes and she said she was surprised I hadn't cum yet and from there we were going at it for a brief period before stopping and trying something different.

Not much success and I couldn't even jerk off til the next day so I think it must of been psychological. I believe the girl (Holly from 'finesse escorts' that cover London and Kent) tried her best and it wasn't her fault as she was kind, sweet and just plain gorgeous, and it was purely my hangups on my lack of experience that flustered me. So, now I'm thinking of booking Megan next month from the same agency as I can't knock their service one bit and she has reviews mentioning guys who were nervous being made to feel very relaxed by her and have a great time.

So do you think I'd have more luck finishing my second time or should I save my money as I can only afford to do this once a month when my paycheque first clears and I think I'm gonna feel the damage from that session later on in the month.

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Hi,

I am sure you will get a lot of sympathetic responses, as a lot of people would have been in your situation when they first started seeing escorts, it will happen, it may happen the next time, you willl start to relax and things will flow naturally, if you can only afford to punt once a month then that is all you should do.

Good lukc

M

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Hey there lovely

Just thought i'd add my two cents, I've only just turned 20 my self, and to be honest what your experiencing is perfectly normal, first times are always going to be stressful/embrassing/awkward, so its nothing unusual that you've experienced. Nerves can play havoc with your sexual behaviours so try not to worry about it, god I was a nervous wreck both my first time in my personal life and my first time as an escort.

xx

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Cheers for the reasurance but honestly folks, no sympathy required. I put myself in a very new and surreal (for me) situation, must of been a shock to my fellas system. I was awkward about it at the time but yeah I look back at it as one of those things. I guess I'll punt again next month and hope I'm more accustomed to the situation next time. I still had a great time it just might take a few tries before I can adjust enough to get the gratification I'm after.

A bit off topic but I'm glad with my decision last night, I'm left with no regrets and am very grateful for the service. I think I'm a nice guy with some potential but the fact it took me until I got to college to become a decent person comfortable in his own skin that it left me a bit behind the game and the longer you wait the more you become self concious about it, in fact my lacklustre love life is pretty much my only insecurity. I probably make it out to be worse than it is but I'm sure some guys here'll be able to sympathise with the feeling of being 'just a virgin' and how hard it is to get out your head. Anyway, I already feel on the road to overcoming my confidence issues in that area and look forwards to giving it a go next month.

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