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Ever been really dissapointed by a well-known WG?

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I saw an independent WG recently (don't know if it's polite to say who) in the north east who has quite a good reputatation in terms of feedback. She has her own website, has had plently of proffesional photos taken, uses a forum etc. But when I saw her it was so...dull. :)

In conversation afterwards, she said she preffered older guys, and I'm a young-looking 27 year old, and abit skinny, so I don't know if it was purely her not liking me, or if she was just having a bad day or something?

I'm shy enough as it is, and everytime I see a WG I make the effort to overcome this, but it's tough when someone is so unwilling and just 'going through the motions'. It's okay when it's someone really inexperienced, but for such a well-known WG it was such a dissapointment. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

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If she is as experienced as you say (and, no, I wouldn't recommend naming her here), then I doubt it was you. She will be experienced enough to not let personal preferences affect performance. She could just have been having a bad day. I suppose she should be professional enough to not let that bother her either, but that's harder to hide.

I work happily beside some real muppets, but I can have a bad day at work for other reasons.

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A disappointment or three... but not of the variety you enquire about.

I think I've seen less than a dozen porn movies in my life, so I have to admit I don't really know who the legends are.... or indeed who's got a big reputation purely as a WG.

But early on in my punting career I booked a couple of ladies who totally unknown to me had massive reputations for inventive raunchiness. I've no doubt that their reputations were well founded... but what I recall vividly was their exceptional gentleness in a series of very vanilla acts.

When I subsequently discovered the full range of their talents... my reaction was "Blimey. They read me pretty well... that would be likely to kill a man in my condition". Not a bad way to go.

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I saw an independent WG recently (don't know if it's polite to say who) in the north east who has quite a good reputatation in terms of feedback. She has her own website, has had plently of proffesional photos taken, uses a forum etc. But when I saw her it was so...dull. :)

In conversation afterwards, she said she preffered older guys, and I'm a young-looking 27 year old, and abit skinny, so I don't know if it was purely her not liking me, or if she was just having a bad day or something?

I'm shy enough as it is, and everytime I see a WG I make the effort to overcome this, but it's tough when someone is so unwilling and just 'going through the motions'. It's okay when it's someone really inexperienced, but for such a well-known WG it was such a dissapointment. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

I have learned that if you want a punt to go well it is a two-way process, you have to make an effort and establish a rapport. You say that you are a little shy; are you sure she did not pick-up on this in the wrong way and think that it was your fault, thus setting up a negative vibe. It can happen. Other than that, you just may not have clicked.

I have had similar experiences but not let it put me off. Instead, I have returned and the next time has been completely different again leading to many more enjoyable return visits.

If you find this is happening to you often and with many different girls, it may be worth giving your approach a rethink. Other than that, take the rough with the smooth and know when to move on.

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The fact she was a well known escort could have made you thought all the stops will be pulled out here, and have expected too much, sometimes I read a few fr's about a certain lady im keen on, and despite they all saying how great she is, feel that the thrill would be better than the performnce, as indeed it was when i seen a very high profile escort about 8 years ago...she was good but I expected more, and now realise that I learnt a lot from her.

I now tend to try to pay down in my head what is available from reading other fr's, and go with the flow or my own views of what I would like.

Course maybe the lady knew you were of a shy nature and went into easy mode to keep you in some comfort zone, whatever you may think, it does take two to make a connection, and a good punt into a better one.

Myleene Klass, Kelly Brook, Mel B, may all have that sex appeal, but it does not mean they will be a better choice than the regular next door type of lady, who works at the local parlour.

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I saw an independent WG recently (don't know if it's polite to say who) in the north east who has quite a good reputatation in terms of feedback. She has her own website, has had plently of proffesional photos taken, uses a forum etc. But when I saw her it was so...dull. :D

In conversation afterwards, she said she preffered older guys, and I'm a young-looking 27 year old, and abit skinny, so I don't know if it was purely her not liking me, or if she was just having a bad day or something?

I'm shy enough as it is, and everytime I see a WG I make the effort to overcome this, but it's tough when someone is so unwilling and just 'going through the motions'. It's okay when it's someone really inexperienced, but for such a well-known WG it was such a dissapointment. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

Hi Portable, i'm not sure your being too kind on the wg in question that you have seen,

you say your a shy guy but then you can post on a forum with your views, but not tell wg what you think :)

I think it's best to alway's state your preference what you like when you see someone, as everyone is different and none of us are mind reader's! (as been said sooooo many times before lol)

It does make me laugh when I see guy's write "and she must of been having a bad day" goodness me, the only reason I can think of why anyone would be having a bad day,

is if they are faced with something not very nice, which could be down to anything, i'e bad-extremly bad hygiene (which let's face it, would give anyone the hump) arrogant attitude, drugged/drunk or anything else that's unpleasant.

Personally, I think your being too sensitive when saying wg preffered older guy's and you think your too skinny.

Your look doesn't have anything to do with it.

If the wg was professional, she also wouldn't of commented on her 'preference' of guy's unless asked.

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That's some educational views, guys, thanks. It's weird because I saw an inexperienced, and young girl the other night who was understandably a little akward, but I rolled with it and though we didn't 'click' much, it went quite well (despite trying a couple of positions that gave me leg cramp :)).

You live and learn I guess. However, the money factor means I'm going to be a slow learner. :D

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I think it's best to alway's state your preference what you like when you see someone, as everyone is different and none of us are mind reader's! (as been said sooooo many times before lol)

Yeah, I always try to establish that from the start, but I'm still abit akward about it, since I do find it a little weird when a girl asks me what I like. What do I say other than "you"? :) Plus going in with a predetermined choice like CIM seems a bit odd unless I know the woman I'm seeing offers no-hold barred PSE! I'd feel way more confident with that actually!

But even though I knew this particular WG didn't offer certain things it was just the general approach and mood that was disapointing, and made it feel like a total waste of time. In particular she asked me to get undressed and just lay there while I did. It even ended up with me still in my T-shirt :D Then she proceeded to pretty lackluste and kept saying random "dirty talk" in the most bored voice imaginable! It's a bit late to leave a field report but I'm not in a hurry to see her again.

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That's the spirit Portable, chin up lol :):P

Generally speaking, as the guy's have said, it does take two.

Personally, if I see a client and he just amalgamate's into the bed without saying a word, (which is my worst nightmare :o)

I think to myself, what kind of 'punt' is this guy going to get, I mean what is he going to get out of it if he's just not bothering to put any effort in ?

Enjoy yourself isn't that what it's about ?! :D:D:) xxx

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In particular she asked me to get undressed and just lay there while I did. It even ended up with me still in my T-shirt .

Yes I always leave my vest on too :)

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Yeah, I always try to establish that from the start, but I'm still abit akward about it, since I do find it a little weird when a girl asks me what I like. What do I say other than "you"? :D Plus going in with a predetermined choice like CIM seems a bit odd unless I know the woman I'm seeing offers no-hold barred PSE! I'd feel way more confident with that actually!

But even though I knew this particular WG didn't offer certain things it was just the general approach and mood that was disapointing, and made it feel like a total waste of time. In particular she asked me to get undressed and just lay there while I did. It even ended up with me still in my T-shirt :o Then she proceeded to pretty lackluste and kept saying random "dirty talk" in the most bored voice imaginable! It's a bit late to leave a field report but I'm not in a hurry to see her again.

When a wg asks you what you like, it's because she can get an insight, feel to how/what you like. Be a bit worrying if she didn't bother asking you and just got on with it :)

Be great if all guy's were made the same and liked the same thing, but they don't! :o

I think this is quite tricky and maybe you might have to put it down to experience, as by your explanation, it doesn't sound like it went too well.

I do feel for you, but unless you state at the time what is wrong, there is little you can do after- as regards to payment. You could still contact her and complain about your time, she may refund you some money, if she is well known as you say, and wants to keep her reputation in tact, she would be obliging I would of though. ;);)

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if she was just having a bad day or something?

How well a girl will perform depends on her mood on that particular day, perhaps she was just "off".

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When a wg asks you what you like, it's because she can get an insight, feel to how/what you like. Be a bit worrying if she didn't bother asking you and just got on with it :)

Be great if all guy's were made the same and liked the same thing, but they don't! :D

I think this is quite tricky and maybe you might have to put it down to experience, as by your explanation, it doesn't sound like it went too well.

I do feel for you, but unless you state at the time what is wrong, there is little you can do after- as regards to payment. You could still contact her and complain about your time, she may refund you some money, if she is well known as you say, and wants to keep her reputation in tact, she would be obliging I would of though. :o;)

Thanks, Nat. I never thought about it that way. I'm open-minded but never really establish that. I'll learn that for next time.

It's all a learning curve though. For example I asked the younger girl I saw the other night what she didn't like and she just said 'anal', so I said, that's fine. But that was it, and then when it came to OWO I could tell she wasn't keen so asked her if she didn't like it and then she said no. But I knew she was inexperienced an maybe shy so it was totally fine.

It does feel much more liberating when you know what people do and don't like, but even though it was briefly mentioned with this reputable WG it was still a really dull experience. ;)

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Of course she should have the skill to turn the mood around but if your not "into" it what can she do?

To be honest if you wouldn't take your T-shirt off then the vibes your giving are "I don't want to do this" and she might have felt out of sorts.

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I saw an independent WG recently (don't know if it's polite to say who) in the north east who has quite a good reputatation in terms of feedback. She has her own website, has had plently of proffesional photos taken, uses a forum etc. But when I saw her it was so...dull. :)

In conversation afterwards, she said she preffered older guys, and I'm a young-looking 27 year old, and abit skinny, so I don't know if it was purely her not liking me, or if she was just having a bad day or something?

I'm shy enough as it is, and everytime I see a WG I make the effort to overcome this, but it's tough when someone is so unwilling and just 'going through the motions'. It's okay when it's someone really inexperienced, but for such a well-known WG it was such a dissapointment. Has anyone else had this kind of experience?

I certainly have but not 121 where those i have punted with incuding 9 lovely ladies off this board have been very good to excellent. In my experience so far those ladies with good or better feedback and/or FRs on here have lived up to the good things said about them by others.

At Parties i have on ocassion punted with Pornstars and one in particular was the absolute pits in terms of attitude, she was either slapping punters violently or virtually comatose. The provider told me they sacked her for falling asleep on a punters dick. She then went to work at an Agency and was asked to leave after a very short time, yet she is a well known and active Pornstar still. I can only assume being a WG was not for her but working in Porn is.

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She then went to work at an Agency and was asked to leave after a very short time, yet she is a well known and active Pornstar still. I can only assume being a WG was not for her but working in Porn is.

Yes she wasn't a very good actress, preferred making porn than punters. :)

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Yes, I have visited a well-known WG who had difficulty summoning up any enthusiasm whatsoever. Actually, I think she was just feeling particularly idle that day. We all have days when we can’t be arsed, but most of us manage to slap on a fake smile and plough on regardless. If the bloke picks up on a girl's reluctance, then his heart sinks and the punt is almost certainly doomed to failure. Personally, I’ve had enough punts that I just make the most of the situation – I just ask for a blowjob.

Similarly, if a bloke walks into the bedroom, undresses himself, lies on the bed and gives no hint as to his desires, then it must make the girl feel awkward and unenthusiastic. I have been guilty of this in the early days of my punting career. I wasn’t sure what I was allowed to do or not do, so I just let her get on with whatever she was comfortable doing. I didn’t understand that WGs provided a full GFE. (I do now :D )

Anyhow, my advice is:

1. Visit some other girls.

2. Make a note of what you would like to do. Take this note with you and give it to the WG. She will cherish it as a souvenir of your visit.

3. Take the lead a little bit – pull her hair and squeeze her tits. Call her rude names – they like that. :)

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Yes, I have visited a well-known WG who had difficulty summoning up any enthusiasm whatsoever. Actually, I think she was just feeling particularly idle that day. We all have days when we can't be arsed, but most of us manage to slap on a fake smile and plough on regardless. If the bloke picks up on a girl's reluctance, then his heart sinks and the punt is almost certainly doomed to failure. Personally, I've had enough punts that I just make the most of the situation - I just ask for a blowjob.

Similarly, if a bloke walks into the bedroom, undresses himself, lies on the bed and gives no hint as to his desires, then it must make the girl feel awkward and unenthusiastic. I have been guilty of this in the early days of my punting career. I wasn't sure what I was allowed to do or not do, so I just let her get on with whatever she was comfortable doing. I didn't understand that WGs provided a full GFE. (I do now :) )

Anyhow, my advice is:

1. Visit some other girls.

2. Make a note of what you would like to do. Take this note with you and give it to the WG. She will cherish it as a souvenir of your visit.

3. Take the lead a little bit - pull her hair and squeeze her tits. Call her rude names - they like that. ;)

Take it in turns for that... if he hasn't got any hair, just pull his plonker a bit. Call everyone darling, jobs a good 'un.

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Yes, I have visited a well-known WG who had difficulty summoning up any enthusiasm whatsoever. Actually, I think she was just feeling particularly idle that day. We all have days when we can't be arsed, but most of us manage to slap on a fake smile and plough on regardless. If the bloke picks up on a girl's reluctance, then his heart sinks and the punt is almost certainly doomed to failure. Personally, I've had enough punts that I just make the most of the situation - I just ask for a blowjob.

Similarly, if a bloke walks into the bedroom, undresses himself, lies on the bed and gives no hint as to his desires, then it must make the girl feel awkward and unenthusiastic. I have been guilty of this in the early days of my punting career. I wasn't sure what I was allowed to do or not do, so I just let her get on with whatever she was comfortable doing. I didn't understand that WGs provided a full GFE. (I do now :D )

Anyhow, my advice is:

1. Visit some other girls.

2. Make a note of what you would like to do. Take this note with you and give it to the WG. She will cherish it as a souvenir of your visit.

3. Take the lead a little bit - pull her hair and squeeze her tits. Call her rude names - they like that. :)

I'm (very) curious - please do expand on this.....

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Stating what one wants I find pretty awkward still. I don't have a schedule of things I want to achieve, I prefer it to be 'organic' (and orgasmic!). Having a list of things to tick off the list is off-putting, imo.

And I also don't like stripping off immediately. Females are not the only ones that are self-conscious, and although many will say it won't happen I still fear seeing the 'disappointment' of the impending time ahead in the wg's eyes. If she says strip off (get yourself ready) and I'll be back in a minute, I don't :)

As far as the OP's situation I'd just put it down to experience, there being no particular spark, and move on. You will know when the spark is there all right, those are the meets that stick in the memory banks.

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Thanks, Nat. I never thought about it that way. I'm open-minded but never really establish that. I'll learn that for next time.

It's all a learning curve though.

You just have to learn how to "recover" a punt when its going bad or even better try and make sure it doesnt go bad before it starts. (Since its sound like you were disappointed from the start).

But she sees punters who want to go straight for service and no chit chat, others want more "get to know you" before building up to it. Which were you looking for and did she know that?

And yes Ive had dissappointing punts with very well known and high praised girls. Maybe she had a bad day, Maybe she just didnt click with me, maybe all her reports were from guys going for something different to what I was looking for, maybe she just wanted it over with or maybe she hated me from the moment the door opened, maybe.., maybe..., maybe....

Just see someone else. And make sure she knows what your looking for before it starts.

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sometimes its just a question of chemistry and if its not there its not going to happen,

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And I also don't like stripping off immediately. Females are not the only ones that are self-conscious, and although many will say it won't happen I still fear seeing the 'disappointment' of the impending time ahead in the wg's eyes. If she says strip off (get yourself ready) and I'll be back in a minute, I don't :D

Same here. My heart sinks whenever a girl says that. She may as well be saying "right let get this over with"..... :)

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Same here. My heart sinks whenever a girl says that. She may as well be saying "right let get this over with"..... :D

Just goes to show how awkward this can be. Many chaps might appreciate getting on with things with no waste of time in their eyes. I prefer a little 'getting to know you' before being completely nekid :)

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