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GFE in a THREESOME!!??

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Can you actually have a GFE when your in a MFF(or MMF) threesome, or would you consider this the domain of the PSE? (mainly as this has come from the porn industry and is a fantasy)

Service wise yes, but can you get that intimate connection with three in the room?

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Well I've had both MMF and MFF with girlfriends so theoretically yes.

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Well I've had both MMF and MFF with girlfriends so theoretically yes.

pedantic much? lol :D:o:)

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Unless a couple is actually seeking a PSE, which is fair game, I think the principles behind GFE really should be brought to a couples booking. Most are really nervous first timers and offering an unrushed and non-mechanical service is really important. They should feel like they are having a threesome with a friend rather than a hooker.

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Yes you can have a GFE in a threesome,but the guy obviously has to let the ladies know thats what he wants.When a guy asks you to get out the strap on so that you can all have a threeway fuck then its automatically a PSE,trouble is some ask for something then dont like it,not the ladies faulth though is it.What makes it worse is when a guy doesnt like a service he has asked for even after seeing the ladies a few times in the past,he obviously enjoyed the previous visits or he wouldnt have returned.x

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MMF is always PSE in my expericence, the FFMs I've done have been with couples so a bit different although would border on PSE.

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Ok let me ask a few more details...

If your specifically asked to do girl on girl, in a threesome would you consider this GFE?

not that you can't have a GFE with a couple who want to include another person, or if you decide to do one with your GF or Wife.

would you consider girl on girl action in a threesome GFE, or more PSE?

I can understand, that two women spoiling a man, yes you can get that intimate connection, but girl on girl (show as we all see to call it), while the guy watches...?

I can also understand services like DFK (associated with GFE, RO, etc) can also be constituted as a GFE 3sum, but the act itself just having a 3sum?

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From my point of view, I would not consider anything other than a one to one encounter, a GFE.

If it involved a third party, whether male of female, there would almost certainly be times when one of the three was watching the other two, so that would be more of a Porn Movie Experience, rather than a Porn Star Experience.

I would expect a Porn Star Experience to be either with a known porn star, or with a lady pretending to emulate a porn star, and would involve her not only doing everything to you, and you everything to her, but would also involve her playing with herself, with and without toys.

Well Tammy that is my 2 penny worth, but WTF do I know?

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Service wise yes, but can you get that intimate connection with three in the room?

Definitely, yes. When I began escorting it was alongside my girlfriend. As such we had numerous threesomes with both new and repeated clients and each was a really fabulous experience.

Sadly, the lovely lady in question has now retired and we don't live so close to each other as we used to. Although we still spend some time together we don't get the chance as often. My other girlfriend (who I've been with for 10 years) has never escorted and doesn't want to :)

Fortunately my male partner is very understanding about my sexuality!!

I worked for a while in a parlour and had many threesomes. In the end, after a few disappointing experiences with ladies who were clearly not bisexual, or even vaguely interested in other women, I decided that henceforth I would only engage in a threesome when there was an attraction between myself and the other lady. Otherwise the pretence led to me feeling awkward - even if I was able to cover it well. When I was going down on her, I'd be thinking 'is she grossed out by a woman doing this?' - not conducive to a passionate, intimate, arousing ambience.

I think that the ideal conditions for a gfe threesome depend strongly on the chemistry between each of the participants and if the girls lack chemistry then it's a hollow experience. I know it sounds obvious, but I still think it's a valid point.

Nowadays, as an indie with a number of lovely friends in the escorting business (who are damn horny) I am lucky enough to be able to indulge in threesomes every now and again which more than meet and satisfy my chemistry requirements!!

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Sorry guys but is there a glossary available for all the abbreviations that get thrown around here?

I worked out Working Girl and Girl Friend Experience on my own but apart from that I'm clueless :)

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Sorry guys but is there a glossary available for all the abbreviations that get thrown around here?

I worked out Working Girl and Girl Friend Experience on my own but apart from that I'm clueless :)

Have a look here.

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Have a look here.

Ah, cheers mate. Wow, some of these things are not my cup of tea at all :), oh well, different strokes and all that.

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From my point of view, I would not consider anything other than a one to one encounter, a GFE.

If it involved a third party, whether male of female, there would almost certainly be times when one of the three was watching the other two, so that would be more of a Porn Movie Experience, rather than a Porn Star Experience.

I would expect a Porn Star Experience to be either with a known porn star, or with a lady pretending to emulate a porn star, and would involve her not only doing everything to you, and you everything to her, but would also involve her playing with herself, with and without toys.

Well Tammy that is my 2 penny worth, but WTF do I know?

Not sure if you meant that to sound as bitchy as it did, anyway... :)

You have made me wonder at something else, we all feel comfortable with things being labelled even though we are progressive enough to want to be without constraints, and labelling services is just another neat way to fit things into a box, point being what exactly does PSE and GFE constitute?

Both have overlapping services, DFK, Oral, CIM, Anal the list goes on...

The only think I wouldn't say comes under the GFE heading is Facials, ( that's pure porn to me) So is it all in the delivery I.E, DKF soft lipped kissing to begin then slowly getting deeper and harder (GFE), compared to hard tonsil tennis to begin with.(PSE)?

Like you say Z, lady emulating a porn star, ok well I don't offer CIM or FACIALS,( PSE) however I can and do Deep throat, etc, so in theory I have certain services that allow me to advertise PSE, or allow me to emulate certain porn star behaviour.

But where and how do you distinguish between the two? I have done what is (at present) considered PSE with my partner but I wouldn’t have said I was emulating a porn star I was just having a good time with the other half, (as your supposed too)

I have also had slow, sensual encounters too, so where do you distinguish because to me it’s all just sex and whatever works best, and going with the flow.

I don’t think in terms of PSE or GFE I just think sex, but it supposedly has to have a label, and as it’s not clear cut to me perhaps someone could explain it to me.???

See my Dilemma yet? :D

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Not sure if you meant that to sound as bitchy as it did, anyway... :)

You have made me wonder at something else, we all feel comfortable with things being labelled even though we are progressive enough to want to be without constraints, and labelling services is just another neat way to fit things into a box, point being what exactly does PSE and GFE constitute?

Both have overlapping services, DFK, Oral, CIM, Anal the list goes on...

The only think I wouldn't say comes under the GFE heading is Facials, ( that's pure porn to me) So is it all in the delivery I.E, DKF soft lipped kissing to begin then slowly getting deeper and harder (GFE), compared to hard tonsil tennis to begin with.(PSE)?

Like you say Z, lady emulating a porn star, ok well I don't offer CIM or FACIALS,( PSE) however I can and do Deep throat, etc, so in theory I have certain services that allow me to advertise PSE, or allow me to emulate certain porn star behaviour.

But where and how do you distinguish between the two? I have done what is (at present) considered PSE with my partner but I wouldn't have said I was emulating a porn star I was just having a good time with the other half, (as your supposed too)

I have also had slow, sensual encounters too, so where do you distinguish because to me it's all just sex and whatever works best, and going with the flow.

I don't think in terms of PSE or GFE I just think sex, but it supposedly has to have a label, and as it's not clear cut to me perhaps someone could explain it to me.???

See my Dilemma yet? :D

The thing is GFE and PSE mean different things to different people, its not like OWO which obviously means Oral WithOut which is clear as to its meaning to those familiar with such abbreviations. GFE and PSE can be interpreted differently depending on the individual.:o

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Does it really matter ?

Sex is sex.

Never see a client straight up, always ask him in an e-mail what he would like to do and if he wants certain things that you don't like (Anal or Watersports etc) then don't take the booking.

The important thing is to just do what you're comfortable with.

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Replying to Tammy without quoting everything said above, anything which is done for show, i.e. facial, bukkake, pearl necklace, (golden rain, & hard sports sort of), female masturbation, or female playing with toys, is in my book a PME, i.e. for show, or for the cameras only.

There are voyeurs who get their rocks off from watching, but to me, a GFE is something which starts slowly, and builds up, or can be a quickie, if the mood takes you, but would involve mutual touching, kissing and probably penetration. DFK can be something that starts slowly and builds up, but someone who grabs your nuts, and starts extracting your tonsils straight away, is a PS not a GF.

A GFE should be mutual, passionate, and could last 10 minutes or two hours.

IP may have other ideas.

Anything which is done for show only is a PSE or PME.

Another 2 penny worth from my point of view, as a seasoned partaker.

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I'm very fond of my female playfriend, we play outside of work as well as in work and sexual contact between us tends to be quite sensual, with this in mind I reckon any guy having a threesome with us would describe it more as a GFE than PSE.

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Ok let me ask a few more details...

If your specifically asked to do girl on girl, in a threesome would you consider this GFE?

Yes unless one of you is dominant

not that you can't have a GFE with a couple who want to include another person, or if you decide to do one with your GF or Wife.

would you consider girl on girl action in a threesome GFE, or more PSE?

depends on how the girls treat each other

I can understand, that two women spoiling a man, yes you can get that intimate connection, but girl on girl (show as we all see to call it), while the guy watches...?

I think its more difficult for two girls who have just met to have a GFE than for an escort and a male client to have a GFE, girls are more fussy about other girls than they are with men

I can also understand services like DFK (associated with GFE, RO, etc) can also be constituted as a GFE 3sum, but the act itself just having a 3sum?

3sums can be incredibly passionate in a GFE way that's the best thing about them but you all have to click which is very unlikely with people who hardly know each other

I my private life I have had FFM and MMF with my wife and other guys and girls and also with my friend and his wife and a FFM with my girlfriend and an escort and a FFM with two escorts. Privately they were GFEs the FFM with girlfriend and escort was a GFE because the escort (a regular) and I made it that way, the FFM with two escorts was also more GFE because I knew one of them well and the other escort was her girlfriend.

But I think an FFM or MMF with escorts unknown to you and to each other can only be a PSE in almost all cases unless you all just happen to like each other.

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I've only had a 3some with 2 specific girls before - and it was amazing - it wasnt cold like a porn film - it was better and went on til 7am the next day!

thank god for open minded young girls! ;o)

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