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If a poster on this board contacts you to seek an appointment, would you prefer to know his PN identity or would you rather not. One lady told me the first time I saw her that she felt under pressure, knowing that I was a former PN mod and I have been accused in the past of seeking to gain some unfair advantage by identifying myself. I have always assumed that knowing a prospective client's ID would make it easier for the lady to decide whether she wanted to see him or not. Am I wrong? If so, it's easily remedied.

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If a poster on this board contacts you to seek an appointment, would you prefer to know his PN identity or would you rather not. One lady told me the first time I saw her that she felt under pressure, knowing that I was a former PN mod and I have been accused in the past of seeking to gain some unfair advantage by identifying myself. I have always assumed that knowing a prospective client's ID would make it easier for the lady to decide whether she wanted to see him or not. Am I wrong? If so, it's easily remedied.

I always like to know if i have had an appointment with a guy from this board,but only at the end when the appointment is over.Some guys do mention that they are reporters on here thinking that they will get services that a girl doesnt normally offer or a better service,personally i find this rather sordid and bordering on the abusive depending on the guys attitude and the lady he is seeing.One such guy has reared his nasty little head latley to a lady i know well and tried the blackmail with a fr tactics.I wouldnt be swayed to offer services i dont like just because a guy is on here,i offer a lot of them anyway.A young wg or a newbie may feel she has too or she will get a bad report thus spoiling her fledgling career.Not every lady has the benefit of working with other more experienced wg.s when she first starts out.On the other hand though,if a guy mentions he is on here after the punt has reached its conclusion but doesnt tell me who he is then i do feel a little hurt,as i always say,"really,im chloe X,say hello next time your on there". I feel its nice to put a face to the username,it makes things more friendly and fun.

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A simple "Hiya, I got your name from Punternet" should suffice. If the wg wants to know more, let her ask.

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Some guys do mention that they are reporters on here thinking that they will get services that a girl doesnt normally offer or a better service,personally i find this rather sordid and bordering on the abusive depending on the guys attitude and the lady he is seeing.One such guy has reared his nasty little head latley to a lady i know well and tried the blackmail with a fr tactics.

Sadly this is something I hear all too often. Sometimes from girls who arent members of the board or havent even heard of Punternet or well away from my usual punting area. Youd be surprised how many times the same nicknames appear from separate girls who work miles away from each other. It is out of order. Sometimes its not just a bad FR, sometimes its just stuff in the main forum board. Wonder if that will come under the new coercion laws. Shes not trafficed or anything but threatened with a bad fr if she didnt do stuff she didnt want to do. And then get them nicked...

Sometimes it not just pnet BTW, could be C69 or one of the others.

I always book using my real name, not Overworked. That way I know if I have a good time then it was all down to me and not "fear of getting a bad review" or "pushing that bit extra and be rewarded with a good review". I dont mention Pnet at all and if Im thinking of giving a review I'll say if she knows about review site and if she minds if I write one. (even then I still dont mention Pnet)

I also steer clear of girls from the board for pretty much the same reason. Not because I dont like them (well I havent met them in person :) ) but I keep my board persona and punting seperate. Dont mind if its social or passing in the corridor or something, but then they wouldnt recognise me anyway. :D

Or if I post something that someone doesnt like and I get a click round the ear if she works out who I am....

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(Sorry T I know you wanted the ladies to answer but........)

Its a difficult one as when I saw Indian-Delight earlier this month she knew who I was and she admitted to being very nervous before I arrived.

Once she realised that the rape and pillaging would be done in a friendly manner and that I had no intention of razing her flat to the ground once I had had my wicked way with her, she relaxed.

I tend to play it by ear and if I am chatting to someone on here and a punt naturally develops then of course they know, but when it's someone I do not know but is a poster here then I tend to tell them during the punt or just afterwards, never before but always AFTER the money has changed hands as I know from what Trouncer was accused of how easily people will throw mud afterwards.

It is strange though because I punt all over the place and I find that if I mention Punternet then it is far more likely that the lady actually knows of which I speak.

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I always like to know if i have had an appointment with a guy from this board,but only at the end when the appointment is over.Some guys do mention that they are reporters on here thinking that they will get services that a girl doesnt normally offer or a better service,personally i find this rather sordid and bordering on the abusive depending on the guys attitude and the lady he is seeing.One such guy has reared his nasty little head latley to a lady i know well and tried the blackmail with a fr tactics.I wouldnt be swayed to offer services i dont like just because a guy is on here,i offer a lot of them anyway.A young wg or a newbie may feel she has too or she will get a bad report thus spoiling her fledgling career.Not every lady has the benefit of working with other more experienced wg.s when she first starts out.On the other hand though,if a guy mentions he is on here after the punt has reached its conclusion but doesnt tell me who he is then i do feel a little hurt,as i always say,"really,im chloe X,say hello next time your on there". I feel its nice to put a face to the username,it makes things more friendly and fun.

Aren't you mixing two different (though overlapping) groups here - the writers of FRs and those of us who enjoy debating on this message board? Some -- I hope only a very few---of the former may sink to the blackmailing tactics that you describe, the latter have no vested interest in doing so.

For my own part, as someone woh posts here but very rarely writes a FR, I wouldn't tell the girl who I am until the end of the liaison, and only then if I feel we've clicked. Better, otherwise, to remain anonymous.

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(Sorry T I know you wanted the ladies to answer but........)

Its a difficult one as when I saw Indian-Delight earlier this month she knew who I was and she admitted to being very nervous before I arrived.

Once she realised that the rape and pillaging would be done in a friendly manner and that I had no intention of razing her flat to the ground once I had had my wicked way with her, she relaxed.

I tend to play it by ear and if I am chatting to someone on here and a punt naturally develops then of course they know, but when it's someone I do not know but is a poster here then I tend to tell them during the punt or just afterwards, never before but always AFTER the money has changed hands as I know from what Trouncer was accused of how easily people will throw mud afterwards.

It is strange though because I punt all over the place and I find that if I mention Punternet then it is far more likely that the lady actually knows of which I speak.

I have done similar. Obviously ladies i have PMd on here know my nick anyway and this has lead to 2 turn downs, but i have punted with many lovely ladies who are board members.:D

Those i have rang only, i have not mentioned who i am till i get there in most cases but i did feel it fair to mention it because i was likely to post about it afterwards and at one time submit an FR which i would mention out of courtesy.:)

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I have met a few clients who post on here as well as doing field reports, in someways it's nice to get some idea of the tehm through their posts and FRs at the same time it lead to some slight nerves. I glad to say that I've never met anyone who has tried to use the fact that they write FRS to get something extra, that would be totally unacceptable.

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I really don't care about that sort of "identity" what I am interested in is meeting people who are honest to themselves about who they are as a person rather than thinking that a name defines them as this or that.

That said I might find it easier to spot the complete dickheads if they tried to book an appointment as "Ferrari_Penis_47" or "Mr Big Boy" or even "White Van Short_Time".

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Some guys do mention that they are reporters on here thinking that they will get services that a girl doesnt normally offer or a better service,personally i find this rather sordid and bordering on the abusive depending on the guys attitude and the lady he is seeing.

(Chloe X, I think that I can be sure that we have not yet met!)

My policy, as I'm dressing at the end, if the lady has NOT had any PN FRs, is to ask whether she has any objection to my submitting a report. If she has already got FRs to her name, I say nothing.

For the punter to discuss FRs at the beginning, I agree, is bordering on abuse, and for the lady to ask is, frankly, tacky! One lovely lady (on whom I have written one FR, so cannot write another, even more favourable) has commented to me at her exasperation at punters who have visited her several times (so, presumably, enjoy what she offers) but do not give her the support that a good FR provides.

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If a poster on this board contacts you to seek an appointment, would you prefer to know his PN identity or would you rather not. One lady told me the first time I saw her that she felt under pressure, knowing that I was a former PN mod and I have been accused in the past of seeking to gain some unfair advantage by identifying myself. I have always assumed that knowing a prospective client's ID would make it easier for the lady to decide whether she wanted to see him or not. Am I wrong? If so, it's easily remedied.

Let me modify the scenario. I am thinking of seeking a dinner date with a lady who posts on here who lives over 200 miles from me, as I shall be in her area in a few weeks' time. A long appointment with an unknown is a bit of a risk for both. If I seek to book as trouncer, she will have some idea of what I am like from my posts on here and can get some further idea, if she wishes to do so, by looking at the sort of FRs I write. If, with that knowledge, she decides to accept the booking, are we not more likely to get off to a comfortable start than otherwise? In such a situation, I would typically invite her to check me out with one or more other ladies I have seen. My belief is that the more comfortable both parties are at the beginning of a long appointment, the more successful it is likely to be. This applies only to people who one knows something of through both posting on this board.

Another disadvantage of not being open is that it cuts out a range of conversational topics over dinner.

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I would prefer not to know cant see the point they wouldnt be treat any different from anyone else. I have met both posters and non posters and they are no different from each other. Mutual respect from client and wg is all that is required and thats what makes a good appointment, which is the main aim isnt it?

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(Chloe X, I think that I can be sure that we have not yet met!)

My policy, as I'm dressing at the end, if the lady has NOT had any PN FRs, is to ask whether she has any objection to my submitting a report. If she has already got FRs to her name, I say nothing.

For the punter to discuss FRs at the beginning, I agree, is bordering on abuse, and for the lady to ask is, frankly, tacky! One lovely lady (on whom I have written one FR, so cannot write another, even more favourable) has commented to me at her exasperation at punters who have visited her several times (so, presumably, enjoy what she offers) but do not give her the support that a good FR provides.

It is of course up to the punter if he wishes to submit an FR and in my case i dont submit them any more for reasons i have stated many times before on relevant threads, so however great a punt is, an FR under the current rules would not be forthcoming from myself.

I would and have posted on the board about the experience though but do appreciate more punters read FRs than read the board IMO.

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Let me modify the scenario. I am thinking of seeking a dinner date with a lady who posts on here who lives over 200 miles from me, as I shall be in her area in a few weeks' time. A long appointment with an unknown is a bit of a risk for both. If I seek to book as trouncer, she will have some idea of what I am like from my posts on here and can get some further idea, if she wishes to do so, by looking at the sort of FRs I write. If, with that knowledge, she decides to accept the booking, are we not more likely to get off to a comfortable start than otherwise? In such a situation, I would typically invite her to check me out with one or more other ladies I have seen. My belief is that the more comfortable both parties are at the beginning of a long appointment, the more successful it is likely to be. This applies only to people who one knows something of through both posting on this board.

Another disadvantage of not being open is that it cuts out a range of conversational topics over dinner.

Sounds a good idea to me, you are also giving the lady the opportunity to say no if she doesnt like what she reads or hears after checking you out. As i said previously i was turned down by two ladies on here, but at least i was told quite quickly and moved on.

Personally i have found talking about Pnet to be a good icebreaker and interesting.:D

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Ha Ghenghis! I remember you quaking in your boots too!

I agree. It can be a little nerve racking meeting someone from this board whom you have bantered with for the best part of a year, but having said that, the nerves disappear as soon as the gent smiles :o

Doesn't help that Ghenghis had been putting the frighteners on me by sending me a pic of the real Ghenghis Khan and insisted he was his doppelg

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If a poster on this board contacts you to seek an appointment, would you prefer to know his PN identity or would you rather not. One lady told me the first time I saw her that she felt under pressure, knowing that I was a former PN mod and I have been accused in the past of seeking to gain some unfair advantage by identifying myself. I have always assumed that knowing a prospective client's ID would make it easier for the lady to decide whether she wanted to see him or not. Am I wrong? If so, it's easily remedied.

Hmmmmmmmmm, an interesting question and one that almost invites experimentation, however I don't think I shall bother as I really can't see what difference it would make if I book using my board name.

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[could be gossip of course]

Great, I like a nice bit of gossip.

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Its wrong for anyone to "cash in" on their boards name, and can be seen as being abusing the system, if a guy says he will do a fr on getting a good service.

Im a bit well known on some other boards, and have had one guy break from a punt to speak to me in reception when he heard i was in the parlour in Preston, I dont seek fame and from benefiting in this way, but it does seem strange to say im someone else, as it does cause confussion at times, at one parlour, a lady had been booked to see me, but I had used another name, and when she said to another lady I was xxxx, she replied no thats xxxx, and there was confusion about whom I was.

I would never use my name to get a better service, but it does seem weird having to book in some places as Xxxxx, and then ask if I can do a fr after the event, and the fr shows that I am Xxxxxx.

I did once use a differant name for an overnight booking, (after one overnight booking where the lady said she was nervous about meeting me), and the lady was less than complimentary about me trying to hide whom I was, as she said she had wanted to meet xxxxx, and it could have made the overnight booking differant if she knew whom I was.

I dont see an escort trying to hide whom she is if she is well known on the boards, (do guys try harder to impress if its someone well known they have booked) as that could be part of the attraction to some guys, so why should the guys try to hide whom they are, its not always about trying to get a better service.

Having said that, I think that the booking for an hour it might not matter so much, but if its an overnight booking, then its always best to be whom you are if the both of you use the same board!.

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Great, I like a nice bit of gossip.

[puts on Jimmy cricket hat and adopts an Irish accent]

Come ere... shut the door :D

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Its wrong for anyone to "cash in" on their boards name, and can be seen as being abusing the system, if a guy says he will do a fr on getting a good service.

This isn't about cashing in or writing FRs it's about increasing the comfort level at the beginning of the dinner date. At no time have I said I would offer a good FR if I got a good service. If I didn't expect to get a good service I wouldn't be booking anyway and I certainly wouldn't expect any lady that I was attracted to by her postings here to base her service on whether she expected a good FR.

It's the views of the ladies that I'm really seeking though of course anyone is welcome to post their views.

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(Sorry T I know you wanted the ladies to answer but........)

Its a difficult one as when I saw Indian-Delight earlier this month she knew who I was and she admitted to being very nervous before I arrived.

Once she realised that the rape and pillaging would be done in a friendly manner and that I had no intention of razing her flat to the ground once I had had my wicked way with her, she relaxed.

I tend to play it by ear and if I am chatting to someone on here and a punt naturally develops then of course they know, but when it's someone I do not know but is a poster here then I tend to tell them during the punt or just afterwards, never before but always AFTER the money has changed hands as I know from what Trouncer was accused of how easily people will throw mud afterwards.

It is strange though because I punt all over the place and I find that if I mention Punternet then it is far more likely that the lady actually knows of which I speak.

You must be minted!:D

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Hmmmmmmmmm, an interesting question and one that almost invites experimentation, however I don't think I shall bother as I really can't see what difference it would make if I book using my board name.

If I were a wg and you were planning to see me, I would certainly want to know it was you. I might otherwise miss a great opportunity to get better insight into the takeaway food business.

Seriously, the wit displayed by your posts would I'm sure attract me.

I'll let you know if I have a sex change.

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A simple "Hiya, I got your name from Punternet" should suffice. If the wg wants to know more, let her ask.

Good idea and gives the lady the option of whether she wants to know more or not

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It's the views of the ladies that I'm really seeking though of course anyone is welcome to post their views.

If that is the case, I personally agree with your view (not that it affects me for I have never knowingly met anyone who posts here). But hypothetically speaking, it would only help make my decision (whether to meet or not) a lot quicker and easier.

I have always assumed that knowing a prospective client's ID would make it easier for the lady to decide whether she wanted to see him or not. Am I wrong? If so, it's easily remedied.

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If I were a wg and you were planning to see me, I would certainly want to know it was you. I might otherwise miss a great opportunity to get better insight into the takeaway food business.

Seriously, the wit displayed by your posts would I'm sure attract me.

I'll let you know if I have a sex change.

Kind words Trouncer, and I thank you for them, but I think we should get a few of the basics out of the way first, if you do have a sex change will you love me truly, madly deeply, and will you want to have my babies?

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