Lamorak

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Even though we generate a significant proportion of your income, some of you are very critical of us married punters and see us as cheats.

So what do you think of single guys. Do you think some are sad guys who can't get a girl friend, or guys who just see wgs as a 30 minute testosterone relief wank vessel?

Finally who in general appreciates and treats you better, single guys or married guys, or is there no difference.

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So your saying if we pay them money they dont get an opinion?

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Even though we generate a significant proportion of your income, some of you are very critical of us married punters and see us as cheats.

So what do you think of single guys. Do you think some are sad guys who can't get a girl friend, or guys who just see wgs as a 30 minute testosterone relief wank vessel?

Finally who in general appreciates and treats you better, single guys or married guys, or is there no difference.

I'm not critical of married guys at all, there are a myriad of reasons why they choose to use the services of an escort. I don't judge them any more than I would allow them to judge me. ;)

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Seeing things in black and white doesn't automatically imply criticism or judgement.

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Neither am I. It doesn't make a difference to me and often I don't know if a guy is married or single anyway.

Views I have on fidelity are for me to apply to my private life. Not onto my clients. The only things that do influence me are attitude, respect and behaviour - not whether or not they may have a partner.

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I'm not critical of married guys at all, there are a myriad of reasons why they choose to use the services of an escort. I don't judge them any more than I would allow them to judge me. ;)

That's identical to my view Laura, we all have different needs and motives in life, we all have our own ways of dealing with them. I would think most escorts have a similar sort of view, you can't be too judgemental in our line of work.

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Who am I to critisize or judge my clients? They come from all walks of life. I'm sure their reasons for punting are just as complex and legitimate as my reasons for escorting.

Essentially, I am being paid to provide a service. Not to evaluate and analyse punters!

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Perhaps we have enough going on in our own lives not to be bothered about judging yours. Now, if a client removes his wedding ring, swears he's single & looks awkward when the pale band on his finger is mentioned, I think he's a t**t. That kind or paranoia makes me nervous, as do bad liars.

There are men whose wives don't mind them seeing WGs, but don't want them having flings or affairs.

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I'm not critical of married guys at all, there are a myriad of reasons why they choose to use the services of an escort. I don't judge them any more than I would allow them to judge me. :(

Same here Laura ;)

I don't know alot of my clients status as I don't ask them so unless they tell me, as more regular clients do in their own time and only if they want to.

They aren't questions I ever ask and I am not here to judge anyone :D

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I hope Lamorak doesn't mind if I add a question of my own.

Do the ladies find that the, erm, less attractive clients try and make up for this in performance?

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I hope Lamorak doesn't mind if I add a question of my own.

Do the ladies find that the, erm, less attractive clients try and make up for this in performance?

The same as anything else hun sometimes, sometimes not ;)

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Even though we generate a significant proportion of your income, some of you are very critical of us married punters and see us as cheats.

So what do you think of single guys. Do you think some are sad guys who can't get a girl friend, or guys who just see wgs as a 30 minute testosterone relief wank vessel?

Finally who in general appreciates and treats you better, single guys or married guys, or is there no difference.

Can you point to any ladies who hold these views and who post using their work name or work link ?

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Perhaps we have enough going on in our own lives not to be bothered about judging yours. Now, if a client removes his wedding ring, swears he's single & looks awkward when the pale band on his finger is mentioned, I think he's a t**t. That kind or paranoia makes me nervous, as do bad liars.

There are men whose wives don't mind them seeing WGs, but don't want them having flings or affairs.

So you do like good liars?!! ;)

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If a guy is clean and respectful I don't care if he's married or not.

Said that, there are not just single or married guys anyway...what about guys with girlfriends? lol

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Can you point to any ladies who hold these views and who post using their work name or work link ?

In discussions here as to whether seeing a WG is cheating, I'll agree that it is. But as it's not me who's being cheated on, it's of no concern to me.

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In discussions here as to whether seeing a WG is cheating, I'll agree that it is. But as it's not me who's being cheated on, it's of no concern to me.

Can you 'respect ' a cheat ?

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Hmm, now that's food for thought. Tbh, when I'm seeing a client I'm not really thinking about whether he's married/partnered and so cheating; I'm focussing on other aspects of "who he is" (not just sexually) iyswim.

But I could almost certainly sympathise and/or empathise with the "cheat" were he to explain his circumstances (as some men do). One chap I saw for a long time was married, but his wife had been in hospital with end-stage dementia for some years; technically he was "cheating", but I couldn't find it in myself to judge him for that. And I liked and "respected" him as a human being, so the "cheating" thing didn't really matter.

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Can you point to any ladies who hold these views and who post using their work name or work link ?

I second this and apart from Lindilala who is apparently a wife of a guy she thought might be a punter, i dont recall many ladies posting very critical opinions of married punters.

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Hmm, now that's food for thought. Tbh, when I'm seeing a client I'm not really thinking about whether he's married/partnered and so cheating; I'm focussing on other aspects of "who he is" (not just sexually) iyswim.

But I could almost certainly sympathise and/or empathise with the "cheat" were he to explain his circumstances (as some men do). One chap I saw for a long time was married, but his wife had been in hospital with end-stage dementia for some years; technically he was "cheating", but I couldn't find it in myself to judge him for that. And I liked and "respected" him as a human being, so the "cheating" thing didn't really matter.

Yes but in the course of punting with you, he tells you that he has a lovely wife who loves and depends on him and super kids who look up to their dad but yet he just likes spending family funds on having sex with pretty girls --- do you think or do anything different then ?

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Yes but in the course of punting with you, he tells you that he has a lovely wife who loves and depends on him and super kids who look up to their dad but yet he just likes spending family funds on having sex with pretty girls --- do you think or do anything different then ?

If we thought about the personal circumstances of every client we meet, we would probably go into meltdown. I think it's best to just get on with the job and leave the psychology of it all alone. I do. And anyways, people make a whole heap of crap up alot of the time.. I don't take anything that I am told whilst in flagrante delicto that seriously, it's their life not ours.

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If we thought about the personal circumstances of every client we meet, we would probably go into meltdown. I think it's best to just get on with the job and leave the psychology of it all alone. I do. And anyways, people make a whole heap of crap up alot of the time.. I don't take anything that I am told whilst in flagrante delicto that seriously, it's their life not ours.

yes, in the same way as I never ask a lady " how did you get into this " . I think our friend Mr. Malabu called it " dissociation" or something similar. The issue is what effect does it have when the other person, punter or WG, volunteers the info ?

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Yes but in the course of punting with you, he tells you that he has a lovely wife who loves and depends on him and super kids who look up to their dad but yet he just likes spending family funds on having sex with pretty girls --- do you think or do anything different then ?

Yeah, I'd wonder what he was doing with an old hag like me! ;)

Seriously, it's none of my business. I am not responsible for decisions made by grown men.

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It doesn't have any effect on myself, I just try to be as understanding as possible and concentrate on what goes on between ourselves. His private doesn't have any bearing just as mine doesn't on him.

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Yeah, I'd wonder what he was doing with an old hag like me! ;)

Seriously, it's none of my business. I am not responsible for decisions made by grown men.

When did you take those pics ---- in the 80s ? :D

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