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I was scepticle at first about Lindilala, as I could'nt see what she hoped to gain having her thoughts on an punting board, but I was intrigued by what she had to say, and it has certainly made me think more about a booking.

Lindilala stuck to her guns about what was important to her, and said what she thought of punting, and I will hope for the day when she sees that her posts do make some folk stop and think, not merely read what she has written and pass on, looking for the next post to reinforce our attitude.

I dont think she will make an escort take early retirement, or make a booking less likely to happen, but her words were from someone with a differant view point, and the board has become richer for her words, lets hope she is still reading this, and can join in with her comments when she thinks they are appropriate.

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I was scepticle at first about Lindilala, as I could'nt see what she hoped to gain having her thoughts on an punting board, but I was intrigued by what she had to say, and it has certainly made me think more about a booking.

Lindilala stuck to her guns about what was important to her, and said what she thought of punting, and I will hope for the day when she sees that her posts do make some folk stop and think, not merely read what she has written and pass on, looking for the next post to reinforce our attitude.

I dont think she will make an escort take early retirement, or make a booking less likely to happen, but her words were from someone with a differant view point, and the board has become richer for her words, lets hope she is still reading this, and can join in with her comments when she thinks they are appropriate.

Yes I would agree with this. If she is genuine , it is unusual and interesting to have such a lady post here. The wider the scope ,the better.

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I wrote a long post on reply, but have deleted it as it was OT to this thread.

Lindilala must have doubts/insecurities about her relationship, otherwise she wouldn't have come looking for this forum with her "I worried my man might use prostitutes" excuse. Either that, or she was toying with the idea of becoming an escort.

Who knows? Only Lindilala really does.

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Yes I would agree with this. If she is genuine , it is unusual and interesting to have such a lady post here. The wider the scope ,the better.

Hmm, this forum is supposed to be about punters and WGs understanding each other better- where do non-WG wives come into this? (Not that I mind Lindilala posting here at all. I'm just curious about her MN nic. :D )

I wonder how you'd all react if an aggrieved wife turned up, a woman who had discovered her husband had been seeing WGs, and was unhappy about it, rather than a wife who says how much she does to please her husband? How "interesting" would it be to widen the scope that far?

(Explosively interesting, I suspect! ;) )

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Hmm, this forum is supposed to be about punters and WGs understanding each other better- where do non-WG wives come into this? (Not that I mind Lindilala posting here at all. I'm just curious about her MN nic. :( )

I wonder how you'd all react if an aggrieved wife turned up, a woman who had discovered her husband had been seeing WGs, and was unhappy about it, rather than a wife who says how much she does to please her husband? How "interesting" would it be to widen the scope that far?

(Explosively interesting, I suspect! ;) )

I dont think its nice a wife being in that situation but I would very much like to hear her views--- as long as she's not mine of course !:D

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I wonder how you'd all react if an aggrieved wife turned up, a woman who had discovered her husband had been seeing WGs, and was unhappy about it, rather than a wife who says how much she does to please her husband? How "interesting" would it be to widen the scope that far?

(Explosively interesting, I suspect! ;) )

Caitlin, I am sure you remember, when the wife of one othe the prolific posters (who was a punter, by his own admission) posted on one of the forums (might have been 7-8 years ago now), that her husband committed suicide. She claimed that she found URL of the forum (it was not PNMB) in history of his computer, and logged on under his name to post it.

At first most of us thought it was not a genuine post (and guy was posting himself, claiming to be "wife"), but later it transpired that it was genuine post from his wife.

Completely different scope, and it was tragic, because I was convinced it was genuine.

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Hmm, this forum is supposed to be about punters and WGs understanding each other better- where do non-WG wives come into this? (Not that I mind Lindilala posting here at all. I'm just curious about her MN nic. :D )

I wonder how you'd all react if an aggrieved wife turned up, a woman who had discovered her husband had been seeing WGs, and was unhappy about it,

(Explosively interesting, I suspect! ;) )

I think that if the person scorned had a valid viewpoint to put over, and they did so in a polite and respectfull view, then the words they had to say would be/should be, taken at face value.

The board is for us all to get a better understanding, and to view others points with consideration, and in the end to make sure we know where others are coming from.

Course if it does all that then its a bloody great board.....in the meantime we need to listen to many others to get a valid viewpoint, and the non punter or ex escort, is as welcome as anyone.

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I wrote a long post on reply, but have deleted it as it was OT to this thread.

Lindilala must have doubts/insecurities about her relationship, otherwise she wouldn't have come looking for this forum with her "I worried my man might use prostitutes" excuse. Either that, or she was toying with the idea of becoming an escort.

Who knows? Only Lindilala really does.

Do you think she might be intrigued about the idea of ' no strings attached ' sex for herself ? Or is this just me and my fantasies again ? ;) I am sure that some women would dip in ,if it was made clean and easy for them !

I wonder do any WGs have female friends ' in the know ' who have expressed any interest in this ? Does Adultfriend or suchlike provide this ?

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I've only been using the board a short while, and have found Lindilala's posts to be amongst the most interesting. I didn't realise she was the only poster to be neither a WG nor a client (that's my reading of this thread), and would welcome more input from people interested in but not necessarily part of this field.

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Do you think she might be intrigued about the idea of ' no strings attached ' sex for herself ? Or is this just me and my fantasies again ? :( I am sure that some women would dip in ,if it was made clean and easy for them !

Indeed :D It's what led me into the industry - if I'm going to shag about, I might as well be able to set my own rules and get paid for it ;)

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I was scepticle at first about Lindilala, as I could'nt see what she hoped to gain having her thoughts on an punting board, but I was intrigued by what she had to say, and it has certainly made me think more about a booking.

Lindilala stuck to her guns about what was important to her, and said what she thought of punting, and I will hope for the day when she sees that her posts do make some folk stop and think, not merely read what she has written and pass on, looking for the next post to reinforce our attitude.

I dont think she will make an escort take early retirement, or make a booking less likely to happen, but her words were from someone with a differant view point, and the board has become richer for her words, lets hope she is still reading this, and can join in with her comments when she thinks they are appropriate.

I hope Lindi doesn't leave Punternet.

Anything that provokes passionate, contentious debate should be welcomed.

After all, we don't want to live in a World where everybody agrees with everybody else, do we ?

;)

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I think some posters on here were hoping to wangle their way into her pants - just to give her a taster of the life, so she could make her own mind up, of course.

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I hope Lindi doesn't leave Punternet.

Anything that provokes passionate, contentious debate should be welcomed.

After all, we don't want to live in a World where everybody agrees with everybody else, do we ?

;)

Agree to that.

Hope she stays around.

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Agree to that.

Hope she stays around.

Absolutely. Even where we disagree, she is courteous and interesting in debate.

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Hmm, this forum is supposed to be about punters and WGs understanding each other better- where do non-WG wives come into this? (Not that I mind Lindilala posting here at all. I'm just curious about her MN nic. :D )

I wonder how you'd all react if an aggrieved wife turned up, a woman who had discovered her husband had been seeing WGs, and was unhappy about it, rather than a wife who says how much she does to please her husband? How "interesting" would it be to widen the scope that far?

(Explosively interesting, I suspect! ;) )

Actually Caitlin there is just such a lady who logs on to the board most days but hasn't posted for a year.

She was aggrieved because she wanted sex but her husband wasn't providing it (the opposite of the usual stories on here) then she found out that her husband was seeing a WG (a prominent poster on here)!

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You couldn't PM a link,could you? Or was the thread deleted?

(I wonder why I didn't see it? ;) )

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I found Lindilala's postings upsetting. I suspect this forum contains many different types. There are the strong egos, the weak ones, the heroes and the cowards. (I see myself as one of the weak cowards) I find it very hard to go punting, it stirs up all sorts of conflicts of moral and loyalty to a wife I love, but feel betrayed by.

Lindilalas's comments went right to the heart of that and left me feeling unable to justify my punting activities. If that was her goal, to stop married men punting, she got to me.

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I found Lindilala's postings upsetting. I suspect this forum contains many different types. There are the strong egos, the weak ones, the heroes and the cowards. (I see myself as one of the weak cowards) I find it very hard to go punting, it stirs up all sorts of conflicts of moral and loyalty to a wife I love, but feel betrayed by.

Lindilalas's comments went right to the heart of that and left me feeling unable to justify my punting activities. If that was her goal, to stop married men punting, she got to me.

Man up Fella! I've seen a lot worse. I have very much enjoyed Lindilala's contributions.

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I found Lindilala's postings upsetting. I suspect this forum contains many different types. There are the strong egos, the weak ones, the heroes and the cowards. (I see myself as one of the weak cowards) I find it very hard to go punting, it stirs up all sorts of conflicts of moral and loyalty to a wife I love, but feel betrayed by.

Lindilalas's comments went right to the heart of that and left me feeling unable to justify my punting activities. If that was her goal, to stop married men punting, she got to me.

No disrespect or offence to you whatsoever - (and I'm not saying you're one of them) but (and as much as I understand that this is primarily a place for guys to exchange their views, let off steam and say what they can't say to anyone else), how do you think many ladies feel being slated left right and centre by so many of the harsh & strongly opinionated views and even personal attacks? At least guys can hide behind their anonymity but most girls who post on here, put themselves right in front under the spotlight. Goes with the chosen "job" I guess you can say, but I hope you also understand how many of these girls (those very girls you guys choose to have sex with) may feel.....

As for Lindilala - I don't think she ever had an agenda. She simply posted her views (just as other stronger views are posted by guys - and they can do so with a hop, skip and a jump and without a blink of an eye - yet she can't?).

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I found Lindilala's postings upsetting. I suspect this forum contains many different types. There are the strong egos, the weak ones, the heroes and the cowards. (I see myself as one of the weak cowards) I find it very hard to go punting, it stirs up all sorts of conflicts of moral and loyalty to a wife I love, but feel betrayed by.

Lindilalas's comments went right to the heart of that and left me feeling unable to justify my punting activities. If that was her goal, to stop married men punting, she got to me.

Wow.

I have enjoyed Lindilala's input, but as a married man it hasn't made me change the way I think about punting, although I had already pretty much worked it out in my own mind.

If she has made you think differently Lessingham, then fair play. I haven't had the impression that was her goal, but if you have your mind changed by her arguments then maybe you should listen to that?

Maybe you know that, and that is why she got to you?

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I found Lindilala's postings upsetting. I suspect this forum contains many different types. There are the strong egos, the weak ones, the heroes and the cowards. (I see myself as one of the weak cowards) I find it very hard to go punting, it stirs up all sorts of conflicts of moral and loyalty to a wife I love, but feel betrayed by.

Lindilalas's comments went right to the heart of that and left me feeling unable to justify my punting activities. If that was her goal, to stop married men punting, she got to me.

can you point me to one or two of the more persuasive ones for you ?

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Man up Fella! I've seen a lot worse. I have very much enjoyed Lindilala's contributions.

If he felt persuaded by an articulate poster to give up punting as a married man ---- why do you feel he should " man-up " and what would that entail ?

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If he felt persuaded by an articulate poster to give up punting as a married man ---- why do you feel he should " man-up " and what would that entail ?

Man up means get a grip, if that entails giving up punting then because of something an anon poster says then perhaps it is not for him. Why torture yourself?

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Man up means get a grip, if that entails giving up punting then because of something an anon poster says then perhaps it is not for him.

Isn't that a wee bit harsh and unnecessary? Telling someone to "get a grip" shows little tolerance for feelings you may not understand...

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Isn't that a wee bit harsh and unnecessary? Telling someone to "get a grip" shows little tolerance for feelings you may not understand...

Is it? Oh well. ;)

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