Helen Jones

..and you blame us !

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We often read posts/ threads from the male members (metaphor utterly totally and absolutely intended) about escorts who lie about their age.

It seems to happen all over the Internet and I agree it must be bloody irritating and make you quite angry, to pay to meet 23 yr old Piella of Wigan- who actually turns out to be quite a few years older than she advertises. She is in fact, according to the ad, technically old enough in reality, to be her own mother!

I sympathise with you all. It really is a leopard skin jungle out there.

It's not always our fault though.

I've just found myself listed as a 26 yr old on one listing site/directory. My full website link accompanies the listing, so anyone using that link arrives at a website of what they think is a 26 yr old. They book, they meet and.........well you could guess what the field report would accuse me of!

Hopefull they've taken note of my E-mail complaint.

It took me almost five minutes to explain to a caller how I could be advertising as a 28 year old without knowing it!

In our defence I have to add that it's not always the escorts fault. If an escort has the wrong age on her website then fair enough she has no defence other than lack of updates I suppose, otherwise you can put a lot of the blame on the flood of half arsed escort director & listings site "webmasters" that have flooded the paid sex scene over the last two or three years. They lift details from other places and fill in the details with whatever they want.

Its like electronic Chinese whispers with some sites.

I think it's prudent to check everything that you think your escort is or provides, with your escort rather than relying on a directory advert or inclusion. We wouldn't complain and it could save both a lot of fuss.

Certainly the least you should do is thoroughly read the escorts own website before jumping in with both feet.

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Certainly the least you should do is thoroughly read the escorts own website before jumping in with both feet.

This is good advice, Helen.

I think the issue is with girls who purposely aim to deceive. I looked at a girl's website yesterday and I was quite astonished to find her advertising as 34 when I know for a fact that she is 44. That can't be defended.

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One website still has me as early 30s, size 10 working from an apartment. Ok only slight errors but they are still ignoring my requests to update, eventually that age will become way out of date guys might also wonder why they are heading towards an area that doesn't look like it has 'apartments' in it.

Nothing I can do about it other than keep emailing. I even tried submitting a new profile and they haven't gotten back to me in weeks. So guys it's not me who is lying!

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One website still has me as early 30s, size 10 working from an apartment. Ok only slight errors but they are still ignoring my requests to update, eventually that age will become way out of date guys might also wonder why they are heading towards an area that doesn't look like it has 'apartments' in it.

Nothing I can do about it other than keep emailing. I even tried submitting a new profile and they haven't gotten back to me in weeks. So guys it's not me who is lying!

I thought we - and especially clients, should blacklist these sites somehow but that would just mean more publicity for poorly run websites who don't deserve a mention god forbid us sending visitors to them.

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Yes I am on one or two sites which have just guessed some of my stats....

one has told the whole world that my boobs are a B

I am still sulking.... they are indeed a good D or DD depending on the weather :D

Some of these sites just lift photos from our own sites and don't show much of our bodies..... so looking at the pics would not give a man much idea of boob size

I suppose that is better than the other way around though, if boobs were advertised as big and in when he arrives and finds them not big enough ....

;)

many men do not bother linking to our own website from these other profiles

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It also happens that a web site is owned and maintained by someone who falls out with the WG and so either does not give a damn or at worst tries to make her look bad.

The ones who do it deliberately (WGs or site owners) need naming and shaming, however the final acid test must always be the WGs personal web-site, what does that say and is it credible?

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It also happens that a web site is owned and maintained by someone who falls out with the WG and so either does not give a damn or at worst tries to make her look bad.

The ones who do it deliberately (WGs or site owners) need naming and shaming, however the final acid test must always be the WGs personal web-site, what does that say and is it credible?

In the case of the well respected Indie Linzi D of MK who i think now works for HOD she told me on a number ocassions that the Party provider www.desireparties.net use her own pictures from her own site without her permission and advertise her as a Lara and as actively Partying for them. She told me she has never worked for them.

I asked G to remove an FR i did on this bunch of bait and switch merchants, which they werent when i did the FR, and he took it down immediately. Site owners like this are beyond the pale in my view.

Her own site was very credible and she has many FRs that help prove that.

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In the case of the well respected Indie Linzi D of MK who i think now works for HOD she told me on a number ocassions that the Party provider www.desireparties.net use her own pictures from her own site without her permission and advertise her as a Lara and as actively Partying for them. She told me she has never worked for them.

I asked G to remove an FR i did on this bunch of bait and switch merchants, which they werent when i did the FR, and he took it down immediately. Site owners like this are beyond the pale in my view.

Her own site was very credible and she has many FRs that help prove that.

Looking at desireparties website I see that Linzi D is still on their site and advertised, as stated by you, as Lara. I agree with you Smiths, this is disgraceful and I feel that further action should be taken by Galahad.;)

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Yes I am on one or two sites which have just guessed some of my stats....

one has told the whole world that my boobs are a B

I am still sulking.... they are indeed a good D or DD depending on the weather :D

Some of these sites just lift photos from our own sites and don't show much of our bodies..... so looking at the pics would not give a man much idea of boob size

I suppose that is better than the other way around though, if boobs were advertised as big and in when he arrives and finds them not big enough ....

;)

many men do not bother linking to our own website from these other profiles

Funny that --- its the first thing I look for as I presume that all the up to date info and pics will be on the girls website . Some men never cease to amaze me --- look at the thread on shoes ! The no shoes brigade are winning at the mo. Can you Adele of all people imagine that !:D

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Ah... the "shoes" poll thread .....

I just looked at it for the first time, I had imagined it might be boring so gave it a miss until now.

I have contributed on there now so the lot of you can get yourselves over there

and read my boring post.

;)

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One website still has me as early 30s, size 10 working from an apartment. Ok only slight errors but they are still ignoring my requests to update, eventually that age will become way out of date guys might also wonder why they are heading towards an area that doesn't look like it has 'apartments' in it.

Nothing I can do about it other than keep emailing. I even tried submitting a new profile and they haven't gotten back to me in weeks. So guys it's not me who is lying!

Can you do a 'whois' on the domain and get a phone number?

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Good idea Vampi but I think I posted about my last conversation with a website admin/owner. He was very rude and acted as if I was being unreasonable.

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Good idea Vampi but I think I posted about my last conversation with a website admin/owner. He was very rude and acted as if I was being unreasonable.

Missed that post. I'd just keep hassling him, write letters, phoning him etc and generally be annoying until things change. If it sounds like he is not taking you seriously because you're female get a bloke to phone him? I'd also get in touch with as many other girls on the site who are being mis-represented and give them his contact details to generally keep pissing him off. ;)

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The outcome of that situation was that eventually my details were removed but none of my emails were acknowledged, even thought I knew they were opened and read.

This is a different directory I've found now. Do keep up dear.

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