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This ' chemistry ' thingy ..........

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Look --- I have to admit I get a bit pi**ed off at this chemistry thingy. Guys are reasonably practical when it comes to their ability to enjoy sex with a woman, WG or not. Nice face and body, friendly and with a nice positive attitude --- once the lady is over the line on those criteria, we're off and we are near guaranteed to enjoy the sex.! :)

Many of you ladies say you enjoy sex, some of you say just as much as the guys, so why cant you be as uncomplicated as well ? If the guy is reasonably psychically attractive as a man, is fresh, mannerly, good positive attitude, bright and easy to talk to, has a functioning penis and is not an ' omadawn ' in bed --- then why as the opposite sex is that not enough for you ? Why all this ' chemistry ' stuff that we cant put our finger on ?:) Are you using it to noodle our heads ! :)

Sure you may not want a relationship with us but if you are not tired from earlier bookings and if we are ' over the line ' on these attributes why is enjoyable sex with us on a punt not a slamdunk !;)

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Look --- I have to admit I get a bit pi**ed off at this chemistry thingy. Guys are reasonably practical when it comes to their ability to enjoy sex with a woman, WG or not. Nice face and body, friendly and with a nice positive attitude --- once the lady is over the line on those criteria, we're off and we are near guaranteed to enjoy the sex.! :)

Many of you ladies say you enjoy sex, some of you say just as much as the guys, so why cant you be as uncomplicated as well ? If the guy is reasonably psychically attractive as a man, is fresh, mannerly, good positive attitude, bright and easy to talk to, has a functioning penis and is not an ' omadawn ' in bed --- then why as the opposite sex is that not enough for you ? Why all this ' chemistry ' stuff that we cant put our finger on ?:) Are you using it to noodle our heads ! :)

Sure you may not want a relationship with us but if you are not tired from earlier bookings and if we are ' over the line ' on these attributes why is enjoyable sex with us on a punt not a slamdunk !;)

The "chemistry" is the crisp £50 and £20 pound notes you hand over. Once you've paid her,it's her job to give you a good time - so it doesn't really matter how you look - all that matters is that you should be clean, respectful and unaggressive.

Just let the money do all the chemistry work.

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Look --- I have to admit I get a bit pi**ed off at this chemistry thingy. Guys are reasonably practical when it comes to their ability to enjoy sex with a woman, WG or not. Nice face and body, friendly and with a nice positive attitude --- once the lady is over the line on those criteria, we're off and we are near guaranteed to enjoy the sex.! :)

Many of you ladies say you enjoy sex, some of you say just as much as the guys, so why cant you be as uncomplicated as well ? If the guy is reasonably psychically attractive as a man, is fresh, mannerly, good positive attitude, bright and easy to talk to, has a functioning penis and is not an ' omadawn ' in bed --- then why as the opposite sex is that not enough for you ? Why all this ' chemistry ' stuff that we cant put our finger on ?:) Are you using it to noodle our heads ! :)

Sure you may not want a relationship with us but if you are not tired from earlier bookings and if we are ' over the line ' on these attributes why is enjoyable sex with us on a punt not a slamdunk !;)

I wouldnt get over the line on the reasonably psychically attractive as a man criteria unfortunately, i am confident on the rest though, except my dick doesnt always function as i would like.:)

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Look ---

If the guy is reasonably psychically attractive as a man, is fresh, mannerly, good positive attitude, bright and easy to talk to, has a functioning penis and is not an ' omadawn ' in bed --- then why as the opposite sex is that not enough for you ? Why all this ' chemistry ' stuff that we cant put our finger on ?:) Are you using it to noodle our heads ! :)

Sure you may not want a relationship with us but if you are not tired from earlier bookings and if we are ' over the line ' on these attributes why is enjoyable sex with us on a punt not a slamdunk !;)

Maybe because pretty darn often none of that "reasonably physically attractive, etc..." stuff applies??

But threads like this always puzzle me just a little. I thought that basic "punt contract" was for guy to pay, be clean, polite and courteous, mindful of the agreed services... and then the woman pleasured the guy. Any sexual pleasure for the woman is just an happy accident... its not the point of the punt surely??

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Maybe because pretty darn often none of that "reasonably physically attractive, etc..." stuff applies??

But threads like this always puzzle me just a little. I thought that basic "punt contract" was for guy to pay, be clean, polite and courteous, mindful of the agreed services... and then the woman pleasured the guy. Any sexual pleasure for the woman is just an happy accident... its not the point of the punt surely??

I completely agree. When I was just a lurker I often saw 'lack of chemistry' cited in thread discussions as an excuse for disappointing the punter.

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"Chemistry" can turn a good date into a great date. Sure, the money is your introduction and guaranteed shag, but when "chemistry" kicks in you get that emotional connection that would/could further the relationship if it wasn't a punt.

If you see what I mean.

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Maybe because pretty darn often none of that "reasonably physically attractive, etc..." stuff applies??

But threads like this always puzzle me just a little. I thought that basic "punt contract" was for guy to pay, be clean, polite and courteous, mindful of the agreed services... and then the woman pleasured the guy. Any sexual pleasure for the woman is just an happy accident... its not the point of the punt surely??

It would be preferable to me if the lady enjoyed the sex too but as long as she is friendly and enthusiastic that satisfies me as long as she offers what i require.

For some punters giving the pleasure is the whole point of a punt, i have often see this at Parties with guys giving oral until the lady cums or pretends to cum, its their sole objective so a few have told me.

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"Chemistry" can turn a good date into a great date. Sure, the money is your introduction and guaranteed shag, but when "chemistry" kicks in you get that emotional connection that would/could further the relationship if it wasn't a punt.

If you see what I mean.

I think i see what you mean.:) In my experience the chemistry/clicking factor when it occurs certainly has led to fantastic punts. For me its like the lady is tuned into my brain and knows what i require before i have to explain, for whatever reason she knows what i like and how i like it instinctively.;);)

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"Chemistry" can turn a good date into a great date. Sure, the money is your introduction and guaranteed shag, but when "chemistry" kicks in you get that emotional connection that would/could further the relationship if it wasn't a punt.

If you see what I mean.

Any "emotional connection" would make a man run a mile. You certainly have no wish to ever get to know her.

You see a girl because the wife is playing up and you just want no hassle sex but you don't want to know her just as she doesn't want to know you. The minute you leave she starts getting ready for the next man and after a week she'll have trouble even remembering your face let alone your name.

There is no romance in Prostitution. Everything is fake. Girlfriend experience with girls who are not your girlfriend. Pornstar experience with girls who are not pornstars. The girls use fake names and punting phones and so do the guys. The girls concoct a fake persona and personal history and so do the guys. You don't ask her about her personal life and you certainly don't let her know anything about your own real personal life.

What makes it memorable is the Sex - which is why I always go for the KSE (Kama Sutra Experience).

;)

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I have to go and try and do a bit of work ;) but before I go;

Maybe because pretty darn often none of that "reasonably physically attractive, etc..." stuff applies??

But threads like this always puzzle me just a little. I thought that basic "punt contract" was for guy to pay, be clean, polite and courteous, mindful of the agreed services... and then the woman pleasured the guy. Any sexual pleasure for the woman is just an happy accident... its not the point of the punt surely??

Most of the guys I know who punt , would be considered by ladies in civvy street, to be well over the line. I dont think men's desire to punt can be related negatively to their physical appearance.

No agreed, its not' the ' point but for many punters its something that makes the punt much more enjoyable for them if they feel that the lady is also being sexually entertained. You only have to look thru the threads here and in particular the FRs to see how many references are made by punters to the lady appearing to enjoy his actions. Hence, some Wgs act and moan and groan to feed this desire of the punter as they know its important to many punters.

"Chemistry" can turn a good date into a great date. Sure, the money is your introduction and guaranteed shag, but when "chemistry" kicks in you get that emotional connection that would/could further the relationship if it wasn't a punt.

If you see what I mean.

On a punt, we know we are not on a date. We dont seek ' chemistry ' at a level that might further the relationship, if it wasnt a punt. Many ladies have posted here that to really truly enjoy the sexand intimacy and perhaps orgasm, they require the ' chemistry' factor. If the attributes and circumstances mentioned in the OP are in place, why isnt enjoyable sex on a punt a slamdunk ! Why isnt that enough ?

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On a punt, we know we are not on a date. We dont seek ' chemistry ' at a level that might further the relationship, if it wasnt a punt. Many ladies have posted here that to really truly enjoy the sexand intimacy and perhaps orgasm, they require the ' chemistry' factor. If the attributes and circumstances mentioned in the OP are in place, why isnt enjoyable sex on a punt a slamdunk ! Why isnt that enough ?

Alright, I'll reword it just for you. "Chemistry" can turn a good punt into a great punt. I know people who call punts "dates", so that's the word I used.

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Any sexual pleasure for the woman is just an happy accident... its not the point of the punt surely??

Yes, I suppose so, except that for me, and, I suspect for a good few other fluffies, if the woman appears to enjoy our "connection", or even better, does actually enjoy it, this squares my pleasure!

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Any "emotional connection" would make a man run a mile. You certainly have no wish to ever get to know her.

You see a girl because the wife is playing up and you just want no hassle sex but you don't want to know her just as she doesn't want to know you. The minute you leave she starts getting ready for the next man and after a week she'll have trouble even remembering your face let alone your name.

There is no romance in Prostitution. Everything is fake. Girlfriend experience with girls who are not your girlfriend. Pornstar experience with girls who are not pornstars. The girls use fake names and punting phones and so do the guys. The girls concoct a fake persona and personal history and so do the guys. You don't ask her about her personal life and you certainly don't let her know anything about your own real personal life.

What makes it memorable is the Sex - which is why I always go for the KSE (Kama Sutra Experience).

;)

You seem to have a very specific view of how things are. Of course some meets may be as described in your posts, but to assume that all meetings are like that is in my opinion a mistake.

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Isn't "chemistry" shorthand for saying that two people have clicked; have found something in common whether thats physical or emotional; have made a connection and so on.

A punt without it is a bit soul-less, like shagging a sack of potatoes or wanking. It takes a special sort of person to want to do that too many times and I don't mean in a good way.

It is a bit fluffy but, honestly, without it you might as well turn up, get her knickers off, give her one and fuck off home again, probably without even undoing your belt.

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Isn't "chemistry" shorthand for saying that two people have clicked; have found something in common whether thats physical or emotional; have made a connection and so on.

Rather than seeing it as chemistry - maybe my interpretation is wrong but I tend to think of it as what happens when we take the fact that I've been paid (ie. I must be pretending) and he's paying (she's a WG) out of the equation and just get on with having a 'good session' like 2 consenting adults.

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Look --- I have to admit I get a bit pi**ed off at this chemistry thingy. Guys are reasonably practical when it comes to their ability to enjoy sex with a woman, WG or not. Nice face and body, friendly and with a nice positive attitude --- once the lady is over the line on those criteria, we're off and we are near guaranteed to enjoy the sex.! :)

Many of you ladies say you enjoy sex, some of you say just as much as the guys, so why cant you be as uncomplicated as well ? If the guy is reasonably psychically attractive as a man, is fresh, mannerly, good positive attitude, bright and easy to talk to, has a functioning penis and is not an ' omadawn ' in bed --- then why as the opposite sex is that not enough for you ? Why all this ' chemistry ' stuff that we cant put our finger on ?:) Are you using it to noodle our heads ! :)

Sure you may not want a relationship with us but if you are not tired from earlier bookings and if we are ' over the line ' on these attributes why is enjoyable sex with us on a punt not a slamdunk !;)

An omadawn in bed? Hmm, I thought it was spelt with two mm's or am I the idiot?

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Alright, I'll reword it just for you. "Chemistry" can turn a good punt into a great punt. I know people who call punts "dates", so that's the word I used.

I thought they would all have been shot or silenced by now !! ;)

Yes I understand how you see it, but I think my question still remains largely unanswered. I believe from reading the posts of many WGs here that a 'good ' punt is probably one where the gentleman fits the required criteria [ pays up, clean, respectable, friendly etc,etc] and the lady is content to perform a hassle free professional job . However even so, the lady might go through the session with minimal,if any, real sexual gratification. On the otherhand a ' good ' punt for a guy will 95% of the time mean heightened sexual gratification involving orgasm. Big difference.

I understood from the WGs here that for a lady to find or reach heightened sexual gratification and most certainly to reach orgasm, the 'chemistry ' thingy was necessary, not merely a 'good ' punt but something well beyond.

Rather than seeing it as chemistry - maybe my interpretation is wrong but I tend to think of it as what happens when we take the fact that I've been paid (ie. I must be pretending) and he's paying (she's a WG) out of the equation and just get on with having a 'good session' like 2 consenting adults.

Because it appears most WGs actually find it difficult to take these factors ' out of the equation '. I would like to be wrong on this and be corrected. :) Guys are able to acheive sex sexual gratification within the equation however.

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You just have to accept women are built differently. In a punting situation or not, woman are turned on and attracted to different things than we are, simple as that. Women have very finely tuned radars and work on emotion and feelings much more than logic, if you want to have 'chemistry' with a woman, you have to understand that.

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You just have to accept women are built differently. In a punting situation or not, woman are turned on and attracted to different things than we are, simple as that. Women have very finely tuned radars and work on emotion and feelings much more than logic, if you want to have 'chemistry' with a woman, you have to understand that.

I'm not entirely sure about that. I think many women are well capable of being immediately' turned on ' by a very physically attractive man -- provided he is not a pratt.

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Because it appears most WGs actually find it difficult to take these factors ' out of the equation '. I would like to be wrong on this and be corrected. ;) Guys are able to acheive sex sexual gratification within the equation however.

I am not going into any paid sex encounter in the hope I'll be 'sexually gratified' - if good sex happens then okay. I'm there as a provider of services - if a client leaves, or I leave and I know I've 'done a good job', he has a grin like a Cheshire Cat then that's my gratification, plus the fee of course.

I've met some men I would never have on the radar as 'fanciable' - everything wrong physically and wouldn't have thought they would ever be my type intellectually but it's been a great time for both as far as a paid sex encounter.

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I'm not entirely sure about that. I think many women are well capable of being immediately' turned on ' by a very physically attractive man -- provided he is not a pratt.

Yes, it does happen, I can attest to that ;)

But the fact is the majority of women dont click with a guy straight away because of his looks - the vibe has to be right.

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But the fact is the majority of women dont click with a guy straight away because of his looks - the vibe has to be right.

it's the impressions made ie. attitude, body language and all those other little nuances which quick in in the first 27 seconds of coming face to face with your client (WG radar intuition - you men don't have) - innit ? ;)

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Yes, it does happen, I can attest to that :)

But the fact is the majority of women dont click with a guy straight away because of his looks - the vibe has to be right.

I can only agree with everything you've said on this thread :) Everyone's different of course. Chemistry for me also has diddly squat to do with any certain "look" or physical attribute. It's all about the vibe ;)

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it's the impressions made ie. attitude, body language and all those other little nuances which quick in in the first 27 seconds of coming face to face with your client (WG radar intuition - you men don't have) - innit ? ;)

We don't? See my FR 53273!

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There is no romance in Prostitution. Everything is fake. Girlfriend experience with girls who are not your girlfriend. Pornstar experience with girls who are not pornstars. The girls use fake names and punting phones and so do the guys. The girls concoct a fake persona and personal history and so do the guys. You don't ask her about her personal life and you certainly don't let her know anything about your own real personal life.

See, I used to be cynical exactly like this. Turn up, meet a hot girl who I'd have no chance of shagging in real life, had some good horny meaningless sex, rinse, lather, repeat..

Then I actually met a WG I actually "clicked" with. We had loads in common; same interests, same taste in music, same fashion sense, same sense of humour. It was a pleasure just hanging out with her; she's always let me stay extra time so we could just talk. And the sex was just amazing, it felt "real"; not a GFE, this was actually like shagging an actual girlfriend for the first time (remember how exciting that feeling is?).

Interesting thing is, she certainly wasn't the most stunning girl I've ever visited, and was actually one of the cheapest (only £80ph), but the "chemistry" made all the difference. Also she could have provided the exact same experience with 100 guys that day, but it wasn't really her performance that counted, it was about what was going on in my head, how I felt about her that was crucial.

Sad thing is, only saw her a few times, then she just vanished; agency just sounded confused and denied she ever existed. Still wonder what happened to her..

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