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Sensible Or A Risk Taker?

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With a nod to Melanie for the idea,:( Guys, do you think your a sensible punter, for example having a dedicated punting phone, only punting with those ladies or at those establishments that are rated by multiple FRs, posts on here or both?

Or are you a punter who likes taking risks as perhaps it adds to your punting experiences and/or gives you an extra thrill? Maybe you have been both at different times?

Ladies, excluding with your personal safety do you enjoy the thrill of taking risks, for example punting outdoors?

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I used to take risks, just punt without thinking about it, and had a great time. then a run of bad punts and i got more cautious. have less bad punts now, but also less great punts too. its like life - do yu prefer a series of highs and lows, and a nice straight line of predictibility...

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It depends on what I am risking.

As a married punter, I am ultra cautious in arranging my punts and certainly subscribe to the punting sim, different e-mail address, different e-mail client and different web browser (with the history turned off) approach. I always make sure I have a believable cover story in place as well.

As a medium frequency punter (twice a month), I like to be reasonably sure that I get vfm from my punting and hence rarely take risks with booking unknown quantities. However, every now and again, I do get the urge to book someone on ** with little or no feedback and/or no FRs on here. However, whenever I have gone "off-piste" like that, I have never found an absolute gem (in fact they have invariably been below average). Each time I do this, I swear that I am going to stick to the girls with excellent feedback, but I suspect that I'll have another couple of blind punts as 2010 rolls on, even if it is just to have something new to talk about on here :(.

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The question caused me to give some thought and caused a little surprise, thinking back.

Those who know me in real life would probably consider me very careful, rational and risk-averse. I'd be inclined to agree. But in my punting career I have been somewhat different.

As a married punter, the biggest risk, I guess, is being seen in public with someone who could be your daughter, but isn't. A few years ago I had a regular with whom I thought I got on very well. The first girl I ever punted with. Over a period of 2 or 3 years, we went (sometimes paid, sometimes not) to opera, ballet and musicals. We wandered round bars in central London. We went round the Tate Modern and various other places, and ate in popular restaurants. She was a fairly well-known, and stunning, model so we were not exactly low profile. If we had ever bumped into anyone I knew, that would have been almost certainly fatal. It would have been very difficult to invent a decent cover story for any of these occasions.

We also exchanged around 400 texts in one year (symmetrically) though we very rarely spoke on the phone. I have never had a separate punting phone. It would have been too complicated and would have meant carrying 2 phones virtually all the time. I know you can have 2 sims, but I couldn't be bothered with switching. I think I'm pretty well organised and careful, but I am well aware that most people on this forum would regard this as insane.

Later on, there was another girl who I spent a few days with at a time, and we did the sights. This one was nearer my age so we didn't stand out. We did a couple of shows, the odd exhibition and an event where Channel 4 were filming. When they started pointing the cameras towards the audience, I had to try and keep behind someone's head all the time.

I was acclimatised to these risks in those days, and just got on with it. Thinking back, I'm fairly horrified.

Nowadays, I can't afford anything but a bog-standard incall, fairly infrequently, and I don't see much risk in that. But I'd never book anyone without a PN FR or recommendation.

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I only have one mobile phone, and fortunately my wife never looks at it (we're both mobile-phobes and only have them 'cos yiou have to these days). I have to be careful with e-mails from Another Site though in case they're spotted. I get the occasional chill-out weekend away alone, and I sometimes splurge during those.

Generally I prefer to go with someone with at least some feedback, but if the face is attractive enough I've occasionally taken a chance. There's a Thai lady in Darlington I've got my eye on at the moment, no feedback but pics of her in action and she's just my type - mature, buxom, skilled in massage and her fun-pocket left exactly as nature intended.

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It is all to do with your life style. the only thing you need to make sure, especially if you are married or in a relationship is complacency. :D

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Hasn't anyone seen Breaking Bad?

Having two phones itself is an admission of guilt.

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With a nod to Melanie for the idea,:D Guys, do you think your a sensible punter, for example having a dedicated punting phone, only punting with those ladies or at those establishments that are rated by multiple FRs, posts on here or both?

Or are you a punter who likes taking risks as perhaps it adds to your punting experiences and/or gives you an extra thrill? Maybe you have been both at different times?

Ladies, excluding with your personal safety do you enjoy the thrill of taking risks, for example punting outdoors?

I must admit I do like the occasional thrill that can go with escorting - I've had a few outdoor sessions with trusted clients (one mad client and I found a country lane and I decided it would be better sex on the top of his new mercedes than in it. The wind was howling, it was freezing and when he had his orgasm I jumped in the car and locked him out but only for 5 mins. He looked so funny standing there nethers exposed to the elements - I had his trousers and pants in the car. We laughed about it for years after).

I had an overnight session with very special client and he informed me the next morning his house was up for viewing at 10am and would I pretend to be 'lady of the house' - what strange looks we got as I paraded around the house in a gold Shantung silk dress, seamed stockings and high heels looking very the worse for wear. I predicted which couple would buy the house and a couple of months later I was proved correct. :D

I dare not think anymore because like Barrycade I'll probably shock myself.

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and an event where Channel 4 were filming. When they started pointing the cameras towards the audience, I had to try and keep behind someone's head all the time.

That reminds of the time when a WG had some tickets for the Mens Gymnastic event at GMEX at the Commonwealth Games and took me along. You didn't get to pick your seats they were just allocated to you. We were in the centre about 3 rows back but there were no seats in front of us just a BBC camera unit. My then wife was abroad with the kids at the time and I was supposedly hiking in the Lake District. England did very well that afternoon and everytime they won some something the camera swung round to capture the cheering crowd and a man seemly reading a newspaper sat next to an attractive grinning redhead!

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I took my regular lady away to a posh hotel for the weekend, where she insisted on introducing herself to the desk staff as Mrs {slim} and signed the registration card as Mrs {slim}.

A couple of weeks later I had to return to that city and booked into the same hotel with my (much older, much less attractive) wife. I still remember the look on the desk clerk's face as he welcomed me back; totally professional, just a hint of a knowing smile :D

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I do tend to be very carefull, and try to not do anything strange or out of the ordinary when I punt, like wearing my best clothes, or trying to make myself look too much out of the normal routine.

But I have had about 25 overnighters in the last 4 years, and always end up at the same hotel, where a few of the staff have remained for all that time, its very plain what is going on as im nearly 60 and walk about the place with 20-30 year olds on a regular basis, who all seem to be a wife!.....:D.

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I took my regular lady away to a posh hotel for the weekend, where she insisted on introducing herself to the desk staff as Mrs {slim} and signed the registration card as Mrs {slim}.

A couple of weeks later I had to return to that city and booked into the same hotel with my (much older, much less attractive) wife. I still remember the look on the desk clerk's face as he welcomed me back; totally professional, just a hint of a knowing smile :D

That's pretty much the definition of an unnecessary risk. Surely the hotel wasn't so amazing that you couldn't find another one?

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I took my regular lady away to a posh hotel for the weekend, where she insisted on introducing herself to the desk staff as Mrs {slim} and signed the registration card as Mrs {slim}.

A couple of weeks later I had to return to that city and booked into the same hotel with my (much older, much less attractive) wife. I still remember the look on the desk clerk's face as he welcomed me back; totally professional, just a hint of a knowing smile :D

But remember, the desk man didn't know which one was your wife. And that smile, he may have taken you for a bigamist. You assume because you know, but others don't.

On the subject, for a married man any punt carries a degree of risk, but I don't see sticking to the tried and tested as a recipe for avoiding disaster anyway. My main concern is for the security of my vehicle while I am on a punt, and its one thing that bothers me about visiting one of the Bury (Lancs) establishments is whether my car will be intact when I return; I have left my car in a few plaes that were the best of a bad job and gave me cause for concern. However I have never felt in personal danger, even when punting overseas where you are less knowledgeable about your surroundings.

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That's pretty much the definition of an unnecessary risk. Surely the hotel wasn't so amazing that you couldn't find another one?

People working at a reception usually know about keeping their mouths shut.

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People working at a reception usually know about keeping their mouths shut.

They have to, as a good proportion of their business comes from sex related activity, if its not working girls or affairs. Plus those away on business from the same company that just happen to be staying on the same night in the same hotel.. :D

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With a nod to Melanie for the idea,:D Guys, do you think your a sensible punter, for example having a dedicated punting phone, only punting with those ladies or at those establishments that are rated by multiple FRs, posts on here or both?

Or are you a punter who likes taking risks as perhaps it adds to your punting experiences and/or gives you an extra thrill? Maybe you have been both at different times?

Ladies, excluding with your personal safety do you enjoy the thrill of taking risks, for example punting outdoors?

I do the vast majority of my punting in london. You have safety in numbers and it is so impersonal. I stick mostly to tried and trusted agencies and those indies that have built up a good reputation. Punting with strangers has enough risk already attached. I would consider myself very careful.

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I'm in the very sensible camp. Although in my personal life I have been a risk taker e.g. done extreme sports or gambled very large sums of money, I'm very careful as there is potentially so much to lose if I got caught punting.

The main thing I do is to have most of my punts very early in the morning e.g. 8am on the way to work or only rarely these days, on a business trip.

I stick to girls with at least three or four good FRs, nearly always indies. If it's a parlour, then only the well known reliable ones like Sandys.

I have a dedicated punting email address and use a different browser as an earlier poster mentioned, plus use the 'private' (AKA porn) mode browsing.

My wife hardly ever looks at our joint bank account. Luckily I have a very high income so she wouldn't even notice a few hundred pounds being diverted to punting.

I don't have a dedicated punting phone but funnily enough until recently I would often have up to four or five different mobiles for work purposes so the wife probably wouldn't bat an eyelid at multiple phones.

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The question caused me to give some thought and caused a little surprise, thinking back.

Those who know me in real life would probably consider me very careful, rational and risk-averse. I'd be inclined to agree. But in my punting career I have been somewhat different.

As a married punter, the biggest risk, I guess, is being seen in public with someone who could be your daughter, but isn't. A few years ago I had a regular with whom I thought I got on very well. The first girl I ever punted with. Over a period of 2 or 3 years, we went (sometimes paid, sometimes not) to opera, ballet and musicals. We wandered round bars in central London. We went round the Tate Modern and various other places, and ate in popular restaurants. She was a fairly well-known, and stunning, model so we were not exactly low profile. If we had ever bumped into anyone I knew, that would have been almost certainly fatal. It would have been very difficult to invent a decent cover story for any of these occasions.

We also exchanged around 400 texts in one year (symmetrically) though we very rarely spoke on the phone. I have never had a separate punting phone. It would have been too complicated and would have meant carrying 2 phones virtually all the time. I know you can have 2 sims, but I couldn't be bothered with switching. I think I'm pretty well organised and careful, but I am well aware that most people on this forum would regard this as insane.

Later on, there was another girl who I spent a few days with at a time, and we did the sights. This one was nearer my age so we didn't stand out. We did a couple of shows, the odd exhibition and an event where Channel 4 were filming. When they started pointing the cameras towards the audience, I had to try and keep behind someone's head all the time.

I was acclimatised to these risks in those days, and just got on with it. Thinking back, I'm fairly horrified.

Nowadays, I can't afford anything but a bog-standard incall, fairly infrequently, and I don't see much risk in that. But I'd never book anyone without a PN FR or recommendation.

In real life i am similar to what you describe about yourself, in punting though i have taken big risks on ocassion, and have done so for the kick/adrenalin rush that it gave me.

At times all good sense has gone out the window but i have been lucky and am more careful these days, although can never rule out taking risks in the future.

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I'm a sensible lad.. although i'm a noncomfortist at heart.. i do like a bit of routine.. which is why i punt with wg's until i find one that i like and have some kind of chemistry or connection with (there that "chemistry" word again") and then i usually end becoming a regular of hers.

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I took my regular lady away to a posh hotel for the weekend, where she insisted on introducing herself to the desk staff as Mrs {slim} and signed the registration card as Mrs {slim}.

A couple of weeks later I had to return to that city and booked into the same hotel with my (much older, much less attractive) wife. I still remember the look on the desk clerk's face as he welcomed me back; totally professional, just a hint of a knowing smile :D

Slim, I admire you for having the courage to take the real Mrs Slim to that hotel.

Read one of my old post.

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People working at a reception usually know about keeping their mouths shut.

Usually-- though there can be posthumous comments when the bed needs to be reinforced so that an overweight Italian opera singer can be entertained by three WGs at once. See next to last para:

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article7043779.ece

Whoever was in the room below was taking an unknown risk

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With a nod to Melanie for the idea,:D Guys, do you think your a sensible punter, for example having a dedicated punting phone, only punting with those ladies or at those establishments that are rated by multiple FRs, posts on here or both?

Or are you a punter who likes taking risks as perhaps it adds to your punting experiences and/or gives you an extra thrill? Maybe you have been both at different times?

Ladies, excluding with your personal safety do you enjoy the thrill of taking risks, for example punting outdoors?

Risks, mmmmm let me think ! yes, I have had a few risky encounter's lol. Mainly when I was with an agency doing outcalls.

It is amazing the amount of men who like to take 'risks' on seeing escorts in their own home while wife is away.......

I've had a few close shaves myself in personal life. Found out it's really not worth the hassle seeing two guy's at the same time- complicated, messy to say the least! :D:D:rolleyes: xxx

I will get back to your thread Smiths when got time later lol :) xxx

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I took my regular lady away to a posh hotel for the weekend, where she insisted on introducing herself to the desk staff as Mrs {slim} and signed the registration card as Mrs {slim}.

"She insisted", you say, with, I think, a hint of dissaproval?

What would you have preferred? "Oh, I'm just his bit on the side!" Or, or, or what?

Personally, I'm so old world chauvinistic that I wouldn't expect hotel staff to comment on my companion, far less communicate with her.

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"She insisted", you say, with, I think, a hint of dissaproval?

What would you have preferred? "Oh, I'm just his bit on the side!" Or, or, or what?

Personally, I'm so old world chauvinistic that I wouldn't expect hotel staff to comment on my companion, far less communicate with her.

Absolutely no disapproval from me, she's got bags of personality and loves to wind me up, embarrass me, push me out of my dull businessman persona. But I love it really.

On other occasions when we have been out on the town together she has introduced herself as my mistress, my friend with benefits, and on one occasion told a couple having dinner at the next table that she was a high class prostitute and I was her client :D (by the way, they thought it was a wind up and didn't believe her)

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It is amazing the amount of men who like to take 'risks' on seeing escorts in their own home while wife is away.......

Nastasha, that begs the question, do you think they purposely book the punt at home too put a little excitement in the punt (the thrill of almost being caught) or do you think that they were really just that stupid enough book an outcall in there own home? :D

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