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Punting Etiquette

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As with many things, manners maketh the person.

I punter for many a year before I met a lady who sat me down and spelt out to me what was the do's and dont's of a good booking, and how to get the most of every punt if I made the right booking.

The lady was an escort on Northern Angels, and use dto be called Alana, she now only does Domination and is known as Miss Bryce Jones, I had a two hour booking with her, and I think for the fiirst 30 minutes she taught me what was acceptable on a booking, and though the other 90 minutes were really worthwhile, I never forget how much she taught me, and how accurate she was in what she had to tell me.

I know a lot of it is common sense, and she gave advice on how to choose a booking, and set me straight about many a lady on NA, including giving me good advice on whom to see.

If you had been given info, who was it, and was it able to make you change the way you made a booking.

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I'd be interested in seeing the advice she gave you - it might help others too.

Or maybe some of the girls could give us their advice

K

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If you had been given info, who was it, and was it able to make you change the way you made a booking.

Advice given - Correct money upfront, don't try and overstay your welcome

Given by whom - Various

Change in booking - If a service isn't explicitly advertised then no booking

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We spent about thirty minutes over coffee talking about the subject, do you think it would be advisable to say what was said to me, when it was based upon my needs and what I wanted from a punt.

Alana was very specific about a few things, and certainly was not holding any punches when she spoke to me about pre booking, and how to ask.

Maybe if we all contributed something, it would form into a list of reasonable questions to see if we were able to make a booking to suit our needs.

Be aware of what is important to you in the booking, and dont just suppose she does kissing because she advertises the GFE experiance.

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Would be interesting to know her point of veiw as a good booking and see if anyone agrees :D

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Ok here is a bit of punting etiquette for you.... I hope you can follow it

If you phone a lady who lives a plane journey away from you (you are not in the UK ) and invite her

to come over and stay in a hotel for one night, but only want a 2/3 hour booking as that is all the time you can spare....

and she says thanks very much for the offer but she can't do that

type of booking, but says she hopes one day to meet up if you happen to

find yourself in her country/area... and you indicate that it is not in your plans

to visit her country.....

do not

phone her a couple of days later and tell her that you now find you have a

necessary business trip to organise which ( lo and behold , surprise surprise )

means a visit to her town

and you will not be alone ( giving the impression a business colleague will be making the journey with you ) and you then send long

descriptive emails which the lady in question really does not want or need but responds to politely....

the lady accepts the appointment which is for a week in advance.... but has doubts ... not only because it is for April 1st :D but certain

aspects of your emails cast doubts that the meeting would be a good one.....

do not ask to meet her in public first for a drink etc in her own area... a refusal could offend :D

do not book plane tickets and send the details by email to said lady

do not send repeated lengthy emails which the lady really does not need

to see

do not then confess that there is no business trip but you will be bringing your wife who you will deposit in the shopping centre/hotel spa.... so you

can dance off to the appointment.

when the lady explains that the pressure on her to have this appointment is rather heavy and that should there be a reason for her to cancel ( life can get in the way and sometimes "life" takes precedence over an appointment )

do not insist that there is no plan B and that your chosen lady is the only one you are interested in seeing because of certain things you have seen

on her website

do not send several links to reviews you have written for ladies in your own part of the world.....

do not then tell the lady she should feel guilty for cancelling the appointment

~~~~~ because she doesn't!

DO then accept that the lady has cancelled, but please do not continue to email her and when she finally politely tells you to stop emailing her

do just that.

:rolleyes:

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Ok here is a bit of punting etiquette for you.... I hope you can follow it

If you phone a lady who lives a plane journey away from you (you are not in the UK ) and invite her

to come over and stay in a hotel for one night, but only want a 2/3 hour booking as that is all the time you can spare....

and she says thanks very much for the offer but she can't do that

type of booking, but says she hopes one day to meet up if you happen to

find yourself in her country/area... and you indicate that it is not in your plans

to visit her country.....

do not

phone her a couple of days later and tell her that you now find you have a

necessary business trip to organise which ( lo and behold , surprise surprise )

means a visit to her town

and you will not be alone ( giving the impression a business colleague will be making the journey with you ) and you then send long

descriptive emails which the lady in question really does not want or need but responds to politely....

the lady accepts the appointment which is for a week in advance.... but has doubts ... not only because it is for April 1st :D but certain

aspects of your emails cast doubts that the meeting would be a good one.....

do not ask to meet her in public first for a drink etc in her own area... a refusal could offend :D

do not book plane tickets and send the details by email to said lady

do not send repeated lengthy emails which the lady really does not need

to see

do not then confess that there is no business trip but you will be bringing your wife who you will deposit in the shopping centre/hotel spa.... so you

can dance off to the appointment.

when the lady explains that the pressure on her to have this appointment is rather heavy and that should there be a reason for her to cancel ( life can get in the way and sometimes "life" takes precedence over an appointment )

do not insist that there is no plan B and that your chosen lady is the only one you are interested in seeing because of certain things you have seen

on her website

do not send several links to reviews you have written for ladies in your own part of the world.....

do not then tell the lady she should feel guilty for cancelling the appointment

~~~~~ because she doesn't!

DO then accept that the lady has cancelled, but please do not continue to email her and when she finally politely tells you to stop emailing her

do just that.

:rolleyes:

May we take it then, Adele, that you are basing all this on your own personal experience of dealing with a prat ?????

:D

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He is not a prat. He just didn't think things through in my opinion.

When he told me there was no business trip I went off the idea.

Just didn't feel right and I told him.

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Would be interesting to know her point of veiw as a good booking and see if anyone agrees :D

She did not give details from what would be a good booking for her, but concentrated on what I should do and look for in a good booking for me, according to what i was after.

But yes it would be intresting to know what makes a good booking for a working lady, could it be one that sees the guy walk away with a smile on his face, knowing that the lady clicked all the boxes that the gent wanted, and that the lady had got some satisfaction from knowing that a happy punter could become a regular.

Its not rocket science, its just a question of the escort honestly saying what she will do and what she wont, and the guy knowing what he wants from the booking, then if both are truthfull, the end result should be positive on both sides, and everyone happy.....:D:D:D

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He is not a prat. He just didn't think things through in my opinion.

That was another thing I was informed, think about the booking before you make it, consider the time element you want, and what you expect to get from the time, and then try to talk to the lady about the type of booking you would like with a few details, leave some room for imagination, but make sure the lady knows what your likes are, and she will either say yes its okay, or not accordingly.

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Preferrably put this into 1 or two concise emails/phone calls as per her contact details.

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That was another thing I was informed, think about the booking before you make it, consider the time element you want, and what you expect to get from the time, and then try to talk to the lady about the type of booking you would like with a few details, leave some room for imagination, but make sure the lady knows what your likes are, and she will either say yes its okay, or not accordingly.

I agree! I can't stress this Advice enough! take the time and thought before you book a punt..

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Here are a couple....

a) dont book unless you really want the appointment.

:D if you book turn up to the appointment.

c) if you cant make the appointment then cancel at the earliest possible notice.

d) arrive with the correct money...and ALL the money

e) Do not pinch,bite,dig in your fingers to thighs or bum or boobs...unless agreed pre-booking.

f) shower and when you do remember to pull back your forskin and give it a lot more than a cursory wiggle under the water.

g) mouthwash...and if you smoke do not stand outside nervously gasping on several fags then do a tongue lunge the second your lady is within lurching distance.

h) Tell the lady briefly what you like,dont like so she knows and doesnt have to get the mindmeld helmet on...its cumbersome and doesnt work a lot of the time.

i) If your late dont get in an arse because you hour has been cut down to 30 minutes...if you dont let her know then its not her fault or the fault of the client after you.

j) Dont just look at the pictures,read the blurb on our websites,it offers information for your benefit and may affect your booking in some way.

k) Try to strike up or join in with the dialogue the lady is offering you,its to break the ice and its hard for us if we are faced with a stone wall and grunts,it will make the appointment a lot more pleasurable for you.

l) If you get there and she looks like here pics and offers what she says she does but she just doesnt float your boat in the flesh,dont go through with the appointment and have a fantastic time then leave a bad field report just cos there was no chemistry.

m) ensure she offers the services you require before you hand over the cash,but dont expect a 20 minute conversation about it,a quick do you offer......... is enough surely.

I think thats it for now,:D

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Here are a couple....

a) dont book unless you really want the appointment.

:rolleyes: if you book turn up to the appointment.

c) if you cant make the appointment then cancel at the earliest possible notice.

d) arrive with the correct money...and ALL the money

e) Do not pinch,bite,dig in your fingers to thighs or bum or boobs...unless agreed pre-booking.

f) shower and when you do remember to pull back your forskin and give it a lot more than a cursory wiggle under the water.

g) mouthwash...and if you smoke do not stand outside nervously gasping on several fags then do a tongue lunge the second your lady is within lurching distance.

h) Tell the lady briefly what you like,dont like so she knows and doesnt have to get the mindmeld helmet on...its cumbersome and doesnt work a lot of the time.

i) If your late dont get in an arse because you hour has been cut down to 30 minutes...if you dont let her know then its not her fault or the fault of the client after you.

j) Dont just look at the pictures,read the blurb on our websites,it offers information for your benefit and may affect your booking in some way.

k) Try to strike up or join in with the dialogue the lady is offering you,its to break the ice and its hard for us if we are faced with a stone wall and grunts,it will make the appointment a lot more pleasurable for you.

l) If you get there and she looks like here pics and offers what she says she does but she just doesnt float your boat in the flesh,dont go through with the appointment and have a fantastic time then leave a bad field report just cos there was no chemistry.

m) ensure she offers the services you require before you hand over the cash,but dont expect a 20 minute conversation about it,a quick do you offer......... is enough surely.

I think thats it for now,:D

Well said honi :D:D xxx

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I like the advice "treat it like a date". Prepare and dress as if it were a date. Brush up on conversation topics as if it were a date and have fun like a date.

For the woman, I love mixing up the do's and don't. Don't just say" I don't french kiss" Add on "hey but doing this is really good for me!" Some of us are not there to dump a load of sperm and go. We would like a little two way advice on what you like, what makes it good for you

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But whilst treating it like a 'date' remember it's a business too - most of the points made by Chloe are all things you would apply to any 'appointment' you had with any person (Drs, Dentist, Beautician, Physio etc), but are quite often forgotten with WGs. And it works both ways too you are spending your hard earned time and money, so define your requirements but don't go over the top!

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Strawberry, yes it is a business. But it is selling an illusion. When I hand over my money, it is business, but after that for an hour it is an illusion I am buying into. So, I treat it "like" a date.

And when the hour is up, reality reappears and I go off into the night and the woman forgets I even exist.

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Brush up on conversation topics

No wonder I never get a second date :D:D

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Chloe is spot on with her statements, these are a few rules that should always be kept by punters, its normal practice to show appreciation of the other persons time, even if you are paying for it.

When I meet an escort for the first time, I nearly always (unless jumped upon) have a coffee with them in the paid for time to have a bit of a chat and to get to know each other, this only takes ten minutes, or thirty minutes depending on time and how inresting the subject is, and can make big inroads into the get to know you situation, as well as getting some very good info on punting.

And when visiting a parlour or on a short booking, the massage can quickly get the conversation going while you get some idea of the lady you have booked, and they can find out what your likes are, as well as sometimes getting a very good massage.

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Change in booking - If a service isn't explicitly advertised then no booking

Don't you think the list of services on many websites hasn't done the image of prostitution many favours ? I noted a post you made a couple of weeks ago in the Legalities part of the forum - 'change to the law in scotland '

where you mentioned :-

'IMHO the crux of the matter is that those who are opposed to prostitution per se have a real and ever growing problem, 20ish years ago they could, with a modicum of applied delusion, make a fair hash of convincing themselves that prostitution did not really exist, or at best that it did exist but not in their back yard ...' and ..... 'Bearing in mind the above, is it any small wonder that what we are witnessing, IMHO, is the not unnatural backlash of a band of people who are staring unacceptable truths in the face and just cannot accept reality? Should we be surprised that they (political bandwagon, self-advancement and coat-tail merchants, opportunists and reflected glory devotees aside) are thronging toward the pure bright and perfect light that shines from the HH banner?''(an excellent read I thought)

if there are a significant proportion on the population can't get their mind past basic missionary once a week then it's surely horrifying to read that women offer BB, Dirty Sanchez, Fisting, etc.?

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if there are a significant proportion on the population can't get their mind past basic missionary once a week then it's surely horrifying to read that women offer BB, Dirty Sanchez, Fisting, etc.?

We live and learn on punternet - never heard of DS until now - don't fancy it mind you.

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Lessingham

Sorry I was referring to the approach regards 'booking'/initial contact, rather than the 'appointment' itself. Yes the guy certainly is buying into the fantasy and treating it as a date at that point is absolutely fine.

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God forbid JRC hears you saying that...........paying to watch a girl drink coffee.

Actually if done sensibly this can actually be quite tidily slotted in, without either party being taken for a ride.

Pun intended!

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Strawberry, yes it is a business. But it is selling an illusion. When I hand over my money, it is business, but after that for an hour it is an illusion I am buying into. So, I treat it "like" a date.

And when the hour is up, reality reappears and I go off into the night and the woman forgets I even exist.

well put, i couldn't agree with you more! well except for the last sentence.

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Don't you think the list of services on many websites hasn't done the image of prostitution many favours ? I noted a post you made a couple of weeks ago in the Legalities part of the forum - 'change to the law in scotland '

where you mentioned :-

'IMHO the crux of the matter is that those who are opposed to prostitution per se have a real and ever growing problem, 20ish years ago they could, with a modicum of applied delusion, make a fair hash of convincing themselves that prostitution did not really exist, or at best that it did exist but not in their back yard ...' and ..... 'Bearing in mind the above, is it any small wonder that what we are witnessing, IMHO, is the not unnatural backlash of a band of people who are staring unacceptable truths in the face and just cannot accept reality? Should we be surprised that they (political bandwagon, self-advancement and coat-tail merchants, opportunists and reflected glory devotees aside) are thronging toward the pure bright and perfect light that shines from the HH banner?''(an excellent read I thought)

if there are a significant proportion on the population can't get their mind past basic missionary once a week then it's surely horrifying to read that women offer BB, Dirty Sanchez, Fisting, etc.?

The key to my quoted post, and my approach to punting as well, is the word "reality", I accept reality, there are those who do not, that is their problem.

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