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Hey guys i`m 28 never met an escort before and gonna book one for my home address for a few hours.Only problem i`m well to nervous, what can i do ? argggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh

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Hey guys i`m 28 never met an escort before and gonna book one for my home address for a few hours.Only problem i`m well to nervous, what can i do ? argggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh

Go for 30 min / 1 hr maximum first off. You may not hit it off with her. Have longer appointments in the future once you find someone you get on with.

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was thinking over night 1st lol, maybe i`ll reconsider

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Its going to be strange, as you dont really know what to expect, so make it at her place and let the lady know in advance you have never visited an escort before, some of the well known escorts even advertise their services are tailred to meet the requirement of the newbie.

If you can post again and say what area you are in, its going to get some better replies of whom to see.

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Don't kill her with texts or emails.

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Hey guys i`m 28 never met an escort before and gonna book one for my home address for a few hours.Only problem i`m well to nervous, what can i do ? argggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh

I don't think you can do much about being nervous the first time, probably happened to us all.

I'd suggest you try to find a more experienced escort, as there would be nothing worse than two inexperienced nervous wrecks trying to go at it. Also try to go for someone with a few positive field reports from this site, especially since your inviting them into your own home. Also read Chloe's post from the punting etiquette thread.

If you give a rough idea of your location, I'm sure someone will be able to give a recommendation.

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hey thanks for answers guys, location is carlisle, must be one ov the worst places to find an escort!!!!!!!

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The first time can be quite nerve-wracking. But then, that's part of the fun!

Personally, I have to recommend doing the dinner-date thing. Gives you lots of time to break the ice, and if it doesn't work out, well, hopefully you had some great conversation ;)

However, this might not be for you if you're on a budget, and most may disagree with me on this one ( e.g. "You're not there for a chat!" ).

Don't kill her with texts or emails.

I think I'm guilty of doing this (via email) ... so, err, good advice Strawberry! :D

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There are plenty - check out the other site and of course X-north and Northern Pleasures.

Prestige have Escorts there too.

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hey thanks for answers guys, location is carlisle, must be one ov the worst places to find an escort!!!!!!!

In that case maybe Strawberry, who replied already, could accommodate your needs :D

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I'm not working at the moment.

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I remember my first time with an escort, I was bricking it to say the least so your not on your own in that respect.

Providing you have done the research and have picked an escort with a good reputation I would offer the following advice.

I would say a short booking would be better for a first time so if you find it a bit much you are only out a smaller amount of money should you need to bail or find yourself unable to do stuff.

Or if you just don't fancy her. (If she's really bad don't be afraid to ask her to leave, just hand over a bit of petrol money/taxi fare but be polite about it)

There would be nothing worse than just sitting there doing nothing or just talking for a couple of hours worth of booking. If all goes well you can always book her again.

Dress in whatever you are comfortable with, as long as its clean it will be fine

Remember to shower and clean yourself properly, I don't mean to be patronising but I have heard some right horror stories from girls I have met that have had to deal with smelly clients.

Make sure you know what you are getting, if you want to kiss make sure she does, if you want a blow job without a condom, make sure she does etc etc. Don't be afraid to ask, I have found over the years as long as you are polite and put it across in the right way (ie not like a copy of Razzle) you can be very upfront.

As has been said before don't pester her every 5 seconds on the phone or by email. Most of my bookings are done in only one or two calls/mails. ie: one or two to book/sort out details and then a confirmation text/call on the day to make sure there are not any problems.

When she gets there all you have do to is pay her in the first few minutes (don't go thrusting the cash at her in 10 seconds flat) I used to leave it on the coffee table in plain view and just tell her that was hers when there was a gap in the conversation. If she sees it she may even say "oo is that for me?" or whatever.

Don't be offended/surprised if she counts it in front of you. If she says she has to go and hand the money to a driver outside or whatever she is most likely going to rip you off as I have never had an escort do this, the only time I have heard of it is when they then do a runner.

Just relax and enjoy as long as you are clean, polite and respectful there is no reason for anything to go wrong if you have done your research properly.

Hope this is helpful as its got to be the longest post I have written on PN lol

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hey thnks for advise , money doesn`t matter to me , just not many escorts around carlisle, i`ll defo be bricking in it, but who cares lol

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If money doesn't matter to you, then you don't need to limit yourself to Carlisle. Look at neighbouring towns, cities and check into a swanky hotel. Half of us ladies are psychos and the other half are thieves - would you want either in your home? When you've survived a booking "off-campus", then you can invite the same lady to your home - pay her travel costs if you have to invite her from afar.

Do consider a lunch or dinner booking - unless you're one of those guys that can't sustain a conversation over a meal!

A lot of guys are still bricking it the day before a punt despite years of punting.

xxx

Pru

hey thnks for advise , money doesn`t matter to me , just not many escorts around carlisle, i`ll defo be bricking in it, but who cares lol

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Why dont you just run your self a nice bath,put in some lavender oil as its relaxing,light a few candles and turn of the light and lay back and enjoy it for a little while.Not only will you be nicely relaxed when the lady arrives but you will smell nice too,which she will probably notice.Treat her like a normal girl because thats what she is,just chat and be freindly and you cant go wrong really.have fun.xxx

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Half of us ladies are psychos and the other half are thieves - would you want either in your home?

OI!!!

I'm not having that - I've never heard anything so offensive in my life.

Some of us are extremely proud of our ability to multitask and be Thieving Psychos, thankyou.

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Why dont you just run your self a nice bath,put in some lavender oil as its relaxing,light a few candles and turn of the light and lay back and enjoy it for a little while.Not only will you be nicely relaxed when the lady arrives but you will smell nice too,which she will probably notice.Treat her like a normal girl because thats what she is,just chat and be freindly and you cant go wrong really.have fun.xxx

Interesting..... you highlight one of the fundamental male/female differences. The average bloke doesn't have lavender oil and candles -except maybe the emergency power-cut sort- lying about

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If money doesn't matter to you, then you don't need to limit yourself to Carlisle. Look at neighbouring towns, cities....

Have a look at the map Pru-- there's not much for 60 miles round Carlisle.

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My advice, wear a crash helmet.

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Interesting..... you highlight one of the fundamental male/female differences. The average bloke doesn't have lavender oil and candles -except maybe the emergency power-cut sort- lying about

Errr... I have both ( and strive to be as average as possible :D ).

More recently, I've really started getting into the natural bath bombs they sell in Lush. Really smelly, but a more fun alternative to oils. Also, visit your local Sephora.. you might be suprised at what you find.

Disclaimer : I also moisturise, trim, visit a salon instead of a barbers ( to dye my grey hair, and well, it's the whole experience really ) and use night cream ( I have combination skin ).

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Really? My geography has always been crap anyway. I thought Carlisle was near Newcastle! :D

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Pru

Have a look at the map Pru-- there's not much for 60 miles round Carlisle.

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Actually it's not that far to Newcastle and Escorts will often travel between the two cities.

Geographically Carlisle and Newcastle are either side of the country at that point, with Carlisle being 'West' coast and Newcastle East but it's a narrow point.

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Hey guys i`m 28 never met an escort before and gonna book one for my home address for a few hours.Only problem i`m well to nervous, what can i do ? argggggggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh

This are absolutely my own views, you may not consider them as advice if you wish to.

1) Try to book a not very high priced or cheapest option available. Reason for not taking a high priced one is that these girls are mostly booked by experienced punters and so they don't know very well to deal with newbies. They are too high priced and so punters know what to get from them to see that price paid is worth that. She will not cooperate to that extent in case you need to pause in between to get more confidence. Reason for not booking cheapest one is same since they too are booked by experienced punters moslty and they are either not good in looks, may have sagging skin, stretch marks, which may kill your fantasy with prostitute. See that for a first time to book a girl who is good looking and young and this must be reconfirmed from reports on the girl.

2) Book a girl who will french kiss, since you may need shots of kissing to charge your johnny every time you get worried.

3) Select a location where you are free from thoughts of somebody find out about you and girl.

4) Buy her a small gift which will amount to 50% of her fees for booking. You may book her for 1 or 2 hours or overnight. But be sure to start the real work only after 30-40 mins in case of 1 hr and 60-70 mins in case of 2 hr. Till then just chill with her and chat and cuddle up like GF. Don't ever ask any personal question to her during that time. For overnight bookings don't start till both are ready for going to bed and just 30-40 mins before sleeping.

5) Remeber that she could be less attarctive then your girlfriend and sex with her may be not really as good as it was with your girlfriend. So make sure she is ready to do things like OWO, CIM, BBBJ or anal which your girlfriend never did. So with variety which you never enjoyed till today, you will enjoy her more.

6) Finally if nothing goes well, you may not worry as it is not few hundred pounds gone down the drain. If you feel you are actually getting more tensed than pleasure forget sex part and just spend the time you bought her for talking and cuddling. Don't feel embarassed at not being able to perform like a pornstar with her, you are paying her so you need not look to satisfy her sexual needs more than your own.

That's my point of view.

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This are absolutely my own views, you may not consider them as advice if you wish to.

1) Try to book a not very high priced or cheapest option available. Reason for not taking a high priced one is that these girls are mostly booked by experienced punters and so they don't know very well to deal with newbies. They are too high priced and so punters know what to get from them to see that price paid is worth that. She will not cooperate to that extent in case you need to pause in between to get more confidence. Reason for not booking cheapest one is same since they too are booked by experienced punters moslty and they are either not good in looks, may have sagging skin, stretch marks, which may kill your fantasy with prostitute. See that for a first time to book a girl who is good looking and young and this must be reconfirmed from reports on the girl.

2) Book a girl who will french kiss, since you may need shots of kissing to charge your johnny every time you get worried.

3) Select a location where you are free from thoughts of somebody find out about you and girl.

4) Buy her a small gift which will amount to 50% of her fees for booking. You may book her for 1 or 2 hours or overnight. But be sure to start the real work only after 30-40 mins in case of 1 hr and 60-70 mins in case of 2 hr. Till then just chill with her and chat and cuddle up like GF. Don't ever ask any personal question to her during that time. For overnight bookings don't start till both are ready for going to bed and just 30-40 mins before sleeping.

5) Remeber that she could be less attarctive then your girlfriend and sex with her may be not really as good as it was with your girlfriend. So make sure she is ready to do things like OWO, CIM, BBBJ or anal which your girlfriend never did. So with variety which you never enjoyed till today, you will enjoy her more.

6) Finally if nothing goes well, you may not worry as it is not few hundred pounds gone down the drain. If you feel you are actually getting more tensed than pleasure forget sex part and just spend the time you bought her for talking and cuddling. Don't feel embarassed at not being able to perform like a pornstar with her, you are paying her so you need not look to satisfy her sexual needs more than your own.

That's my point of view.

Good advice and well intentioned but........................you're not Xenia posting under another name, are you ? :D

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