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how many younger guys visit escorts?

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How many younger guys use escorts?

Is it something most younger guys do without telling their mates, out of fear of being labelled a loser?

Do most older guys joke their mates for visiting WGs?:)

I sometimes see 20-something guys here saying they want to visit an escort, and i'm like :o

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I'm not sure to what extent clients of any age tell their friends about their exploits, given that it is a topic that is going to be embarrassing for a lot of people. Most escorts will tell you that anytime someone calls up saying "I got your number from a friend" it is generally a timewaster, with exceptions, of course. The average age of my clients varies; I would say that there are no hard and fast rules about what age groups usually book.

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It was my guess that younger people would look down on it more than an older person would. i guess i was wrong lol. I guess younger people place more pride in being able to pull, but in older people not so much.

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It think it varies - seeing an escort is a choice that men make for a whole variety of reasons. For me (only just 40) it's because I:

(a) have a much higher sex drive than my partner

(:) don't want to have an affair at work/involving people connected to our circle of friends

© and am amazed at the intelligence and beauty of some of the girls who do escort (and the experience)

Let me put it another way - how likely is it that you would be able to have sex with two women except by visiting escorts :o

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I think in fact I know that mainly due to ignorance and ill founded ideas about WGS most of the population consider visiting a WG to be extreme or someting sad

Recently high profile cases where certain females have come out in the media as being WGs has drawn comments from folk I work with simply because they see these WGs in the newspapers and it runs against their preconceptions held

I have met some brilliant WGs and enjoyed myself immensly and now s I get older and soon likely pack up punting Im glad I had 30 + yearsin which I had great times

I could have smoked, drunk, betted and so on (or worst) so why worry.

at the nd of the days it your lifetime and your decisions

dont worry what others tink nor let it stop you

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How many younger guys use escorts?

Is it something most younger guys do without telling their mates, out of fear of being labelled a loser?

Do most older guys joke their mates for visiting WGs?:)

I sometimes see 20-something guys here saying they want to visit an escort, and i'm like :o

I'm 28 now and I've been punting for about a year (not sure if I still qualify as a younger guy though :D). The only other guy I've seen coming from a parlour was probably about my age so there must be some more of us.

I've never told anyone that I punt for various reasons, not least of which, I don't think it wouldn't be great for my career prospects. I've never known anyone else admit to it either but I know plenty of guys (and even a few girls) who visit strip clubs.

When it comes up in conversation it does seem to be looked down upon by my peer group and punters are thought of as losers (I still kind of think of myself that way on my way back from punts sometimes).

Although having said that, when it comes up in conversation I tend to feign contempt for the industry and ignorance about the legalities (most people incorrectly assume it's illegal)... so I bet I know a lot more young punters than are letting on :)

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When it comes up in conversation it does seem to be looked down upon by my peer group and punters are thought of as losers (I still kind of think of myself that way on my way back from punts sometimes).

hey mate, you're not a loser, so dont even think that way.. you could be nothing much worse things, drugs, betting etc. .. let people believe what they want.. ignorance is bliss hey, dont worries about what people think. at the end of the day if you can look in the mirror and see what you like.. thats all that matter. :o cheers mate

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I'm 22 and I visit parlours when I've been without sex for ages. Only a very small handful of my friends know and the ones that do know, visit WGs themselves.

Its generally seen as quite sad to pay for sex by people my age which is why I don't really tell anyone apart from the select few that know. At my age, when you're at you're most physically attractive and physically fit, you're really expected to go out and pull women the normal way.

Unfortunately for me, I'm short and Chinese and a lot of women in this country aren't attracted to that. I'm a pretty confident guy that can talk to women but that can only get you so far. I do have the odd one night stand or two and relationship or fling every so often but nowhere near what some of my other white mates manage. So when it all gets a bit too much I visit a WG to release some sexual frustration. I do however, make it a special occasion. I mean I don't dress or anything like that lol, but I make sure I try and research it and choose a WG that is very attractive. I always think its worth paying just a bit more to have a great punt especially as I only see a WG once every 6 or 7 months (I'm a poor masters student).

So yeah.

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The only time you get a good idea what the average sex buyer looks like is when you visit one of the larger FKKs in Germany. In the UK, you might run into some customer at a massage parlour or WG apartment but it is rather rare. In Germany, there can be up to 100 men at a FKK, chilling out, chatting with the women of with eachother, reading, drinking beer etc.

From my experience, around 20% are 25 or younger. I first visited a massage parlour when I was 26 but it wasnt until I was almost 30 that I paid of full sex.

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The only time you get a good idea what the average sex buyer looks like is when you visit one of the larger FKKs in Germany. In the UK, you might run into some customer at a massage parlour or WG apartment but it is rather rare. In Germany, there can be up to 100 men at a FKK, chilling out, chatting with the women of with eachother, reading, drinking beer etc.

From my experience, around 20% are 25 or younger. I first visited a massage parlour when I was 26 but it wasnt until I was almost 30 that I paid of full sex.

I have met many hundreds of punters at Parties in London, i would estimate the percentage of under 25s is 10% or so but i certainly wouldnt have been wanting to get my meat and two veg out in front of other guys when i was in my 20s. In fact when i did in my 30s at Swingers Clubs i was shaking like a leaf the first time but took to it like a duck to water.

I am now 45 and been punting since i was 19, i told no one for many years and it was only when i got hooked up to the net that i started to find out how widespread punting was. I now have many mates who punt, many who i met initially through Parties.

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I'm 22 and I visit parlours when I've been without sex for ages. Only a very small handful of my friends know and the ones that do know, visit WGs themselves.

Its generally seen as quite sad to pay for sex by people my age which is why I don't really tell anyone apart from the select few that know. At my age, when you're at you're most physically attractive and physically fit, you're really expected to go out and pull women the normal way.

Unfortunately for me, I'm short and Chinese and a lot of women in this country aren't attracted to that. I'm a pretty confident guy that can talk to women but that can only get you so far. I do have the odd one night stand or two and relationship or fling every so often but nowhere near what some of my other white mates manage. So when it all gets a bit too much I visit a WG to release some sexual frustration. I do however, make it a special occasion. I mean I don't dress or anything like that lol, but I make sure I try and research it and choose a WG that is very attractive. I always think its worth paying just a bit more to have a great punt especially as I only see a WG once every 6 or 7 months (I'm a poor masters student).

So yeah.

The ladies attitude makes or breaks a punt, you cant buy a good or better attitude in my experience. I have paid £350 for an hours punt and received exactly the same service as when i paid £80 an hour 121 and where i paid the equivalent of £20 an hour at a party My 26 years punting has taught me there is no link between cost and quality in punting, its a myth that there is. Paying more really doesnt mean it will be better.

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hands up .. im 24 and started when i was 20 a few of my close friends know ,ive never been around females much in my teen years . Went to a all boys secondary school , my college class there were no girls ever , my part time job is quiet and no women there . Dont have the confidence to approach women before i started seeing wgs i always wondered what it was like having a gf and that it must be really nice and one day i hoped maybe that could happen for me

But these 3 years of seeing wgs has killed all those feelings women to me now are only sex objects nothing else , i have friends who are 30+ and are the type ( no sex until marriage ) or some are the same as me and dont know how to approach women . I think to myself no fucking ways am i gonna get to 30 without having any sexual experiences even if i have to pay for it.

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hands up .. im 24 and started when i was 20 a few of my close friends know ,ive never been around females much in my teen years . Went to a all boys secondary school , my college class there were no girls ever , my part time job is quiet and no women there . Dont have the confidence to approach women before i started seeing wgs i always wondered what it was like having a gf and that it must be really nice and one day i hoped maybe that could happen for me

But these 3 years of seeing wgs has killed all those feelings women to me now are only sex objects nothing else , i have friends who are 30+ and are the type ( no sex until marriage ) or some are the same as me and dont know how to approach women . I think to myself no fucking ways am i gonna get to 30 without having any sexual experiences even if i have to pay for it.

Aaron that is so sad that you only see women as sex objects. Maybe you should take a break from wgs for a while at least?

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The ladies attitude makes or breaks a punt, you cant buy a good or better attitude in my experience. I have paid £350 for an hours punt and received exactly the same service as when i paid £80 an hour 121 and where i paid the equivalent of £20 an hour at a party My 26 years punting has taught me there is no link between cost and quality in punting, its a myth that there is. Paying more really doesnt mean it will be better.

How right you are. Some of my worst punts have been with some of the best looking girls. Unfortunately you cannot tell attitude from a photo. Some of my best punts have been with women I wouldn't have looked twice at if I saw them in the pub. I certainly dont pay more just because she looks good.

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How many younger guys use escorts?

Is it something most younger guys do without telling their mates, out of fear of being labelled a loser?

Do most older guys joke their mates for visiting WGs?:)

I sometimes see 20-something guys here saying they want to visit an escort, and i'm like :o

I always assumed it was us older guys that were punters until I saw various posts on here. For me, I never had the spare cash when younger (I was married - say no more !)

I don't discuss it with my mates at all now. I did once with someone who I had always assumed was open minded but he too had the stereotypical opinion that all WG's were dirty, drug abusers etc etc. and I was a fool for wasting my money. A while afterwards he asked if I had seen any WG's recently so to stop any further questioning I told him I'd been ripped off big style by a girl and had been threatened with a beating from her pimp and yes he was right in his opinion. He smugly thought he was right.

The truth of the matter is I see lovely girls for sex when ever I fancy while my mate wastes hours and his hard earned cash trawling bars and nightclubs in the hope he may stumble across someone too drunk or desperate to care about his cheesy chat-up lines.

The joke is on him.

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When it comes up in conversation it does seem to be looked down upon by my peer group and punters are thought of as losers (I still kind of think of myself that way on my way back from punts sometimes).

That sounds like buyer's remorse once the excitement has worn off.

Although having said that, when it comes up in conversation I tend to feign contempt for the industry and ignorance about the legalities (most people incorrectly assume it's illegal)... so I bet I know a lot more young punters than are letting on :o

Sigh, a chance to have an ambassador champion the cause of punting amongst the ignorance wasted! But it's probably pretty much the same way that amongst my working peers, if the topic of escorting and prostitution came up, I'd be reserved in what I volunteered. But I wouldn't knock it. This may be the 21st Century but the times aren't right to be open about it.

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Its generally seen as quite sad to pay for sex by people my age

Wait until you are 60+, then it is almost universally seen as very sad by people of all ages.

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The truth of the matter is I see lovely girls for sex when ever I fancy while my mate wastes hours and his hard earned cash trawling bars and nightclubs in the hope he may stumble across someone too drunk or desperate to care about his cheesy chat-up lines.

The joke is on him.

Yeah that's another reason why I see WGs once in a while. I sometimes get lucky enough to punch above my weight by pulling someone in a club or bar who's actually fitter than I should be with. But I'll never be able to pull a women as fit as some of the WGs I've been with. At least I can fulfill some of my fantasies by paying for it.

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How many younger guys use escorts?

Is it something most younger guys do without telling their mates, out of fear of being labelled a loser?

Do most older guys joke their mates for visiting WGs?:D

I sometimes see 20-something guys here saying they want to visit an escort, and i'm like :)

I'm 30, but still consider myself young ( or perhaps delusional )

The only person that knows what I do is a girl I dated for a bit. We're great friends now, but never went much further because she wanted a TPE relationship, which scared me away. Anyhow, she encouraged me to start punting, as she was doing it too and thought it was great fun ( amongst other reasons, but that's a whole other story ). :)

I wouldn't tell any of my other friends, because well, it's none of their business, and I definately don't consider myself a "loser". Someone with little free time, too much money and not interested in a full relationship at the moment? definately. I still go on dates, if I can find the time, though.

But it's good to have at least one person who knows, especially because on my first meet I had someone to text to say "I'm safe, she wasn't an axe murderer, but if I don't call by xx:xx, send help!"... lol, I was really paranoid. However, we don't talk about anything personal ( that's between me and the girl I see ) and vice-versa. But it's good for talking over stuff like "Should I trim by bum hair?","Am I doing this too much?","Have you tried those new glitery bathbombs from Lush?" etc.

Wouldn't it be great if all adult conversations could be that open, eh :o

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Wait until you are 60+, then it is almost universally seen as very sad by people of all ages.

Do you really think so? Are you thinking of the 'dirty old man' view of people like us? I wonder if the ladies on here would agree? Not that they are going to say if they do agree with you!

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Do you really think so? Are you thinking of the 'dirty old man' view of people like us?

Yes, not that I care one iota, but just look into the eyes from time to time, they are the reflection of the thoughts/soul after all.

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I always assumed it was us older guys that were punters until I saw various posts on here. For me, I never had the spare cash when younger (I was married - say no more !)

I don't discuss it with my mates at all now. I did once with someone who I had always assumed was open minded but he too had the stereotypical opinion that all WG's were dirty, drug abusers etc etc. and I was a fool for wasting my money. A while afterwards he asked if I had seen any WG's recently so to stop any further questioning I told him I'd been ripped off big style by a girl and had been threatened with a beating from her pimp and yes he was right in his opinion. He smugly thought he was right.

The truth of the matter is I see lovely girls for sex when ever I fancy while my mate wastes hours and his hard earned cash trawling bars and nightclubs in the hope he may stumble across someone too drunk or desperate to care about his cheesy chat-up lines.

The joke is on him.

I nearly told a mate of mine in the 80s that i punted, luckily i didnt because a short time later we had a massive and permanant falling out that became very bitter. He would certainly of spread this within our circle of friends which at that time i definately didnt want.

My advice to all punters is be very careful who you tell.

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Wait until you are 60+, then it is almost universally seen as very sad by people of all ages.

I dont care what others think. At the end of the day a lot of these people who look down on punters and WGs are having affairs behind their partners backs, and some of those that shape and make our laws are doing similar and always have. Their thinking is "do as i say, not as i do". These people are surpreme hypocrites who as i have no respect for them, their opinion is of no interest to me. My view is they can stick their opinions and laws where the sun dont shine, i shall continue to punt when and where i wish and hope i dont get nicked by plod.

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It was my guess that younger people would look down on it more than an older person would. i guess i was wrong lol. I guess younger people place more pride in being able to pull, but in older people not so much.
Younger guys love to talk-the-talk but how many can actually walk-the-walk with civilians anywhere near as attractive as many WGs, civilians anywhere near as proficient as many WGs, civilians anywhere near as up-for-it at all times as many WGs. Don't mistake me, I'm all for on-the-job training for the youth of Britain! By all means, go out and hit the pubs and discos (fumble, stumble and fall) and, with luck, you will find someone with an equal level of sexual proficiency to your own. You may well find someone with whom you want to spend the rest of your life - I really hope you do! And if you never have spent time with a WG before settling down, you will never know what you are missing. To become a punter has nothing to do with 'love and marriage' but a great deal to do with achieving sexual fulfillment and pleasure - and that includes a huge number of guys between 18 and 88. Nonagenarians probably should think twice before contacting a WG - it could be hazardous to her health.:o

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Yes, not that I care one iota, but just look into the eyes from time to time, they are the reflection of the thoughts/soul after all.

Are you talking about the girls themselves? I have to confess I have never seen that - though if contempt was a temptation for them the clumsy fumblings that are all part of the Mr. Bloom Experience ought to set it going without any trouble at all. No, never seen it - but then, I always have been a insensitive clod.

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