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The curse of 'you know where' strikes again!

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The curse of you know where has struck me again.

When I saw that the famous Sophy of Bristol was on tour in Sheffield I immediately made a booking for today. This is a young, attractive lady who allegedly will provide nearly any service you can think of, apart from BB. She also has loads and loads of positive reports. What could be better?

When I saw she was going to be in Sheffield at the end of March I made a booking as early as the beginning of February through that wretched site as I thought she would soon get booked up.

She confirmed and I subsequently found out that I would be off work during the day so I emailed asking if I could change my 7 o clock evening appointment for one earlier, but she replied this wasn't possible, thus confirming my belief that she was going to be very busy on those couple of days. I responded that I would stick with 7.

In the booking I'd asked her to phone me yesterday. Ironically her profile went down yesterday, so we weren't treated to her fascinating, ungrammatical daily blog about going to the gym, etc. Her phone number had also disappeared and I hadn't previously made a note of it. She didn't phone and, as I hadn't got her number, I thought that was that, another one bites the dust. I nevertheless emailed asking her if the appointment was still on and went to bed with little hope.

I was therefore quite surprised to find a reply when I logged on this morning saying it was still on and her profile had re-appeared. However I was slightly concerned not to receive any hotel details. Once again I thought that was that, but lo and behold, just before 1pm I received another email asking to phone her. Fortunately I was on the computer at the time so called immediately.

She answered straight away, sounding bright and breezy and like the description in her reports. She asked if I could come at 6 rather than the agreed 7. As I actually wanted an earlier appt this was perfect so I agreed. She told me which hotel she was in and we agreed that I would phone for the room number when I arrived. After the fiasco with Darling Dawn of ** in London last year when she didn't answer the phone when I arrived at her apartment bloc I now make a point of not going through with an appt unless I have a phone conversation. A few spoken words are worth all the texts and emails in terms of getting a feel for the person anyway.

So I set off for my first punt with anyone other than the marvellous Nicoletta since September. I arrived at the hotel five minutes before the appt (unlike many escorts I am always punctual). When I phoned and the phone was on answer machine shades of 'Darling Dawn' flitted though my mind. These became even more prominent when she responded neither to my voice message nor to my subsequent text. Seeing I was already at the hotel I thought I better wait in case she had got mixed up and believed the appointment was still 7 o clock. So I waited in the bloody car for nearly an hour. I phoned again at 6.45. Again the phone was off so I fucked off to a parlour.

Now this is a girl who I'd spoken to only a few hours before, a girl who has over 90 positive, and many fantastic, reports. (But why do so many of them on ** begin with 'Wow'? When did a Pnet report last begin with 'Wow'?)

Just what is it with these people? Darling Dawn now bloody Sophy!

I can only wonder if my voice put her off as I do sound like the Yorkshire Ripper :confused: , but other than that what on earth can have happened to her in the 4/5 hours since I spoke to her? This was even worse than Darling Dawn as I never spoke to her and my last contact was a text from her the previous day.

So to speculate

1. Was she put off my voice? :)

2. Had she fallen ill/had an accident?

3. Suddenly had to go back home because of a family crisis?

4. Or - most likely - a booking had been extended.

5. Failing any of these is she a total fantasist who doesn't really escort (and looking at her profile this isn't beyond the realms of possibility) and those 90 odd positive reports are fakes (again not beyond the realms of possibility)? Does she even exist or is it some bloke having a laugh and getting his girlfriend to piss people about - again looking at some of the stuff on there not improbable. As she had a 'voyeur' (security/pimp) with her there is most likely some bloke around.

Whatever the scenario she could at least have had the decency and professionalism to let me know and cancel before I wasted my time and petrol.

Once again a glaring example of thoroughly unprofessional behaviour from a young wg.

And once again I maintain these girls wouldn't last two minutes if they carried on like this in a 'normal' job.

Doubtless as ever we'll have the apologists coming on with their bloody excuses for such unprofessional behaviour.

It made me laugh the other day when some joker said he really admires wg's meeting unknown men.

Me, I really admire punters for the shit they have to put up with much of the time in this game.

The trip wasn't totally wasted, as although I don't really like parlours these days, I actually ended up having a pretty good parlour punt (FR to follow!), but no thanks to Naughty Girl Soph, another in the ever expanding Awank hall of fame. :)

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NIK

Do you pick them?Are you a scam yourself?Do you text/phone/sound like a TW?

Sorry but I've never know a guy have so much bad luck as yourself.

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Do you pick them?Are you a scam yourself?Do you text/phone/sound like a TW?

Sorry but I've never know a guy have so much bad luck as yourself.

Yeah I've been punting over 25 years and I'm always polite.

Maybe that's my trouble :confused:

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Nik: can you email to her please and tell that you posted about her "unprofessionalism" here, and give her a link to this thread.

She just might post her side of the story. :confused:

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Nik, I found http://www.Adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=698281, but its just dissapeared again (10 min ago or so):)

It looks like she has an enhanced breast, and according to this thread you don't like "fake tits". :confused:

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NIK, I feel you pain, after 28 years of punting, I have had my fair share of disappointments and bad experiences (as well as some very good times I am pleased to say).

Nothing can make you feel as bad as some WG messing you about (while being supposed to be that great!!) ... You look forward to the encounter and then let down and left with a very bad feeling :)

There is a level of excitement in the unknown but in my experience it often disappoint though sometimes it is a nice nice surprise.

Personally, I have come to the conclusion that you should let your brain think before everything else and only trust positive Frs by punters you may know, trust or have similar taste with .

With Nicoletta, I believe you have found one of the best WGs around at this point in time and even though it would be nice to have a few more like her for the sake of diversity, I believe she is addictive and one of a kind.

Her ability to make you forget you are a punter are second to none! No matter how much you think I have to see some other WG before I see her again, she offers such a great service that you can't help thinking afterwards how you look forward to the next meeting !!

Please remember what you know and engage your brain first.

Better luck neat time. :confused:

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Nik, I found http://www.Adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=698281, but its just dissapeared again (10 min ago or so):confused:

Her profile has been changed from 'Offering Services' to 'Seeking Services' so it's not visible.

It was done by the admins I suspect as her 'Last Updated' timestamp is a few hours ago and when the admin modify a profile, it doesn't change the timestamp.

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The curse of you know where has struck me again.

When I saw that the famous Sophy of Bristol was on tour in Sheffield I immediately made a booking for today. This is a young, attractive lady who allegedly will provide nearly any service you can think of, apart from BB. She also has loads and loads of positive reports. What could be better?

When I saw she was going to be in Sheffield at the end of March I made a booking as early as the beginning of February through that wretched site as I thought she would soon get booked up.

She confirmed and I subsequently found out that I would be off work during the day so I emailed asking if I could change my 7 o clock evening appointment for one earlier, but she replied this wasn't possible, thus confirming my belief that she was going to be very busy on those couple of days. I responded that I would stick with 7.

In the booking I'd asked her to phone me yesterday. Ironically her profile went down yesterday, so we weren't treated to her fascinating, ungrammatical daily blog about going to the gym, etc. Her phone number had also disappeared and I hadn't previously made a note of it. She didn't phone and, as I hadn't got her number, I thought that was that, another one bites the dust. I nevertheless emailed asking her if the appointment was still on and went to bed with little hope.

I was therefore quite surprised to find a reply when I logged on this morning saying it was still on and her profile had re-appeared. However I was slightly concerned not to receive any hotel details. Once again I thought that was that, but lo and behold, just before 1pm I received another email asking to phone her. Fortunately I was on the computer at the time so called immediately.

She answered straight away, sounding bright and breezy and like the description in her reports. She asked if I could come at 6 rather than the agreed 7. As I actually wanted an earlier appt this was perfect so I agreed. She told me which hotel she was in and we agreed that I would phone for the room number when I arrived. After the fiasco with Darling Dawn of ** in London last year when she didn't answer the phone when I arrived at her apartment bloc I now make a point of not going through with an appt unless I have a phone conversation. A few spoken words are worth all the texts and emails in terms of getting a feel for the person anyway.

So I set off for my first punt with anyone other than the marvellous Nicoletta since September. I arrived at the hotel five minutes before the appt (unlike many escorts I am always punctual). When I phoned and the phone was on answer machine shades of 'Darling Dawn' flitted though my mind. These became even more prominent when she responded neither to my voice message nor to my subsequent text. Seeing I was already at the hotel I thought I better wait in case she had got mixed up and believed the appointment was still 7 o clock. So I waited in the bloody car for nearly an hour. I phoned again at 6.45. Again the phone was off so I fucked off to a parlour.

Now this is a girl who I'd spoken to only a few hours before, a girl who has over 90 positive, and many fantastic, reports. (But why do so many of them on ** begin with 'Wow'? When did a Pnet report last begin with 'Wow'?)

Just what is it with these people? Darling Dawn now bloody Sophy!

I can only wonder if my voice put her off as I do sound like the Yorkshire Ripper :confused: , but other than that what on earth can have happened to her in the 4/5 hours since I spoke to her? This was even worse than Darling Dawn as I never spoke to her and my last contact was a text from her the previous day.

So to speculate

1. Was she put off my voice? :)

2. Had she fallen ill/had an accident?

3. Suddenly had to go back home because of a family crisis?

4. Or - most likely - a booking had been extended.

5. Failing any of these is she a total fantasist who doesn't really escort (and looking at her profile this isn't beyond the realms of possibility) and those 90 odd positive reports are fakes (again not beyond the realms of possibility)? Does she even exist or is it some bloke having a laugh and getting his girlfriend to piss people about - again looking at some of the stuff on there not improbable. As she had a 'voyeur' (security/pimp) with her there is most likely some bloke around.

Whatever the scenario she could at least have had the decency and professionalism to let me know and cancel before I wasted my time and petrol.

Once again a glaring example of thoroughly unprofessional behaviour from a young wg.

And once again I maintain these girls wouldn't last two minutes if they carried on like this in a 'normal' job.

Doubtless as ever we'll have the apologists coming on with their bloody excuses for such unprofessional behaviour.

It made me laugh the other day when some joker said he really admires wg's meeting unknown men.

Me, I really admire punters for the shit they have to put up with much of the time in this game.

The trip wasn't totally wasted, as although I don't really like parlours these days, I actually ended up having a pretty good parlour punt (FR to follow!), but no thanks to Naughty Girl Soph, another in the ever expanding Awank hall of fame. :)

I cant believe your bad luck NIK. Out of hundreds of punts from ladies off Adultw0rk my success rate is in the high 80%s overall, a number have been average rather than bad or scams or attempted scams.

I couldnt even speculate as to the reason why, but your one unlucky punter.

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Nik

Have you ever conteplated asking Harriet Harman for a job? She is keen to 'tackle demand' and, with your catalogue of disasters you might be just the man to help her with a series of hard hitting ads on why punting is always a disaster.

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I have met her several times. She is always seems to get booked up very quickly. Hopefully she replies to you so you get the real reason the meet did not happen.

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Just what is it with these people?

And once again I maintain these girls wouldn't last two minutes if they carried on like this in a 'normal' job.

Dude, what it is, is that some people are just flaky. Sorry you've had a run of bad luck. But I echo smiths' comment that for me, experiences with the Other Site have been mostly pretty good. That might be something to do with being in London though, and I think more choice keeps more people on their toes. You go out of London and prices go up, service providers are fewer, so you've just got a higher chance of getting dicked around.

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One thing that always amazes me about threads like these is that at some point somebody always suggests contacting lady to get "real reason".

Why? Isn't it the lady's responsibility to contact the customer and give the explanation for the no show??

Other interesting things in this thread:-

Nik took just about every possible precaution you could when dealing with other site (feedback in 90's, spoke on phone, confirmed booking, etc.). It still went wrong. And indeed it does.

Others quote "success" (in actually meeting??) as good because its high 80's %. Is being let down more than 1 time in 10 good? (Especially bearing in mind amount of time it can take to get to outcall.)

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One thing that always amazes me about threads like these is that at some point somebody always suggests contacting lady to get "real reason".

Why? Isn't it the lady's responsibility to contact the customer and give the explanation for the no show?? Other interesting things in this thread:-

Nik took just about every possible precaution you could when dealing with other site (feedback in 90's, spoke on phone, confirmed booking, etc.). It still went wrong. And indeed it does.

Others quote "success" (in actually meeting??) as good because its high 80's %. Is being let down more than 1 time in 10 good? (Especially bearing in mind amount of time it can take to get to outcall.)

Exactly!

This board USED to be about exchanging information - good and bad - for punters

NOT about making excuses for unreliable working girls!

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One thing that always amazes me about threads like these is that at some point somebody always suggests contacting lady to get "real reason".

Why? Isn't it the lady's responsibility to contact the customer and give the explanation for the no show??

Other interesting things in this thread:-

Nik took just about every possible precaution you could when dealing with other site (feedback in 90's, spoke on phone, confirmed booking, etc.). It still went wrong. And indeed it does.

Others quote "success" (in actually meeting??) as good because its high 80's %. Is being let down more than 1 time in 10 good? (Especially bearing in mind amount of time it can take to get to outcall.)

Yes i actually met these ladies to punt with although i have sometimes walked out without paying due to being lied to. When you say time to get to outcall most of my punts are incalls and within my punting area, i dont travel more than 50 mile round trip nowadays, most are no more than 30 mile round trip.

The way is punt is i like variety as well as seeing regulars and take risks on ocassion, if i only punted with regulars it would be a 100% success rate, so taking into account walk outs and attempted scams where i didnt pay i am satisfied with that success rating, much prefer it to be better of course though. I estimate it is actually 30-35 bad punts in all for whatever reason in about 500 and then a fair number of average punts, the rest being good or better.

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Now just received this reply from her.

babes what the hell are you on about???? you rang me and came to my room at 10 2 6???? ansd we had hour session??? i have just read txts to say you were there at 6 was that you??? because i def had a **** at 6?? been working all nite and come back to find a negitive. i think there has been a mix up here.

I replied thus

'Well what did this guy look like?

What was his phone number?

Because it sure wasn't me.

We spoke at 1pm that was me!

I called and left a voice message just before 6 and sent you a text from the phone we spoke on earlier. I waited until just before 7 thinking you might have got mixed up about the time and phoned again.

It seems an unbelievable coincidence that you saw someone else called **** at that time. I shall be interested to see if he gives a FR or some positive feedback. Also why didn't you reply to the voice message or the text?

And before you accuse me of being a timewaster I'm totally reliable and have been punting longer than you have been born.'

The more I see the feedback on ** the more I think much of it is faked. There was also that girl in Derby - can't remember her name but she was awful - who had over 60 positive feedbacks and a couple of negatives. But it was interesting that when I detailed my experiences another presumably GENUINE punter said he'd also had the same rubbish experience and couldn't understand all the positives.

Back to Soph and once again its simply my word against hers.

And doubtless we'll get the usual perverse people who would sooner believe the word of a girl still wet behind the ears rather than a mature punter who has not only been 'in the business' since before she was born, but has had the responsibilty of being punctual and reliable to a legitimate job again for longer than she has been born.

Until I can get to see Nicoletta again (as Jerry says a unique gem) I think I shall retire again!

Still got to do my positive FR for the parlour girl though, so it's not all doom. :confused:

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The curse of you know where has struck me again.

When I saw that the famous Sophy of Bristol was on tour in Sheffield I immediately made a booking for today. This is a young, attractive lady who allegedly will provide nearly any service you can think of, apart from BB. She also has loads and loads of positive reports. What could be better?

When I saw she was going to be in Sheffield at the end of March I made a booking as early as the beginning of February through that wretched site as I thought she would soon get booked up.

She confirmed and I subsequently found out that I would be off work during the day so I emailed asking if I could change my 7 o clock evening appointment for one earlier, but she replied this wasn't possible, thus confirming my belief that she was going to be very busy on those couple of days. I responded that I would stick with 7.

In the booking I'd asked her to phone me yesterday. Ironically her profile went down yesterday, so we weren't treated to her fascinating, ungrammatical daily blog about going to the gym, etc. Her phone number had also disappeared and I hadn't previously made a note of it. She didn't phone and, as I hadn't got her number, I thought that was that, another one bites the dust. I nevertheless emailed asking her if the appointment was still on and went to bed with little hope.

I was therefore quite surprised to find a reply when I logged on this morning saying it was still on and her profile had re-appeared. However I was slightly concerned not to receive any hotel details. Once again I thought that was that, but lo and behold, just before 1pm I received another email asking to phone her. Fortunately I was on the computer at the time so called immediately.

She answered straight away, sounding bright and breezy and like the description in her reports. She asked if I could come at 6 rather than the agreed 7. As I actually wanted an earlier appt this was perfect so I agreed. She told me which hotel she was in and we agreed that I would phone for the room number when I arrived. After the fiasco with Darling Dawn of ** in London last year when she didn't answer the phone when I arrived at her apartment bloc I now make a point of not going through with an appt unless I have a phone conversation. A few spoken words are worth all the texts and emails in terms of getting a feel for the person anyway.

So I set off for my first punt with anyone other than the marvellous Nicoletta since September. I arrived at the hotel five minutes before the appt (unlike many escorts I am always punctual). When I phoned and the phone was on answer machine shades of 'Darling Dawn' flitted though my mind. These became even more prominent when she responded neither to my voice message nor to my subsequent text. Seeing I was already at the hotel I thought I better wait in case she had got mixed up and believed the appointment was still 7 o clock. So I waited in the bloody car for nearly an hour. I phoned again at 6.45. Again the phone was off so I fucked off to a parlour.

Now this is a girl who I'd spoken to only a few hours before, a girl who has over 90 positive, and many fantastic, reports. (But why do so many of them on ** begin with 'Wow'? When did a Pnet report last begin with 'Wow'?)

Just what is it with these people? Darling Dawn now bloody Sophy!

I can only wonder if my voice put her off as I do sound like the Yorkshire Ripper :confused: , but other than that what on earth can have happened to her in the 4/5 hours since I spoke to her? This was even worse than Darling Dawn as I never spoke to her and my last contact was a text from her the previous day.

So to speculate

1. Was she put off my voice? :)

2. Had she fallen ill/had an accident?

3. Suddenly had to go back home because of a family crisis?

4. Or - most likely - a booking had been extended.

5. Failing any of these is she a total fantasist who doesn't really escort (and looking at her profile this isn't beyond the realms of possibility) and those 90 odd positive reports are fakes (again not beyond the realms of possibility)? Does she even exist or is it some bloke having a laugh and getting his girlfriend to piss people about - again looking at some of the stuff on there not improbable. As she had a 'voyeur' (security/pimp) with her there is most likely some bloke around.

Whatever the scenario she could at least have had the decency and professionalism to let me know and cancel before I wasted my time and petrol.

Once again a glaring example of thoroughly unprofessional behaviour from a young wg.

And once again I maintain these girls wouldn't last two minutes if they carried on like this in a 'normal' job.

Doubtless as ever we'll have the apologists coming on with their bloody excuses for such unprofessional behaviour.

It made me laugh the other day when some joker said he really admires wg's meeting unknown men.

Me, I really admire punters for the shit they have to put up with much of the time in this game.

The trip wasn't totally wasted, as although I don't really like parlours these days, I actually ended up having a pretty good parlour punt (FR to follow!), but no thanks to Naughty Girl Soph, another in the ever expanding Awank hall of fame. :D

Was going to say that girls do communicate with each other, they are well aware of the guy's that complain and moan, so maybe she had a warning from another girl and decided on not seeing you.

Bit harsh, but hey that's the reality of it

to be honest Nik, i've never known anyone that has had as much bad luck as you seeing Escorts......... :):eek:

What is it your not telling us ???? lol :) xxx

Something is 'amiss' here for sure.............

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Doubtless as ever we'll have the apologists coming on with their bloody excuses for such unprofessional behaviour.

It made me laugh the other day when some joker said he really admires wg's meeting unknown men.

Me, I really admire punters for the shit they have to put up with much of the time in this game.

The trip wasn't totally wasted, as although I don't really like parlours these days, I actually ended up having a pretty good parlour punt (FR to follow!), but no thanks to Naughty Girl Soph, another in the ever expanding Awank hall of fame. :confused:

Well Nik I am the ' some joker '. I am sorry that this lady let you down--- I would be pi**ed if it happened to me too. However, this girl seems to be off the wall wild -- not sure if dedicated professionalism exudes from her profile.

Yes I do have admiration for a professional girl who is prepared to meet strange men on her own, at all times of the day and in a variety of locations and circumstances and then commit to having sex with them. If you genuinely believe I am wrong on this, then let me have your detailed comments and I will be happy to deal with them.

I think my various threads and posts demonstrate that I am far from being an arse licker of WGs, unless I in the middle of a great punt of course.:)

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Was going to say that girls do communicate with each other, they are well aware of the guy's that complain and moan, so maybe she had a warning from another girl and decided on not seeing you.

Bit harsh, but hey that's the reality of it

to be honest Nik, i've never known anyone that has had as much bad luck as you seeing Escorts......... :confused::eek:

What is it your not telling us ???? lol :) xxx

Something is 'amiss' here for sure.............

How many more times do I have to say I do NOT use the name NIK when puntiing?

Another stupid response.

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How many more times do I have to say I do NOT use the name NIK when puntiing?

Another stupid response.

Nik, there is something obviously wrong in your punting skills to have so much bad luck.

There is so much info on this board from your fellow punters, I would of thought you would take note after all these years, that and common sense, research, and having a bit of knowledge in the bedroom department :)

also check list of upstairs and downstairs department and away you go! :confused::

Or maybe not. :)

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Well all seems to be resolved she has now sent me the following.

babes honestly. i did see him which i thought was you??? i dont iunderstand it. i should have saved your number!!! dont be angry; look there seems to be a huge mix up here!!! i would never mess anyone around. babes i have just seen your messgages now i have been working all nite!!!! i will not leave you an y bad feedback cos you seem like a nice guy i would never m,ess anyone around and i will be getting back to that guy 2day as he said that he already booked with me. i askwed him if he was **** who booked at 6and he said yes. im very sorry. and i hope when im next imn sheffield or manchester you will come for free session. thats if you want to.

i honestly would never mess anyone around. at the end of the day my profile means a lot to me this job means a lot to me.its my life and i no i provide the best service.im very sorry if this is what has heppened but io will be hgetting in touch with is other guy as im very pissed off about it.

sorry for your trouble as it seems there is a mix up.

i hope your ok and will take me up on my offer

take care love soph

I replied

Yes I am a genuine nice guy, but hope you can understand how I felt. I ended up going for a parlour punt on spec - something I don't do these days. As it happens it was quite good.

However i have been let down several times before by ** providers. Last summer for example I travelled across London only for a girl not to answer her phone when I got there despite confirming the day before so maybe you can understand how I felt.

I accept your apology and hopefully we can meet sometime. I can't take back the feedback, but if you know of anything I can do to show the apology and acceptance let me know.

What seems to have happened is that someone phoned on spec hoping to get a booking she asked him if he was **** and he said yes. She should, of course, have asked him his name. It's like when you used to lose money at school they would never say has anyone lost £2 but has anyone lost some money and then ask you how much.

However if this is the case I can't believe someone had the gall to do this. What if another punter who HAD booked had turned up?

It still seems an amazing coincidence! The things that happen in this business!

I would however like to remind people who keep saying that word gets around and they know me that is complete and utter nonsense if you actually think about it.

Firstly there are many girls who still don't know about Pnet.

Secondly I don't ever book under the name 'NIK who complains a lot on Pnet'

Get real for goodness sake!

Thirdly I have had many good punts over the years and I am about to post a positive FR for the parlour punt.

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While I have much sympathy with Nik for the waste of time and energy, something I have experienced in the past. I think it very unrealistic to expect all the women in this industry to adhere to a level of professionalism one would expect in more "normal" working environments.

When that is found it is a delight and anything else that might take place is just incidental between consenting adults as the saying goes.

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Get real fgs,

the girls don't have to look on punternet to know that a guy that rings up girls on adult wank or wherever the case maybe,asks the same questions, services, moans (or maybe has service then moans after)

even if you use different names, the girls are alot wiser then you think, there are many girls and guy's out there, but only a few guy's that consistently moan, complain...... alot of girls know each other in the business and if you go for the same type of girl, same sort of service, age, area etc,... especially if you have been around punting for many years as you say you have.

wouldn't be surprised if your not on a blacklist somewhere, so then all girls will have your discription, mannerisms, speach etc, and you wouldn't know it. that's how you can explain away the dodgy phonecalls that you have with girls being hesitant.

ok, maybe wouldn't go that far! but FGS stop moaning!!!!!!:):confused::)

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Nik, there is something obviously wrong in your punting skills to have so much bad luck.

There is so much info on this board from your fellow punters, I would of thought you would take note after all these years, that and common sense, research, and having a bit of knowledge in the bedroom department :)

also check list of upstairs and downstairs department and away you go! :confused::

Or maybe not. :)

Natasha. I don't believe Nik is either uniquely unlucky, or disorganized compared to most "average" punters.

I'm sure Smiths is right to suggest that one way to guarantee near 100% success is to stick to a small group of regulars. But let's face it... fidelity to women.. is not the strong point of many punters. Eventually the urge to try a new experience kicks in.

When the "urge to new" afflicts me I try the usual methods... reputable agencies, indies and reputable parlours. I do not do masses of research... but I do some, and I'm happy to pay good rates.

Like Nik... I experience some no shows, some last minute substantial time changes, bait and switch, etc. Where I differ from Nik is I don't have the energy to moan about it. I just shrug... and think "on balance I'm getting a lot more good sex overall by punting than I could by any other means open to me". For me... there's more than enough good providers to keep me going.

Maybe my relaxed attitude is letting down my fellow punters... especially newcomers to the great art. But... deep down... I believe strongly that any experienced punter knows the score... so not submitting frequent reports from the front line doesn't trouble me too much.

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What seems to have happened is that someone phoned on spec hoping to get a booking she asked him if he was **** and he said yes. She should, of course, have asked him his name. It's like when you used to lose money at school they would never say has anyone lost £2 but has anyone lost some money and then ask you how much.

However if this is the case I can't believe someone had the gall to do this. What if another punter who HAD booked had turned up?

It still seems an amazing coincidence! The things that happen in this business!

This has happened to me 2 times, I guess that if a guy knows a probable hotel location a girl is working from he will ring just before the hour from nearby and make out he is the appointment and get in the door first, most girls turn off/silent the phone when the punter turns up, thereby denying the real booking.

When I have been getting ready to leave after an appointment, I have heard a girl take a call from a guy claiming to have made an appointment and try to bully her into taking him.

As for ** my success rate is now down to about 50%, getting sick of time wasters and scams, I thought I was able to spot them.

And for word getting around what a load of rubbish, I have to use an "english" name as no one is able to pronounce mine, and I've not been recognised yet in any establishment.

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I think NIK should be thanked for his detailed account. Although the situation appears to have been resolved, at the very least his post will serve as a warning to ensure that full details and proper communication are in place. The girl in question may now take more care she is seeing the right person.

If Natasha's point of view is correct, then this girl deliberately confirmed a booking knowing she would not honour it because she had been forewarned that NIK was, in some way, bad news. This theory stretches credulity. @W girls with that sort of feedback protect it jealously and she would not have risked a negative - she would just have said she did not want to see him/was unavailable.

I punt exclusively from @W as do, I suspect, many on here. It is no bad thing if mix-ups, deliberate misinformation, scamming etc are made public on this board. NIK has published her apology, so in this case everyone comes out smelling of roses. However, in most cases, the resultant publicity within the PN community might serve to ensure some girls sharpen up their act.

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