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Inspired by the thread below about thinking of becoming an escort would experienced punters encourage a newbie who said he was thinking of becoming a punter?

I don't think I would.

Having said that, in my experience much of the time advice is redundant and people ultimately do what they want. :confused:

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Inspired by the thread below about thinking of becoming an escort would experienced punters encourage a newbie who said he was thinking of becoming a punter?

I don't think I would.

Having said that, in my experience much of the time advice is redundant and people ultimately do what they want. :confused:

I certainly would and tell him its supposed to be about having fun, if like a number lately they feel guilty i have never felt like that so couldnt help with that. If i felt guilty i wouldnt punt as it would spoil my fun.:)

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My advice to a newbie punter would be to trust no one in this biz, either an agency/parlour receptionist or giving your personal details to a WG.

It's healthy to be paranoid and suspicious, respect the cock but don't let it rule your head.

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My advice to a newbie punter would be to trust no one in this biz, either an agency/parlour receptionist or giving your personal details to a WG.

It's healthy to be paranoid and suspicious, respect the cock but don't let it rule your head.

All totally sound advice, mate. :confused:

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My advice to a newbie punter would be to trust no one in this biz, either an agency/parlour receptionist or giving your personal details to a WG.

It's healthy to be paranoid and suspicious, respect the cock but don't let it rule your head.

I too agree.

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And research, research, research - use the FRs here (and the other place) to assess girls and agencies - cuts down the risk factor.

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If the person had money, and enjoyed sex and meeting people, its a great hobby, but only if you meet these desiderata. (my favourite word).

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Inspired by the thread below about thinking of becoming an escort would experienced punters encourage a newbie who said he was thinking of becoming a punter?

I don't think I would.

Having said that, in my experience much of the time advice is redundant and people ultimately do what they want. :eek:

Depends on the person, their age, circumstances, etc ..

For example, If I knew a guy in his 20's who wanted a girlfriend and was getting uptight he wasn't getting any sex then I would try to ascertain whether he wanted sex or a relationship with a woman. Inexperienced young men can confuse the two and get themselves in a mess.

If on the other hand, a guy was divorced/married and not getting any sex, or maybe the type he wanted then I might encourage him if it made him happier and I felt that mentally he could deal with it.

Your last line says it all though, "people ultimately do what they want".

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Inspired by the thread below about thinking of becoming an escort would experienced punters encourage a newbie who said he was thinking of becoming a punter?

:eek:

If he's already thinking of paying for sex, then mentally he's already visualised the act, and yes, providing his reasons are not rash, then I would recommend he go ahead. Call this a flippant analogy, but if someone's thinking of riding a push-bike to work for fitness and cost saving, then I'd encourage them to go through with it. Punting is good for your fitness and saves costs, so if you're already thinking along these lines then go ahead is what I'd say.

I would recommend punting in the UK - I've never punted in Northern Germany or Thailand but based on what I've learned on this board and that Brian Cox programme, this country is at least the 3rd best place in the solar system for this activity :D and may even be higher. To be born British in the late 20th century is a wonderful thing, to live in a country where the law permits you to pay for a sexy time, or be paid for sex, if you want to. The rain may be bouncing off the rooves, but most of us are some where warm and dry, and for an hour's work we can buy many amazing products from the far east at places like poundland, and for most of us, with a little research, for two weeks work, from Coventry to Cumbria, from London to the Lothians, we can partake of an experience that will blow our minds ( and juices ). This may not continue for ever when the east starts wanting their money back, but for now this is truely the best time ever to live in britain and have red blood coarsing through your horny heterosexual veins. So yes, if your friend is thinking it , then bring the foxy times on :D

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Following on from Bongo I have this to say. I earn a moderately comfortable income that means I don't need to be constantly checking my account statements. Being able to forget what my balance is (most of the time) I like the idea of taking a small piece of rectangular plastic that someone has sent me, putting it into a hole in a wall and getting it to disgorge rectangular pieces of paper which I can then take to someone who in exchange for these rectangular pieces of paper will engage with me in acts of mutually (I hope) delightful acts of sheer filth. This may sound like moral and epistemological relativism but I have to confess that my libido isn't really too bothered.

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My advice to a newbie punter would be to trust no one in this biz, either an agency/parlour receptionist or giving your personal details to a WG.

It's healthy to be paranoid and suspicious, respect the cock but don't let it rule your head.

Quite so, and the word "reputable" is best ignored, no matter where or how often it appears :eek:

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Inspired by the thread below about thinking of becoming an escort would experienced punters encourage a newbie who said he was thinking of becoming a punter?

I don't think I would.

Having said that, in my experience much of the time advice is redundant and people ultimately do what they want. :eek:

Difficult to imagine any scenario where someone would confide that they were contemplating going to a wg. Surely it's something we do in secret. Isn't that why we are all here? Guys just don't openly admit to that type of thing so easy - paying for it. It's a male pride thingy.

Having said that, a mate of mine who had recently been divorced, knew of my punting activities because I'd previously told him - not too sure how common an occurrence this is. Anyhow, yes I advised him that it was the ideal quick fix for sex and he went on to try it several times and enjoyed most of them. However, he is now settled down again and happily under the thumb so to speak and does not punt anymore. Well at least that's what he tells me anyway.:D

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Definitely, its been a very positive experience for me.

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Definitely, its been a very positive experience for me.

and me. I have spent time with some wonderful attractive intelligent women and my life is so much richer for those experiences.

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This may sound like moral and epistemological relativism ....

For those like me that need internet access as an annex to what is only a standard issue brain. :eek:

epistemological = the branch of philosophy that deals with knowledge, especially with regard to its methods, validity, and scope

relativism = the doctrine that knowledge, truth, and morality exist in relation to culture, society, or historical context, and are not absolute

epistemological relativism = work it out for yourself :Dhttp://mises.org/daily/2975

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Thanks Shroud and apologies. Sometimes I forget to take my academic's head off at night.

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I've been encouraging one of my best male friends to visit a WG for months. He's horny as hell but hasn't been with a woman for 4 years.

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Come on the newbies, if your a new punter (as they're called on here) where's the harm in trying especially if your curious, If you dont like it you dont have to do it again but its meant to be fun and exciting and usualloy ends up being addictive, LOL........ That is after all why there is this naughty world of ladies available on these sites.

Hugs Casey xx

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It's not all bad, sometimes you're left with a smile that lasts for days...

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hmmm...Off course it might depend on what you mean by "punter". Is it someone who might, under certain circumstances punt, or is it someone that punts regularly?

But as long as he(she?) knows what he's getting into, sure, why not.

(BTW, how many female punter are there?)

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I would have advised myself to have not started - as it is very addictive - for one I waste a lot of time and energy mostly looking at sites like this on the internet and even when I am asleep....dreaming about it. Secondly once the line is crossed there is no going back, what is done cannot be undone - sorry I am one of those weak idjiots that feel guilt. Thirdly and this is a biggee - although I have a good job, it is not a cheap "hobby", it makes me sad when I look at the stuff that I could have bought instead of paying to indulge my lust. Fourthly it seems to be potentially becoming more risky with the changes in the law....though the jury seems out on that one at the moment? So like in all things in life there are those that are cut out for it and those that are not. Sadly I fall into the latter category. In conclusion although I have had some scrummy dirty encounters with some gorgeous girls, I wish I had stuck to my simple pre-punting life. So all I would say to a potential punting newbie, is to think very carefully before wandering of the straight and narrow!

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I would have advised myself to have not started - as it is very addictive - for one I waste a lot of time and energy mostly looking at sites like this on the internet and even when I am asleep....dreaming about it. Secondly once the line is crossed there is no going back, what is done cannot be undone - sorry I am one of those weak idjiots that feel guilt. Thirdly and this is a biggee - although I have a good job, it is not a cheap "hobby", it makes me sad when I look at the stuff that I could have bought instead of paying to indulge my lust. Fourthly it seems to be potentially becoming more risky with the changes in the law....though the jury seems out on that one at the moment? So like in all things in life there are those that are cut out for it and those that are not. Sadly I fall into the latter category. In conclusion although I have had some scrummy dirty encounters with some gorgeous girls, I wish I had stuck to my simple pre-punting life. So all I would say to a potential punting newbie, is to think very carefully before wandering of the straight and narrow!

I agree with you. It is very addictive, especially now I dropped into 3 punts a week (and hour long ones too).

And since I seem to spend morning before work, lunchtime and evenings on places like punternet I end up loosing so much time of the day. Trying to cut back, maybe just see a regular every now and again. But then theres always someone else I want to see before I cut back and think "okay I'll see them then cut back"....

And yes its risky (both legally and heathly) and the guilt (and sometimes jealousy) I feel makes me think Im not really cut out for it either.

But if someone came to me wanting to try it I wouldnt discourage him but wont encourage him either. If he want to know how to book, find a recommendation, what happens blah blah blah, then I'll tell him straght.

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