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Are you ready to marry a girl you know is a escort ? Will you let her continue work?

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I am just puzzled. I for sure would not marry a girl who is or was a full time escort. But there can be guys who may contradict my view. I just wonder whether I am the only one who thinks so or there are many more?

It is not that I look down upon them. It is just that this job is too different to match with normal lifestyle of a women as a wife. I could be grossly wrong or it could be my oriental upbringing. So I don't mean any offence to anyone.

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There are several married or cohabiting WGs who post here. It's not as impossible as you think. :eek:

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i would, it's the lady i'd be marrying not her job

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I have no problem with being in a relationship with a wg (near enough been there) if I loved her to contemplate marriage then her continuing or not wouldn't be an issue. While in the bedroom I tend to be in charge in my book a life partner is exactly that a partner with their own ability to choose how they wish to live and with whom decisions are made naturally and equally.

That said I would hope that she would have the option to be more choosy/exclusive or even to completely retire professionally and to find more inclusive outlet for the sexual adventures.

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I am just puzzled. I for sure would not marry a girl who is or was a full time escort. But there can be guys who may contradict my view. I just wonder whether I am the only one who thinks so or there are many more?

It is not that I look down upon them. It is just that this job is too different to match with normal lifestyle of a women as a wife. I could be grossly wrong or it could be my oriental upbringing. So I don't mean any offence to anyone.

I dont believe in marriage, but if i met a lady i loved and she was a WG i wouldnt have a problem, of course its easy to say but i did go out with a WG for a while and it was fine, but i didnt love her.

As to letting her continue working, its not for me to allow her, that would be up to her to decide.

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i would, it's the lady i'd be marrying not her job

What he said.

I suspect this would prediminantly only apply to blokes confident with themselves and who would not see it as a threat to their masculinity though. :eek:

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I don't think it is so much about marrying a wg vs a not-wg as about marrying the girl you love, whatever comes with that.

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Been there, got the T Shirt. Kids haven't seen her for two years :eek:

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I would personally stop working though if I had things that had to be paid that were already planned ie holidays or a bill that had to be paid I would continue working just to pay that.

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I would say i would marry an escort - but as I haven't been there who knows!!

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I for sure would not marry a girl who is or was a full time escort.

Neither would I, but a part-time escort would be OK :D

Being serious for a moment :eek: I'd like to think that I would be fine with it, but I couldn't be certain until I was in that position. At least smiths has been in (almost) that situation, so has a better perspective on what it means to him.

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If I was free to, then I would have no trouble marrying a girl who had been a WG. When you fall in love with a woman, her past is irrelevant.

I'm of sufficient financial standing that she wouldn't need to continue working, but I'm attracted to strong independent women who typically rate their independence highly and so it would of course be her decision.

As long as both man and woman are totally honest, it shouldn't matter. Honesty is the key.

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"Will you let her continue work"- that's a very old fashioned question isn't it ?

I think you have every right to say that you would prefer the lady not to work or that you would prefer her to work at something else- but letting her work presumes that you see it as an an unequal relationship with you in charge and I myself would not be happy with that.

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Maybe he means 'would you wish for her to carry on working as an escort' :eek:

That's how I read it as did some others

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I am just puzzled. I for sure would not marry a girl who is or was a full time escort. But there can be guys who may contradict my view. I just wonder whether I am the only one who thinks so or there are many more?

It is not that I look down upon them. It is just that this job is too different to match with normal lifestyle of a women as a wife. I could be grossly wrong or it could be my oriental upbringing. So I don't mean any offence to anyone.

I for one would never tell a prospective boyfriend. It's not my full time "career" anyway so easy to hide. (Never say never) but I'd also never date someone I met via this money-making-method. Been there and got the T-shirt twice. Never again.

I'd also never continue to earn extra money this way once I decide (usually pretty quickly) that the boyfriend is potential long term material. For me, the two do not go hand in hand.

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I don't think it is so much about marrying a wg vs a not-wg as about marrying the girl you love, whatever comes with that.

By and large, that's a little airy fairy wishful thinking. The princess meets prince and accept them fully for who they are, is a rare occurance.

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I for one would never tell a prospective boyfriend. It's not my full time "career" anyway so easy to hide. (Never say never) but I'd also never date someone I met via this money-making-method. Been there and got the T-shirt twice. Never again.

I'd also never continue to earn extra money this way once I decide (usually pretty quickly) that the boyfriend is potential long term material. For me, the two do not go hand in hand.

I should have expanded on how this loosely fits into this thread.

On the flip side, a guy may marry a girl he did not know was an escort. But if he found out (she told him) would he still marry her knowing she was one? 9 times out of 10, I think not.

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i met a girl who was an escort last year (didnt know she was an escort at the time), we got quite close. When i found out i told her i wanted nothing more to do with her, she then left the job for me, but i could never be in a relationship. She moved back with her parents, got an office job and plans to go uni in september, and we are still close, she tells me she loves me but i could never marry her.

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Marry a WG? mmmmmmmm 1 i would :D plenty i wouldnt :eek:

but its academic anyway.

Would i allow her to carry on working? depends what her hourly rate is :D

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Justagirl, I';d be far more likely to break off a relationship if the girl hadn't trusted me enough to tell me, when the situation was obviously becoming 'serious'.

Other than that, Triple h and Wamphyri sum up my view. But I'm unlikely to commit matrimony a second time, although handfasting might be a possibility.

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Are you ready to marry a girl you know is a escort ?

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normal lifestyle of a women as a wife.

That's the bit that has me twitching. "Normal lifestyle as wife" sound a bit too 1950s Stepford to me.

Wouldn't be interested in marrying anyone who was into that sort of subservient domesticity.

But then, it does seem to fit in with an OP whose "oriental upbringing" leads him to talk about "letting" ones wife continue work...:eek:

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If I was free to, then I would have no trouble marrying a girl who had been a WG. When you fall in love with a woman, her past is irrelevant.

I'm of sufficient financial standing that she wouldn't need to continue working, but I'm attracted to strong independent women who typically rate their independence highly and so it would of course be her decision.

As long as both man and woman are totally honest, it shouldn't matter. Honesty is the key.

i agree with you 100% on the honesty issue, how can anyone hope to forge a relationship that is based on lies and mistrust is beyond me. If i was to meet 'mr right' i would tell him what i do, no reason he should find out off anyone else.

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I think it is very difficult to generalise on such a situation and ultimately it comes down to how each party views the situation and how they can work it out for the best and what works for them and their intending lifestyle.

However I will make one comment, openness in the resultant discussions will ultimately help, even if at first it seems a disaster.

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I am just puzzled. I for sure would not marry a girl who is or was a full time escort. But there can be guys who may contradict my view. I just wonder whether I am the only one who thinks so or there are many more?

It is not that I look down upon them. It is just that this job is too different to match with normal lifestyle of a women as a wife. I could be grossly wrong or it could be my oriental upbringing. So I don't mean any offence to anyone.

Excuse me did a time machine just transport us back to the dark ages? I can do anything I want and if that means marrying too then I shall. I might let some poor man marry me one day.:eek: What is the point of this question? To highlight the fact we are second class citizens being women or at best, lowest of the low prostitutes? I take it you are not considering a "bold or enlightened" move, so why even drag this debate up?

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