Autumn Temptation

A Point of view.

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As there have been quite a few threads saying how hard done by the punters are, how much they deal with, I would like to re-dress this issue.

As most of the gents like to give their side I would like to give the side from WG's and agency's…

Someone sent a few pm's due to a thread that was on this forum.

There was a few more something along the lines of, since I posted to PrinceH that he was a tit, this person felt the need to defend him in PM by calling me a slapper telling my boss her husband should be dead.

Saying that Jayne of fun place not only instigated raids on other places, but was better than hod at bringing attention to brothel raids.( By the way this is a serious allegation to make on behalf of another company)

And all of this when he has never used us as a parlour.

Clearly this male ( I can't say gent here because it would be wrong) was spoiling for a fight, and decided that he was going to get it, with Karl, and instead got Andrea who has done nothing to anyone at this point.

And because I had the temerity to defend the place I work for, I am a slapper and Andrea is childish, for getting me to reply on her behalf…

LOL Just for the record, I don't get asked to defend anyone, I didn't speak to my boss yesterday, other than when this PM arrived and that was only to tell her to report the pm's to the mod team. Oh and not to feed the troll.

I May be a prostitute, and I have good reason for doing so, but at the end of the day no-body deserves to be treated like that, Andrea nor myself…

This is something we as escorts and parlours deal with on a regular basis.

Now I know NIK has had his say, and yes it is a shame when some service providers bring the level of customer care down, and yes it can be disheartening for the client at the time and leave them feeling disappointed and slightly out of pocket

But here is the other side, Perhaps we WG's on the board see so much of the above that it can make us quick to defend ourselves, What is above is a nasty PM not done because the guy visited and was disappointed, no the venom spouted was because I had the cheek to defend whom I work for, and the company I work for had the cheek to defend themselves.

And this is one forum, one message board.

I get over 30 mails a day, and at least 2 of them are of similar content, to the above I know agency's get them too.

Not because we have done anything wrong but purely because someone is having a bad day and need a punching bag.

All WG's get crappy mails, and that is one small fraction of our work. We then have to deal with the actual event, possibly being attacked, etc…

So no I don't think the board is going more fluffy and we are on an anti punter brigade, I think in all honesty that more men are realising just what this job entails and that is giving them more respect for us.

Some will always see it as an easy job just lay back and get fucked, but most will recognise that if fact there is a lot too it, besides the sexual interlude.

Anyway thanks to the guy who sent the mail as I am quite happy to be a slapper, difference between us is, I get paid to be one, and you're jealous.

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Hi Tammy, I feel very sympathetic towards you and your colleagues having to put up with this sort of crap. I really hope there isn't a feeling of 'us' and 'them' developing on the board. I'm sure the great majority of punters here share my view, and yours of course, that abuse of any form towards service providers is entirely unacceptable, and my awareness of the risks and worries you face on a daily basis in fulfilling a much needed role. Thanks for sharing this, sadly I don't imagine you'll suddenly stop getting b.s. messages and behaviour from service seekers, but I'm sure you've got the strength of character to rise above it.

Take care sugar, I hope you, Andrea and your other colleagues get treated with far more respect in the future.

Tony x :D

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Hi Tammy, I feel very sympathetic towards you and your colleagues having to put up with this sort of crap. I really hope there isn't a feeling of 'us' and 'them' developing on the board. I'm sure the great majority of punters here share my view, and yours of course, that abuse of any form towards service providers is entirely unacceptable, and my awareness of the risks and worries you face on a daily basis in fulfilling a much needed role. Thanks for sharing this, sadly I don't imagine you'll suddenly stop getting b.s. messages and behaviour from service seekers, but I'm sure you've got the strength of character to rise above it.

Take care sugar, I hope you, Andrea and your other colleagues get treated with far more respect in the future.

Tony x :D

Well said Tony. I am sure you speak for most right minded people in saying the above. My best wishes to you as well Tammy. God knows what motivates idiots like the one you describe to send such drivel. I only hope the mods act quickly and ban the wanker, whoever he is.

This is not a punters vs prostitutes debate, it is a civility vs antisocial behavior issue. Guys like the one you describe above Tammy do not represent me or my thinking in any way, shape or form and I can assure you I think that the board will be a better place off without them.

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Saying that Jayne of fun place not only instigated raids on other places, but was better than hod at bringing attention to brothel raids.( By the way this is a serious allegation to make on behalf of another company)

And all of this when he has never used us as a parlour.

Cynics may say that I would say this because Jayne was a good friend (which never got in the way of 'business'), but firstly it's grossly unfair for someone to make allegations about someone else who isn't here to defend herself (and by God she would have), and secondly, knowing her as I did she only wanted the best for the industry and knew exactly what it was like to be on the business end of a raid. :D

Perhaps the sad individual making these allegations could start a thread so that it can be out in the open?

B

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Great post .. Tammy ...

James now stands back waiting to be called a big fluffy .... :D

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The ease with which all kinds of claims, allegations and smears can be made on this forum, in all directions, is worrying. If threads get locked or removed completely, the "targets" can be at an even greater disadvantage in terms of making a rebuttal. Just like the school playground, those who like to dish it usually gain safety through numbers.

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I agree but I don't think they would start a thread as they would end up getting stoned :D

Doesn't matter who we are in this world or what we do no-one has the right to be abusive to anyone else. I hate these type of people especially the ones that think just because they are in a bad mood they should infkict it on others :)

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I agree but I don't think they would start a thread as they would end up getting stoned :D

Doesn't matter who we are in this world or what we do no-one has the right to be abusive to anyone else. I hate these type of people especially the ones that think just because they are in a bad mood they should infkict it on others :)

I agree that no one has the right to be abusive, but if someone has been treated with no respect, or been messed about, then they are welcome to say so on this board, thats what the board is all about, be it Escort/Agency/Punter/whomever, and I agree with Tammy that she was right to defend the agency she works for if they are good.

We need to learn to treat each other with respect, and realise that some bookings will go wrong, without attaching blame,

Some may say I have no right to say those things when I have spoken out about Agency's recently, but I do give praise to those good ones, and only speak out to alert others about the possability they could be next, or hopefully get the place to correct its bad habits, and of course understand what I can do to improve myself when I arrange to see a lady.

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Tammy, i have every sympathy to you,the fact that this person used the word slapper proves he is one of the minority who look down on us wgs because of our profession,and very obviously resentful of having to pay for it,other wise he would have used a different name to call you. Thankfully these types are on the decline on this board and guys are no longer fearfull of standing up and letting it be known that they have mostly good things to say about wg,s or the ladies they visit.There does though seem to be a longstanding trend to sling the mud in private pm,s rather than on the board,especially when you know that if you said it in public you would be riduculed. I have had a small insight as to the amount of pure shite that Mr and Mrs D go though regularly over the last couple of years both on and away from this board, what i have seen is far from pretty and most of its done very snidely behind closed doors. Im lucky in that i have only ever recieved one nasy email in my wg time and that simply said "no feedback since joining in 2009,you must be the shittest fuck ever" to which i replied that paying your regular wg to put good feedback a couple of times does not constitue a good client worth of a booking.please feel free to peruse my 38 fr s on punternet at your convenience and pleasure.

Dont let it worry you too much tamtams, this guy probably has a rather sad and unforfilling life if he has got nothing better to do than verbally attack people whom he has nothing to do with.Love you lots.xxx

Long live the slapper,i am a slapper and thoroughly enjoy it,now bend over you naughty boy and pull down you trousers while i go and get my floggers and whips:D

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Not too sure about this.

The thread in question featured a somewhat abusive response from Paradisegirl22 to a comment by PrinceH.

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?p=447628#post447628

What seemed to have occurred afterwards is a third party comment, without substance and presumably from someone other than PrinceH. (Who knows?)

I can only judge the character of any contributor from what I can see.

I am also surprised that the thread in question has been continued here.

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?p=447658#post447658

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Not too sure about this.

The thread in question featured a somewhat abusive response from Paradisegirl22 to a comment by PrinceH.

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?p=447628#post447628

What seemed to have occurred afterwards is a third party comment, without substance and presumably from someone other than PrinceH. (Who knows?)

I can only judge the character of any contributor from what I can see.

I am also surprised that the thread in question has been continued here.

http://www.punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?p=447658#post447658

Let me set you clear on a few things hun...

My post to Prince H wasn't as abusive as you think it was... Prince H knows that I respect him both as a poster and as a client.

Prince H and I did continue in PM after that thread where he said, maybe I shoud reveal my Nik next time I visit you... to which I replied dare ya :P

Prince knows my humour and my way of talking as it's not the first time we have come to loggerheads over the company I work for.

You have to know the history behind the post in order to understand it...

Now If I had called Prince H a wanker, bastard, etc I would expect a full backlash... but I didn't I called him a tit, as in a silly person... but hey I don't expect everyone to know the meanings of everything or what something is meant... Prince H has no issue with what was said to him... in fact futher down on that thread he posted that he was in agreement with most of what I said...

so he obviously got what I meant and didn't take offence.

Anyway as I said had I called him a wanker, slapper would have been more than fair back, from Prince H...

As it was you would have to read the message to understand it's content, it was not just a throwaway name it was done with malice and intent,...

Btw just so you know I took great care and advice before posting this thread, the choice to not post the PM was a deliberate one and this thread was verified by Galahad before it went live.

I didn't just get peeved off and start a thread I took time care and consideration before posting it, I also took the Mod team into consideration, because contrary to your belief I am not here to cause trouble.

So no this is not a continuation of the thread that you posted.

The Third party who sent the PM's was looking for a fight, and it's nice to notice that you missed valid points in my post... and want to make it about something that it is not...

Gotta love how you twist it to suit :mad:

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Let me set you clear on a few things hun...

My post to Prince H wasn't as abusive as you think it was... Prince H knows that I respect him both as a poster and as a client.

Prince H and I did continue in PM after that thread where he said, maybe I shoud reveal my Nik next time I visit you... to which I replied dare ya :P

Prince knows my humour and my way of talking as it's not the first time we have come to loggerheads over the company I work for.

You have to know the history behind the post in order to understand it...

Now If I had called Prince H a wanker, bastard, etc I would expect a full backlash... but I didn't I called him a tit, as in a silly person... but hey I don't expect everyone to know the meanings of everything or what something is meant... Prince H has no issue with what was said to him... in fact futher down on that thread he posted that he was in agreement with most of what I said...

so he obviously got what I meant and didn't take offence.

Anyway as I said had I called him a wanker, slapper would have been more than fair back, from Prince H...

As it was you would have to read the message to understand it's content, it was not just a throwaway name it was done with malice and intent,...

Btw just so you know I took great care and advice before posting this thread, the choice to not post the PM was a deliberate one and this thread was verified by Galahad before it went live.

I didn't just get peeved off and start a thread I took time care and consideration before posting it, I also took the Mod team into consideration, because contrary to your belief I am not here to cause trouble.

So no this is not a continuation of the thread that you posted.

The Third party who sent the PM's was looking for a fight, and it's nice to notice that you missed valid points in my post... and want to make it about something that it is not...

Gotta love how you twist it to suit :mad:

Yo Tammy! Way to go girlfriend*. :D xxx

(*Sorry, just been watching re-runs of How To Look Good Naked!)

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Cynics may say that I would say this because Jayne was a good friend (which never got in the way of 'business'), but firstly it's grossly unfair for someone to make allegations about someone else who isn't here to defend herself (and by God she would have), and secondly, knowing her as I did she only wanted the best for the industry and knew exactly what it was like to be on the business end of a raid. :mad:

Perhaps the sad individual making these allegations could start a thread so that it can be out in the open?

B

Your telling me I was astonished by what I was reading... You don't make alegations like that lightly.

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Yo Tammy! Way to go girlfriend*. :mad: xxx

(*Sorry, just been watching re-runs of How To Look Good Naked!)

Oh I love that show, I learned so much (not) but it's a giggle when your bored lol

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Tammy, could we please ask for you to report the said PM rather than blow it all up on the board. We are none the wiser.

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