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WGs and orgasms

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Given that the service ethic of various WGs can vary from the, 'I'm here to service his needs only,' to 'yes, actually I'll have a piece of the action too.' How important is it to you as punters, that the WG reaches orgasm during a punt and what's the most times you've achieved this in one session? Is it something you aim for on every occasion or do you just see how it plays out? Or, perhaps you're really not too bothered and the pleasure is all yours.

Do you have a particular technique that never fails or do you find what works with one draws a blank with another? I do. It sometimes takes several meets to hit the spot so to speak, yet with certain girls, it's like chucking a match in a box of fireworks.

Ladies feel free to pitch in too.

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Ladies feel free to pitch in too.

I'm one of the "unlucky" ones I guess who doesn't orgasm much. And that has absolutely zero to do with the fact that I'm getting paid to have sex. That doesn't mean I'm not often on cloud 9 or don't receive immense pleasure.

It's a rare occurrence when it happens and one I just enjoy when it does. But it's not say say that that sex (where I had an orgasm) is better or more memorable than say another where I didn't.

So I'll fake it. And very well at that. Simply because men (or at least the ones I meet) seem to believe that if they're unable to give me an orgasm, I'll think that sex with them is crap. I can tell them otherwise until I'm blue in the face, it falls on deaf ears and they simply don't believe me.

So now when asked, I'll just make it up.

One thing I can say for sure: when I'm told to "just let go" I might as well shut up shop right there and then. It pisses me off (pardon my language).

What makes them think I'm holding back? What they're doing is simply never in a million light years going to get me "there". And trying to explain what will, will simply kill the moment. I (and I'm sure many ladies fall in the same category) cannot just push a certain button or do 1 certain thing and have an orgasm.

I vote for : go with the flow and just enjoy the ride :o

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I dont want to give pleasure but to receive....

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I dont want to give pleasure but to receive....

On the flip side - for many men, giving pleasure is actually receiving pleasure.

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But it's not say say that that sex (where I had an orgasm) is better or more memorable than say another where I didn't.

What on earth happened here? I look like a blithering idiot :o (feel free to suppress the urge to say "well you said it!")

It of course should read: "But it's not to say that sex..."

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LOL @ stutter. I thought you were having an orgasm while typing :rolleyes::o

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Given that the service ethic of various WGs can vary from the, 'I'm here to service his needs only,' to 'yes, actually I'll have a piece of the action too.' How important is it to you as punters, that the WG reaches orgasm during a punt and what's the most times you've achieved this in one session? Is it something you aim for on every occasion or do you just see how it plays out? Or, perhaps you're really not too bothered and the pleasure is all yours.

Do you have a particular technique that never fails or do you find what works with one draws a blank with another? I do. It sometimes takes several meets to hit the spot so to speak, yet with certain girls, it's like chucking a match in a box of fireworks.

Ladies feel free to pitch in too.

In my experience, only about one in ten of the WGs I visit have anything that approaches an orgasm. Perhaps it is my technique, but I am not particularly bothered if an orgasm does not happen.

I discount the many faked orgasms, which often start, at unbelievable pitch, when I have hardly got started myself. All this with the WG still completely dry in the nether regions.

On the rare occasions when I do believe that I really have got the WG going as hot and wet as horlicks, it has usually been with a girl who has "clicked" with me as a result of our conversation and general social interaction. When I find such a bonnie girl, I usually return to her, and she eventually becomes my regular. By concentrating in this way on the girls that I really do like, those who seem to appreciate my efforts, I thus increase my WG orgasm score. (If it is a score). Even with my regular, though, I cannot guarantee to arouse a female orgasm on every visit. It is the way women are built. It is also the way I am built, because I usually come pretty quickly once inside a hot-as-horlicks woman. I try to compensate for this by plenty of foreplay.

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And trying to explain what will, will simply kill the moment. I (and I'm sure many ladies fall in the same category) cannot just push a certain button or do 1 certain thing and have an orgasm.

Actually, if me having an orgasm is important to them, I give them quite a few pointers. :rolleyes: How selfish of me. :o:P:p I am easy to set off though, so there is no need for detailed insructions, and I'm always willing to show them how I do it by myself.

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I want to give and to receive, for me it heightens the overall experience.

The fact that ladies, and I am sure us chaps, have different reactions to orgasm, and the build up to it, is one of the aspects which makes punting interesting. What 'works' with one lady, bringing her to orgasm, will not necessarily work with another. In fact, i know this for a fact - some like slow and gentle gradually increasing in intensity while others seem to prefer a slightly more forceful approach.

There are a couple of ladies, in particular, that I have seen a number of times who give particular signs when they are about to orgasm - one gives a very stong leg clamp whilst the other flushes a brilliant crimson. I do not believe that these ladies are faking but i am sure that some of the others have been - particularly the lady who during my first vsit seemed to come just twice in 90 minutes or so but on my second visit came 4 times in almost as many minutes!

Then there are two who I am not sure about - both seemed to come in a very forceful way and both expressed surprise because they said they very very rarely orgasm in their business lives. One or other may have been faking, I cannot tell, but if so they are very good actresses!

Technique? Not sure that i have one, just start easy and see what gets a reaction - go with the flow!

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Almost all the girls tell me that they orgasm within 5 minutes of hearing that I've booked in. :o

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If a clients shows that he really wants to please me I will give him subtle helpful pointers or will join in so I mainly take over and as a helper I always keep my magic wand near by. I will never fake it. The majority of men are not so daft ( I would hope) as to believe a fake one (my acting is crap) so why would I waste my energy in doing something that would just be humiliating to the client and myself

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In my experience, only about one in ten of the WGs I visit have anything that approaches an orgasm. Perhaps it is my technique, but I am not particularly bothered if an orgasm does not happen.

I discount the many faked orgasms, which often start, at unbelievable pitch, when I have hardly got started myself. All this with the WG still completely dry in the nether regions.

On the rare occasions when I do believe that I really have got the WG going as hot and wet as horlicks, it has usually been with a girl who has "clicked" with me as a result of our conversation and general social interaction. When I find such a bonnie girl, I usually return to her, and she eventually becomes my regular. By concentrating in this way on the girls that I really do like, those who seem to appreciate my efforts, I thus increase my WG orgasm score. (If it is a score). Even with my regular, though, I cannot guarantee to arouse a female orgasm on every visit. It is the way women are built. It is also the way I am built, because I usually come pretty quickly once inside a hot-as-horlicks woman. I try to compensate for this by plenty of foreplay.

hot-as horlicks! I love it!:o

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What on earth happened here? I look like a blithering idiot :o (feel free to suppress the urge to say "well you said it!")

It of course should read: "But it's not to say that sex..."

I like a girl who stutters. By the time she says, 'No' it's too late :rolleyes:

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Originally Posted by Viz:

Do you have a particular technique that never fails ...

I like to take a girl 90% of the way to orgasm and stop. I then watch her frantically flick herself off. :o

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One girl I saw a few times late last year said that she very rarely had an orgasm during her working day and with all of the pent up sexual frustration she had during the day, she mastubated when she got home in the evening.

On one of our sessions I spent about an hour giving her oral in three positions so she could orgasm, which she did in each position.

My current regular can only bring herself to an orgasm, so we have technique where I spend 10-15 minutes orally stimulating her clit and then she carries on with her fingers while i continue to gently lick her pussy until she comes. With a 90 minute or 2 hour appointment we have the time to do this. I find giving oral very sensuous and erotic so I'm happy to oblige.

We have had a couple of appointments where she has had an orgasm but due to the impact of diabetes and the Levitra tablet I take (which can make coming difficult) I havn't come. Thus the wg comes but the punter doesn't, that a different take on punting.

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Given that the service ethic of various WGs can vary from the, 'I'm here to service his needs only,' to 'yes, actually I'll have a piece of the action too.' How important is it to you as punters, that the WG reaches orgasm during a punt and what's the most times you've achieved this in one session? Is it something you aim for on every occasion or do you just see how it plays out? Or, perhaps you're really not too bothered and the pleasure is all yours.

Do you have a particular technique that never fails or do you find what works with one draws a blank with another? I do. It sometimes takes several meets to hit the spot so to speak, yet with certain girls, it's like chucking a match in a box of fireworks.

Ladies feel free to pitch in too.

At 121 punts my ideal is mutual pleasure, whether the lady actually reaches orgasm for definate i couldnt say, but if she is that good an actress that she convinces me she has then thats good enough for me.

Some ladies do orgasm quicker than others and if i have a multi orgasmic lady on my hands i do my best to oblige, but making her cum is not enough to make me cum, for that i require her to get hold of me, so it has to be a two way street.

However, there are ladies that make no pretence that they are interested in cuming, at these punts i put all my energies into my own pleasure.:o;)

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I'll try to please a woman and if she orgasms then great. I don't like faking mind you. If a WG gets her pleasure from her boyfriend or a rabbit then it's not for me to criticise.

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It's a rare occurrence when it happens and one I just enjoy when it does.make it up.

But if a guy walks in who you feel physically attracted to and his technique is very good, would you still say the above applies?

On the flip side - for many men, giving pleasure is actually receiving pleasure.

Very true, hence the reason for my thread.

If a clients shows that he really wants to please me I will give him subtle helpful pointers or will join in so I mainly take over and as a helper I always keep my magic wand near by. I will never fake it. The majority of men are not so daft ( I would hope) as to believe a fake one (my acting is crap) so why would I waste my energy in doing something that would just be humiliating to the client and myself

That's what I want, feedback and guidance on the Lady's preferences is so important. I hate to feel like a nuisance or a blundering idiot.

What on earth happened here? I look like a blithering idiot :o (feel free to suppress the urge to say "well you said it!")

It of course should read: "But it's not to say that sex..."

Perhaps no such a rare occurrence after all. :D

I like to take a girl 90% of the way to orgasm and stop. I then watch her frantically flick herself off. :(

Well I was reading something not so long back that advised the guy to do just that - back off just as she reaches the moment of ecstasy and something about patting her P-spot etc.

P-spot, G-spot, A-spot, U-spot, C-spot, this is more complicated that I realised. Now I'm no expert but trying to improve so that it's better for both of you can't be a bad thing, whether that be standing off and knowing when to or getting stuck in to the action.:rolleyes:

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Giving WG's is partly the reason why I see them. I really enjoy the practice of giving RO, especially when I can tell they are enjoying it. However, with sex, I do tend to get girls who seem to orgasm at the same time as me. What are the chances of that? :o

I guess giving a girl an orgasm is a target to aim for, and it's better to aim higher and miss than to not bother at all.

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P-spot, G-spot, A-spot, U-spot, C-spot, this is more complicated that I realised. Now I'm no expert but trying to improve so that it's better for both of you can't be a bad thing, whether that be standing off and knowing when to or getting stuck in to the action.:o

Very enterprising of you, I'm sure, but there comes a point beyond which I'm not sure I can be bothered - bit like keeping up with all the newfangled things that keep coming out in IT. I've found out where the clitoris is, and I can play around with the labia a bit - won't that do?

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Given that the service ethic of various WGs can vary from the, 'I'm here to service his needs only,' to 'yes, actually I'll have a piece of the action too.' How important is it to you as punters, that the WG reaches orgasm during a punt and what's the most times you've achieved this in one session? Is it something you aim for on every occasion or do you just see how it plays out? Or, perhaps you're really not too bothered and the pleasure is all yours.

Do you have a particular technique that never fails or do you find what works with one draws a blank with another? I do. It sometimes takes several meets to hit the spot so to speak, yet with certain girls, it's like chucking a match in a box of fireworks.

Ladies feel free to pitch in too.

I'd be thrilled if I could get the wg to orgasm but I don't think I have achieved that, yet :rolleyes:

I have not been with any 'fakers'.

A few times they've said something like 'that was really good from behind' afterwards, I'm not sure if it's because I am really good at this position, or I have a face for radio!

One wg has got me to feel her chest to show that her heart was pumping like crazy. I hope that it was for good reasons :o

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Very enterprising of you, I'm sure, but there comes a point beyond which I'm not sure I can be bothered - bit like keeping up with all the newfangled things that keep coming out in IT. I've found out where the clitoris is, and I can play around with the labia a bit - won't that do?[/QUOTE]

It most certainly will Mr Bloom. Why complicate things? I can just as easily have a very relaxing punt that involves exclusively my own needs. But sometimes certain women just fire me up and give me the impression they want it too. But definitely no hard an fast must-have rules. Just getting some feedback on others' approaches and feelings on the matter.:o

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In all the years and all the WGs ive met a fair few fakers when it comes to 'orgasms'.

And more importantly Ive experienced a very very few who have orgasmed

Its fair to say the real event is obvious and the fakes are too for different reasons

I personally think achieving a real orgasm by means of well applied rigorous RO is a highspot of a punting career.

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I don't think there's such a thing as one technique that always works - women are all very different.

For instance, I know some who can't orgasm at all from penetrative sex, whereas others I know, that's the ONLY way they can come - clitoral stimulation does nothing for them.

As for the "are orgasms compulsory for good sex", I always used to think so, and worry that I'd failed somehow if I didn't leave my partner unable to walk in a straight line.

However as I've got older, I've learned that you can have amazing sex without coming (and that applies to men as well as women). You just need to slow down, and not worry about the race to the finish. Then pay careful attention to all the wonderful sensations and feelings that accompany being intimate with another person :o

Personally, I've found the most reliable way to ensure a woman enjoys herself is to relax, and let her responses guide you. That does, of course assume that you are with a woman who's experienced enough to know her own body. But seeing as none of us are teenagers any more, I think you can safely assume that's the case here.

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In all the years and all the WGs ive met a fair few fakers when it comes to 'orgasms'.

And more importantly Ive experienced a very very few who have orgasmed

Its fair to say the real event is obvious and the fakes are too for different reasons

I personally think achieving a real orgasm by means of well applied rigorous RO is a highspot of a punting career.

I dont think the real event is obvious, we are talking about punting with virtual strangers to us in a lot of cases. In these circumstances faking is easier in my view.

What i also dislike like some others are the false oohs and ahhs that are obviously fake moans and in my case at least likely to result in it taking me longer if at all to cum. I have no problem with the lady pretending as long as she is convincing at it.

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