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How close to home?

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So, what's the closest to home that you've punted?

I just booked an appointment at 12 with a girl that I've been desperate to see for a while. She has good reccomendations and I can't wait to go. However, she's just texted me her address and it turns out her flat is just 45 secs away from my house! At the same time I know at least one family that live in that flat :D

I'm a bit nervous about going now. I really want to see her, and the risk may add to the thrill of the punt. But at the same I'm worried about getting caught.

In a bit of a pickle....

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So, what's the closest to home that you've punted?

I just booked an appointment at 12 with a girl that I've been desperate to see for a while. She has good reccomendations and I can't wait to go. However, she's just texted me her address and it turns out her flat is just 45 secs away from my house! At the same time I know at least one family that live in that flat :D

I'm a bit nervous about going now. I really want to see her, and the risk may add to the thrill of the punt. But at the same I'm worried about getting caught.

In a bit of a pickle....

That would be too close for comfort for some in my view, i wouldnt be bothered and would look on it as being very handy assuming the punt goes well and a return was on the cards. I have punted with a lady who lived a couple of streets away many times and found her location convenient.

As you know others in the same block my advice is make sure your on time and hopefully she will let you straight in with no hanging about.:)

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Too close for me, but let us know what you decide to do. Have you seen her walking around the streets locally, or is her face obscured on the ad?

I agree it would be a huge adrenaline rush, but you have to balance that against the risk of being seen.

Are you an electrician or plumber, as that would be a handy alibi.

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would look on it as being very handy assuming the punt goes well and a return was on the cards.

That's what I was thinking.

I'm thinking I will ahead with it.

Unfortunately, I work at a University so the plumber/electrician excuse wouldn't work.

I don't recognise her as she has her face obscured in the photos.

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I just hope no-one is loitering as I live in East London and it is the holidays so the kids do have a reputation for doing that.

Wish me luck.

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I just hope no-one is loitering as I live in East London and it is the holidays so the kids do have a reputation for doing that.

Wish me luck.

Good luck.:D

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Carry some post with you. If you bump into someone say you are looking for Flat X ( not the girl's flat) because it has been mis deliverered to you.

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Good luck.:D

is that for his punt or for living in East London ?

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So, what's the closest to home that you've punted?

I just booked an appointment at 12 with a girl that I've been desperate to see for a while. She has good reccomendations and I can't wait to go. However, she's just texted me her address and it turns out her flat is just 45 secs away from my house! At the same time I know at least one family that live in that flat :D

I'm a bit nervous about going now. I really want to see her, and the risk may add to the thrill of the punt. But at the same I'm worried about getting caught.

In a bit of a pickle....

Hi Manoir,

I thought my occasional, carefully planned (when fewest of my family are at home) visits to a couple of ladies who work down the road at a house about 200 yards away were close to home, but at 45 seconds away you are very close to home.

I hope you got away with it and it was worth it.

davidgood

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I often punt a 5-minute walk away from home, but then 'home' for me is right in the heart of London's Escortland - half the men walking the streets are probably punters.

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makes a note to try a few local girls next time he's flat hunting - make sure there's a good one to hand :D

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I would be inclined to cancel, and give her the true reason. She could well be a friend of your relative, which you may have to deal with at a later time that would be awkward.

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Jeez

I worry about punting in the same COUNTY!

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used to punt with a lady on the same estate,about 400 yds door to door.

once bumped into a neighbour leaving a hod flat as i was going in:eek:funny we never discussed it;)

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That's what I was thinking.

I'm thinking I will ahead with it.

Unfortunately, I work at a University so the plumber/electrician excuse wouldn't work.

I don't recognise her as she has her face obscured in the photos.

A lecturer? :D

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I previously posted about my experience with a local girl.

I met her at my place for a 2 hour booking, and luckily I didn't know her and she didn't know me.

The town I live in has a population of about 12000 so it's relatively small, and I know quite a few people by sight.

Well, the punt went great, and I planned to meet her regularly which she agreed to.

The following day I was in the local super market with my kids and much to my horror, so was the girl I'd punted with the night before.

I tried to kinda hide by turning away from her and ushering the kids down an isle, but she had spotted me and headed across to me to say hello!

That took a lot of explaining to my then teenage daughter.

Needless to say, I would never punt locally again. It was just too risky.

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I would be inclined to cancel, and give her the true reason. She could well be a friend of your relative, which you may have to deal with at a later time that would be awkward.

Agree with this and would strongly recommend you following this advice if its not too late.

I think you're mad punting that close and if you get caught out then just yourself to blame. Its not bad luck its stupidity.

But hey, good luck and let us know how it goes :D

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I never punt close to home due to something that has happened to me when I started punting...

I had recently separated from my ex-wife and saw a girl that lived local to me in marylebone, london (yoriko - great jap escort - anyone remember her?) - a couple of weeks later I was on a date with a girl in a nice restaurant and she walked in with and older gent... My date picked up we recognized each other - I said we had dated a couple of times but she wasn't good in bed (an outrageous lie but hey-ho!)... The date bought it and was actually impressed as Yoriko was so hot! After this I never punt local - only broke this rule once for the lovely Lucia (www.lucia4u.co.uk).

The only other time I have bumped into a wg I have seen was in HMV on oxford st and the girl (Chinese) was with two friends - she literally jumped when she saw me and ran the other way - so I assumed her friends didn't know - I did the gentlemanly thing and retreated the other way...

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I've popped into a flat a few minutes away, but that was before I knew anyone in the area. I'd never do it now, too much of risk. Tend to go a few miles away at least now.

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So, what's the closest to home that you've punted?

I just booked an appointment at 12 with a girl that I've been desperate to see for a while. She has good reccomendations and I can't wait to go. However, she's just texted me her address and it turns out her flat is just 45 secs away from my house! At the same time I know at least one family that live in that flat :D

I'm a bit nervous about going now. I really want to see her, and the risk may add to the thrill of the punt. But at the same I'm worried about getting caught.

In a bit of a pickle....

How much have you got to lose ?

If you are married, have kids, live in the family home (45 secs from this escorts front door), have friends in the area and/or work nearby, I think that the benefits do not warrant the risk.

If you are really desperate to see the girl, how about booking a hotel (some offer really cheap day rates) and seeing her on an outcall basis somewhere a little less hazardous?

YMMV.

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Don't shit on your own doorstep, as the saying goes.

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Unfortunately, I work at a University so the plumber/electrician excuse wouldn't work.

Why not just let on that you're just going round to her place to help her with her dissertation :):D

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I previously posted about my experience with a local girl.

I met her at my place for a 2 hour booking, and luckily I didn't know her and she didn't know me.

The town I live in has a population of about 12000 so it's relatively small, and I know quite a few people by sight.

Well, the punt went great, and I planned to meet her regularly which she agreed to.

The following day I was in the local super market with my kids and much to my horror, so was the girl I'd punted with the night before.

I tried to kinda hide by turning away from her and ushering the kids down an isle, but she had spotted me and headed across to me to say hello!

That took a lot of explaining to my then teenage daughter.

Needless to say, I would never punt locally again. It was just too risky.

OMG what is wrong with some people. I would never walk up to any of my gents in the street or anywhere for that matter to say hello and i would hope they would be exactlly the same with me. DISCRETION...... I actually can't believe that what a nutcase......

On a better note the booking thats 45 seconds away if she is a reputabile WG who has any clue whats she's doing it wont make any difference that she lives so close or may know a member of your family cause it would never pass her lips again. I had an incident once in Glasgow where somebody I knew introduced me to a guy who had booked me a few months before. He flushed an awful shade of red bless him and i just pretended i'd never seen him before and said it was lovely to meet him. He thanked me later in a text message which I thought was sweet but did remind him there was no way I wanted to explain myself in public either so it was in both our interests to just keep stum and smile so he had nothing to worry about or thank me for.

For future ref. I would give her a ring before I was due to meet her, tell her that you live down the street and express your concerns. You should know from her response if its a good idea to visit or not. Good luck and I hope it all goes well for you dont let all the paranoid androids put you off.

Hugs Casey xx

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I have punted with a girl just round the corner from where I live. She didn't live at that address so I felt ok. Normally I dont punt in the towm where I live.

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I previously posted about my experience with a local girl.

I met her at my place for a 2 hour booking, and luckily I didn't know her and she didn't know me.

The town I live in has a population of about 12000 so it's relatively small, and I know quite a few people by sight.

Well, the punt went great, and I planned to meet her regularly which she agreed to.

The following day I was in the local super market with my kids and much to my horror, so was the girl I'd punted with the night before.

I tried to kinda hide by turning away from her and ushering the kids down an isle, but she had spotted me and headed across to me to say hello!

That took a lot of explaining to my then teenage daughter.

Needless to say, I would never punt locally again. It was just too risky.

Good GRIEF what got into her? I'd NEVER do that. It's completely inappropriate, especially as you were with someone else. Mutual discretion is the only way. I deduced that I knew socially a poster on another forum because of something he had written and got in touch via a private message to give him a heads-up. I was absolutely petrified of doing it; I don't want all my business spread everywhere lol - but I decided honesty and mutual discretion was the way forward. He agreed, of course, and we have stuck firmly to our policy ever since!

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