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A few weeks ago I posted thread 'Punting Emotions' regarding how it felt when travelling from home to a punting appointment with my wife still at home and how the rest of you guys married or with partners felt.

Well last week my wife was away for the week and I had the week to myself. The previous week I had already worked out my punting schedule as follows Tuesday 90 minutes, Friday 120 minutes with a regular and Sunday 90 minutes. I also took Tuesday and Friday of work as holidays.

Now my feelings getting ready for each of these appointments and returning home was completely different from when my wife is home and I'm being deceptive, telling lies and driving off to punt when I should be going to work. I felt totally relaxed, at one with myself and really looking forward to seeing the girls without any feelings of guilt what so ever.

So to all you guys with wives and partners, does your wife/partner ever spend time away from home and give you the opportunity to punt, and do you also feel really up for it, relaxed and guiltless.

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If you feel guilty and bad for punting why do you???? :D

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It would seem that what you are feeling is stress from the likelihood of being caught rather than guilt at betrayal of trust and risking her health too.

Stress/Guilt don't get them confused if you want to believe you are at least being honest with yourself.

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If you feel guilty and bad for punting why do you???? :D

I only get pangs of guilt when I drive away from home and my wife waves me off to work but i'm really off for a punting appointment.

The point of this thread is that I don't feel any guilt when my wife is away, and do other married or punters with partners feel the same.

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It would seem that what you are feeling is stress from the likelihood of being caught rather than guilt at betrayal of trust.

Too clever to be caught. I cover my tracks very well.

I'm just saying how I feel when I'm on my own and punting and do other guys feel a similar freedom.

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I get occasional "home alone weeks" and yes the punting feeling is rather different.

usually I have rather short lead times to assignations and they're a bit opportunistic.The usual procedure is a quick round of calls to find which of a target list of easy to get to WGs are available in my time slot etc etc.

But a "Home alone" punt is altogether different. There's the long lead time to arrange the meet, there's the flexibility to adapt to her best time /date, the stress free travel to hers or preparing mine and the leisurely checking & clear up afterwards.

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I get occasional "home alone weeks" and yes the punting feeling is rather different.

usually I have rather short lead times to assignations and they're a bit opportunistic.The usual procedure is a quick round of calls to find which of a target list of easy to get to WGs are available in my time slot etc etc.

But a "Home alone" punt is altogether different. There's the long lead time to arrange the meet, there's the flexibility to adapt to her best time /date, the stress free travel to hers or preparing mine and the leisurely checking & clear up afterwards.

Yes, I agree, the feeling is much better and as you say far more relaxing before and after.

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A few weeks ago I posted thread 'Punting Emotions' regarding how it felt when travelling from home to a punting appointment with my wife still at home and how the rest of you guys married or with partners felt.

Well last week my wife was away for the week and I had the week to myself. The previous week I had already worked out my punting schedule as follows Tuesday 90 minutes, Friday 120 minutes with a regular and Sunday 90 minutes. I also took Tuesday and Friday of work as holidays.

Now my feelings getting ready for each of these appointments and returning home was completely different from when my wife is home and I'm being deceptive, telling lies and driving off to punt when I should be going to work. I felt totally relaxed, at one with myself and really looking forward to seeing the girls without any feelings of guilt what so ever.

So to all you guys with wives and partners, does your wife/partner ever spend time away from home and give you the opportunity to punt, and do you also feel really up for it, relaxed and guiltless.

I never felt guilty whether she was away or not and wouldnt punt if i did as it would no doubt spoil my fun, which is what i get out of punting.

The only difference was if she was away i would punt more.

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presume you mean with impunity?

The expression "while the cats away" comes to mind - I really relax when I know my missus is away - which is about twice a year. The rest of the time I lie or - increasingly - tell her I am off for a massage.

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Too clever to be caught. I cover my tracks very well.

"Confident, cocky, lazy, dead."

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"Confident, cocky, lazy, dead."

No

But very careful and nothing ever left to chance.

55 miles from home.

PAYG phone.

Same time and routine as going to work.

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Good to hear - but never assume you're too smart to be caught.

That's the way all smart miscreants get caught.

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Of course you should not feel guilty, if she is not there to cater for your needs then you are entitiled to get your needs catered for elsewhere.

The reality is she is lucky to have someone as good as you who returns to look after her, and allows her such freedom.

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Well, the missus has actually gone off today for a few days to visit her folks and it's been planned for several weeks. She normally plans a few days away during some of the school breaks so therefore I have plenty of time to plan and enjoy a punt during that time.

I'm more relaxed I suppose but I never feel guilt whether she's at home or not.

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I don't feel guilty when I punt if Mrs Northwinds is at home. I wouldn't do this if I did.

However, once last year when my wife was away for the week, I was tempted to book a girl for an outcall to my home.

It was the one and only time I will ever do that. I didn't so much feel guilty, just very, very strange about the whole thing. It certainly lessened the enjoyment of the whole thing (gorgeous, responsive, blonde, mid-twenties, part-time Czech nanny from ** - only £160 for 2 hours) such that I will never bother again. Incalls and hotel bookings for me from now on :rolleyes:.

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I don't feel guilty when I punt if Mrs Northwinds is at home. I wouldn't do this if I did.

However, once last year when my wife was away for the week, I was tempted to book a girl for an outcall to my home.

It was the one and only time I will ever do that. I didn't so much feel guilty, just very, very strange about the whole thing. It certainly lessened the enjoyment of the whole thing (gorgeous, responsive, blonde, mid-twenties, part-time Czech nanny from ** - only £160 for 2 hours) such that I will never bother again. Incalls and hotel bookings for me from now on :rolleyes:.

I dont feel in the least bit guitly either. I would have no problem with the idea of an outcall to my house, provided all discretion and security issues were to my satisfaction. Did it once when I was home alone -- it was tremendous !! Stayed clear of the marital bedroom --- preferred the drawing room couch and carpet instead ! :(

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Did it once when I was home alone -- it was tremendous !! Stayed clear of the marital bedroom --- preferred the drawing room couch and carpet instead ! :)

I thought I'd feel the same. Nope :( ! I felt totally on edge throughout the whole booking. I'm still not sure why, but there's no point trying to rationalise it. I'll stick to what I enjoy from now on.

Mind you, even if I had enjoyed it, I would still have had a near heart attack when, a few days after my wife returned home, she found a couple of empty condom wrappers in the bin in the spare bathroom :rolleyes::eek::( !

Luckily, we had had guests stay for the w/e between the escort visit and the discovery, so she simply assumed they were theirs. Wheeeeeeew !

Double never again :o !

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I thought I'd feel the same. Nope :o ! I felt totally on edge throughout the whole booking. I'm still not sure why, but there's no point trying to rationalise it. I'll stick to what I enjoy from now on.

Mind you, even if I had enjoyed it, I would still have had a near heart attack when, a few days after my wife returned home, she found a couple of empty condom wrappers in the bin in the spare bathroom :rolleyes::eek::( !

Luckily, we had had guests stay for the w/e between the escort visit and the discovery, so she simply assumed they were theirs. Wheeeeeeew !

Double never again :) !

Now that was asking for trouble ! Yes , the attention to detail and concentrationmust be razor sharp.Probably better all round to do incall or hotel.

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Now that was asking for trouble ! Yes , the attention to detail and concentrationmust be razor sharp.Probably better all round to do incall or hotel.

I'm normally pretty good at details. I think that the whole "on edge" thing led me to not do the right thing (i.e. a proper post-punt sweep for evidence). After I got over the shock, my overwhelming feeling was of annoyance at myself for being so careless.

I agree though that (for me) Incall is better :rolleyes:.

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wife returned home, she found a couple of empty condom wrappers in the bin in the spare bathroom :rolleyes::eek::( !

we had had guests stay for the w/e between the escort visit and the discovery, so she simply assumed they were theirs. Wheeeeeeew !

I don't know how many punting 'lives' one gets ... but you sure used up a few with that escapade. N'winds.

Way too risky for me ...my punting 'zone' has to be at least 15 miles ond more usually 40 ......from the Badger set.

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I don't know how many punting 'lives' one gets ... but you sure used up a few with that escapade. N'winds.

Believe me Badger, I agree.

Way too risky for me ...my punting 'zone' has to be at least 15 miles ond more usually 40 ......from the Badger set.

You won't be surprised to hear that my views are (now) pretty similar to your own ;).

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Mind you, even if I had enjoyed it, I would still have had a near heart attack when, a few days after my wife returned home, she found a couple of empty condom wrappers in the bin in the spare bathroom

It's often the obvious things that get overlooked, does sound like a close shave

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