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Qustion for the girls as well as for the guys: During email communication, (with potential client or WG) do you have completely innocent expressions, but its just put you off to progress with a future booking?

I am not talking about badly written email (it can be very articulate), not about that some obsenities used, not some fantasy plays which you find unacceptable.... I mean just a little seemed like an innocent sentence, but its off putting for you, and you can not point the finger why?

The recent one for me: Quote from email: As I am approaching 50 (next year) I am not looking for a 20 year old with tits and no ability to relax and seduce.

Yes, its absolutely innocent quote from the guy, and in fact I am more appreciate it, then otherwise dry email in the lines "Hi, are you available on xx, at xx". But somehow, I rather he did not said it, and I don't want to go further in arranging meeting.

What kinds of single, short expressions, sayings, quotes, etc. put you off in going ahead with a booking? Not necessarily after be during email exchange, during phone conversation also?

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Qustion for the girls as well as for the guys: During email communication, (with potential client or WG) do you have completely innocent expressions, but its just put you off to progress with a future booking?

I am not talking about badly written email (it can be very articulate), not about that some obsenities used, not some fantasy plays which you find unacceptable.... I mean just a little seemed like an innocent sentence, but its off putting for you, and you can not point the finger why?

The recent one for me: Quote from email: As I am approaching 50 (next year) I am not looking for a 20 year old with tits and no ability to relax and seduce.

Yes, its absolutely innocent quote from the guy, and in fact I am more appreciate it, then otherwise dry email in the lines "Hi, are you available on xx, at xx". But somehow, I rather he did not said it, and I don't want to go further in arranging meeting.

What kinds of single, short expressions, sayings, quotes, etc. put you off in going ahead with a booking? Not necessarily after be during email exchange, during phone conversation also?

I see what you are getting at.

Personally I hate the expression 'tits'. It's a word I always imagine immature teenage boys to use or the type of men who never quite know what to do with womens breasts other them grab hold of them and jiggle them like jelly.

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"Babe" or "Hun" can be a bit off putting. It kind of implies a level of intimacy we havent yet got to. Even if they havent left a name I tend to reply to emails along the lines of "Hi, Thanks for looking at my website..."

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"Babe" or "Hun" can be a bit off putting. It kind of implies a level of intimacy we havent yet got to. Even if they havent left a name I tend to reply to emails along the lines of "Hi, Thanks for looking at my website..."

I can only second all of that. Anything with Babe, hun, Darling etc. etc. will get nowhere fast (so much so that I've never yet met with anyone who emailed me like this). It may be innocent but I find it overly familiar and also somewhat derogatory. Call me sensitive or whatever...

Tits and Ass I don't mind so much :-)

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Wow, this just shows what a real minefield this all is. I see where you're coming from with your quote Xenia, and I wouldn't express it in those terms, but I might mention that I feel mor comfortable with a lady closer to my own age.

I always try to avoid crude references in my e-mails; I really enjoy RO, but I'm always a bit unsure even about saying 'pussy' in the mail. (Having said that, I also appreciate a lady with pubic hair, and if that's one of her attractions I try to say so, if only to encourage her not to go shaven!) I'm not in the least bit attracted anyway to the sort of WG who might appreciate an e-mail along the lines of "Hi babe, I wanna shove my big fat cock into your arse then lick out your c*nt", i.e. the ones who use that sort of language in their profiles.

Terms of affection is a bit of an awkward one. I always open with the lady's name, and often use it more than once. The only time I might use an endearment is in signing off, e.g. 'Take care hun', simply as a sign of warmth, not trying to imply any non-existent intimacy. I avoid 'babe' but I do use 'hun', 'beautiful' and 'sugar' and, very very occasionally, if the lady seems to fit it, 'sweetie'. (I wouldn't use that if I contacted you Xenia, I think it'd make you throw up!) Based on ladies responses to this post I might review my use of such terms altogether. :):(

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Guys that send detailed descriptions of themselves and some that even attach a picture to help the half hour meeting along.

The temptation is so strong to mail back and tell them it's ok I am a whore I fuck anyone or were you confusing me with a dating agency.

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Tits and Ass I don't mind so much :-)

Same goes for many of us on here.

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Guys that send detailed descriptions of themselves and some that even attach a picture to help the half hour meeting along.

The temptation is so strong to mail back and tell them it's ok I am a whore I fuck anyone or were you confusing me with a dating agency.

To be honest Divine, that's the sort of approach that would put me right off. When I contact someone through The Other Site they can see my profile, including my pictures. As I implied in my earlier post, I'm not looking for 'a fuck with a whore', I'm looking for a real, warm ladywith an inviting personality, and (in common, I think, with lots of other guys who regularly post here), yes, for the time I'm with you I do want it to feel like a date - isn't that what the term GFE suggests?

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To be honest Divine, that's the sort of approach that would put me right off. When I contact someone through The Other Site they can see my profile, including my pictures. As I implied in my earlier post, I'm not looking for 'a fuck with a whore', I'm looking for a real, warm ladywith an inviting personality, and (in common, I think, with lots of other guys who regularly post here), yes, for the time I'm with you I do want it to feel like a date - isn't that what the term GFE suggests?

I am sure it would put you off which is why I stated the temptation to write it and not that I write it. The point is it is information that is not required and quite off putting for ME. Flower it up how you like GFE, PSE, 65 hour wine, dine and thrilling conversation you are still fucking a whore ( I am referring to myself here for the sensitive) and I really don't need a picture or a persons life history to allow me to do the job.

How can it be a date ? One doesn't normally pay hard cash for a date other than a bottle of bubbly. How can an email show you someone's warmth. They show you the marketing and the facade. you have to meet someone to find out if they are a dick or not.

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The recent one for me: Quote from email: As I am approaching 50 (next year) I am not looking for a 20 year old with tits and no ability to relax and seduce.

He sounds like a wanker / timewaster / deluded one for the trash bin for sure :(

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I am sure it would put you off which is why I stated the temptation to write it and not that I write it. The point is it is information that is not required and quite off putting for ME. Flower it up how you like GFE, PSE, 65 hour wine, dine and thrilling conversation you are still fucking a whore ( I am referring to myself here for the sensitive) and I really don't need a picture or a persons life history to allow me to do the job.

How can it be a date ? One doesn't normally pay hard cash for a date other than a bottle of bubbly. How can an email show you someone's warmth. They show you the marketing and the facade. you have to meet someone to find out if they are a dick or not.

Okay, well clearly you and I have different takes on this Divine. Many of the liaisons I've had with ladies have felt like dates - for me, anyway, which is the point. If the WG has a cynical laugh about my fluffy attitude afterwards good luck to her - she's put on a good perfomance for me.

I don't simply see the SP as a spunk-receptacle, or a commodity to be bought, used and thrown away afterwards, like the can of beans in Howard's celebrated analogy in another thread. I see her as another person who is going to share herself with me for a while and who I want to have a good time with me. I would never meet a girl on the basis of an a photo-less profile that said “I’m a whore, to fuck me call...” I do my research carefully before making contact and I regard reciprocity as a common courtesy - I've seen your pix and I know about you, here's who I am in return. Unless you’re literally just providing a fuck-and-run service I would have thought it helped your service delivery to know the client’s views, likes and dislikes. Ladies have their tastes too, and if when I turn up the girl’s likely to think “oh God, look at this hairy fat slug” I’d much rather know in advance than have a meeting that at least one of us is very unlikely to enjoy.

Sorry Xenia sweetie-honey-babe, this exchange has gone right off your topic, but that's the nature of this board. :(

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Okay, well clearly you and I have different takes on this Divine. Many of the liaisons I've had with ladies have felt like dates - for me, anyway, which is the point. If the WG has a cynical laugh about my fluffy attitude afterwards good luck to her - she's put on a good perfomance for me.

I don't simply see the SP as a spunk-receptacle, or a commodity to be bought, used and thrown away afterwards, like the can of beans in Howard's celebrated analogy in another thread. I see her as another person who is going to share herself with me for a while and who I want to have a good time with me. I would never meet a girl on the basis of an a photo-less profile that said "I'm a whore, to fuck me call..." I do my research carefully before making contact and I regard reciprocity as a common courtesy - I've seen your pix and I know about you, here's who I am in return. Unless you're literally just providing a fuck-and-run service I would have thought it helped your service delivery to know the client's views, likes and dislikes. Ladies have their tastes too, and if when I turn up the girl's likely to think "oh God, look at this hairy fat slug" I'd much rather know in advance than have a meeting that at least one of us is very unlikely to enjoy.

Sorry Xenia sweetie-honey-babe, this exchange has gone right off your topic, but that's the nature of this board. :(

It hasn't gone off thread, I posted what I disliked in emails. You see my idea of a date is two people mutually attracted that have normally met and would like to see each other again to hopefully progress to a relationship. A booking with a WG is just that a booking. Yes you can exchange the pleasantries, yes you can send pics but it is still a booking not a mutual attraction. The client may spend hours dreaming about it but the lady is likely to turn round and state be back soon got a two hour at 1o'clock and that is that.

The rest of the banter is just marketing, you will probably be treated the same as the guy who makes a telephone enquiry, books and turns up and rightly so. If a girl is doing her job probably she will treat you like a king regardless of the fact she knows you breed Alsatians and like marmite sandwiches.

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Hun makes me think of Attila the Hun. If it's a shortening of "Honey" then why the "U"?

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grab hold of them and jiggle them like jelly.

That sounds nice.

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I can see what Xenia meant a simple comment can translate into a "feeling" so easily and on a completely individual basis. This is particularly true of the brains of women :(.

"As I am approaching 50 (next year) I am not looking for a 20 year old with tits and no ability to relax and seduce".

Translates as:

I am a mature (nearly) individual whose sophisticated tastes would be wasted on a young woman and now you are no longer young I will seduce you. (I have noticed your tits).

which further translates as:

I am no spring chicken and can't keep up with 20yo's who laugh at me. Acknowledging this, would an old girl like you take pity on me and make me feel good for half an hour. (Please bring your tits).

P.S. If I am wonderful can I have a discount.

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I don't simply see the SP as a spunk-receptacle, or a commodity to be bought, used and thrown away afterwards, like the can of beans in Howard's celebrated analogy in another thread. I see her as another person who is going to share herself with me for a while and who I want to have a good time with me. I would never meet a girl on the basis of an a photo-less profile that said "I'm a whore, to fuck me call..." I do my research carefully before making contact and I regard reciprocity as a common courtesy - I've seen your pix and I know about you, here's who I am in return. Unless you're literally just providing a fuck-and-run service I would have thought it helped your service delivery to know the client's views, likes and dislikes. Ladies have their tastes too, and if when I turn up the girl's likely to think "oh God, look at this hairy fat slug" I'd much rather know in advance than have a meeting that at least one of us is very unlikely to enjoy.

Are you suggesting that if you send a picture to a wg and she accepts to see you that she fancies you?

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Quote from email: As I am approaching 50 (next year) I am not looking for a 20 year old with tits and no ability to relax and seduce.

I suspect the reason this is off-putting is simply that the way he chooses to specify what he wants is to be negative about (a fictional) someone else.

I gather people generally have this response to negative advertising and party political broadcasts.

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Are you suggesting that if you send a picture to a wg and she accepts to see you that she fancies you?

If it is a picture similar to this then she may well have taken a fancy.

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Are you suggesting that if you send a picture to a wg and she accepts to see you that she fancies you?

No, not at all, simply that she doesn't find me so repulsive that the meeting is going to be truly horrible for her. Of course, every WG I've ever met has fancied me on sight! :(

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If it is a picture similar to this then she may well have taken a fancy.

Why, do many WGs have sexual fantasies about the Queen?

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Why, do many WGs have sexual fantasies about the Queen?

Oh yes, it is a well known fact that all of them wet their knickers at the sight of Lizzie.

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If it is a picture similar to this then she may well have taken a fancy.

Sasfan stop posting porn on here, I can't concentrate.

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I suspect the reason this is off-putting is simply that the way he chooses to specify what he wants is to be negative about (a fictional) someone else.

I gather people generally have this response to negative advertising and party political broadcasts.

Looks like someone who just doesn't have either any tact or proper understanding of english. Some chaps sometimes forget they are dealing with real people here and yes it can be off-putting - well you wonder what they will come out with or do that's inappropriate next. I do believe in seeing how things pan out though!

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I once stopped seeing a girl, after she told me that her mate had found "a real gentleman".

Over the years I have had girls tell me that they "hate" the following words, "fanny, cunt, horny, doggy style," yet most women use all of them on a regular basis. So i tend to go for neutral terms until advised otherwise, genitalia, libidinous and rear entry.

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How would anyone reply to this email"" do you swallow cum and piss?""

no hi or name .......that really puts me off a meeting .This was agenuine email and my polite reply was No!!

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