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I have recently seen a couple of web sites where the ladies concerned offer role play. What sort of roles do people act out? Does it work or does it end up being like a very bad amateur dramatics group doing a very bad Carry On film?

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What role do you want to act out? Its your own imagination that's the most limiting factor.

Of course... like any other activity... some ladies are better at it that others. Some are very convincing indeed. One Leeds lady (sadly retired) was so good at playing a bossy doctor that she had me convinced that I'd really walked into a GP's surgery by mistake.

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I've never given role play much thought as it's not something I'd really go for. I can see the attraction for some people though.

I have punted with a professional actress who said she had lots of enquiries about role play. I imagine she would have been very good acting out the scenario.

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What role do you want to act out? Its your own imagination that's the most limiting factor.

I don't want to act anything out. I was curious really as to what happens and whether it really works for some. It sounds like it could have the potential to be really corny.

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It works very well if you both have very good imagination and act out scenes that turn you on like secretary and boss, mistress, Nurse and patient........:o

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It works very well if you both have very good imagination and act out scenes that turn you on like secretary and boss, mistress, Nurse and patient........:)

Never done role play but would have an open mind. The key is your use of the word ' both ' , and therein lies the problem because the WGs say they are rarely turned on. There must be nothing worse than trying to get into a role play when the lady is laughing inside and thinking ' what a prat ' !:o

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I've done it quite a lot and I really enjoy it. I did one last week where I was an Estate Agent showing the client round my flat. I had to persuade him to put in an offer by flashing my tits at him. Very often I'm a 'Mrs Robinson' type figure, seducing a young man who pops round to my house, but the best one I ever did involved me being a Boss who was rewarding one of her employees with sexual favours. I subsequently discovered that the client was a professional actor, which probably explains why he went out of the room, closed the door and came back in, stage right, in character as a flustered employee! I've seen him many times since then, but I must admit it's more difficult now we know each other well. Am seeing him again this week and we're going to try another one. I love it, really good fun and I personally find it a real turn on if it's a scenario I enjoy. I think the chances of a WG laughing inwardly are remote; you can't do it if you don't take it seriously and I think anyone who found it silly would refuse to do it.

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Never done role play but would have an open mind. The key is your use of the word ' both ' , and therein lies the problem because the WGs say they are rarely turned on. There must be nothing worse than trying to get into a role play when the lady is laughing inside and thinking ' what a prat ' !:o

I daresay those ladies who have punters that wear a nappy, bonnet and suck on a dummy find it amusing or sad, i wouldnt of thought many would be turned on by it, but i stand to be corrected, i certainly wouldnt be able to keep a straight face. Seeing a punter wearing his paisley pygamas and slippers at a Party tipped me over the edge, i had to leave the room for a while to regain my composure.:):)

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I don't know whether I would like role play or not--I've never tried it. I cringe at even the thought of it and don't think I could ever go through with it. I'm full of admiration for those who can. I don't know what it is--I'm not shy, and, on occasions, have spoken publicly to several hundred people without a script. But to one wg, in private, I couldn't manage it

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Thank you smiths. I had erased from my memory the roleplay where I had to change a guy's nappy. Until now! :o

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Thank you smiths. I had erased from my memory the roleplay where I had to change a guy's nappy. Until now! :)

Sorry about that Sarita.:o:)

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Looking at some of the unhappy threads and posts on here, in the view of the punters, some of them are pretending to be prostitutes :o.

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I have done role play before and enjoyed it, but have only said yes to the ones I know I can do comfortably that way it ends up good for both parties. Have said no to quite a few scenario's and one was the nappie thing lol.:o

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I don't want to act anything out. I was curious really as to what happens and whether it really works for some. It sounds like it could have the potential to be really corny.

Normal sex: "The position ridiculous; the expense exorbitant; the pleasure fleeting".

Many human activities... looked at unemotionally from the outside... have the potential to look "corny".

I not going to attempt any long winded defence of role playing.

But I will say a couple of things. First it can be immensely enjoyable for both parties. (If lady doesn't enjoy doing it... do something else... its that simple.) Second. I'd have thought deep down most people want to act something out.... I really do struggle to believe that anybody doesn't sit and day dream from time to time about favorite fantasies.

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Normal sex: "The position ridiculous; the expense exorbitant; the pleasure fleeting".

Many human activities... looked at unemotionally from the outside... have the potential to look "corny".

I not going to attempt any long winded defence of role playing.

But I will say a couple of things. First it can be immensely enjoyable for both parties. (If lady doesn't enjoy doing it... do something else... its that simple.) Second. I'd have thought deep down most people want to act something out.... I really do struggle to believe that anybody doesn't sit and day dream from time to time about favorite fantasies.

Yes thats fine but how do I gauge ' in advance ' if a WG does truly enjoy role play. I would not want to go from one to another until I strike it lucky.

Are there particular type of role plays that the girls generally do find fun and enjoyable ? Is there experience of this ?

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a punter wearing his paisley pygamas and slippers at a Party

Now that's true courage. Buy that man a beer .... or a bottle of warm milk.

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I love role play - several of my regular clients are role play enthusiasts and we have an absolute ball. One of them, some time ago, turned up with an envelope full of ideas he'd written down and we picked out one idea per session - sort of a role play roulette - that way neither of us knew till the day what we'd be getting up to :) Great fun.

I have another gentleman who I have not seen yet who has heard about me doing stuff like this and has booked in for my next trip to Manchester; bless him he's been trying to see me for months but we have never quite coincided. We have set up our idea for an office-based scenario and have been chatting about it and looking forward to it for a while now. Fortunately he now only has about 3 weeks to go or I think he'd pop.

One of the dangers with role play that I find is the potential for over-thinking it. You really have to jut dive in and be natural, assume the character and have fun with it. I hate the thought of a 'script' and try and discourage this idea with my gentlemen. If a person has a specific phrase that really does it for them, then obviously I will work that in, but six pages of notes beforehand are really not conducive to spontaneity and excitement on either of our parts.

The other thing I worry about is disappointment - it's easy to fantasise something and in our minds it can be a de Mille epic with a cast of thousands, sets and props worth millions and so forth. In reality, there's a nice apartment and me. I do my best and I'm confident that I'm good, but there are limits to my skills!

It's interesting that a couple of people have commented on the professional/trained performer aspect of this. I was trained in performance and then worked as an actor and singer (I still sing, but not as much as I used to) and have often wondered whether this has an effect on what I do.

A useful thing to consider when imagining a roleplay session is the thought of the 'stock character'. Certain roleplays have within them an innate balance of power and character types which can make settling into a roleplay easier. Of course it is then equally possible, once you have got the hang of it, to have just as much fun subverting these roles - swinging the balance of perceived power the other way :o

Favourite past roleplays have included:

Schoolgirl/teacher

Work environments - both of these are great for the balance of power shift

Religious roleplay - nun/priest/confession (spot the convent-educated girl lol)

Health professional (being very unprofessional, of course)

Harem girl and sultan

Kidnap and 'torture'/interrogation (the manner of torture obviously depending on the mood we're in at the time lol)

I could go on - I have enjoyed all of these repeatedly from many angles, but I think my favourite thing is when someone comes to me and says

"I've got this idea..."

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Yes thats fine but how do I gauge ' in advance ' if a WG does truly enjoy role play. I would not want to go from one to another until I strike it lucky.

Are there particular type of role plays that the girls generally do find fun and enjoyable ? Is there experience of this ?

To be fair... how do you gauge any "escorting activity"... in advance? At some point you have to give it a go, and hope it works out. But you can obviously do some things to put the odds in your favour, e.g. :

1/ Float idea past some of ladies you already see. Are any keen to give it a go?

2/ Look at ladies whose general approach is to have some discussion in advance... nearly always a good sign in general.

I very much agree with Belle about it not being a good idea to try to stick to a script. That's exactly what I did first couple of times... for me it didn't work very well. But... having said that the scripting itself gave me a lot of innocent pleasure. And its not a bad way to think yourself into a role... just be ready to leave script at home, and be happy to improvise.

Like many things in life... something I'll never be good at... but I do it anyway because I enjoy it.

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I don't mind the role play scenarios as such - but sometimes when I am asked to do things that I am not comfortable with, I actually feel a bit embarrassed to tell the guy. But I DO tell him...

I know there are some guys who like to be 'humiliated' but I refuse point blank to do things like spit in their mouths (THEIR request)... :D

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A friend of mine phoned a working girl and asked her if she did role play.

She replied yes.

"Good," he said, "I'm a level 5 Mage with a toughness of six and three magic swords..."

He learned found new swear words in less seconds

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...I very much agree with Belle about it not being a good idea to try to stick to a script. That's exactly what I did first couple of times... for me it didn't work very well. But... having said that the scripting itself gave me a lot of innocent pleasure. And its not a bad way to think yourself into a role... just be ready to leave script at home, and be happy to improvise...

I don't do role play - I wouldn't feel comfortable - but do sometimes receive "scripts" which have plainly given the author a great deal of innocent pleasure :( over a great deal of time. They never take it any further. So, I third Belle's "not sticking to a script" but I'd also suggest that if gentlemen want to construct a script, they should keep it in their heads, for fear of a very detailed story marking you out as a timewaster.

(It's interesting to notice that, however detailed a fantasy/role play script is, the authors rarely take account of how long the described acts would actually take to perform, or minor physical impossibilities, such as "You suck my balls and stick three fingers up my arse as I pound you from behind"...:D)

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I've never done role-play and don't think I'm really interested.

Someone mentioned the problem of one or other party not being able to take it seriously and bursting out laughing. That is definitely a problem (would be for me, anyway), and in a way more damaging/humiliating to the other than if you burst out laughing at something else. I think I could take in my stride a woman smiling/laughing at a failed erection or some other act of sexual clumsiness, because the laughter would simply be directed at some relatively external piece of performance. But if you laughed at my sexual fantasy, you would be laughing at something that was deeply intimate to me, and it could be extraordinarily wounding.

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Unless I was playing myself, but with a twist, it would seem inauthentic and a bit pointless - I tend to feel self-conscious quite often as it is without contemplating myself while contemplating myself as someone else...

But that's not to say that acting out "what if" you'd actually propositioned that girl you used to work with, or "what if" you'd dared do those things with that amazing girl you had the one night stand with, isn't fun.

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I've never done role-play and don't think I'm really interested.

I wouldn't be that sure of that... not if you've ever gone for the "GFE experience". It always surprises me that on threads like this role play is always associated with fairly unusual variants of it such as baby minding, age play, etc.

But few seem to realize that GFE experience at essence is a classic role play.

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I love role play - several of my regular clients are role play enthusiasts and we have an absolute ball. One of them, some time ago, turned up with an envelope full of ideas he'd written down and we picked out one idea per session - sort of a role play roulette - that way neither of us knew till the day what we'd be getting up to :( Great fun.

I have another gentleman who I have not seen yet who has heard about me doing stuff like this and has booked in for my next trip to Manchester; bless him he's been trying to see me for months but we have never quite coincided. We have set up our idea for an office-based scenario and have been chatting about it and looking forward to it for a while now. Fortunately he now only has about 3 weeks to go or I think he'd pop.

One of the dangers with role play that I find is the potential for over-thinking it. You really have to jut dive in and be natural, assume the character and have fun with it. I hate the thought of a 'script' and try and discourage this idea with my gentlemen. If a person has a specific phrase that really does it for them, then obviously I will work that in, but six pages of notes beforehand are really not conducive to spontaneity and excitement on either of our parts.

The other thing I worry about is disappointment - it's easy to fantasise something and in our minds it can be a de Mille epic with a cast of thousands, sets and props worth millions and so forth. In reality, there's a nice apartment and me. I do my best and I'm confident that I'm good, but there are limits to my skills!

It's interesting that a couple of people have commented on the professional/trained performer aspect of this. I was trained in performance and then worked as an actor and singer (I still sing, but not as much as I used to) and have often wondered whether this has an effect on what I do.

A useful thing to consider when imagining a roleplay session is the thought of the 'stock character'. Certain roleplays have within them an innate balance of power and character types which can make settling into a roleplay easier. Of course it is then equally possible, once you have got the hang of it, to have just as much fun subverting these roles - swinging the balance of perceived power the other way :D

Favourite past roleplays have included:

Schoolgirl/teacher

Work environments - both of these are great for the balance of power shift

Religious roleplay - nun/priest/confession (spot the convent-educated girl lol)

Health professional (being very unprofessional, of course)

Harem girl and sultan

Kidnap and 'torture'/interrogation (the manner of torture obviously depending on the mood we're in at the time lol)

I could go on - I have enjoyed all of these repeatedly from many angles, but I think my favourite thing is when someone comes to me and says

"I've got this idea..."

To be fair... how do you gauge any "escorting activity"... in advance? At some point you have to give it a go, and hope it works out. But you can obviously do some things to put the odds in your favour, e.g. :

1/ Float idea past some of ladies you already see. Are any keen to give it a go?

2/ Look at ladies whose general approach is to have some discussion in advance... nearly always a good sign in general.

I very much agree with Belle about it not being a good idea to try to stick to a script. That's exactly what I did first couple of times... for me it didn't work very well. But... having said that the scripting itself gave me a lot of innocent pleasure. And its not a bad way to think yourself into a role... just be ready to leave script at home, and be happy to improvise.

Like many things in life... something I'll never be good at... but I do it anyway because I enjoy it.

Well gauging in advance is what we try to do all the time by carrying out research etc. Now even reading Belle's post above would probably give the punter a sufficient green light to explore this activity with her but whilst many WGs may list role play in their services,they may not really have much experience of doing it and consequently may be much less comfotable with it then main street services. I suspect to provide role playing services well, the lady needs to have a particular interest in this area.

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