AngelCasey

To see or not to see..............

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Here I go opening another can of worms................... Last week i put up the post regarding 'walking in our shoes' and since then have seen some more interesting posts on this site so just have to ask. Guys there have been numerous posts on this site relating to ladies blurring their faces on sites. Some of the things said have been along the lines of

If they didn't blur their faces we could avoid the horrors (ooohhh lovely)

Somebody also insinuated that some ladies blur their faces as they are ugly and although they have a nice body the face leaves alot to be desired so to me that would mean they think its a con..... soooooo im thinking. As far as im aware the majority of women who blur their faces do so because they don't want their whole neighbourhood to know who they are and what they do, people close to them dont know what they do, some of them have other jobs that they would be fired from if it got out they were a wg.... I think these are all pretty plausible reasons but some people see right past this so Guys if its such a big deal (and im not saying it is to all of you but it is to a small minority :))

Then how about a website for punters reviewyourpunter.com You guys could put up a profile about yourselves with your face - unblurred of course - vital stats your do's dont or rather likes dislikes oh and a review section so that based on all this info we could decide if your the type of gent we'd like to accept a date from??????? what do you think???? If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :)

Hugs Casey xx

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Here I go opening another can of worms................... Last week i put up the post regarding 'walking in our shoes' and since then have seen some more interesting posts on this site so just have to ask. Guys there have been numerous posts on this site relating to ladies blurring their faces on sites. Some of the things said have been along the lines of

If they didn't blur their faces we could avoid the horrors (ooohhh lovely)

Somebody also insinuated that some ladies blur their faces as they are ugly and although they have a nice body the face leaves alot to be desired so to me that would mean they think its a con..... soooooo im thinking. As far as im aware the majority of women who blur their faces do so because they don't want their whole neighbourhood to know who they are and what they do, people close to them dont know what they do, some of them have other jobs that they would be fired from if it got out they were a wg.... I think these are all pretty plausible reasons but some people see right past this so Guys if its such a big deal (and im not saying it is to all of you but it is to a small minority :))

Then how about a website for punters reviewyourpunter.com You guys could put up a profile about yourselves with your face - unblurred of course - vital stats your do's dont or rather likes dislikes oh and a review section so that based on all this info we could decide if your the type of gent we'd like to accept a date from??????? what do you think???? If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :)

Hugs Casey xx

You make a good point Casey. My face is unblurred on Adultwank, but is blurred on my own personal website as I would more likely be caught out on that than the other site. However I've noticed a lot of guys complaining about the fact that some women hide their faces. I hide mine for all good reasons, 1) I work a VERY public job and would most likely get sacked if they found out and 2) My husbands family would have a cow of they found out and would have me deported. No lie.

There has to be a common ground when it comes to escort punter relationships. I know you can't please every person but there has to be some understanding. Like you said, if blokes had to post thier pictures on a escorting website would they show thier faces? Don't think so, to much at risk for most of them.

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Here I go opening another can of worms................... Last week i put up the post regarding 'walking in our shoes' and since then have seen some more interesting posts on this site so just have to ask. Guys there have been numerous posts on this site relating to ladies blurring their faces on sites. Some of the things said have been along the lines of

If they didn't blur their faces we could avoid the horrors (ooohhh lovely)

Somebody also insinuated that some ladies blur their faces as they are ugly and although they have a nice body the face leaves alot to be desired so to me that would mean they think its a con..... soooooo im thinking. As far as im aware the majority of women who blur their faces do so because they don't want their whole neighbourhood to know who they are and what they do, people close to them dont know what they do, some of them have other jobs that they would be fired from if it got out they were a wg.... I think these are all pretty plausible reasons but some people see right past this so Guys if its such a big deal (and im not saying it is to all of you but it is to a small minority :))

Then how about a website for punters reviewyourpunter.com You guys could put up a profile about yourselves with your face - unblurred of course - vital stats your do's dont or rather likes dislikes oh and a review section so that based on all this info we could decide if your the type of gent we'd like to accept a date from??????? what do you think???? If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :)

Hugs Casey xx

My complete profile, including full face photos, is available on Abortwank to any WG I contact there. Just let me know if you want a copy Casey! :)

I think that to suggest that most, or even any, WGs who hide their faces do so because they're ugly is a particularly trollish attitude. Of course lots of ladies are concerned about discretion, as are punters. As far as I'm aware only SPs, and probably only those I contact, are able to see my details Over There, and I am willing to take that slight risk because I feel that, given the chances WGs take in meeting strangers, since I've read their profiles and seen their pictures - veiled or otherwise - it's reasonable to give them the opportunity to see mine before we meet.

Of course, like most men I imagine, I would prefer to see face photos of the ladies I contact, but being unable to do so certainly woiuldn't prevent me contacing a WG whose profile otherwise appealed to me. I don't go for the Vogue model type anyway, and personality is more important to me. Give me a faceless profile where the lady tells me a bit about herself, and one which consists of a single sentence and lots of pretty face photos, and I will opt for the first style every time. As long as I think the lady's personality sounds appealing, and the services she offers are those which appeal to me, then if, when I meet her, she turns out to have an exceptionally attractive face I regard that as a bonus, but I wouldn't be put off if she was, in my entirely personal opinion, simply plain. (I consider there are very few truly 'ugly' women around.)

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Good plan! All I need in my life is to be told by prostitutes I'm too ugly to be had as customer.

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There's no shame casey, but us guys wouldn't be paid vast amounts of money for it , would we ?:)

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Good plan! All I need in my life is to be told by prostitutes I'm too ugly to be had as customer.

Hasn't happened to me yet, but then maybe I'm not as ugly as you. :)

(I imagine they find my money fairly attractive anyway!)

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Here I go opening another can of worms................... Last week i put up the post regarding 'walking in our shoes' and since then have seen some more interesting posts on this site so just have to ask. Guys there have been numerous posts on this site relating to ladies blurring their faces on sites. Some of the things said have been along the lines of

If they didn't blur their faces we could avoid the horrors (ooohhh lovely)

Somebody also insinuated that some ladies blur their faces as they are ugly and although they have a nice body the face leaves alot to be desired so to me that would mean they think its a con..... soooooo im thinking. As far as im aware the majority of women who blur their faces do so because they don't want their whole neighbourhood to know who they are and what they do, people close to them dont know what they do, some of them have other jobs that they would be fired from if it got out they were a wg.... I think these are all pretty plausible reasons but some people see right past this so Guys if its such a big deal (and im not saying it is to all of you but it is to a small minority :))

Then how about a website for punters reviewyourpunter.com You guys could put up a profile about yourselves with your face - unblurred of course - vital stats your do's dont or rather likes dislikes oh and a review section so that based on all this info we could decide if your the type of gent we'd like to accept a date from??????? what do you think???? If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :)

Hugs Casey xx

I prefer unblurred pictures but understand the reasons why ladies only use blurred, and happily punt with either.

I only punt apart from with a few ladies off here, with those that i have spoken to on the phone to get confirmation of size among other things. Her attitude, enthusiasm and services i require are far more important to me than her looks, as long as she meets my standard. If she didnt on her facial looks, which in my experience, especially nowadays is rare i would walk simply because i cant get it up with ladies i dont fancy so there wouldnt be any point to me in staying.:)

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Good plan! All I need in my life is to be told by prostitutes I'm too ugly to be had as customer.

That made me giggle alot................ oh but if it makes you feel better Lessingham im not a prostitute im an escort and i doubt very much i'd tell you you were too ugly to come visit, lol :)

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Lessingham im not a prostitute im an escort

That was posted in jest I take it?

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There's no shame casey, but us guys wouldn't be paid vast amounts of money for it , would we ?:)

You never know world you know what they say, everybody has different tastes, each to their own, wouldn't do if we were all the same and all that jazz. Mabey you'd fit into a niche market and make a fortune :)

Hugs Casey xx

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i am too shy/hideous to be seen in public

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I could post a picture of the contents of my wallet?

My apologies, Angel. Escorts!

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I've been recognised out and about when my face was blurred so I don't really think it makes that much difference (for me anyhow).

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I agree with you Amber, however I think it would just be rubbing it in peoples faces in my small town.

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Casey my dear, if you don't want to put up face pics then that is your choice, and a sensible and understandable one.

The kind of punter who would moan about it is the same kind that would tell you it is a "buyer's market" - so why don't they just find someone else who does show their face?

I've made many bookings with women who don't show their face - without exception they have all been a pleasant surprise (occasionally a very pleasant surprise!), and actually I find it adds to the frisson of the appointment when the door opens and you finally cast your eye on the face of the woman you know you are about to fuck. :D

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That was posted in jest I take it?

Why of course Sasfan abit like the rest of my post, lol :D

I could post a picture of the contents of my wallet?

My apologies, Angel. Escorts!

Hmmm might do the trick haha and thanks for the new signing off method :)

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I agree with you Amber, however I think it would just be rubbing it in peoples faces in my small town.

I take your point here Strawbs, but in fact you do show your face in your private gallery on Abortwank. I imagine the logic is that someone is unlikely to come across that through a casual accidenmt; but if someone who knows you did have suspicions it's still something they could hunt down.

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If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :D

Hugs Casey xx

Pretend you want to book a male escort, might be hard for you to do but give it a go. Would you prefer to be able to see their faces on their websites? Or you you be quite happy taking pot luck?

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Pretend you want to book a male escort, might be hard for you to do but give it a go. Would you prefer to be able to see their faces on their websites? Or you you be quite happy taking pot luck?

From what I've seen of 'male escorts' on The Other Site they do publish photos, but they tend not to be of their faces! :D

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Correct I decided to be a bit braver in the last year or so. If someone wanted to track me down they could make a booking and turn up at my door of course. Just trying to find some middle ground without making it so blatant it starts to cause problems.

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Here I go opening another can of worms................... Last week i put up the post regarding 'walking in our shoes' and since then have seen some more interesting posts on this site so just have to ask. Guys there have been numerous posts on this site relating to ladies blurring their faces on sites. Some of the things said have been along the lines of

If they didn't blur their faces we could avoid the horrors (ooohhh lovely)

Somebody also insinuated that some ladies blur their faces as they are ugly and although they have a nice body the face leaves alot to be desired so to me that would mean they think its a con..... soooooo im thinking. As far as im aware the majority of women who blur their faces do so because they don't want their whole neighbourhood to know who they are and what they do, people close to them dont know what they do, some of them have other jobs that they would be fired from if it got out they were a wg.... I think these are all pretty plausible reasons but some people see right past this so Guys if its such a big deal (and im not saying it is to all of you but it is to a small minority :P)

Then how about a website for punters reviewyourpunter.com You guys could put up a profile about yourselves with your face - unblurred of course - vital stats your do's dont or rather likes dislikes oh and a review section so that based on all this info we could decide if your the type of gent we'd like to accept a date from??????? what do you think???? If this was role reversal and its so okay for us to publicly put our faces on show on the net being as you gents are also participating in the fun activities surely it's ok for you guys to show your faces too. I mean wheres the shame.......... :D

Hugs Casey xx

Hi Casey,

Very good post honi :). Yes, I think it's down to the girl entirely whether she shows her face or not. xxx

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I prefer unblurred pictures but understand the reasons why ladies only use blurred, and happily punt with either.

Fair comment but suppose you had a short list which you narrowed down to two, both same age, same build, same price ------- one showed clear face photos the other had blurred pictures, who would you see. ?????????????

Regarding ladies seeing photos of us, that is totally irrelevant because we are the buyers not the sellers. :P

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Fair comment but suppose you had a short list which you narrowed down to two, both same age, same build, same price ------- one showed clear face photos the other had blurred pictures, who would you see. ?????????????

Regarding ladies seeing photos of us, that is totally irrelevant because we are the buyers not the sellers. :P

Knowing smiths reputation, he would see both!

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There's no shame casey, but us guys wouldn't be paid vast amounts of money for it , would we ?:P

Thats not the point that Angel is making and you know it, the point is would you want your face out on show being publicly linked to prostitution for all your freinds family and enemys to be able to find, download, print and plaster around the neighbourhood.x

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im not a prostitute im an escort

Please dont think im being insulting but ??????????????????:P

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