Pennine Rover

Why do some girls go "off"

22 posts in this topic

I was chatting to some fellow local punters recently (in a chat room) and we discussed a particular local girl that we had all seen several times in recent years but who we had all stopped seeing as we felt she had lost her warmth and friendliness after about 3 years or being a WG.

I've seen this happen with young sauna girls. The first couple of times were great two months down the line it's mechanical.

In the case of the local girl, she is more mature and well educated but is no longer the girl we used to enjoy meeting. On the other hand we could all think of girls who have been working for ten years or more and are very bit as nice as when they started.

Does anyone know why some girls are affected this way and others are not?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Does anyone know why some girls are affected this way and others are not?

Obviously there must be dozens of reasons why a girl becomes less fun to be with over time. The most probable cause IMHO is that they get more than their fair share of punters who are themselves "off".

As in any human relationship, the enjoyability of any given punt is a product of the quality of the human interaction taking place. The more punters a girl gets who treat her with consideration, gentleness and friendliness the more likely she is to enjoy her work and want to give her clients a good time.

I have visited a couple of ladies over a period of 2 or 3 years and found them to be as enthusiastic recently as they were when I first visited them. And don't say it was because they particularly liked me, I ain't nuffink special! I reckon they have just been lucky with most of their punters.

Other girls, sadly, are not so lucky.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
I was chatting to some fellow local punters recently (in a chat room) and we discussed a particular local girl that we had all seen several times in recent years but who we had all stopped seeing as we felt she had lost her warmth and friendliness after about 3 years or being a WG.

I've seen this happen with young sauna girls. The first couple of times were great two months down the line it's mechanical.

In the case of the local girl, she is more mature and well educated but is no longer the girl we used to enjoy meeting. On the other hand we could all think of girls who have been working for ten years or more and are very bit as nice as when they started.

Does anyone know why some girls are affected this way and others are not?

I wouldnt of used the word off, but i have punted with ladies especially at Parties who need a break, they are going through the motions but not fully engaged as they once were.

One told me she was utterly bored with the same old routine but needed the money.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Sometimes external matters can affect a WG - just as it can performance in other lines of work. This is why it's wise to chose to take breaks if things are not right - something I've done in the last year or so and although it can be a difficult decision it's worth it in the long run.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
One told me she was utterly bored with the same old routine but needed the money.

Surely the number of orgasms that she has per hour must eventually take its toll.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am now in my 7th year doing this job. I have not always been full time

or independent but can honestly say I love it as much as when I first began and

still seeing clients who met me when I was a newbie is perhaps a testament to

this.

If I appeared jaded or disinterested, going through the motions or ticking off that list of "do's" then I feel sure those clients would have long since abandoned my boudoir.

I have never felt the need to take breaks or even long rests from the work.

I do know however, that there are a great many ladies who find they can not keep themselves in the lifestyle they have grown used to without this work and even though they have lost their zest and sparkle, they need the cash and therefore plod on but without that smile or good conversation. It is that simple in my opinion.

The mischief in a girl's face and eyes surely shows if she is genuine or not.

:P

Perhaps because I enjoy a wide range of clients and their much varied fetishes and inclinations..... I do not become bored by the whole game.

:D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I imagine that external factors are the main reason, in most jobs you can function even if your home life is going down the pan, cos no one is asking you to be mr happy, but with a wg its different.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Hmmm, well I suppose everyone works differently and I would admit that it's taken me a few years to find a work pattern that works best for me. Like Adele I've got clients who've been with me since the start and still come to see me quite regularly.

I think my line about deciding to take a break has been misinterpreted - cash wasn't an issue as I've always got enough saved for such an occasion. It was chaps being disappointed as they'd been looking forward to making an appointment, and you always wonder if your business will be there when you return but it usually is.

The other thing to remember is that you can't possibly get on with everyone and somewhere along the line something may happen that means either party decide it's not suitable to continue seeing each other.

I have heard of ladies being unfriendly right from day 1 though.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I've punted with quite a few newbies to this business and in most cases, they 'say' I am their first booking.

Most have been overly friendly and eager to please. I'm not saying that is a bad thing. The punt has usually turned out fantastic for both of us.

Fantastic for me because of the willingness to please and superb attitude of the girl.

Fantastic for her because she's made it through her first booking unscathed.

I usually always visit a lady 3 to 4 times, and sadly I have seen the attitude and level of excitement change for the worse over a period of time with quite a few girls who were so great when new to the scene.

Even their emails have changed from quite detailed at the start, to simple one liners.

Having said that, some are still as fresh and happy now as they were back then.

It seems to effect people differently. I think many enter the business without realising just how difficult a business this can be.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I think once you've found your own way of working it's much better. I used to work the odd outcall, one or max two a week, which worked perfectly for me then; when I started doing incalls from hotels a couple times a week it got exhausting as I was seeing too many people than what I'd been used to; moving into a flat with a girl who I now know worked badly and doing more incalls wasn't good for me (as I was taught the more the better)!

After that I found my way of working now, which makes me happy, I don't need 'breaks' but that's probably because I don't work every day and am relaxed when I am.

If I didn't take days off, nights out to blow off steam or just a drink at the pub after work then I'd probably go mad.

It's like any other job, I know people who work as many hours as possible every day of the week, anyone doing that in any job would end up going mental.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
Surely the number of orgasms that she has per hour must eventually take its toll.

More than likely but i have never added to that toll personally, i dont fancy her so avoid her attentions.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Once again it's being implied breaks are only taken by those who work too much. My reasons for taking the odd break (which might have been 2-4 weeks and much like a normal 'holiday'), were when I had either been ill or had something else that I needed to concentrate on that otherwise could have detracted from my bookings.

Once or twice I took breaks when I seemed to go through a phase of a lot of guys booking and cancelling last minute or messing around (and I mean messing not ordinary "work called me in")- I simply thought it was better to have some time off rather than start getting cynical, I like this line of work and didn't want to spoil it. I don't work every day and when I do I don't see many clients - tried that at first, and that lasted about 1 week!

I'm not a big 'holiday' creature by habit and the 'breaks' I've taken and stayed at home pottering around are probably the same as any other escort who jets of elsewhere - I simply chose a different time and place.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
I was chatting to some fellow local punters recently (in a chat room) and we discussed a particular local girl that we had all seen several times in recent years but who we had all stopped seeing as we felt she had lost her warmth and friendliness after about 3 years or being a WG.

I've seen this happen with young sauna girls. The first couple of times were great two months down the line it's mechanical.

In the case of the local girl, she is more mature and well educated but is no longer the girl we used to enjoy meeting. On the other hand we could all think of girls who have been working for ten years or more and are very bit as nice as when they started.

Does anyone know why some girls are affected this way and others are not?

Boredom perhaps ?

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I've taken two 'breaks' since I began escorting. The first was because I got offered a job singing abroad and fancied giving it a try. I returned, having enjoyed the experience, but having missed family and friends too much to return.

The second time was due to an unfortunate break of the leg! It was rather nasty and took some time to heal. Once it HAD healed, I actually felt that I wasn't 'in the mood' to do it for a bit, so elongated my break until I felt the excitement and urge to play again. Once that urge started to surface, I began by doing phone chat and was soon tracked down by some of the gentlemen who used to visit me when I worked in a Manchester parlour who were most enthusiastic about seeing me again!

The main reason for the second break - apart from the obvious fact that a plaster cast looks crap and is a nightmare to get stockings over - was that my self-esteem took a bit of a battering due to the injury and I simply didn't feel up to it. I actually find escorting the most fantastic buzz and it thrills me immensely but I wasn't prepared to re-enter into it without the genuine passion and excitement for it.

So, yes, reasons for taking a break can vary - but I think those ladies that lose their sparkle can be due to a number of reasons, mostly to do with over-work, disinclination, boredom. I've always promised that the day I get bored is the day I quit. I have a couple of other sources of income - my 'hobbyjobs' :P so am in no fear of not being able to manage. Foortunately, my comfortable client base and the infinite variety therein ensures that my time with my gentlemen is NEVER boring!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

It true we need a break occasionally to keep our edge. I take lots of little breaks and never overload myself with work. No amount of money is worth the stress and loss or sparkle! Thats the view of an independent.

The pressures and targets working in a Sauna or Parlour must make the "mechanicalisation" of services even more difficult to avoid for some ladies. Were only human :cool:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
I was chatting to some fellow local punters recently (in a chat room) and we discussed a particular local girl that we had all seen several times in recent years but who we had all stopped seeing as we felt she had lost her warmth and friendliness after about 3 years or being a WG.

I've seen this happen with young sauna girls. The first couple of times were great two months down the line it's mechanical.

In the case of the local girl, she is more mature and well educated but is no longer the girl we used to enjoy meeting. On the other hand we could all think of girls who have been working for ten years or more and are very bit as nice as when they started.

Does anyone know why some girls are affected this way and others are not?

The same as any job - some people quickly get bored/fed up with a job and someone else might enjoy it all their working life!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
It true we need a break occasionally to keep our edge. I take lots of little breaks and never overload myself with work. No amount of money is worth the stress and loss or sparkle! Thats the view of an independent.

The pressures and targets working in a Sauna or Parlour must make the "mechanicalisation" of services even more difficult to avoid for some ladies. Were only human :cool:

Definitely. One of the things I was most glad about when returning to escorting after the leg break 'episode' was that I would be doing my own thing as an independent escort. I do enjoy the odd 'non-stop-shag' day but it's a rare occurrence, rather than twice a week! Even when I tour, I ensure that my incall appointments are comfortably spaced to allow for over-runs (which I am dreadfully prone to) and relaxation time.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Maybe it is more an issue with the viewpoint of the punters in the OP. Let's face it, putting it bluntly some men punt because they get bored of sex at home with the same person & fancy a new perspective. If they are of this mindset then seeing the same SP for a period of years will surely bring about the same situation again. Perhaps the OP might want to dilute their punting portfolio?

.....or perhaps given that this post gives pretty evident pointers (to me) as to the identity of the girl he could be talking about and also has the usual line "I spoke to other (anonymous) punters and we all agreed" line this is just a Troll post. :D

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
The most probable cause IMHO is that they get more than their fair share of punters who are themselves "off".

This is, IMHO, the nearest to the truth. It is SO disheartening when one has a spate of time-wasters, hoax-bookings etc. It can affect every part of your WG attitude. Most notably, the way one responds to new enquiries. Suspicious ? Yes, I am.... if I've just spent my last few days sitting around in my finest lingerie, surrounded by scented candles and Macy Grey, waiting for someone who couldn't spare me the couple of minutes it would take to text and say he couldn't make it. I only make one appointment a day so if this happens to me a few days in a row then I notice the impact on my finances and the impact on my willingness to see anyne other than my regulars.

That's why I always think the TWs who do all this stuff are. in the long run. harming the genuine guys as well as the girls.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites
This is, IMHO, the nearest to the truth. It is SO disheartening when one has a spate of time-wasters, hoax-bookings etc. It can affect every part of your WG attitude. Most notably, the way one responds to new enquiries. Suspicious ? Yes, I am.... if I've just spent my last few days sitting around in my finest lingerie, surrounded by scented candles and Macy Grey, waiting for someone who couldn't spare me the couple of minutes it would take to text and say he couldn't make it. I only make one appointment a day so if this happens to me a few days in a row then I notice the impact on my finances and the impact on my willingness to see anyne other than my regulars.

That's why I always think the TWs who do all this stuff are. in the long run. harming the genuine guys as well as the girls.

These damn TWs are harming genuine punters as bad SPs harm genuine honest WGs.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Why do some girls go off ? well, it could be any number of reasons. I think if a girl has been in the industry too long and just finds the work 'mundane' the 'norm' then it's way over due to either have a break or get out of this industry. (or any industry for that matter)

Everyone needs a break, even just a short holiday is good, in any work/industry you do. You would go crazy if you didn't! :eek::) Getting 'overworked' is not good for anything or anyone.

Personally, my outlook is I like to take everything as fun and light hearted. (within reason :D)

Do everything in moderation and get rat arsed once in a while ;):) xxxx

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Do everything in moderation

I couldn't agree more ... that's the main reason I stick to seeing one client a day (if they turn up that is) :eek:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!


Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.


Sign In Now