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Ethnic/Native vs "European" looking BLACK people?

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There is a thread on the request board of a guy asking for a black woman who is from the Caribbean because he fount them sexier than Africans women. I did not realise there was a huge difference between the two people and why did he not just say he was looking for an Eropean looking black person.

My main questions is, to the punters who do see black women. What sort of look do you go for when deciding who to book???

I ask this becuase I recently had my own natural hair done in twists, and my regular did not like it. He said he preffered the way it looked b4 (straight extensions).

Chyna.

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There is a thread on the request board of a guy asking for a black woman who is from the Caribbean because he fount them sexier than Africans women. I did not realise there was a huge difference between the two people and why did he not just say he was looking for an Eropean looking black person.

My main questions is, to the punters who do see black women. What sort of look do you go for when deciding who to book???

I ask this becuase I recently had my own natural hair done in twists, and my regular did not like it. He said he preffered the way it looked b4 (straight extensions).

Chyna.

I don't think there's anything wrong with he specifying his preference. It's a bit like a guy saying - "I only want to see white American girls, not white German girls (or such like)".

A friend of mine encountered exactly the same thing btw (with her hair). Just do as you please - if they don't like it, though :D I think it's always important to be yourself and do as you please. For everyone who doesn't like the twists, there will be someone who does!

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There is a thread on the request board of a guy asking for a black woman who is from the Caribbean because he fount them sexier than Africans women. I did not realise there was a huge difference between the two people and why did he not just say he was looking for an Eropean looking black person.

My main questions is, to the punters who do see black women. What sort of look do you go for when deciding who to book???

I ask this becuase I recently had my own natural hair done in twists, and my regular did not like it. He said he preffered the way it looked b4 (straight extensions).

Chyna.

I couldnt care less if a WGs hair is in twists or straight extensions, long or short and i dont mind what race, colour, creed etc they are as long as they are willing over 18 and are or at least act enthusiastic, friendly offering the services i require and not older than about late 40s ish.

The lady having good or better looks is a bonus to me not a requirement as long as i find her personally attractive, a plain WG with a great attitude is far better than a cold stunner to me. My ideal is a long limbed lady with a long trunk who is a size 6-8, the closest match to this has been the Pornstar Kelly Marina who i was lucky enough to punt with numerous times, but i happily punt with ladies up to size 16.:D

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Hi Chyna, being a wussy liberal I'm terrified of saying something here which might be conisdered non-PC :D but here goes!

Having had a look at your website I think I'd probably prefer your new hairstyle, as you describe it, to the one in the photos there. I can understand where the guy you quoted was coming from, as I am not really attracted to ladies with very dark skin colour, which I think of as more of an African thing. I think the dramatic looks of some women from sub-Saharan Africa - high cheekbones, long 'haughty' faces - can look amazing, but generally your skin colour is more what I would go for. To be honest, you look very much the 'type' I might opt for - a lighter skinned curvy lady with what appears to be a jolly face - and amazing areola! :D

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I love these people who are able to be so specific.

I love all shades, all "colours", all sizes and all (legal) ages (Up to a point).

However as a lot of ladies have told me, I am a total tart and just love wimmin.

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I love these people who are able to be so specific.

I love all shades, all "colours", all sizes and all (legal) ages (Up to a point).

However as a lot of ladies have told me, I am a total tart and just love wimmin.

When I start with a field of several thousand beautiful, desirable and available women to narrow down, I have to start somewhere! :D:D

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I much prefer girls with a strongly defined ethnic African look, though precisely what this is obviously varies a lot from region to region. It's the blacker the better in my opinion. It annoys me how black models are mostly relatively fair skinned and almost European in features.

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When I start with a field of several thousand beautiful, desirable and available women to narrow down, I have to start somewhere! :D :D

Yup, moi le meme, and the way I do that is the same as choosing a restaurant, some days I want to eat Chinese, somedays Thai, some days Rice and Peas, some days scotch broth.

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Those of caribeen origin are often 'mixed race' having interbred in times past with both Europeans and the indigenous peoples before slavery. So they could well look different to 'pure' african.

Anyway, I think a 1/2 afro-caribeen, 1/2 european looks well nice, but then so do most ladies.

Oh, there is a difference in the skeleton of african descendants which is why ladies from there seem to have a different shaped arse to indigenous european women.

Apologies if i have got the ethnic language wrong...

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Those of caribeen origin are often 'mixed race' having interbred in times past with both Europeans and the indigenous peoples before slavery. So they could well look different to 'pure' african.

Anyway, I think a 1/2 afro-caribeen, 1/2 european looks well nice, but then so do most ladies.

Oh, there is a difference in the skeleton of african descendants which is why ladies from there seem to have a different shaped arse to indigenous european women.

Apologies if i have got the ethnic language wrong...

It's okay Kinks, I'm pretty sure Afro-Caribbeans refer to their arses as well! :D:D

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There is a thread on the request board of a guy asking for a black woman who is from the Caribbean because he fount them sexier than Africans women. I did not realise there was a huge difference between the two people and why did he not just say he was looking for an Eropean looking black person.

My main questions is, to the punters who do see black women. What sort of look do you go for when deciding who to book???

I ask this becuase I recently had my own natural hair done in twists, and my regular did not like it. He said he preffered the way it looked b4 (straight extensions).

Chyna.

I've never met a black girl (whether African or West Indian) who had an Afro hairstyle. They have all had long, black, slinky hair, which, I must say, looks absolutely gorgeous.

:D

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I agree with justagirl. I think you should have your hair the way you feel looks prettiest. You can't please everyone. Some will like it and some won't, so you may as well have it how you like it.

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I much prefer girls with a strongly defined ethnic African look, though precisely what this is obviously varies a lot from region to region. It's the blacker the better in my opinion. It annoys me how black models are mostly relatively fair skinned and almost European in features.

Alek Wek is doing alright.

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Strange to see this post as I was only thinking over the weekend - where have all the Caribbean ladies gone? I've met a number in my punting time but I hardly see any advertising these days. In Ipswich we have 2 African women working privately. There used to be a number of Caribbean ladies who worked in the parlours, but I haven't seen any for a long time and none who work independent. To my mind an athletic Caribbean lady takes some beating (no, not that sort) and a perfectly formed black ass is a sight to behold. And that "V" shape they have at the top of their legs when viewed from the back - just the best. So if anyone can recommend a Caribbean lady in the Ipswich - London corridor, please let me know as I would be very grateful.

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Dont worry about your hair

Just make sure your attitudes fine and you act as if you enjoy it

Love to see you however your hair is...........

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To me, there is a lot of difference between the African ladies and the Caribbean ladies.

I only really see black ladies and my favourites are the Caribbeans. Having said that, I have punted with an African lady. I have travelled to both the Caribbean and to Africa.

In my humble opinion there are clear differences: the look and the culture/character can be very different. The Caribbeans historically are more ethnically mixed. Having said that, Africa is such a huge continent that looks vary amongst the people groups. The Nigerians are different in many ways to the folk from Ghana; the Kenyans and the Zulus are different and so on.

As to skin tone: I prefer dark

As to hair: what works depends on the girl!

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There is a thread on the request board of a guy asking for a black woman who is from the Caribbean because he fount them sexier than Africans women. I did not realise there was a huge difference between the two people and why did he not just say he was looking for an Eropean looking black person.

My main questions is, to the punters who do see black women. What sort of look do you go for when deciding who to book???

I ask this becuase I recently had my own natural hair done in twists, and my regular did not like it. He said he preffered the way it looked b4 (straight extensions).

Chyna.

I'm not sure if some of us Caribbean women like to be described as a "European looking black person". In fact I find the description slightly offensive. I think I'd be more offended if I know what it exactly meant.

I have hazel-green eyes and naturally long dark hair (never mind the grey bits). My nose isn't as broad but I consider my lips to be of the typical fullness indigenous to my race. And yes, we have been mixed about a bit throughout the generations, but I don't consider myself "European-looking" at all. With all the different transfusions of races throughout the generations it'd be useless trying to put a label on the way we look. So it's best not to.

It's all well and good one of the posters saying do what you please, but if it's going to affect your business, how you wear your hairstyle is something to seriously reconsider. Although your regular customer could also have just been shocked, as I can imagine the dramatic difference going from what you have displayed in your pictures, to a somewhat radically different style. You're a lovely-looking woman and if you give a stellar service, it should matter little to your client.

Natural kinky black hair is vastly different to the feel of the straight relaxed feel, or a good weave and as well as the aesthetic side of it, guys will consider the feel of it too. They love to run their fingers through your hair when kissing, or down below when giving a blow job. Even when you're engaged in doggy some guys will give your hair a tug whilst in the throes of passion.

You may also need to think about updating your pictures to reflect your new look. Just like your regular, it may come as a bit of a shock to clients when they expect to see one type of hairstyle and instead see something totally different. Or at the very least, let them know of your change at the time of booking. Maybe celebrate the new change in your hairstyle and market and promote it. You may even attract new clients who love that sort of natural look.

I've gone from cane-row, to extension plaits to my own hair relaxed, and I've always updated my pictures accordingly. Personally I think in this aesthetically-pleasing business, a true representation of how you currently look is important. Especially for a Black woman.

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Caribbean can be a pretty loose term also. A beautiful woman from Trinidad can definately very very different from a woman from Jamaica, or indeed, Dominican Republic... or even Dominica for that matter!

As for the hair, well i love meeting my friend from Ghana, i never know how her hair is going to be - afro, weave, even a wig! It all looks beautiful!

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As someone who is on occation in a chocolate mood i always find skin tone the most important factor, i am into the darker lady myself

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I had one guy cut short a lunch booking when I turned up with my hair in twists too. He could barely hide his disappointment and with hindsight, I'm surprised he got through the meal!

All in all, I hadn't lived up to his fantasy. In the run up to the booking, he'd insisted on me reading his insufferably boring self-penned poetry, which he was bombarding me with, on a daily basis. Precious moments of my life lost forever, I reflected on my return home (alone).

xxx

Pru

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I had one guy cut short a lunch booking when I turned up with my hair in twists too. He could barely hide his disappointment and with hindsight, I'm surprised he got through the meal!

All in all, I hadn't lived up to his fantasy. In the run up to the booking, he'd insisted on me reading his insufferably boring self-penned poetry, which he was bombarding me with, on a daily basis. Precious moments of my life lost forever, I reflected on my return home (alone).

xxx

Pru

The poster Lessingham on his thread; Escorting Lite is looking for a WG to read poetry to him i note. Is this a common request in your experience Pru.:D:)

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I confess that twists or braids are a bit of a turn off, but I also am not a fan of hair-pieces or even over heavy laquer or whatever.

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I had one guy cut short a lunch booking when I turned up with my hair in twists too. He could barely hide his disappointment and with hindsight, I'm surprised he got through the meal!

All in all, I hadn't lived up to his fantasy. In the run up to the booking, he'd insisted on me reading his insufferably boring self-penned poetry, which he was bombarding me with, on a daily basis. Precious moments of my life lost forever, I reflected on my return home (alone).

xxx

Pru

Which illustrates my point perfectly. You can't mess with the fantasy a client has of you in his head, especially if your pictures help depict that fantasy. I've even heard of my Caucasian counterparts who've dyed their hair from one colour to another, or who've had their hair cut short, had clients cancel their booking or had their booking cut short because they weren't happy with their appearance.

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For me the Brit - Carib look has another side.

Years back I regularlly visited a flat in Aberdeen; three girls (2 sisters and a cousin) rotated there form Brirmingham. They were all very good athletes who hadn't quite made it as far as they wanted in sport. They kept very fit and all had superb figures with those glorious sprinters' arses.

I keep looking in hope of stumbling across similar. so the black ladies have to be Brit

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I've been reading a Stephen Oppenheimer book about tracing the peopling of the world via the mitochondrial female chromosome and the non-recombinant Y chromosome, and one of its main points is that there is more genetic variation in Africa than the whole of the rest of the world put together, possibly more than 12 times more. So if punters can get away with saying they prefer Indians to Thais or whatever, then they could just as well say they prefer Kikuyu to Rendille ( I'm showing off my knowledge of Kenya here ), North over South Nigerian, Jamaican over Cuban.

Have to agree with aka, we in Britain have had some very hot athletes living here - Fiona May, Heather Oakes and Tessa Sanderson being my favourites

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