JohnDoe

Is a plan B a good idea?

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Over the last couple of months I have had ar least 3 instances were a lady has either cancelled on me at the last moment or I haven't been able to contact her on the morning of the meeting to get the exact address. Yesterday I went I phoned to tell the lady I was on my way round you told me she thought she may have a cold sore coming and therefore suggested that either we cancel or that I came round just for a chat and a drink free of charge, which is what I did and had a very pleasant time.

Anyway, given these circumstances, should I have had a plan B? And if so then what? If I book two ladies assuming that one may cancel then if the first one doesn't then I will end up cancelling on the second. Just the sort of behaviour I am getting annoyed about from the lady. Should I have a few numbers with me so I can call a lady to see if she is available last minute?

What do/would you do to prepare for the disappointment of having an appointment cancelled?

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I think booking two ladies on the premise that if Lady A pans out you will cancel Lady B is extremely bad form. You will have occupied a slot in her diary which she may have been able to use alternatively, for no reason, and you will get a reputation as a 'messer'.

Much better to carry a few numbers with you which you can call short-notice if punt falls through.

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I agree with Claire, it is wrong to make two bookings and cancel one - you are messing the ladies about unfairly.

How would we like it if the girls double booked every time slot in case of a no show?

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I agree. The way to deal with time wasting is not to increase time wasting.

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Over the last couple of months I have had ar least 3 instances were a lady has either cancelled on me at the last moment or I haven't been able to contact her on the morning of the meeting to get the exact address. Yesterday I went I phoned to tell the lady I was on my way round you told me she thought she may have a cold sore coming and therefore suggested that either we cancel or that I came round just for a chat and a drink free of charge, which is what I did and had a very pleasant time.

Anyway, given these circumstances, should I have had a plan B? And if so then what? If I book two ladies assuming that one may cancel then if the first one doesn't then I will end up cancelling on the second. Just the sort of behaviour I am getting annoyed about from the lady. Should I have a few numbers with me so I can call a lady to see if she is available last minute?

What do/would you do to prepare for the disappointment of having an appointment cancelled?

I always have numbers of other ladies with me as alternatives but only ring them if plan a doesnt go as planned. My plan b is often a reliable lady i have punted with before. Its rare that i cant find a lady available. Having alternatives ensures my days of thinking with my dick are behind me.:)

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I agree that its not a good idea to make two bookings at same time in any circumstances. I wouldn't want the lady to do that, so I don't do it myself.

But, of course... depending where you are, that still leaves other options for "plan B". Guys in Manchester or MK can quickly move on to a good quality parlour... in London several good agencies that can "sort you".

I've tried this in the past. But for me it doesn't work terribly well... not sure why. Maybe the cancellation just takes the edge of the mood or whatever. Now I just shrug my shoulders, and have a small spending spree on some other of lifes luxuries. Its not as good as seeing the lady of your choice... but for me its better than switching at late notice.

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I always have numbers of other ladies with me as alternatives but only ring them if plan a doesnt go as planned. My plan b is often a reliable lady i have punted with before. Its rare that i cant find a lady available. Having alternatives ensures my days of thinking with my dick are behind me.:)

Agree totally. I always have a plan B in case A fails to show. Sometimes though (as in a recent post) both plans fail miserably.

I never book 2 girls together though. That is just unfair on the ladies. Book one and have the numbers of several more in the area to hand just in case.

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I never have a plan B. Think of it this way , you go into a betting shop to put a lot of money on a horse you fancy.

The horse is a non runner, you put the money on another horse . The horse looses. you wish you left the shop, and wait till the horse runs again.

In the rare event plan A fails me i go home, and study the form book . :)

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Over the last couple of months I have had ar least 3 instances were a lady has either cancelled on me at the last moment or I haven't been able to contact her on the morning of the meeting to get the exact address. Yesterday I went I phoned to tell the lady I was on my way round you told me she thought she may have a cold sore coming and therefore suggested that either we cancel or that I came round just for a chat and a drink free of charge, which is what I did and had a very pleasant time.

Anyway, given these circumstances, should I have had a plan B? And if so then what? If I book two ladies assuming that one may cancel then if the first one doesn't then I will end up cancelling on the second. Just the sort of behaviour I am getting annoyed about from the lady. Should I have a few numbers with me so I can call a lady to see if she is available last minute?

What do/would you do to prepare for the disappointment of having an appointment cancelled?

She could still have given you a wank! :)

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Having a Plan B is always a good idea and in the last year (12 punts) I have had to use it twice. For me a Plan B is a list of girls phone numbers that I have either seen before or are on my wish list. I would never double book as it is disrespectful to the poor girl who has to be let down when everything goes to plan. Remember being a boy Scout and their motto Be Prepared well I don't think it was meant for escorting but hey it's a good lesson.....lol.

In fact Plan B came into effect last week when I arrived at the escorts house and found no one there to answer. Very annoying but I quickly secured a visit with a new girl I had never been with before. Unfortunately she was not much fun very poor performance with only approx 30 sec covered BJ (yuk) and then unenthusiastic fucking. All for £150 but fortunately girls like this are few and far between and I should pay more attention to FR's or lack of them.

Cheers

AL

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She could still have given you a wank! :)

But she would have charged for that and, I presume, would not have been what he wanted

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Plan A is usually an indie

Plan B will be one or more agency nrs and a shortlist of names behind each nr.

Plan C is to take an agent up on the suggestion that B isnt available, but C can be with me in x minutes.

Some of those plan-B Ladies have been Mint Discoveries!

The C's were mostly duds, with a few exceptions where the agent knows my taste.

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She could still have given you a wank! :(

True, she could have offered him a wank, indeed, she could have offered penetration. For some guys, it isn't just about getting to shoot their wad, but the niceties of the journey. Kissing may be a very crucial ingredient in a good punt for him. The cold sore also makes an uncovered blow job ill-advised.

Cold sores can also be just downright ugly. Hard to feel aroused when the other partner has one. Hard to feel aroused when one has one! :D

Inviting him round for a drink was a lovely gesture on her part, methinks.

xxx

Pru

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Booking two girls and cancelling one (especially at short notice) shows a total disregard for other human beings. I've been cancelled at the last moment and I even turned up once to find another punter was in the bedroom in my slot! This sort of behaviour is unacceptable and cannot be condoned by any fair-minded individual.

However, perhaps I'm fortunate inasmuch as I usually visit parlours so it is easy to cast my eye over the rota to see who would make a good substitute. Some of my best punts have been with Plan B's. :(

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Having a plan B is essential but that does not mean booking two girls, you should simply have a few phone numbers available, many girls will accept last minute bookings.

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I never have a plan B. Think of it this way , you go into a betting shop to put a lot of money on a horse you fancy.

The horse is a non runner, you put the money on another horse . The horse looses. you wish you left the shop, and wait till the horse runs again.

In the rare event plan A fails me i go home, and study the form book . :(

All well and fine, but! You've the money in your pocket, you've a fire in your crutch and in my case the Viagra is kicking in nicely.

I have a plan B and have had to use them, though generally its a frustrating process. It's what parlours are for IMO.

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Over the last couple of months I have had ar least 3 instances were a lady has either cancelled on me at the last moment or I haven't been able to contact her on the morning of the meeting to get the exact address. Yesterday I went I phoned to tell the lady I was on my way round you told me she thought she may have a cold sore coming and therefore suggested that either we cancel or that I came round just for a chat and a drink free of charge, which is what I did and had a very pleasant time.

That sounds like a really decent thing for her to do. Was she a regular or was it a first time booking. Definitely shows she isn't a timewaster to you though.

Anyway, given these circumstances, should I have had a plan B? And if so then what? If I book two ladies assuming that one may cancel then if the first one doesn't then I will end up cancelling on the second. Just the sort of behaviour I am getting annoyed about from the lady. Should I have a few numbers with me so I can call a lady to see if she is available last minute?

I guess I am lucky as I've never had an appointment cancelled at the last minute. I did have one lady send me a cancellation text as I was driving up to see her (75 miles:eek:) and because I was concentrating on the road I never noticed the text. When I got there, she felt so sorry for me she re-organised her childcare (the original sitter had fallen through) and went ahead with the punt anyway. Whew. I really feel for the guys who travel and are left stranded on s street corner with no answer on the mobile phone :(.

I occasionally get a cancellation on the morning of a punt, and as insurance against this, I always carry the phone number of my favourite local agency with me. They can usually be relied upon to have someone working who I want to see. A couple of my best punts (e.g. the wonderful Mei last week) have happened this way.

I could never condone booking two girls at the same time just as an insurance policy. That is a really shabby way to treat people.

What do/would you do to prepare for the disappointment of having an appointment cancelled?

I have promised myself that if I ever do get a last minute cancellation or no show that I'll simply shrug my shoulders philosophically and head home for a drink as I find that the few last minute punts I have booked rarely work out well for me. Thinking whilst horny is not a strong trait of many blokes, myself included :D.

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Agree totally. I always have a plan B in case A fails to show. Sometimes though (as in a recent post) both plans fail miserably.

I never book 2 girls together though. That is just unfair on the ladies. Book one and have the numbers of several more in the area to hand just in case.

When both plans fail i sometimes think its not to be today, but i usually have other options available and one in particular assuming they are open. Both failing is also a rare occurrence fortunately in my experience.

The question is though do the failures spoil your vibe for the day and you decide to go home or as another poster said, are you in urgent need of a punt after taking Viagra or similar and desperate to get a shag.:(:D

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Would you like it if girls started to take two bookings for the same time slot in case one cancelled? :(:D

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Have yourself a plan B by all means.

But just don't flippin tell me when you arrive!

" oh I wanted to see Cute Clarissa of Cockermouth but she was busy

so I booked you instead "

:(

If you guys want to feel that you are the centre of our attention

during the booking.........

do not let us know that while you are doing the dirty, you would rather it

had been with ......... another.....

:D

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Have yourself a plan B by all means.

But just don't flippin tell me when you arrive!

" oh I wanted to see Cute Clarissa of Cockermouth but she was busy

so I booked you instead "

:(

If you guys want to feel that you are the centre of our attention

during the booking.........

do not let us know that while you are doing the dirty, you would rather it

had been with ......... another.....

:D

Very good advice.:)

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If only Plan A's were as reliable as Plan B's.... :(

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Williams, it's about having self control, and being able to just turn round and go home when things go wrong.

I f you do your homeworkand have confidence things usually go right.

Today I was 20 mins away from the time of my booking when i was finally texted the address. I had no plan B and every confidence i would get to the punt . Yea i know smiths or JRC would never had left home without details, but , boy was it worth it .

can't believe the good luck i'm having lately .. :(

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I tend to research and then communicate well when meeting a new girl but always have the number of an agency in that area noted down as a backup just in case. Not that I have ever needed to use my 'plan B'

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As many punter have said, always have a plan b, sometimes you getstuck on a doorstep with the WG's phone switch off, I have had to use a plan b and even c at times. ;)

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