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Hi all,

I have long played with the thought of trying out meeting an escort, so I recently gave it a go in London when I was staying in a hotel. However, it was a most disappointing experience. I am not sure if I just had the wrong expectations, and paying for sex is just not the right thing for me, or if I was particularly unlucky. Perhaps the more experienced readers could comment on what you can and cannot expect?

Here is a list of points I found odd:

1. She asked for my real name. I gave her a fake one and told hotel reception beforehand.

2. Shortly before the appointment, she calls and tells me that the price for one hour is £350. I told her that the price on her website says £200 for an outcall appointment, and her explanation is that the extra £150 is for the taxi. I managed to bargain it down to £260. Are transport costs within central London not usually included in the stated outcall price?

3. She looked quite different from the nice pictures on her gallery. Either she was a different person, or the pictures are photoshopped. I found it too embarassing to point it out to her.

4. I asked her beforehand if FK and 69 were included in the price, and she confirmed, but repeatedly refused to do 69. I didn't even tried kissing her.

5. After giving me a brief massage, she disinfected my privates with a spray and baby wipes, before putting on a condom with her mouth. Is that the usual procedure? (Note that I was really well-groomed and clean.)

6. During oral (only with condom), she held out her left hand. At first I thought she wanted me to hold her hand, but it turned out that she wanted to keep me from gently caressing her face and hair. She did not seem to enjoy being touched at all, not even gently.

7. I told her at the beginning I wanted to take it slowly and gently, and had expected some cuddling, caressing, kissing and petting, but she completely jumped over the foreplay and proceeded to the more explicit acts really quickly, right after the massage.

8. The sex was so mechanical and emotionless that I asked her to finish it off with her hand instead. I managed to ignore her fake moans during this and was relieved when it was finally over.

9. On the plus side, she was polite and clean.

So, which of these points are the norm and to be expected?

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you've been had over man, whats the point of sites like this if your not going to take notice, you should of asked for advice before not after.

there's a review section why did you not use it.

agencys are the worlds worst at bait and switch.

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Oh dear that sounds like a very expensive mistake to me. Yes have to agree that reviews here are bloody invaluable before taking the dive! For £250 witm many other ladies you could have had a wonderful time with lots of nice extras! You would have got better service than you received for far less money. Anyway a lot of the time it can be hit and miss, just learn from this one and better luck next time.

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Sorry Mogli, but you've struck unlucky big time. That sort of behaviour is certainly NOT the norm. Do some serious research ahead of the next time,if you're brave enough to attempt a next time after that experience!

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Can you please name the agency and the girl.

Then we all know who to avoid and if they don't agree with what you say they can refute it.

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2. Shortly before the appointment, she calls and tells me that the price for one hour is £350. I told her that the price on her website says £200 for an outcall appointment, and her explanation is that the extra £150 is for the taxi. I managed to bargain it down to £260. Are transport costs within central London not usually included in the stated outcall price?

3. She looked quite different from the nice pictures on her gallery. Either she was a different person, or the pictures are photoshopped. I found it too embarassing to point it out to her.

Just as a matter of interest, was that an agency or independent lady"

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Tough luck Mogli. You've been hard done by, that's for sure.

Whilst your experience is not unusual, it is by no means the norm. Any girl's outcall price should include the travel if the agency is local (I assume you didn't book with a agency from the sticks whilst in London :(). Bait and switch is also not uncommon, but again far from the norm. I have experienced it twice in 18 months of regular punting.

I'm afraid that the lack of services offered and the mechanical nature of the punt can be more common, but with research these are fairly easy to avoid.

With experience and better research, it'll get better, assuming you want to continue.

Feel free to PM me if you want some recommendations for next time you are in London.

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Mogli, this type of thing is all too common -------- despite many of the guys on here trying to tell us that bad experiences only happen to NIK.:(

I can tell you exactly where you went wrong, when the girl told you it was £350 for the hour when the web-site stated £200 you should have told her to **** off, that is what I would have done, she was clearly taking the piss.

Don't let it put you off, there are many prostitutes who offer a great service and for far less than £200 an hour. :D;)

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You've had insanely bad service. This kind of thing really pisses me off because it gives all escorts a bad name.

I'd question whether putting on a condom with one's mouth is safe sex because it runs contrary to the manufacturer's instructions. This is maybe OK for oral with, but if you then move onto regular sex you may be taking your chances.

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Mogli, this type of thing is all too common -------- despite many of the guys on here trying to tell us that bad experiences only happen to NIK.:(

I can tell you exactly where you went wrong, when the girl told you it was £350 for the hour when the web-site stated £200 you should have told her to **** off, that is what I would have done, she was clearly taking the piss.

Don't let it put you off, there are many prostitutes who offer a great service and for far less than £200 an hour. :D;)

Some people may argue that Jimmy's diplomatic skills would benefit from a little polishing, but he's certainly got it spot on. When she tried to up the fee, alarm bells should have begun to ring loudly. But puntings no different to anything in life. Learn from your mistakes. There are some really good escorts out there. The trick is finding them. :)

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Some people may argue that Jimmy's diplomatic skills would benefit from a little polishing

There is no need for diplomacy when a prostitute is trying to rip you off for £150, London cabs are expensive but she would have to be travelling a very long way for the fare to be £75 each way.:(;)

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Hi all,

I have long played with the thought of trying out meeting an escort, so I recently gave it a go in London when I was staying in a hotel. However, it was a most disappointing experience. I am not sure if I just had the wrong expectations, and paying for sex is just not the right thing for me, or if I was particularly unlucky. Perhaps the more experienced readers could comment on what you can and cannot expect?

Here is a list of points I found odd:

1. She asked for my real name. I gave her a fake one and told hotel reception beforehand.

2. Shortly before the appointment, she calls and tells me that the price for one hour is £350. I told her that the price on her website says £200 for an outcall appointment, and her explanation is that the extra £150 is for the taxi. I managed to bargain it down to £260. Are transport costs within central London not usually included in the stated outcall price?

3. She looked quite different from the nice pictures on her gallery. Either she was a different person, or the pictures are photoshopped. I found it too embarassing to point it out to her.

4. I asked her beforehand if FK and 69 were included in the price, and she confirmed, but repeatedly refused to do 69. I didn't even tried kissing her.

5. After giving me a brief massage, she disinfected my privates with a spray and baby wipes, before putting on a condom with her mouth. Is that the usual procedure? (Note that I was really well-groomed and clean.)

6. During oral (only with condom), she held out her left hand. At first I thought she wanted me to hold her hand, but it turned out that she wanted to keep me from gently caressing her face and hair. She did not seem to enjoy being touched at all, not even gently.

7. I told her at the beginning I wanted to take it slowly and gently, and had expected some cuddling, caressing, kissing and petting, but she completely jumped over the foreplay and proceeded to the more explicit acts really quickly, right after the massage.

8. The sex was so mechanical and emotionless that I asked her to finish it off with her hand instead. I managed to ignore her fake moans during this and was relieved when it was finally over.

9. On the plus side, she was polite and clean.

So, which of these points are the norm and to be expected?

Sounds like you have been taken advantage of good and proper. I hope it does not put you off trying again. And make sure you do some proper research next time!

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Mogli, this type of thing is all too common -------- despite many of the guys on here trying to tell us that bad experiences only happen to NIK.:(

I can tell you exactly where you went wrong, when the girl told you it was £350 for the hour when the web-site stated £200 you should have told her to **** off, that is what I would have done, she was clearly taking the piss.

Don't let it put you off, there are many prostitutes who offer a great service and for far less than £200 an hour. :D;)

Couldn't agree more, and if that didn't ring bells surely the difference in the photos would have.

It would be interesting if the OP wants to name the girl or agency.

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Couldn't agree more, and if that didn't ring bells surely the difference in the photos would have.

It would be interesting if the OP wants to name the girl or agency.

I agree entirely, name and shame.

This girl (or agency) should be outed. :(:mad:

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Hi Mogli. It's all very unfortunate and I can only guess you simply picked someone based on pretty pictures. Instead of finding out if she's well reviewed and has an excellent reputation?

I'm sorry, but if you're going to shop blindly.....you're going to end up with results like this. Not that I don't feel sorry for you but:

Come on - I even look for reviews on specific TV / computer / hair dryer (etc ad infinitum) model numbers before I spend my pennies!!!

I'll apologise in advance if indeed you did your homework thoroughly (seems extremely unlike though from what you've said).

Btw, it's standard practice to ask for a real name/surname for hotel visits. Not only from a security point of view but also because in some hotels, front office staff will actually ask who you're seeing/what you're doing there, if you walk in not knowing where the lifts are....

Or if he forgets to mention that they lifts require a key card to come upstairs, and she forgets to ask. Then she's stuck in the lobby looking like an idiot!

Don't give up though - there are some excellent girls around. Just do your homework.

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Here is a list of points I found odd:

1. She asked for my real name. I gave her a fake one and told hotel reception beforehand.

Well she has to check to make sure your actually at the hotel rather than a timewaster. Thats all its for. Nothing odd with that.

2. Shortly before the appointment, she calls and tells me that the price for one hour is £350. I told her that the price on her website says £200 for an outcall appointment, and her explanation is that the extra £150 is for the taxi. I managed to bargain it down to £260. Are transport costs within central London not usually included in the stated outcall price?

If its 200 for outcall its 200. I assume it was 150 for INcall? Becuase the extra 50 quid is for usually for travelling expenses. Only once has a girl asked for extra for a taxi but it was only a tenner, Not 150 quid! So her travelling expenses were £200 quid!!?!? Where did she come from? Paris?

3. She looked quite different from the nice pictures on her gallery. Either she was a different person, or the pictures are photoshopped. I found it too embarassing to point it out to her.

If your absolutley certain that the girl in the photos was NOT her then youve been duped, bait n switched, conned. Name and shame them. You paid for the girl you saw advertised and wanted to see, not someone else.

Sadly does happen alot but no its not the norm. You must name and shame so everyone else on here doesnt fall into the same trap as you.

4. I asked her beforehand if FK and 69 were included in the price, and she confirmed, but repeatedly refused to do 69. I didn't even tried kissing her.

Ive never heard of a girl who does oral (I assume she does RO? ) refuse 69. Did you actually talk to her directly or a receptionist?

Why didnt you ask about FK since thats what you agreed? Was there any kissing at all?

So agreed services not on offer, no not the norm.

5. After giving me a brief massage, she disinfected my privates with a spray and baby wipes, before putting on a condom with her mouth. Is that the usual procedure? (Note that I was really well-groomed and clean.)

Well Ive only had baby wipes before OWO. Never had a spray and baby wipes before the condoms put on. (Although in my book her putting on the condom with her mouth is a plus :( )

6. During oral (only with condom), she held out her left hand. At first I thought she wanted me to hold her hand, but it turned out that she wanted to keep me from gently caressing her face and hair. She did not seem to enjoy being touched at all, not even gently.

Oh dear. Sorry but doesnt sound like she enjoys the work.

7. I told her at the beginning I wanted to take it slowly and gently, and had expected some cuddling, caressing, kissing and petting, but she completely jumped over the foreplay and proceeded to the more explicit acts really quickly, right after the massage.

Did you get the full time you paid for? Or was it a once you cum she was off?

Sorry but your paying for the time.

8. The sex was so mechanical and emotionless that I asked her to finish it off with her hand instead. I managed to ignore her fake moans during this and was relieved when it was finally over.

So you felt relief that it was over? Thats not what you, I, or any of the punters pay hundreds of hard earned cash for. So no thats not the norm.

9. On the plus side, she was polite and clean.

Good. Thats the norm.

So you had a punt with a girl who:

  • Wasnt the girl advertised,
  • Didnt do agreed services even thou you agreed them when booking,
  • Tried to con you out of an extra 150,
  • Told her that you wanted to take things gently which she didnt do,
  • Didnt want you touching her,
  • Made you felt relief that it was over

Sorry but if you think thats the norm then there wouldnt be many of us punting....

Sorry, but name and shame or do a FR, and research better next time.

Incidentally, my first time wasnt great either....but the second time was fantastic so start researching to make sure its better next time.

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8. The sex was so mechanical and emotionless that I asked her to finish it off with her hand instead. I managed to ignore her fake moans during this and was relieved when it was finally over.

9. On the plus side, she was polite and clean.

So, which of these points are the norm and to be expected?

Sorry, mate, but she tried it on and because of your inexperience,she got away with it. The key incident was when she asked for an extra £150.00, you should have told her there and then that London is full of willing girls and that there was no need for her to come to your hotel.

It is girls like her who give all prostitutes such a bad name and reputation.

There is no point in complaigning to the agency involved as they were in on the bait & switch.

What you must do now is:

1) Write a Field Report giving a negative review

2) Name and shame the girl

3) Name and shame the agency

You had a very bad experience, which is not the norm and you were taken advantage of. Just write off the money to experience.

There are many girls who do give an excellent service, some of whom come here on Punternet. Next time don't pick up the phone and call an agency about a girl you've seen, instead, come here to Punternet and choose a girl from her reputation in her Field Reports.

You'll do better next time.

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I can tell you exactly where you went wrong, when the girl told you it was £350 for the hour when the web-site stated £200 you should have told her to **** off, that is what I would have done, she was clearly taking the piss.

I have to agree with Jimmy on this, soon as the prices starts going north after a clearly advertised rate is visible then its an alarm bell that's ringing. Normally don't even bother haggling just tell them there are lots of other women who will enjoy your $$

Done ever try the call her over and say you only got 150£ trick that could get very nasty, she Is likely to cause a scene and may have an aggressive and violent minder with her could be more trouble than its worth.

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On the bait and switch front, does anyone take photos of the girl with them? I know women can easily morph their looks with make up and there can be a huge difference between a studio shot and the real thing panting after running up all those hotel stairs and getting her hair mussed.

It would be a lot easier if you could produce the photos from her web site and say "Is this really you?" rather than trying to drag the memory of what you thought she looked like when you were only looking at the pics of her boobs anyway.

(Fast forwards 24 hours when the wife drags the pictures out of your trouser pockets and asked "Who's this?")

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Mogli, this type of thing is all too common -------- despite many of the guys on here trying to tell us that bad experiences only happen to NIK.:(

I can tell you exactly where you went wrong, when the girl told you it was £350 for the hour when the web-site stated £200 you should have told her to **** off, that is what I would have done, she was clearly taking the piss.

Don't let it put you off, there are many prostitutes who offer a great service and for far less than £200 an hour. :D;)

Absolutely correct.

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Sorry, mate, but she tried it on and because of your inexperience,she got away with it. The key incident was when she asked for an extra £150.00, you should have told her there and then that London is full of willing girls and that there was no need for her to come to your hotel.

It is girls like her who give all prostitutes such a bad name and reputation.

There is no point in complaigning to the agency involved as they were in on the bait & switch.

What you must do now is:

1) Write a Field Report giving a negative review

2) Name and shame the girl

3) Name and shame the agency

You had a very bad experience, which is not the norm and you were taken advantage of. Just write off the money to experience.

There are many girls who do give an excellent service, some of whom come here on Punternet. Next time don't pick up the phone and call an agency about a girl you've seen, instead, come here to Punternet and choose a girl from her reputation in her Field Reports.

You'll do better next time.

:(

Good post.:D

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Hi Mogli. It's all very unfortunate and I can only guess you simply picked someone based on pretty pictures. Instead of finding out if she's well reviewed and has an excellent reputation?

I'm sorry, but if you're going to shop blindly.....you're going to end up with results like this. Not that I don't feel sorry for you but:

Come on - I even look for reviews on specific TV / computer / hair dryer (etc ad infinitum) model numbers before I spend my pennies!!!

I'll apologise in advance if indeed you did your homework thoroughly (seems extremely unlike though from what you've said).

Btw, it's standard practice to ask for a real name/surname for hotel visits. Not only from a security point of view but also because in some hotels, front office staff will actually ask who you're seeing/what you're doing there, if you walk in not knowing where the lifts are....

Or if he forgets to mention that they lifts require a key card to come upstairs, and she forgets to ask. Then she's stuck in the lobby looking like an idiot!

Don't give up though - there are some excellent girls around. Just do your homework.

When i meet WGs at a hotel where i have booked the room i always arrange to meet in the bar or lobby, that way if she is nothing like as advertised or tries to charge more etc i can walk away easily. She would never know my real name as that would compromise my security. I have never had a problem with this scenario in many years of using it, but it is very rare that the lady isnt as advertised in the first place.:(

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When i meet WGs at a hotel where i have booked the room i always arrange to meet in the bar or lobby, that way if she is nothing like as advertised or tries to charge more etc i can walk away easily. She would never know my real name as that would compromise my security. I have never had a problem with this scenario in many years of using it, but it is very rare that the lady isnt as advertised in the first place.:(

And I'd never meet anyone in a bar fist :D

Those awkward looks and glances - not knowing who he is.

Also leaves the room wide open for time wasters. So never.

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And I'd never meet anyone in a bar fist :(

Those awkward looks and glances - not knowing who he is.

Also leaves the room wide open for time wasters. So never.

Your choice entirely of course, luckily for me many ladies dont do the same.:D

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When i meet WGs at a hotel where i have booked the room i always arrange to meet in the bar or lobby, that way if she is nothing like as advertised or tries to charge more etc i can walk away easily.

Ok your post has made me decide a new way to operate...

Even though I love it when they come directly to my room, from now onwards I'll always meet in hotel reception regardless of whether she can go straight up to my room without keycard for lifts, etc. After getting a call / txt to inform me that she's arrived in reception, if I go down and she's not the one I saw in the pics, I'll continue walking past her and out of the hotel as if I'm not the punter. Txt her to let her know she can go home rather than cause a scene (I had one girl who told her driver to sit in one of the reception seats pretending to be a hotel guest before I came down to meet her).

If it progresses to the next stage, we'll have a chat in the room before I hand over the fee (which is usually a lot as I only do 2+ hour punts). If she tries to play games with me regarding services / fees, I'll hint it's best to cancel rather than immediately tell her to leave my room as it may result in sudden capitulation from here that could cause it to be a bad punt.

Thankfully this wouldn't have caused problems for my previous 10 punts (touch wood)

Should have done this on my first ever punt, which is the worst I've ever had, IIRC, it was £370 down the drain for 3 hours :(:D

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