Tommy1970

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Had a bit of a 'mare the other day in the kent area. Sourced a number from the local paper and called to find out the services etc. Phone answered by a women who ask me what i'm looking for. The questions stumps me to be honest and may sound evasive as i usually listen to a description and make up my mind. It also crosses my mind that whatever i request she will say she is.. I can sense she is getting impatient. She describes herself but to be honest i'm put off by her impatient attitude and say i will have a think. She starts to rant at me for being a timewaster and i say thanks (i'm perfectly civil) and hang up.

Anyway over the next 5-10 minutes she rings my mobile every 30 seconds. I keep answering but its slient and eventually after ringing about 10 times she tells me to check my voicemail. School boy error my company name and my name are on the mobile and she is threatening to write to my boss telling him i am a timewaster for working girls. WOW!

She carries on ringing for 5 minutes every thirty seconds or so and reiterates she is going to tell my boss and then she says I should give her £20 for wasting her time. I think about it and agree as its only a little money and hopefully she will go away. I have to walk to a local land mark where she arranges her maid to meet me and i hand over the cash. Got to say it was nerve racking not knowing who would turn up and if this was going to be the last of it.

Put me right off my hobby and thinking about retiring unless overseas.

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What a nasty piece of work!!!! Where on earth did she summon up the nerve/cheek?

Im sorry this happened to you. Just praise the Lord you didnt book her!;)

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This is the main reason i have a scabby old phone with pay as you go sim. That said i would never have used a works phone to do anything like that.

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Had a bit of a 'mare the other day in the kent area. Sourced a number from the local paper and called to find out the services etc. Phone answered by a women who ask me what i'm looking for. The questions stumps me to be honest and may sound evasive as i usually listen to a description and make up my mind. It also crosses my mind that whatever i request she will say she is.. I can sense she is getting impatient. She describes herself but to be honest i'm put off by her impatient attitude and say i will have a think. She starts to rant at me for being a timewaster and i say thanks (i'm perfectly civil) and hang up.

Anyway over the next 5-10 minutes she rings my mobile every 30 seconds. I keep answering but its slient and eventually after ringing about 10 times she tells me to check my voicemail. School boy error my company name and my name are on the mobile and she is threatening to write to my boss telling him i am a timewaster for working girls. WOW!

She carries on ringing for 5 minutes every thirty seconds or so and reiterates she is going to tell my boss and then she says I should give her £20 for wasting her time. I think about it and agree as its only a little money and hopefully she will go away. I have to walk to a local land mark where she arranges her maid to meet me and i hand over the cash. Got to say it was nerve racking not knowing who would turn up and if this was going to be the last of it.

Put me right off my hobby and thinking about retiring unless overseas.

Sounds like my ex.

You got off lightly, it cost me a lot more than £20 to get rid of her.

Better luck with your future transactions.

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Had a bit of a 'mare the other day in the kent area. Sourced a number from the local paper and called to find out the services etc. Phone answered by a women who ask me what i'm looking for. The questions stumps me to be honest and may sound evasive as i usually listen to a description and make up my mind. It also crosses my mind that whatever i request she will say she is.. I can sense she is getting impatient. She describes herself but to be honest i'm put off by her impatient attitude and say i will have a think. She starts to rant at me for being a timewaster and i say thanks (i'm perfectly civil) and hang up.

Anyway over the next 5-10 minutes she rings my mobile every 30 seconds. I keep answering but its slient and eventually after ringing about 10 times she tells me to check my voicemail. School boy error my company name and my name are on the mobile and she is threatening to write to my boss telling him i am a timewaster for working girls. WOW!

She carries on ringing for 5 minutes every thirty seconds or so and reiterates she is going to tell my boss and then she says I should give her £20 for wasting her time. I think about it and agree as its only a little money and hopefully she will go away. I have to walk to a local land mark where she arranges her maid to meet me and i hand over the cash. Got to say it was nerve racking not knowing who would turn up and if this was going to be the last of it.

Put me right off my hobby and thinking about retiring unless overseas.

She took a risk to get £20, you could of attacked her maid if it was her maid and not her, or involved plod and she left threatening messages on your phone, smart she isnt. Name and shame this individual is my advice so at least some on here know about her.

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Using a mobile dedicated to punting is a must. Keeping your personal details private is a must. Neither party have a right nor should have the ability to know the others. Just as there are bad punters, there are bad girls. Both sides must take precautions.

It's good to see the posts about how others could take revenge on her have been deleted.

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That sounds like a regular gig she has going on there. Although I'd never condone any of the things she did. Maybe she had PMT that day. She can't do that every day. You should report her to the newspaper in question. If you saved her messages and threats, they'd be bound to take action.

A lot of guys have nothing better to do with their lunch period than to ring around all the numbers in papers and get their jollies listening to some poor lady reeling off sexual services - for the cost of their free minute phone allowance.

If I ask a guy to tell me what services he is looking for, rather than me reel them off, if he falters, I write him off mentally. Surely he had an idea of what he fancied before he decided to pick up the phone and call.

That's why I hate advertising in papers. Men that call from the Internet sound a little bit classier and don't just demand a list of services with a totally disinterested (even if polite) voice. But then they have had the benefit of better research. Not that that stops many of them starting by saying "I've been looking at your web site. Can you tell me what services you offer?" Doh!

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Pru

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I am sorry to hear about your experience with this individual. Firstly you should name and shame. However you are been really stupid aren't you. Firstly you use a works phone to phone a working girl. Secondly you don't withhold your number.

What is to say she won't phone/write to your bosses, after all her number is going to show on your bill. The fact she asked you for 20£ and that she was very impatient would tend to suggest she may have a drug issue. I mean come on, she sends her "maid" to collect 20£ kind of suggests to me she needed a fix.

A little bit of caution and common sense could have saved you a lot of bother!

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you are been really stupid aren't you. Firstly you use a works phone to phone a working girl. Secondly you don't withhold your number.

Very true. You should not have jeopardised your job and maybe even your career.

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That sounds like a regular gig she has going on there. Although I'd never condone any of the things she did. Maybe she had PMT that day. She can't do that every day. You should report her to the newspaper in question. If you saved her messages and threats, they'd be bound to take action.

A lot of guys have nothing better to do with their lunch period than to ring around all the numbers in papers and get their jollies listening to some poor lady reeling off sexual services - for the cost of their free minute phone allowance.

If I ask a guy to tell me what services he is looking for, rather than me reel them off, if he falters, I write him off mentally. Surely he had an idea of what he fancied before he decided to pick up the phone and call.

That's why I hate advertising in papers. Men that call from the Internet sound a little bit classier and don't just demand a list of services with a totally disinterested (even if polite) voice. But then they have had the benefit of better research. Not that that stops many of them starting by saying "I've been looking at your web site. Can you tell me what services you offer?" Doh!

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Pru

'i don't condone but' plays straight into the hands of the men on here who resent working girls and blame them for everything.

Her actions are indefensible. Your attempt to empathise with her regarding time wasters is also wrong. Ultimately, you are in the sales game and not every call will be a sale. Some will be genuine enquiries, some timewasters but thats part of the game. I was in sales for many years and drove many miles to many appointments to realise within minutes of arrival that the client was timewaster. But every genuine sale made up for the wasters. Take the rough with the smooth but never turn on an enquiry.

Those who blame the OP for not having a 'punting phone' are also wrong. Not all of us are 'professional punters' who go properly equipped. Some of us punt because the opportunity is there and the mood takes us. I have never had a problem with discretion and this man was unlucky.

LF

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Very true. You should not have jeopardised your job and maybe even your career.

Lecture from a man unlikely to be in the same position:D

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Using a mobile dedicated to punting is a must. Keeping your personal details private is a must. Neither party have a right nor should have the ability to know the others. Just as there are bad punters, there are bad girls. Both sides must take precautions.

It's good to see the posts about how others could take revenge on her have been deleted.

Yes and that's why a lot of girl do not answer withheld numbers - ok we know you can throw away your SIMS but WGs still need to try and be aware of who is calling especially if they do turn out to be a persistant TW.

Like persistent TW it's best to ignore any nuisance calls and go to the police if you are getting threatened.

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That sounds like a regular gig she has going on there. Although I'd never condone any of the things she did. Maybe she had PMT that day. She can't do that every day. You should report her to the newspaper in question. If you saved her messages and threats, they'd be bound to take action.

A lot of guys have nothing better to do with their lunch period than to ring around all the numbers in papers and get their jollies listening to some poor lady reeling off sexual services - for the cost of their free minute phone allowance.

If I ask a guy to tell me what services he is looking for, rather than me reel them off, if he falters, I write him off mentally. Surely he had an idea of what he fancied before he decided to pick up the phone and call.

That's why I hate advertising in papers. Men that call from the Internet sound a little bit classier and don't just demand a list of services with a totally disinterested (even if polite) voice. But then they have had the benefit of better research. Not that that stops many of them starting by saying "I've been looking at your web site. Can you tell me what services you offer?" Doh!

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Pru

Yes totally agree with you on the guys calling from paper ads.

While I do advertise in the local paper twice a week I won't do the big sell and give very basic details and if they require any further details my website address :D

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'i don't condone but' plays straight into the hands of the men on here who resent working girls and blame them for everything.

Her actions are indefensible. Your attempt to empathise with her regarding time wasters is also wrong. Ultimately, you are in the sales game and not every call will be a sale. Some will be genuine enquiries, some timewasters but thats part of the game. I was in sales for many years and drove many miles to many appointments to realise within minutes of arrival that the client was timewaster. But every genuine sale made up for the wasters. Take the rough with the smooth but never turn on an enquiry.

Those who blame the OP for not having a 'punting phone' are also wrong. Not all of us are 'professional punters' who go properly equipped. Some of us punt because the opportunity is there and the mood takes us. I have never had a problem with discretion and this man was unlucky.

LF

Actually, re-read my post. I didn't condone her. I can never condone that kind of behaviour. Even with the first phone call back to him, she had gone too far. All he did was, by his account, call once and ask for details.

But I am entitled to express my opinion on how it looks taking call after call of "Can I have some details, please?". And that is not the same as justifying the lady's actions.

I did debate splitting the two to appear as separate comments. Because I could see how it might look like an endorsement and I should have done more to avoid that unfortunate misinterpretation.

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Pru

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Yes totally agree with you on the guys calling from paper ads.

While I do advertise in the local paper twice a week I won't do the big sell and give very basic details and if they require any further details my website address :D

And you get the ones that try to fob you off, saying they haven't got access to the Internet. Until you mention they'll find pictures there, then they take the details down. :D

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Pru

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Thanks for your advice and observations guys.

Everytime my phone goes and its a number i don't recognize my heart jumps. I've learnt a harsh lesson and not sure what the next step is.

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Thanks for your advice and observations guys.

Everytime my phone goes and its a number i don't recognize my heart jumps. I've learnt a harsh lesson and not sure what the next step is.

You've been asked to name and shame. Please do exactly that.

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Those who blame the OP for not having a 'punting phone' are also wrong. Not all of us are 'professional punters' who go properly equipped. Some of us punt because the opportunity is there and the mood takes us. I have never had a problem with discretion and this man was unlucky.

LF

He was not unlucky at all. He should have withheld his number.

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Yes you should name and shame to stop other men from suffering the same hassle.

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You've been asked to name and shame. Please do exactly that.

If she didn't have his real name, number and place of work, then there'd be no question about naming and shaming. But put yourself in his shoes for a moment ...

The purpose of naming and shaming would be so others could know to boycott her services. But what do you think is going to happen if he names and shames her? She'll get loads of threatening and abusive calls and texts and will link it to him.

And then it could really turn nasty.

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Pru

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Yes but if he doesn't name and shame then there is a possibility that his story is not true and is just a wind up. After all, he is a probationary member that we don't know anything about and, to be honest, I am finding it hard to believe that he gave his work mobile phone number to an escort that he didn't know.

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Yes but if he doesn't name and shame then there is a possibility that his story is not true and is just a wind up. After all, he is a probationary member that we don't know anything about and, to be honest, I am finding it hard to believe that he gave his work mobile phone number to an escort that he didn't know.

Why would you doubt his integrity in this way?

The authenticity of a poster is not in the quantity of his posts, nor in the duration of his membership, although the OP has been a member of this site for a year. He just doesn't live full time on this forum so hasn't broken the barrier of ten posts to get him out of probation.

I've had clients ask me to phone them and when I do call, and get the answer machine, there's a voice mail with the client's name. The same with the ones that email with an email that shows their real name. They do this because, for the most part, if you pick your lady well, you've nothing to worry about.

So you can't doubt him just because he didn't withold his number, etc.

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Pru

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"It also crosses my mind that whatever i request she will say she is"

Yeah, similar to that - they always claim that their girls are 'busty' until I state my preference for the more petite.

Then they're "petite but busty".

Then I explain that I mean I don't prefer big tits.

Then, miraculously, although there were previously declared as "Double C" and above (whatever Double C is), they're now "on the smaller side of Double C"

Basically, it's bullshit.

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'i don't condone but' plays straight into the hands of the men on here who resent working girls and blame them for everything.

Her actions are indefensible. Your attempt to empathise with her regarding time wasters is also wrong. Ultimately, you are in the sales game and not every call will be a sale. Some will be genuine enquiries, some timewasters but thats part of the game. I was in sales for many years and drove many miles to many appointments to realise within minutes of arrival that the client was timewaster. But every genuine sale made up for the wasters. Take the rough with the smooth but never turn on an enquiry.

Those who blame the OP for not having a 'punting phone' are also wrong. Not all of us are 'professional punters' who go properly equipped. Some of us punt because the opportunity is there and the mood takes us. I have never had a problem with discretion and this man was unlucky.

LF

I agree here, the only thing the OP did wrong in the first instance was to use his work phone. I know lots of ladies say they only take email bookings, or use the ** booking system ( which i also do myself) but the majority of bookings made in the uk for ladies from guys is by phone, every brothel in england, ireland, scotland and wales has their phones ringing all day long, all the apparent "high class" escort agencies have their phones ringing all night long, the majority of ladies have their numbers available somewhere ie website, adultdirectory profile, newspaper ad, come on, its the smaller majority who do not advertise their phone number absolutley anywhere and even those most likely have done at some time or other in the past or will in the future.

If this lady calls again or contacts the op,s work then he should march straight to the police as blackmail is illegal last time i heard, wether its 20 quid or 20 grand. He should also name and shame her on here and as many sites as possible as he has yet to find out if she has stored his number and is going to phone back in the future next time she needs some milk and bread.

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Yes but if he doesn't name and shame then there is a possibility that his story is not true and is just a wind up. After all, he is a probationary member that we don't know anything about and, to be honest, I am finding it hard to believe that he gave his work mobile phone number to an escort that he didn't know.

Oh dear, are you an iccle bit worried, an iccle bit scared that someone is trying to steal your place as the wind up merchant of the century on here, you own little personal wind up community. I think the fact that he is still a probationary member and has NOT yet named and shamed shows he may be telling the truth and he is not signing up here just to quickly put a dig in to the local competition or such like. Perhaps he is still a little green around the ears regarding punting, not lost his rose tinted punting specs till he met this lady and has so far met with nice honest ladies who would not dream of doing such a ridiculous thing. Perhaps you should give him a chance and not try to intimidate him into leaving the site before he has even got his full member wings yet!!!!!:rolleyes::mad:

Edited by Chloe X
spelling mistake due to not being able to call interested what i want to call himxx

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