BristolBoy

My First Time Experience & A...W...

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Hello,

Just wanted to share my recent experience with any guys out there who may be in the same position I was in. Please bear with me it's quite a long one;)

Me, well I'm just an average late 20's bloke who has always had difficulty meeting girls in the "normal" way. Being shy & lacking in confidence meant that meeting an escort seemed to be the only way to gain some sexual experience & self esteem.

I've been thinking about meeting an escort for quite some time but would always find some excuse to not do it. Ringing an escort I found attractive would fill me with dread so there was no way I could do it. I have been to massage parlours before but the experience was nearly always cold & clinical. This may have been down to me being shy or could be because the parlours in Bristol aren't the greatest (I've read the reports & posts on here, not many are positive). It could also be that I would need some dutch courage to get myself to go, which with hindsight probably isn't a great idea. Not many girls want to get physical with a man who's had a few. None of my sexual encounters before were carried out with me being sober.

All other aspects of my life are good. I have a great job that I enjoy, earn good money, have my own place, nice car etc. The only thing holding me back from enjoying life to the full is the lack of female company. I got sick & tired of not moving forward with this & eventually thought, sod it, just send a few emails & see what happens. Through A....W... I found a lady who I found attractive, had excellent feedback & liked the way her personality came through on her profile. We exchanged a couple of emails then she told me that if I really did want to meet her she would need me to place a booking request. The booking request also means you have to supply a phone number & a time you are available for the escort to ring you. There was no way I could have picked the phone up, dialled her number & spoken to her, far too nerve racking! But while you may think there's not a lot of difference between me ringing her & her ringing me, I swear to god it did. Obviously I was still nervous but it made it the first contact with an escort a lot easier.

I was also worried about where to have our meeting. Inviting a stranger into my home just didn't seem right, nor me going to her place. We agreed to meet at a hotel of well known chain. I arrived a few hours before the meeting making sure I was squeaky clean & freshly shaved. I was shaking like a leaf just sitting there waiting. The next difficulty was having to meet her outside the hotel as to get to the upper floors a key card was needed. I was worried about having to take her past reception & whether they would say something. Now in all honesty, they couldn't give a flying f**k. Once in my room with her we just chatted for a short time before she took the lead & all my nerves & worries just evaporated.

Now after reading this forum for a while I know A....W... gets a lot of criticism. A lot of it is probably justified. For someone in my position I found it excellent. It made the whole process of finding someone, booking them & finally meeting them a lot easier than it could have been. She has left me feedback which I think is a great idea as it allows other ladies to know that I'm serious about meeting them & not a timewaster. I have already made other bookings with a different ladies on that site, this time I actually rang them!

To summarise the massive amount of guff I've written above, for any guys who are looking at meeting an escort but are too scared to make the first move:

1) Find an escort you find attractive and whose personality appeals to you.

2) Make sure she has plenty of good feedback.

3) Send an email & let her know you'd like to meet her. Tell her it's your fist time & that you're shy & nervous. Build a little rapport. Suggest some dates. I purposely chose a Friday evening, what a way to start the weekend!

4) Go for a 2 hour booking, this way there is no rush.

5) Depending on how she works she might ring you first. If not, be courageous & ring her, honestly it's not as difficult as you might think.

6) Arrange meeting at a hotel. Premier Inn & Travelodge are doing good deals at the moment if booked three weeks in advance.

7) Don't worry about the hotel staff, they really don't care.

8) Be clean, kind & polite when she arrives. Don't worry if you're nervous, she's seen it all before. Any escort worth her salt will not want to make you uncomfortable.

9) Enjoy it! The time flies by.

I finally have some enjoyment in my life again. Hopefully the confidence & experience I'm gaining will mean that when I meet a girl I like in Civvy Street I'm not going to be worried about my lack of experience. It hasn't happened yet but until it does I can enjoy meeting with escorts. Remember confidence breeds confidence.

One last thing, honestly, if I could find the balls to book an escort I'm sure you could too. It took me a couple of years to actually do it, but I'm so glad I did. My life has changed for the better & I'm sure yours will as well.

Regards

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So how about submitting FR or telling us who the lucky girl was!

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Hello,

Just wanted to share my recent experience with any guys out there who may be in the same position I was in. Please bear with me it's quite a long one;)

Me, well I'm just an average late 20's bloke who has always had difficulty meeting girls in the "normal" way. Being shy & lacking in confidence meant that meeting an escort seemed to be the only way to gain some sexual experience & self esteem.

I've been thinking about meeting an escort for quite some time but would always find some excuse to not do it. Ringing an escort I found attractive would fill me with dread so there was no way I could do it. I have been to massage parlours before but the experience was nearly always cold & clinical. This may have been down to me being shy or could be because the parlours in Bristol aren't the greatest (I've read the reports & posts on here, not many are positive). It could also be that I would need some dutch courage to get myself to go, which with hindsight probably isn't a great idea. Not many girls want to get physical with a man who's had a few. None of my sexual encounters before were carried out with me being sober.

All other aspects of my life are good. I have a great job that I enjoy, earn good money, have my own place, nice car etc. The only thing holding me back from enjoying life to the full is the lack of female company. I got sick & tired of not moving forward with this & eventually thought, sod it, just send a few emails & see what happens. Through A....W... I found a lady who I found attractive, had excellent feedback & liked the way her personality came through on her profile. We exchanged a couple of emails then she told me that if I really did want to meet her she would need me to place a booking request. The booking request also means you have to supply a phone number & a time you are available for the escort to ring you. There was no way I could have picked the phone up, dialled her number & spoken to her, far too nerve racking! But while you may think there's not a lot of difference between me ringing her & her ringing me, I swear to god it did. Obviously I was still nervous but it made it the first contact with an escort a lot easier.

I was also worried about where to have our meeting. Inviting a stranger into my home just didn't seem right, nor me going to her place. We agreed to meet at a hotel of well known chain. I arrived a few hours before the meeting making sure I was squeaky clean & freshly shaved. I was shaking like a leaf just sitting there waiting. The next difficulty was having to meet her outside the hotel as to get to the upper floors a key card was needed. I was worried about having to take her past reception & whether they would say something. Now in all honesty, they couldn't give a flying f**k. Once in my room with her we just chatted for a short time before she took the lead & all my nerves & worries just evaporated.

Now after reading this forum for a while I know A....W... gets a lot of criticism. A lot of it is probably justified. For someone in my position I found it excellent. It made the whole process of finding someone, booking them & finally meeting them a lot easier than it could have been. She has left me feedback which I think is a great idea as it allows other ladies to know that I'm serious about meeting them & not a timewaster. I have already made other bookings with a different ladies on that site, this time I actually rang them!

To summarise the massive amount of guff I've written above, for any guys who are looking at meeting an escort but are too scared to make the first move:

1) Find an escort you find attractive and whose personality appeals to you.

2) Make sure she has plenty of good feedback.

3) Send an email & let her know you'd like to meet her. Tell her it's your fist time & that you're shy & nervous. Build a little rapport. Suggest some dates. I purposely chose a Friday evening, what a way to start the weekend!

4) Go for a 2 hour booking, this way there is no rush.

5) Depending on how she works she might ring you first. If not, be courageous & ring her, honestly it's not as difficult as you might think.

6) Arrange meeting at a hotel. Premier Inn & Travelodge are doing good deals at the moment if booked three weeks in advance.

7) Don't worry about the hotel staff, they really don't care.

8) Be clean, kind & polite when she arrives. Don't worry if you're nervous, she's seen it all before. Any escort worth her salt will not want to make you uncomfortable.

9) Enjoy it! The time flies by.

I finally have some enjoyment in my life again. Hopefully the confidence & experience I'm gaining will mean that when I meet a girl I like in Civvy Street I'm not going to be worried about my lack of experience. It hasn't happened yet but until it does I can enjoy meeting with escorts. Remember confidence breeds confidence.

One last thing, honestly, if I could find the balls to book an escort I'm sure you could too. It took me a couple of years to actually do it, but I'm so glad I did. My life has changed for the better & I'm sure yours will as well.

Regards

Welcome to the board and i am glad the punt went well.:rolleyes: I disagree with your point number 2, some WGs i have punted with have had no feedback and they were great. I personally dont trust feedback from those i dont know, a recent example on here proves it can be made up or manipulated. I only ever ring the lady myself and have no interest in emailing. I also wouldnt recommend a 2 hour punt for a newbie, an hour is more than enough in my experience. Of course at the end of the day its what suits the individual punter, we are all different.

I advise checking out Late Rooms who i have had some great deals off of if looking for hotels, i much prefer incalls whenever possible.:P

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1) Find an escort you find attractive and whose personality appeals to you.

Yes, no point on going for an escort you dont find attractive. But personality wise you wont really know till the first 10 mins. But sometimes a phone call to enquire about a booking can sort that out.

2) Make sure she has plenty of good feedback.

Not necessarily. Some of my best punts have been with girls with NO feedback or no FRs at all. (e.g. Rebecca from Hod now Annabellas). Although feedback and FR can help you decide, theres fakes and guys who intentionally dont report so they can keep the girl for themselves.

3) Send an email & let her know you’d like to meet her. Tell her it’s your fist time & that you’re shy & nervous. Build a little rapport. Suggest some dates. I purposely chose a Friday evening, what a way to start the weekend!

Yup. My initial contact is by email just to enquire about her availablitlty but the best way to know about a booking is to just pick up the phone and call. I know Its nervewracking but if you cant pick up the phone then how you supposed to get the nerves to visit?

4) Go for a 2 hour booking, this way there is no rush.

Yup but theres also no rush on 3 hour booking either or longer. Also helps to bring a gift like chocolates incase of any awkward silences or break during the booking. Sometimes if your unsure its better to go for shorter but then go back for longer.

5) Depending on how she works she might ring you first. If not, be courageous & ring her, honestly it's not as difficult as you might think.

Ahh perhaps I should have read that point before 3 above...

6) Arrange meeting at a hotel. Premier Inn & Travelodge are doing good deals at the moment if booked three weeks in advance.

My first ever punt, and second, was outcall to a hotel. Yup hotels dont give a rats ass. But you dont have to book 3 weeks in advance at some. If theyve got rooms available then you can get a great deal for a last minute booking.

Also sometimes its good to do incall. That way if she turns out to be a fake its easier to do a runner and its usually cheaper than an outcall as theres no travelling expenses.

7) Don't worry about the hotel staff, they really don't care.

Yup they dont. Theyve got other stayers, rooms to clean, bookings to take.

8) Be clean, kind & polite when she arrives. Don't worry if you’re nervous, she's seen it all before. Any escort worth her salt will not want to make you uncomfortable.

Yup. (Youd be shocked at how many guys dont and then wonder why they dont have a great punt).

9) Enjoy it! The time flies by.

Dont it just! :P

One last thing, honestly, if I could find the balls to book an escort I’m sure you could too. It took me a couple of years to actually do it, but I’m so glad I did. My life has changed for the better & I’m sure yours will as well.

Just dont get addicted and end up on 3 a week.... :rolleyes:

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Welcome to the board and i am glad the punt went well.:rolleyes: I disagree with your point number 2, some WGs i have punted with have had no feedback and they were great. I personally dont trust feedback from those i dont know, a recent example on here proves it can be made up or manipulated. I only ever ring the lady myself and have no interest in emailing. I also wouldnt recommend a 2 hour punt for a newbie, an hour is more than enough in my experience. Of course at the end of the day its what suits the individual punter, we are all different.

I advise checking out Late Rooms who i have had some great deals off of if looking for hotels, i much prefer incalls whenever possible.:P

Welcome on-board Bristol Boy, I'm pleased to hear you had a good time. I think your list is a pretty good one for an inexperienced punter to follow. I take the estimable Smiths' point about number 2, but I agree with you that checking feedback is good advice while you're feeling your feet. When you're as experienced as Smithy you'll probably develop a feel for which ladies seem genuine, regardless of lack of feedback, but it's easy to get your fingers burned. (Having said that, a small amount of feedback is not necessarily a good guide either.)

Have a long and enjoyable punting career mate.

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One last thing, honestly, if I could find the balls to book an escort I'm sure you could too. It took me a couple of years to actually do it, but I'm so glad I did. My life has changed for the better & I'm sure yours will as well.

Regards

You should definitely write an FR about it.

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if I could find the balls to book an escort I'm sure you could too.

Good post .

So far I've not paid for sex back home in Britain.

My life really changed in the way you describe, when I travelled in Thailand and on several visits there was like a kid in a sweet shop in a tropical setting. I slept with so many women there that I have a hard job recalling each one now. Plus, all of these were of looks and physique that would be well out of my league back home. But this is a whole different kind of scene, and people who have enjoyed the scene there will know exactly what I'm referring to I'm sure. I just don't think it exists outside of South East Asia.

Going for an actual 'Escort' still seemed like more of a blind business deal and more clinical to me. But I finally did so in New Zealand. I found an Escort website for women when I was in Auckland and contacted by phone a Japanese woman with stunning photos, on the website. We met in the hotel room she rents out for her "job". Right away the nerves fell away as this sweet woman (who yes was the actual girl on the website photos) made me feel immediately at home. It was all a very friendly meeting for the 30 minutes or so I booked, and her slender but curvy milky white body was superb. Yes I payed many times more than I do when in Thailand, and I knew this kind of thing can only be now and again for that reason. The price was about the £70 mark for 30 minutes, which I think is the typical back here?

I'm interested in going to an Escort here, but the situation seems really really lame down here in the South West with lots of scam websites and poor quality from my reading of certain reports. I have been spolied by Thailand and the New Zealand meeting basically,where the wide choice of Oriental (and Kiwi) Escorts girls on websites there is good quality and genuine.

I would agree with others that feedback isn't essential though. With the Japanese Girl in New Zealand, there wasn't a feedback system and I didn't even think of looking. It all went very well, regardless. And with feedback, one cannot know if the feedback is authentic or a mate polishing up things for the girl. Plus, a girl may respond differently to each client of course.

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Being shy & lacking in confidence meant that meeting an escort seemed to be the only way to gain some sexual experience & self esteem.

I totality relate to this too. I'm shy and lacking confidence also, but visiting escorts is really improving things. I see improved confidence as one of the main benefits of this expensive pastime :D And perhaps the only lasting benefit?

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