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How long is too long to wait for an escort to confirm a booking?

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Mainly due to work but also to personal commitments I haven't been able to get the time right to make a booking for the last 3 months. Finally I got a break through. I'd been on a particular site and I saw 3 escorts that I found attractive and offered services that I liked. With work a little slack and other work colleagues returning from holidays and with the volcanic ash restrictions over, I was able to take several days off this month and planned to visit one of the escort on one of those days.

Unfortunately one decided to stop working.

Another, a frequent poster on this forum, read & ignored my polite mails and a couple of voice messages which were basically emphasising my efforts to try to contact her.

So last month I made polite enquiry to discuss a possible booking with the other escort, firstly via the external email shown on her profile. I received no reply.

6 days later, I shortened it and sent via mail of the website, as that is her stated chosen method of communication. The mail was read but I heard nothing.

9 days later, she then posted on her profile a tour near me and I was keen to enquire, as it would save me time travelling to her. I was happy, I received a reply the same day and she advised she would inform me promptly as soon as she was able. Not hearing anything I followed this up a week later and received a reply 2 days later telling me she was on holiday for 2 weeks and would inform me as soon as dates were confirmed.

2 days later I was organising my hotlist and noticed that she had posted her tour dates but she hadn't informed me. I thought I'd be positive just booked a date, sent a mail advising briefly why and received a response the same day, saying I would receive communication nearer the booking date. Admittedly I read it incorrectly and the next day wrote to her with information about the best time to contact me, which she read but didn't reply. Her reply provided me with her number so I phoned, it rang off and she didn't reply to a voice message that I left. I tried again a couple of days later and left another message.

This lady hasn't signed in since reading my last mail and the booking is now 5 days away and still not confirmed, i.e. we haven't discussed what I'm interested in, if she's comfortable with it, time or address. It is now 27 days since my first ever attempt to communicate with her. However her positive ratings have nearly increased by half, which would indicate she's been busy ;)

Last week I discovered that the lady who stopped working, has now returned and I've been in brief communication. I've outlayed my intentions, I think she understands my situation and I hope she will say "yes" so that I can have a confirmed booking to look forward to.

Now given that the original escort that I wanted to book with, does state that she isn't always available, but given the above is 27 days too long? How long is too long for you? And lets spin that round for the escorts, ladies is there a time limit to your patience with enquiries from punters?

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Maybe you need to just call a few more till you get one.

Failing that, you could try a parlour. x

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I would give up and look elsewhere.

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Mainly due to work but also to personal commitments I haven’t been able to get the time right to make a booking for the last 3 months. Finally I got a break through. I’d been on a particular site and I saw 3 escorts that I found attractive and offered services that I liked. With work a little slack and other work colleagues returning from holidays and with the volcanic ash restrictions over, I was able to take several days off this month and planned to visit one of the escort on one of those days.

Unfortunately one decided to stop working.

Another, a frequent poster on this forum, read & ignored my polite mails and a couple of voice messages which were basically emphasising my efforts to try to contact her.

So last month I made polite enquiry to discuss a possible booking with the other escort, firstly via the external email shown on her profile. I received no reply.

6 days later, I shortened it and sent via mail of the website, as that is her stated chosen method of communication. The mail was read but I heard nothing.

9 days later, she then posted on her profile a tour near me and I was keen to enquire, as it would save me time travelling to her. I was happy, I received a reply the same day and she advised she would inform me promptly as soon as she was able. Not hearing anything I followed this up a week later and received a reply 2 days later telling me she was on holiday for 2 weeks and would inform me as soon as dates were confirmed.

2 days later I was organising my hotlist and noticed that she had posted her tour dates but she hadn’t informed me. I thought I'd be positive just booked a date, sent a mail advising briefly why and received a response the same day, saying I would receive communication nearer the booking date. Admittedly I read it incorrectly and the next day wrote to her with information about the best time to contact me, which she read but didn’t reply. Her reply provided me with her number so I phoned, it rang off and she didn’t reply to a voice message that I left. I tried again a couple of days later and left another message.

This lady hasn’t signed in since reading my last mail and the booking is now 5 days away and still not confirmed, i.e. we haven’t discussed what I’m interested in, if she’s comfortable with it, time or address. It is now 27 days since my first ever attempt to communicate with her. However her positive ratings have nearly increased by half, which would indicate she's been busy ;)

Last week I discovered that the lady who stopped working, has now returned and I’ve been in brief communication. I’ve outlayed my intentions, I think she understands my situation and I hope she will say “yes” so that I can have a confirmed booking to look forward to.

Now given that the original escort that I wanted to book with, does state that she isn’t always available, but given the above is 27 days too long? How long is too long for you? And lets spin that round for the escorts, ladies is there a time limit to your patience with enquiries from punters?

Time to move on definately. I would always only use the phone call and if no answer or no response to voicemail time to move on. There are plenty more out there who will answer

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If you want to see a particular girl then i would say it is never too long .

she must be very busy as not to reply to you, which in turn means she is very good. As i wrote in my last FR it took me 2 nonths i think to see that girl but it is always worth the wait.

anyway where else can you go , if it's one special wg you want to see , you just have to keep trying or pray she has a twin sister ...

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I would expect a reply within 24 hours, 48 maximum allowing for weekends. Any serious girl will be checking her emails at least once a day.

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I generally reply within 24 hours to emails. If it's a booking enquiry I will answer any relevant questions asked and once a date/time is set request a quick call to secure the booking. If he says he will make the call say the week before then I'll hold the booking until that time, if not I will assume the booking time is still open unless otherwise agreed.

Quite often guys email asking for a booking then you don't hear from them again - that's fine with me and exactly why I adhere to the above.

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Mainly due to work but also to personal commitments I haven't been able to get the time right to make a booking for the last 3 months. Finally I got a break through. I'd been on a particular site and I saw 3 escorts that I found attractive and offered services that I liked. With work a little slack and other work colleagues returning from holidays and with the volcanic ash restrictions over, I was able to take several days off this month and planned to visit one of the escort on one of those days.

Unfortunately one decided to stop working.

Another, a frequent poster on this forum, read & ignored my polite mails and a couple of voice messages which were basically emphasising my efforts to try to contact her.

So last month I made polite enquiry to discuss a possible booking with the other escort, firstly via the external email shown on her profile. I received no reply.

6 days later, I shortened it and sent via mail of the website, as that is her stated chosen method of communication. The mail was read but I heard nothing.

9 days later, she then posted on her profile a tour near me and I was keen to enquire, as it would save me time travelling to her. I was happy, I received a reply the same day and she advised she would inform me promptly as soon as she was able. Not hearing anything I followed this up a week later and received a reply 2 days later telling me she was on holiday for 2 weeks and would inform me as soon as dates were confirmed.

2 days later I was organising my hotlist and noticed that she had posted her tour dates but she hadn't informed me. I thought I'd be positive just booked a date, sent a mail advising briefly why and received a response the same day, saying I would receive communication nearer the booking date. Admittedly I read it incorrectly and the next day wrote to her with information about the best time to contact me, which she read but didn't reply. Her reply provided me with her number so I phoned, it rang off and she didn't reply to a voice message that I left. I tried again a couple of days later and left another message.

This lady hasn't signed in since reading my last mail and the booking is now 5 days away and still not confirmed, i.e. we haven't discussed what I'm interested in, if she's comfortable with it, time or address. It is now 27 days since my first ever attempt to communicate with her. However her positive ratings have nearly increased by half, which would indicate she's been busy ;)

Last week I discovered that the lady who stopped working, has now returned and I've been in brief communication. I've outlayed my intentions, I think she understands my situation and I hope she will say "yes" so that I can have a confirmed booking to look forward to.

Now given that the original escort that I wanted to book with, does state that she isn't always available, but given the above is 27 days too long? How long is too long for you? And lets spin that round for the escorts, ladies is there a time limit to your patience with enquiries from punters?

Choose WGs with phone numbers is what i do, it saves all this long winded hanging about you mention here. I know some ladies do respond quickly to emails which is fine if thats what happens but if i were you here i would be thinking if the lady hasnt responded in all this time she cant be that professional so i wouldnt want to punt with her in the first place.

As Steve2 said move on, plenty of other ladies to choose from. I dont email apart from a few ladies off here, but if i dont get an answer on the phone i go elsewhere and come back to the first lady if she is someone i particularly want to punt with, but if i dont get an answer after a few calls i leave it but might try again in the future. I wish you luck in sorting something out.:)

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Another, a frequent poster on this forum, read & ignored my polite mails and a couple of voice messages which were basically emphasising my efforts to try to contact her.

Hmmmmmmmmmm, I think the sort of allowance that you are going to have to make might be a trifle longer than you think, some ladies only see 1, maximum 2, clients per day, and only work 1, maximum 2, days per week, now what is not widely known is that this policy is also carried on in the correspondence department, so depending on how many Emails the lady receives, you might have a 2 year, or even longer, wait. Don't forget, you are not being ignored you are just in a queue and your Email will be answered just as soon as she is available.

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If you want to see a particular girl then i would say it is never too long .

she must be very busy as not to reply to you, which in turn means she is very good. As i wrote in my last FR it took me 2 nonths i think to see that girl but it is always worth the wait.

anyway where else can you go , if it's one special wg you want to see , you just have to keep trying or pray she has a twin sister ...

Yes, I read your FR, seems you had a lot of fun ;)

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I am going to talk from personal experience here...

I do try my damndest to answer all e-mails and phone calls...

I don't always have time or remember to check my voicemail.

For some reason, my mail box occassionally sends my website e-mails to my junk inbox, and sometime in those cases I don't notice that I have a e-mail.

I am also a working mother.

So I can't always answer my phone, or if I can I may not always be able to answer question or may sound aloof or uninterested on the phone.

Sometimes it is not viable to answer or to check voicemails, due to various family commitments etc.

Now I have watched several posters state on this forum that discretion is paramount to them.

However it can also be paramount to us working girls.

I doubt that any WG who has children (young or who don't know what mum's job is.) would enjoy answering personal intimate details over the telephone.

Same applies when we are at the checkout of the local supermarket.

My family and friends know what I do, but that doesn't mean I will flaunt it in thier faces, nor does it mean that I will answer the phone or certian questions in front of my child.

So please cut us some slack we are not all single carefree women, with nothing else to hold us back.

Also some of us are just not comfortable speeling off a list of services down the phone when half the time all you get in return is a heavey breather.

There is a list of things I could cite here and I am sure there is also a list the guys could cite as well, the point is that not everything is not always as straight forward as they may first appear.

Now to the OP, the Lady that you mention posts on this forum, have you tried PM'ing here here rather than just phone and or her own e-mail.

The lady whom you have had contact with, why not call or mail on the morning of your appointment to confirm.

And possibly set up an appointment with the escort who has un retired perhaps for hours after your assumed booking with the lady you've had contact with that way if you get confirmation, you can cancel in good time.

Just a few of my thoughts on this.

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Hmmmmmmmmmm, I think the sort of allowance that you are going to have to make might be a trifle longer than you think, some ladies only see 1, maximum 2, clients per day, and only work 1, maximum 2, days per week, now what is not widely known is that this policy is also carried on in the correspondence department, so depending on how many Emails the lady receives, you might have a 2 year, or even longer, wait. Don't forget, you are not being ignored you are just in a queue and your Email will be answered just as soon as she is available.

I appreciate that but this particular lady read the emails and did nothing. This particuarly lady would also work in various parlours and subsequently, one would construe, be available for many punters during the week so it's not like she's being selective. She says herself in her profile she's not. She just didn't do anything with the emails, not even when they suggested that I would like to discuss a possible date for a booking with 21 days advance notification, allowing her a decent opportunity to respond in a professional manner.

A simple "no I don't do outcalls to homes" or "no I'm not available" or "yes, but the best chance ot contact me will be....." would have been nice. I'm convinced that this lady edited her profile afterwards, not purely for me but in general. If she didn't she could have stated something like "my profile says I don't do this" or "it states the best time to contact me is, try then" or "I got your messages please call back at such a such a time", but she she didn't chose to do nothing. It's weird because a lot of people have a lot of respect for her on this forum.

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...she must be very busy as not to reply to you, which in turn means she is very good...

Ah assumptions, assumptions! Just because a lady is "busy" does not mean she is busy having sex for money, nor does it mean she is good at her job. It could mean she's a bit slack on the admin side of the job, or has a lot of time off for various reasons. Sorry to get on your case but, in my case, I get a little tired of men assuming I'm working (and raking it in!) just because my online diary says "busy"; I'm "busy" studying for a degree, and "busy" getting my work/life balance right, not necessarily "busy" fucking.

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I appreciate that

Do you really?

My reply was very tongue-in-cheek, just ignore the lady, and me, and move on to somebody who might actually want your money.

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Do you really?

My reply was very tongue-in-cheek, just ignore the lady, and me, and move on to somebody who might actually want your money.

So was mine, rofl.

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Just a few of my thoughts on this.

Tammy I appreciate your thoughts.

I do understand that things aren't always straight forward, that WLs can't always answer straight away the same goes for punters and that WLs probably don't want to be reeling off services to possible clients. I prefer the approach by email particularly if the lady permits me to do so, because of privacy for both parties as you've mentioned, likewise I don't want to be at lunch at work tucked away in a room, trying to organise a booking for someone to walk in and overhear. By writing an email I can state everything in a concise manner and allow the lady time to digest and I always discuss things within the services that I am aware that the lady offers. The other site is great because it shows what services lady's offer and so it helps to remove any such awkwardness in asking/replying for both parties.

Regarding the lady who posts here. In her defence I didn't think to PM her here because I didn't know that she did as I only started posting yesterday. I thought that I should post a thread on here to get some thoughts/feedback/advice on my scenario only when I registered and began looking at current threads I noticed that she is a frequent poster and subsequently added that into my scenario. It would certainly make sense to, though as you may decipher from my reply to Sasfan it's now likely not to happen.

Regarding the lady I've had contact with. I could do that but is it wrong for me not to want everything confirmed in advance. Presently I sent her a mail on the other site giving her my mobile number again asking her if she wants to text me for when is a suitable to talk to discuss the booking.

Regarding the unretired lady, great minds think a like, I'm already in the process of doing that and as I wrote before I think she understands my situation and I hope she says yes.

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Tammy I appreciate your thoughts.

I do understand that things aren't always straight forward, that WLs can't always answer straight away the same goes for punters and that WLs probably don't want to be reeling off services to possible clients. I prefer the approach by email particularly if the lady permits me to do so, because of privacy for both parties as you've mentioned, likewise I don't want to be at lunch at work tucked away in a room, trying to organise a booking for someone to walk in and overhear. By writing an email I can state everything in a concise manner and allow the lady time to digest and I always discuss things within the services that I am aware that the lady offers. The other site is great because it shows what services lady's offer and so it helps to remove any such awkwardness in asking/replying for both parties.

Regarding the lady who posts here. In her defence I didn't think to PM her here because I didn't know that she did as I only started posting yesterday. I thought that I should post a thread on here to get some thoughts/feedback/advice on my scenario only when I registered and began looking at current threads I noticed that she is a frequent poster and subsequently added that into my scenario. It would certainly make sense to, though as you may decipher from my reply to Sasfan it's now likely not to happen.

Regarding the lady I've had contact with. I could do that but is it wrong for me not to want everything confirmed in advance. Presently I sent her a mail on the other site giving her my mobile number again asking her if she wants to text me for when is a suitable to talk to discuss the booking.

Regarding the unretired lady, great minds think a like, I'm already in the process of doing that and as I wrote before I think she understands my situation and I hope she says yes.

Oddly enough you have given enough information to 'out' the lady who posts on this forum already.

By the By, it could also be that said lady has read the emails and acctually registered what you had said, but didn't answer as the booking is very far in advance therefor she could be concentrating on the present course, rather than 3 weeks down the line.

surely you understand that 3 weeks is an extrodinary amount of time, for both the lady on the forum and the one who lacked in replies to you.

Most work week to week with advance bookings not being thought about untill that week.

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20 odd days to confirm a booking, how gorgeous is she for you to be so patient? ;)

I know from experience that wg's are busy with other things in their lives and so can't respond right away, I usually expect a reply with in a week if I am interested in booking lady by email.

If I am certain that the lady would cater towards my requests and is obviously to my liking, then I would call. If I don't get through I would leave a voice mail for them to contact me. If they still don't contact you then I would call a second time and if this is unsucessful and I can't get though I would leave another voice mail. If she still does not contact me within a week or so. I would leave it and move on....

However I have never had this problem with most wg's I have contacted, the wg's I have contacted are very professional and deal with my correspondence in a timely manor.

In your case, I would simply just move on to a more professional wgs that will deal with you in a timely manor. This person is clearly messing you about and is not interested in seeing you.

MrPunt

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Well if this was ever supposed to not happen then that's the way it is, lol.

Couple of days ago the original lady replied, apologsing asking me to change date. I replied back in short asking "to confirm the booking (today) or change the date". I heard nothing.

Communication with the unretired lady was fantastic and so I made a booking with her and cancelled the original.

The original lady wrote to me last night apologising again for lack of communication and from her profile appears to have cancelled her tour today.

The unretired lady phoned me up to apologise she would be late and asked if I wanted to booking to continue I said. Yes. I got a text from her 30mins ago to say she was outside in the carpark. Can't see her. Though she calimed she saw me. Though since then silence, lol. No text or phone call. lol

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