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Ok - so will talk about our adventures and thrills on this site - but which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?

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Ok - so will talk about our adventures and thrills on this site - but which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?

You're kidding right?! Why the heck would anyone pay (actually pay) to have something which is not as good as something on tap and free??? :P

Nul points for pointless thread.

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You're kidding right?! Why the heck would anyone pay (actually pay) to have something which is not as good as something on tap and free??? :P

Nul points for pointless thread.

You took the words right out of my mouth Justy!

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Ok - so will talk about our adventures and thrills on this site - but which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?

In my experience nothing can beat sex with someone you love with all your heart and who loves you likewise.

Being in love and having great sex has never stopped me punting though, i am at the end of the day a selfish fucker who likes shagging as many WGs as possible, if i were Brad Pitt it would be as many ladies as possible WG or not, as i am facially and bodily challenged (ugly and a fat bastard) paying is my preferred and easist option.

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Looks alone do not snare ladies, however they may help somewhat!

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In my experience nothing can beat sex with someone you love with all your heart and who loves you likewise.

Being in love and having great sex has never stopped me punting though, i am at the end of the day a selfish fucker who likes shagging as many WGs as possible, if i were Brad Pitt it would be as many ladies as possible WG or not, as i am facially and bodily challenged (ugly and a fat bastard) paying is my preferred and easist option.

Oh. That seems to answer our question then Justagirl.

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Ok - so will talk about our adventures and thrills on this site - but which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?

i love my partner dearly but we stopped having sex many years ago,so it's paid sex for me,except for a couple of indiscretions with colleagues/clients

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Oh. That seems to answer our question then Justagirl.

mmmm - I'm not convinced.

I thought we're talking about the act of sex?

Now you're brining love, commitment (and a whole personal history) into this (smiths).

You're not comparing apples with apples. So it's still a pointless thread.

Unless you'd like to fall in love with a WG and then make some comparisons.

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In my experience nothing can beat sex with someone you love with all your heart and who loves you likewise.

Being in love and having great sex has never stopped me punting though, i am at the end of the day a selfish fucker who likes shagging as many WGs as possible, if i were Brad Pitt it would be as many ladies as possible WG or not, as i am facially and bodily challenged (ugly and a fat bastard) paying is my preferred and easist option.

There you go ,showing off again !:P

Not so sure that the OP question is pointless as others have suggested. I have little doubt that partners may continue to have sex but that passionate spark may no longer be there. In that event , the paid sex may be better for a whole variety of reasons --- fantasy being one of them.

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mmmm - I'm not convinced.

I thought we're talking about the act of sex?

Now you're brining love, commitment (and a whole personal history) into this (smiths).

You're not comparing apples with apples. So it's still a pointless thread.

Unless you'd like to fall in love with a WG and then make some comparisons.

Nothing wrong with putting my thinking down, just ignore it if you think its not relevant or worse.:P

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There you go ,showing off again !:P

Not so sure that the OP question is pointless as others have suggested. I have little doubt that partners may continue to have sex but that passionate spark may no longer be there. In that event , the paid sex may be better for a whole variety of reasons --- fantasy being one of them.

mmm, which brings me back to my first point and remark. No?

I still find it hard to understand (unless someone literally has time and money to waste) why someone would engage in a sexual act and pay for it, if the experience is knowingly going to worse than with a partner.

(taking love, commitment or guilt out of the equation)

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There you go ,showing off again !:P

Not so sure that the OP question is pointless as others have suggested. I have little doubt that partners may continue to have sex but that passionate spark may no longer be there. In that event , the paid sex may be better for a whole variety of reasons --- fantasy being one of them.

I certainly dont think its pointless, and more importantly its up to him what threads he starts IMO, this is after all a forum where people have different views and opinions and the opportunity to post what is of interest to them.:):)

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mmm, which brings me back to my first point and remark. No?

I still find it hard to understand (unless someone literally has time and money to waste) why someone would engage in a sexual act and pay for it, if the experience is knowingly going to worse than with a partner.(taking love, commitment or guilt out of the equation)

where do you get the inference that its going to be worse ?

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where do you get the inference that its going to be worse ?

Beat me to it.:P Unless you do it you cant know that it will be worse, it might be better, who knows till you have done it. I am of course talking in general terms here, not personal to me.:)

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where do you get the inference that its going to be worse ?

Nowhere. That part was a point.

I'd still like to understand (because I'm clearly missing the obvious staring me in the face) why anyone would pay for something which is knowingly not going to be as good as something you already have for free.

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Nowhere. That part was a point.

I'd still like to understand (because I'm clearly missing the obvious staring me in the face) why anyone would pay for something which is knowingly not going to be as good as something you already have for free.

Why have you used the word knowingly? You wouldnt know till you had done it. You have added knowingly out of nowhere.:P

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Why have you used the word knowingly? You wouldnt know till you had done it. You have added knowingly out of nowhere.:P

On the assumption that you know sex (the act of) is better with your partner. Hence...

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You're kidding right?! Why the heck would anyone pay (actually pay) to have something which is not as good as something on tap and free???

One reason could well be that sex with the partner is not at all "on tap" but somewhat sparse and not available nearly as often as desired.

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One reason could well be that sex with the partner is not at all "on tap" but somewhat sparse and not available nearly as often as desired.

That wasn't the original question. The question is not "why do you pay for sex?".

The question is "which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?"

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On the assumption that you know sex (the act of) is better with your partner. Hence...

You have changed it from knowingly to on the assumption that you know, the thing is you cant know unless you have sex with someone else which then proves to you that your assumption was right.:P

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That wasn't the original question. The question is not "why do you pay for sex?".

The question is "which is better sex with our partner or paid for fun ?"

Are you approaching this on the basis that its taken for granted that if you have a partner and you have sex with him, then what more could you want ?

if yes, then maybe this is one of the big differences betwwen the 2 sexes.:P

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Are you approaching this on the basis that its taken for granted that if you have a partner and you have sex with him, then what more could you want ?

if yes, then maybe this is one of the big differences betwwen the 2 sexes.:P

Not at all. Far from it :)

Question: which is better?

Lets take the only 2 possible answers (given the choice between the 2):

1) WG sex is better (then the assumtion that sex with the partner isn't as good & fulfilling). So I totally understand why sex is paid for.

2) Partner sex is better (so why the heck would you pay when you KNOW that sex with your partner is better? If it's simply to sow your oats, then partner sex is obviously not better because it's not as fulfilling and not giving you what you want).

Simple.

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Not at all. Far from it :P

Question: which is better?

Lets take the only 2 possible answers (given the choice between the 2):

1) WG sex is better (then the assumtion that sex with the partner isn't as good & fulfilling). So I totally understand why sex is paid for.

2) Partner sex is better (so why the heck would you pay when you KNOW that sex with your partner is better? If it's simply to sow your oats, then partner sex is obviously not better because it's not as fulfilling and not giving you what you want).

Simple.

Yes , I see the interpretation you put on this. It all boils down to the interpretation. If I really fancy a girl then just kissing her will beat wild WG sex everytime. But in a long term partnership whilst I might enjoy the partner sex, the wild or fantasy sex with a WG may well win out.anyway, I'm off to dreamland .night !:)

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Not at all. Far from it :P

Question: which is better?

Lets take the only 2 possible answers (given the choice between the 2):

1) WG sex is better (then the assumtion that sex with the partner isn't as good & fulfilling). So I totally understand why sex is paid for.

2) Partner sex is better (so why the heck would you pay when you KNOW that sex with your partner is better? If it's simply to sow your oats, then partner sex is obviously not better because it's not as fulfilling and not giving you what you want).

Simple.

How do you know partner sex is better. You wouldnt KNOW partner sex was better till you had fucked someone else and proved to yourself it was better. You cant know till you have tried it.

As to what you say about sowing your oats, then partner sex is obviously not better etc, thats your opinion, mine differs from many years of experience. For me its about not being able to be monogomous or wanting to, and requiring variety, i was fulfilled by my partner but selfishly wanted to shag WGs as i enjoy doing so.:)

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How do you know partner sex is better. You wouldnt KNOW partner sex was better till you had fucked someone else and proved to yourself it was better. You cant know till you have tried it.

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