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Walking away from a bad punt

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How does a punter walk away from a bad punt mid-session? Or even ask for a partial refund? I am too polite and just go through with it. I haven't been to a booking where I have disliked the girl, but I have been to a number where they are inexperienced, have been dishonest, or very bad at the services they provide.

Are you just assertive and honest, or do you have a handy excuse ready? If you have already parted with your cash, it could be even more difficult!

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I'm honest and I walk away but just in a "this isn't working out way." Let them keep the money and keep smiling and joking.

Had it a couple of time in Hong Kong with hotel bar girls. Once in the room they have been crap and it has just been a case of keep the 20 quid, nice to meet you, bye.

Had a few bad parlour punts. Pretty much the same.

If you meet someone with a bad attitude then they aren't going to get far in life but i you always have good one you will.

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The only time I had a "bad" punt the girl (nice but dim type) seemed happy to give me lots of oral so I just lay back and enjoyed the silence. :( Then when she'd had enough I just thought of something sexy so I came quickly and didn't say much. After a prolonged silence I just got up and said I'd better be getting back and left 20 mins early with no hard feelings or awkwardness.

I'd never ask for money back though. The way I looked at it I chose the girl so it was my choice so not her fault she just wasn't the type of girl I'd preferred.

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Going back to pre- internet days, when I tended to use the "Sport flats ", you often found some pretty grim experiences. Money ALWAYS changed hand first, so there was little re-dress. I learned to just say "thank you but I'll pass" & leave before paying if it was too uninviting.

I made a few mistakes, where we got started for her to turn out a complete errection killer. In those case I usually just said sorry but this ain't working, & left.

On one occasion the girl burst into tears rushed out & came back & threw the money at me. I left half on the bed.

These days of outcalls I have managed to rescue punts by just staying cheerful & being as nice as possible. One or two have turned out quite well.

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Parlour or escort?

Never been to a Parlour so don't know much about them!

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Parlour or escort?

Escort (incall) from **

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Escort (incall) from **

Okidok..............talk to the agency if they are decent they will try to recompense you in some way and treat you as a valued client

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How does a punter walk away from a bad punt mid-session? Or even ask for a partial refund? I am too polite and just go through with it. I haven't been to a booking where I have disliked the girl, but I have been to a number where they are inexperienced, have been dishonest, or very bad at the services they provide.

Are you just assertive and honest, or do you have a handy excuse ready? If you have already parted with your cash, it could be even more difficult!

Sometimes when I am reading posts containing similar comments as the ones above and also some FRs , I do have a little smile to myself. Occasionally posts crop up that question the customers attitudes and habits but so often stuff is loaded against us WGs.

Early on when I first went Indie , all my customers were new to me, now I have regulars but still occasionally I will go to someone I have not met before and think "no way". Maybe due to attitude (piece of meat thing) rudeness , lack of hygiene , drugs/drink. I just say , sorry , can't stay , hand money back if I have it by then and leave. If I stayed with these customers , I have little doubt that if they gave me feedback, it would not be complimentary because there is no chance that I could get into giving them a good and enjoyable experience.

I am in no way implying you are not pleasant,charming,clean etc.

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Sometimes when I am reading posts containing similar comments as the ones above and also some FRs , I do have a little smile to myself. Occasionally posts crop up that question the customers attitudes and habits but so often stuff is loaded against us WGs.

Early on when I first went Indie , all my customers were new to me, now I have regulars but still occasionally I will go to someone I have not met before and think "no way". Maybe due to attitude (piece of meat thing) rudeness , lack of hygiene , drugs/drink. I just say , sorry , can't stay , hand money back if I have it by then and leave. If I stayed with these customers , I have little doubt that if they gave me feedback, it would not be complimentary because there is no chance that I could get into giving them a good and enjoyable experience.

I am in no way implying you are not pleasant,charming,clean etc.

True......true......but there are bad girls out there. So benefit of the doubt innit

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I am in no way implying you are not pleasant,charming,clean etc.

I am very very respectful to all the WGs I have met :(

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I am very very respectful to all the WGs I have met :(

I'm sure you are and most guys on the forum sound as if they are too.

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How does a punter walk away from a bad punt mid-session? Or even ask for a partial refund? I am too polite and just go through with it. I haven't been to a booking where I have disliked the girl, but I have been to a number where they are inexperienced, have been dishonest, or very bad at the services they provide.

Are you just assertive and honest, or do you have a handy excuse ready? If you have already parted with your cash, it could be even more difficult!

I don't think it is impolite to walk out mid-session, if things just arn't working out. I did just a week ago, see my FR. On that occasion the girl just wasn't making any effort to connect and didn't even want me to touch her.I think the vast majority of men would want the experience to have some degree of intimacy, and they also try their best to make the time as enjoyable as possible for the lady. Quite honestly if the lady just lays there with her eyes closed, i am certainly turned off and feel justified in walking out. Isn't it about providing a service? If you order a meal and it turns out to be inedible, do you send it back or make yourself sick eating it?

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I have met man2k and he is a very polite and genuine man, never rude or out for a freebie. I hope you dont mind me saying man2k.

Suzy x

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I have met man2k and he is a very polite and genuine man, never rude or out for a freebie. I hope you dont mind me saying man2k.

Suzy x

Thank you Suzy, not at all :( xx

I just find walking away awkward! Because I genuinely respect WGs, all the ones I have met show me respect, and if the girl is nice it is particulary difficult to get up and leave or request a refund. Recently I had a punt where I wanted to leave after 5 minutes, the girl was lovely, but the booking was terrible, everything was a disaster!

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I've never walked out mid-punt, even my weirdest one in Malaysia just over the border from Singapore, when I ended up with two ladies in their 50s/60s giving me a prolonged HJ while they talked to each other!

I try to find something positive in every punt and put the rest down to experience.

The thing that brings me nearest to leaving is finding out after starting the punt that the girl is ill - had one clearly with a high temperature, one with a stomach upset which caused her to leave the room every 5 mins! lol :(

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Reviving an old thread here, but I walked away from a punt on Friday night - a first for me. I contacted a girl off the other site - hit and miss I know, but personally I've had way more good than bad experiences from there and I generally know how to spot fake profiles, etc.

Anyway, she wasn't the girl in the picture but was attractive and friendly so I decided in for a penny in for a pound....and then it all went wrong. She had advertised FK (not "FK at discretion"), but immediately turned her head away when I tried this. She then pushed my hand away when I stroked her breast - a bit of fun? No, she definitely didn't want me touching there, as the same thing happened when I tried again. Next, she pushed me back onto the bed and sucked me for 90 seconds - actually, she didn't suck me, she opened her mouth wide, so my cock hardly touched the sides (no I'm not tiny, honest guv) and did all the work with her hand - before putting the condom on (her profile said OWO). I protested, so she whipped the condom off and gave it another 30 seconds before trying to put another one. At this point I stopped her and said it wasn't working, I was leaving and wanted a refund.

She refused the refund saying she had kissed me and given me a blow job, at which point I burst out laughing, really loudly! Well it was almost technically true, but still a hilarious and rather tenuous description of what she had done. Anyway, what ensued was even funnier - she tried to persuade me to stay, told me she could relax me, and put my hand on her breast to show me. I was laughing, but also saying that I really wasn't interested now and please could I have my money back. She got more insistent that we have another go, but my laughter wasn't helping at all and eventually she got angry. The commotion attracted another girl working who was in the flat (I didn't know she was there, so that was an nice surprise) into the room to join in the discussion.

They both continued to insist that I wasn't getting my money back and I started to get really pissed off. It was less about the money (£90 for half an hour) and more about the principle, so - and I'm not exactly proud about this bit, but I felt I had no option - I asked them whether their neighbours knew that they working out of the flat. At that, the girl I had booked rushed off and came back with £60 of my £90 - I half wanted to hold out for the other £30, sort of under the Trades Description Act, but figured £30 was worth it for the entertainment - plus I'd been there for half an hour by now, so she lived up to that criteria. So I left and went to watch the football in the pub. For the record I was scrupulously clean and fresh!

The issue for me is that, if I just don't hit it off with a girl, then it goes down to experience and I just don't go back; but when a girl is this bad, and doesn't do what she advertises, then it's refund time. Now I know she wasn't the girl in the profile pictures and I still chose to go ahead, but she answered the number in the ad and answered to the same name so, in assuming that identity she should have offered the services.

Final note. I was thinking over the weekend about naming her and putting up a really stinging review but, in all honesty, I think she is just really badly suited to what she is doing and should get out. I feel sorry for her and really don't wish to add to her woes. On the other hand, I guess another punter will have a similarly bad experience as I did....ho hum.

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Final note. I was thinking over the weekend about naming her and putting up a really stinging review but, in all honesty, I think she is just really badly suited to what she is doing and should get out. I feel sorry for her and really don't wish to add to her woes. On the other hand, I guess another punter will have a similarly bad experience as I did....ho hum.

In my opinion you owe it to everyone else to put up a review. And save your fellow punter from a similar experience. At the very least, you should leave negative & strong (but not petty & nasty) feedback on her profile.

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Name and shame!

I've walked away a few times before and mid-session. I also wished I'd walked a couple of other times.

Where I was mid-session I was young, made a polite excuse and left. If it were now I would ask for my money.

I've left before the session started by being honest but politte. Rather than saying 'the photoshopping on your photos has turned you from dog to a beaut' I just explained it wasn't 'what I expected'.

Be honest, be polite but don't get ripped off.

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How does a punter walk away from a bad punt mid-session? Or even ask for a partial refund? I am too polite and just go through with it. I haven't been to a booking where I have disliked the girl, but I have been to a number where they are inexperienced, have been dishonest, or very bad at the services they provide.

Are you just assertive and honest, or do you have a handy excuse ready? If you have already parted with your cash, it could be even more difficult!

A man, he went to see a lass

Because he thought that she had class

She opened her legs and said "give me a shag"

He realised what a horrid old bag

He didnt want to be unkind

But realised he'd changed his mind

Her arm was full of junky jabs

Her pussy ran alive with crabs

He panicked then. It was not funny

He'd parted with a lot af money

He felt that he had gone to hell

A dirty lass and horrid smell

He was thinking how to dash

Without bein parted from his cash

As she lay there with a grin

Sayin "come on babe, get your cock in2

"Come on" she cried, "I want your prick"

He froze and shook. He felt so sick

He could not run. He could not hide

As she lay awaiting legs open wide

She said, "My pussy likes a kiss"

He thought, "I cant, It smells of piss"

She said, "come on, I want a lick"

"Then fill me up with your big dick"

He then began to gag and heave

And said "I think I have to leave"

He asked her for his money back

She said, "no way, you saw my crack"

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I have had girls like that and when asking to change position they said more money so l thought im not using these again but l have found ones that l have liked and had stayed with them when ever l visit

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In my opinion you owe it to everyone else to put up a review. And save your fellow punter from a similar experience. At the very least, you should leave negative & strong (but not petty & nasty) feedback on her profile.

As above, feedback good or bad is needed

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You are really being ripped off if they want money to change position FFS

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I have had girls like that and when asking to change position they said more money so l thought im not using these again but l have found ones that l have liked and had stayed with them when ever l visit

This ^^^^ is a good reason to see a WG regulary that you know and can trust to give a good service.

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Yes l know so l know which ones to keep away from

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