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Experienced Punters

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've also met and read on here views of men who have done the punting circuit for years and have a rather 'jaded' view of things, or should that be a narrow minded attitude to how they punt ? I do feel some men must surely miss out on opportunities to have better times because they fit themselves into little boxes and seldom, if ever poke their noses out of it.

I had a client a few days ago who obviously had been around the block a few times - money handed over straight away, with a 'Here, I suppose you'll want this', mention of 'stage name', watching the time with 'I've only got x amount left in my wallet if the time runs over'. Would you have given up punting long ago if you got to this stage ?

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've also met and read on here views of men who have done the punting circuit for years and have a rather 'jaded' view of things, or should that be a narrow minded attitude to how they punt ? I do feel some men must surely miss out on opportunities to have better times because they fit themselves into little boxes and seldom, if ever poke their noses out of it.

I had a client a few days ago who obviously had been around the block a few times - money handed over straight away, with a 'Here, I suppose you'll want this', mention of 'stage name', watching the time with 'I've only got x amount left in my wallet if the time runs over'. Would you have given up punting long ago if you got to this stage ?

I've been seeing WGs on a fairly regular basis for years, but I don't consider myself an 'experienced' punter, and I certainly don't feel jaded. I treat each lady I meet with respect, as an individual with her own personality, feelings and tastes, and I'd like to try and make the meeting reasonably enjoyable for her as well. And if that makes me 'a fluffy' then it's a badge I wear with pride.

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I take it to mean life experienced and sexually experienced, as the long term punter has more experience of women than almost any other kind of male. Only punters get into the hundreds in terms of number of encounters with the opposite sex, although its still only a fraction of the experience of a long term working girl.

A few years ago I was the first client for a trainee escort and she really noticed the experience in certain ways - I replied she would pass me in about 6 months in number terms

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've always interpreted it to be a form of snobbery. A bit like arrogant restaurant critics who write in The Times or Daily Telegraph and think their opinion of food is better then everyone else's.

The way the word is bandied around here, it's almost seen as a badge of honour.

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I've been seeing WGs on a fairly regular basis for years, but I don't consider myself an 'experienced' punter, and I certainly don't feel jaded. I treat each lady I meet with respect, as an individual with her own personality, feelings and tastes, and I'd like to try and make the meeting reasonably enjoyable for her as well. And if that makes me 'a fluffy' then it's a badge I wear with pride.

Very well said Tony.....ever the gentleman :D:D Thank u :rolleyes: x x x

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Very well said Tony.....ever the gentleman :D:) Thank u :) x x x

I'd much rather be a cad where you're concerned Bunny! :D:rolleyes:

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I worked out the other day that on and off I have been punting for 23 years, oh and I'm still a fuckwit with women.

Hope that helps :D

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've also met and read on here views of men who have done the punting circuit for years and have a rather 'jaded' view of things, or should that be a narrow minded attitude to how they punt ? I do feel some men must surely miss out on opportunities to have better times because they fit themselves into little boxes and seldom, if ever poke their noses out of it.

I had a client a few days ago who obviously had been around the block a few times - money handed over straight away, with a 'Here, I suppose you'll want this', mention of 'stage name', watching the time with 'I've only got x amount left in my wallet if the time runs over'. Would you have given up punting long ago if you got to this stage ?

I'm bored, so I'll bite :D

The answer to your initial question is a simple one, but the question was used merely to shoehorn in the pile of shite that followed it. The experienced punters may become jaded with this industry because of people they meet. (I imagine it is not so different on the other side of the coin). To avoid becoming jaded, it is perhaps prudent to avoid visiting WGs who should have retired long before the corrosive effects of the job dissolved what was left of their humanity. :D

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I'd much rather be a cad where you're concerned Bunny! :D:D

Oh u naughty u :rolleyes: X X

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I've always interpreted it to be a form of snobbery. A bit like arrogant restaurant critics who write in The Times or Daily Telegraph and think their opinion of food is better then everyone else's.

The way the word is bandied around here, it's almost seen as a badge of honour.

I think we are on the same wavelength here.

One character on here even described himself as a 'Proper Punter' or something like; whatever that means.:D

Numbers do not equate to experience anyway.

It's what you learn from each time that matters. There will be some who will have shagged hundreds of girls and learnt little.

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've also met and read on here views of men who have done the punting circuit for years and have a rather 'jaded' view of things, or should that be a narrow minded attitude to how they punt ? I do feel some men must surely miss out on opportunities to have better times because they fit themselves into little boxes and seldom, if ever poke their noses out of it.

I had a client a few days ago who obviously had been around the block a few times - money handed over straight away, with a 'Here, I suppose you'll want this', mention of 'stage name', watching the time with 'I've only got x amount left in my wallet if the time runs over'. Would you have given up punting long ago if you got to this stage ?

I have poked my nose in many things and know what i like. Variety has stopped me getting jaded, its still fun to punt most of the time and even when it goes pete tong it can be hilarious on occassion.

I would think i have missed out on a great many opportunities, but i have certainly had more great sexual encounters punting than i would ever of had in pulling even if i was a constant presence at the Woodford Grab A Granny night/s IMO.:D;)

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I'm bored, so I'll bite :D

The answer to your initial question is a simple one, but the question was used merely to shoehorn in the pile of shite that followed it. The experienced punters may become jaded with this industry because of people they meet. (I imagine it is not so different on the other side of the coin). To avoid becoming jaded, it is perhaps prudent to avoid visiting WGs who should have retired long before the corrosive effects of the job dissolved what was left of their humanity. :D

Ouch, a bit harsh there as the lady was only stating what she experienced.

You cannot say some punters are not jaded and have a withered attitude towards ladies until your in the room getting the once over by them. Most guys are not like this that i have met personally, most guys have the attitude that they are there for fun and rightly assume im going to do my best to give them that. There is a small minority who do make little comments like "what a surprise" or "well if thats the excuse you want to use" when i pop on a condom for oral, most guys do pass my stringent standards but one or two do not and assume that i advertise it but never give it. Yes, im sure there are ladies who do this, but its not fair to paint me with their jaded brush.

I too have seen the term "proper punter" or "real punter" bandied about. Obviously some guys are more experienced punters, but they cannot invalidate another guys experiences just because they are fewer than theirs or they spend less time researching or are not as critical as them.

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I'm bored, so I'll bite :D

The answer to your initial question is a simple one, but the question was used merely to shoehorn in the pile of shite that followed it. The experienced punters may become jaded with this industry because of people they meet. (I imagine it is not so different on the other side of the coin). To avoid becoming jaded, it is perhaps prudent to avoid visiting WGs who should have retired long before the corrosive effects of the job dissolved what was left of their humanity. :D

Aww I'll bite back...

PURRRRLEEESSSSEE...

That is a double edged sword and the pot calling the kettle black if ever I saw it...

I didn't know you were into writing retoric TB your normally straight up with a slight twist not talking complete retoric.

*sigh* What is the world coming to when I come back after a week to this...

I took it to mean that a punter who had been round the block a few times and knew the score... clean polite respectful, oddly enough some of the ' experienced punters' are some of the worst offenders.

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Some of you see yourselves as 'Experienced Punters', what exactly does it mean ?

I've also met and read on here views of men who have done the punting circuit for years and have a rather 'jaded' view of things, or should that be a narrow minded attitude to how they punt ? I do feel some men must surely miss out on opportunities to have better times because they fit themselves into little boxes and seldom, if ever poke their noses out of it.

I had a client a few days ago who obviously had been around the block a few times - money handed over straight away, with a 'Here, I suppose you'll want this', mention of 'stage name', watching the time with 'I've only got x amount left in my wallet if the time runs over'. Would you have given up punting long ago if you got to this stage ?

hmmmm thats sound interesting Mel -- can you tell us what ideas you have in mind on this one ?

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Ouch, a bit harsh there as the lady was only stating what she experienced.

You cannot say some punters are not jaded and have a withered attitude towards ladies until your in the room getting the once over by them. Most guys are not like this that i have met personally, most guys have the attitude that they are there for fun and rightly assume im going to do my best to give them that. There is a small minority who do make little comments like "what a surprise" or "well if thats the excuse you want to use" when i pop on a condom for oral, most guys do pass my stringent standards but one or two do not and assume that i advertise it but never give it. Yes, im sure there are ladies who do this, but its not fair to paint me with their jaded brush.

I too have seen the term "proper punter" or "real punter" bandied about. Obviously some guys are more experienced punters, but they cannot invalidate another guys experiences just because they are fewer than theirs or they spend less time researching or are not as critical as them.

There are many reasons why girls and boys become jaded. If possible, it is best to avoid them lest their nasty spores sour our souls.

Of course inexperienced punters have a valid point of view. In much the same way as girls who have turned tricks a couple of times to pay for the taxi ride home on a Saturday night have a valid point of view. Everyone's view is valid. We are all born equal. Chalk is as tasty as cheese. Single malt whiskey is no different from meths. I'm drifting. :D

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I'm bored, so I'll bite :D

The answer to your initial question is a simple one, but the question was used merely to shoehorn in the pile of shite that followed it. The experienced punters may become jaded with this industry because of people they meet. (I imagine it is not so different on the other side of the coin). To avoid becoming jaded, it is perhaps prudent to avoid visiting WGs who should have retired long before the corrosive effects of the job dissolved what was left of their humanity. :rolleyes:

I can only presume you are getting away with this comment cause you are known personally to some of the ladies here. Its just not fair !!:D:D

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Aww I'll bite back...

PURRRRLEEESSSSEE...

That is a double edged sword and the pot calling the kettle black if ever I saw it...

I didn't know you were into writing retoric TB your normally straight up with a slight twist not talking complete retoric.

*sigh* What is the world coming to when I come back after a week to this...

I took it to mean that a punter who had been round the block a few times and knew the score... clean polite respectful, oddly enough some of the ' experienced punters' are some of the worst offenders.

Hi Tammy. You seem to have raided the cliche pot! Leave some for the other girls :D

I'm not going to defend bad punters with bad attitudes but I also refuse to equate experienced punters with bad punters. That would be amiss of me.

We all bump into people who are horrible. It's best to sidestep them when you see them approaching.

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I can only presume you are getting away with this comment cause you are known personally to some of the ladies here. Its just not fair !!:D:D

I think the little yellow smiley deserves all the credit :D

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I can only presume you are getting away with this comment cause you are known personally to some of the ladies here. Its just not fair !!:D:D

Why Is he getting away with It? I agree with TB, some ladies do need to retire before they turn Into complete cows, but that not to say all WGs become that way, I admit some experienced punters also turn Into bitter little men, and wonder why they still punt.

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Hi Tammy. You seem to have raided the cliche pot! Leave some for the other girls :D

I'm not going to defend bad punters with bad attitudes but I also refuse to equate experienced punters with bad punters. That would be amiss of me.

We all bump into people who are horrible. It's best to sidestep them when you see them approaching.

Nah I felt greedy tonight... maybe another night :D

In which case then you should side step me rapidly cause I am aparently really bitter twisted and seriously deluded with my own sense of gandure

*skips off to the spell checker*

You do realise you again answered with retoric?

I can only presume you are getting away with this comment cause you are known personally to some of the ladies here. Its just not fair !!:rolleyes::D

Nah it's cause he is just playing and cause he didn't do anything other than Waffle... wonder if he added strawberry sauce to it? :)

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Why Is he getting away with It? I agree with TB, some ladies do need to retire before they turn Into complete cows, but that not to say all WGs become that way, I admit some experienced punters also turn Into bitter little men, and wonder why they still punt.

What caught my eye was not the relevant retirement age of a WG but the implication that the work has such ' corrosive effects ' that it destroys the ladies' humanity sooner or later .:D

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You do realise you again answered with retoric?

What's wrong with rhetoric? It's like a well-aimed dart. :D

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Why Is he getting away with It? I agree with TB, some ladies do need to retire before they turn Into complete cows, but that not to say all WGs become that way, I admit some experienced punters also turn Into bitter little men, and wonder why they still punt.

Actually, someone with more insight than me once commented that the perfect length of service as a WG was about 4 years. After that, their eyes can turn into soulless rocks and their skin becomes as tough as pork crackling. Mmmmm, crackling. :D

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What's wrong with rhetoric? It's like a well-aimed dart. :D

It may be well aimed sweets, but it falls rather short of the bullseye...

Thanks for the spelling check though saved me a trip into works LOL ( though should be pages soon ... here is hoping Ipad! Go Ipad!)

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"Experienced Punters".... almost as bemusing as the other puzzling expression I see on some other sites like :

"Hardened Swingers"

Normally quoted as "We are not hardened swingers but we like to .... blah blah... etc"

What's the demarcation line between a Hardened and Un-hardened swinger :D

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